Love / 6 months with my Polish girlfriend and I still don't understand her.. [208]


You are old enough to know what a sh!t test is. That is what she is giving you and you seem to be falling for it.

Women are women and it doesn't matter what nationality they are. They attempt to foster a false sense of mystery and that is why you are asking the old "what do women want" question. Another poster already told you. They want "everything".

If you continue to cater to her then that is what she will expect throughout the relationship with you.
Assert yourself and give her some thoughts to ponder about you. Every now and then deny some of her requests. She'll respect you for that.

Love / E-marriage - how successful among Poles? [21]

Well, if E-marriage doesn't work out then perhaps marrying oneself is the answer.
shine.yahoo/love-sex/bride-marries-herself-more-singles-throw-solo-weddings-202200537.html

From the link: "She vowed to "to enjoy inhabiting my own life and to relish a lifelong love affair with my beautiful self,"

Love / Met this gorgeous Polish lady [27]


I notice that you capitalized my 'nom de querre'. That shows immense respect (for me) and I appreciate it.
Since I am a man of immense modesty, please , feel free to address me in lower case. Thanks, ROZUMIEMNIC

edit:
Why Barney, here you are again, just like gum-stuck- on-a--shoe and I mean that in the best sense possible albeit the bar level is low.

By the way, I'd rather write assembly instructions than be a lawyer; although I've unfortunately had to hire a few.

Love / Met this gorgeous Polish lady [27]

Cultural differences eh?
Hope this helps you: Polish women like to be spanked by the fourth date. If you don't do this then she'll think you're a wimp and expect you to buy her expensive gifts. If you do spank her, then she won't expect you to give her anything.

Polish women like to be affectionately manhandled in public by their boyfriends. For instance, when you walk together in public, try to pinch her butt every now and then.This lets other women know that she suckered you into her life and for them to stay away from you.

Shave your head and grow a Fu Manchu mustache. This rugged look will impress her.
Affect a facial tick of some sort; this sort of personal vulnerability always impresses the Polkas. A lame arm will do also.
Pretend to have gay issues; this will show your sensitive side.
Apply generous amounts of garlic to your nether regions. This will draw her attention.
Polkas love automobiles - buy her a car.

Good luck....

News / More anti Polish sentiment in western media ("Apple is worth more than Poland") [110]


It is odd that only Poland was mentioned in the headline. It is possible that this was done as some 'polish joke'. Additionally, as others have pointed out, the value of a country is not just the GDP but the inventory and services within it. The headline was amateurish and in poor taste.

Speaking of (the) GDP, out of the nearly 200 countries in the world, Poland is ranked 20th in that department.

Life / Is Poland a poor country? [578]


Only southern does that when he visits but his is a special case.

Feeling poor and being poor can be two different things.
When Europe goes under after Greece, Portugal and Italy, then Poles won't feel so poor.

History / Slavic vs Germanic thinking.... and the philosophical differences [251]


Why would not believing in something make you "proud"?
You certainly have low standards.

Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]


Our "politically correct" feminized society always defaults to examples that use men as the perpetrators. I would have framed it this way; 'Do you really think it's good for the kids to watch their father or mother beaten up? It more correctly reflects real society.

News / Are Polish People Being Discriminated Against? Problems getting a US visa. [258]


President Obama will open up the Visa Waiver Program to Poles but not until this summer. His timing is political as he will be appealing to the Polish-American voters to vote for him in November. No surprises here.

UK, Ireland / Polish and English law on child access? [14]


My friend Jim was devastated when he went to his ex's home to pick up his boy. They were to have a father/son and family Thanksgiving which was planned beforehand. Seems his ex took the kid to Wisconsin. While there, she told the boy that his father didn't love him. I would look into any such possible shenanigans in your friend's case. Unfortunately, such 'child alienation' is much too common.

Life / Why is Prostitution still legal in Poland? [106]


.....because it's logical, a concept you seem to have difficulty with.
For example, one of many I could give.....If I knowingly accept stolen money and am willing to do something for it, then I should be prosecuted just as the person who stole the money. That is the law for all such transactions. Why should the prostitute be exempt?


You are indeed naive, or you want to believe that almost all prostitutes are enslaved. Most prostitutes do it out of their own free will. In the part of town where I live, the prostitutes live in high rises, eat at the best restaurants and wear clothes from the highest priced stores. They give every indication that they love their lifestyle. The next level of prostitute does it part-time to pay the bills or to take vacations with. Some are even college girls paying off their tuition. I would call these 'middle class' prostitutes. The low end are street walkers who are usually into drink or drugs or have bad gambling habits. Some of these women do have pimps and some are female pimps. The lowest end women who are forced to prostitute are not really prostitutes but slaves. They are the vast minority of such 'workers' although those with certain agendas prefer to believe otherwise.

Life / Why is Prostitution still legal in Poland? [106]


You continue to skirt (pun intended) the issue. If paying for sex is illegal then why isn't receiving money for sex illegal? Since there is an agreement to receive illegally paid money then logically the recipient should also be prosecuted or fined or whatever the penalty is on the other end of the transaction. It takes two to tangle.


In some cases it is but in many other instances it is not. There are women who financially exploit men and love their lifestyle. Some are quite successful at it.

5newsonline.com/news/northwestarkansas/kfsm-ua-study-affluent-educated-women-may-choose-sexual-prostitution-20110512,0,7610638.story

From the link: ""Our model demonstrated that the prostitution market may be pulling educated women - these so-called 'high-opportunity-cost' women - out of the conventional labor market and the marriage market, in many cases," said Jennifer Hafer, a doctoral student in the Graduate School of Business at the University of Arkansas. "The findings suggest that these women are not forced into the prostitution market but rather choose to enter it for many of the same reasons that people enter the conventional job market - money, stability, autonomy and even job satisfaction."[/i]

Life / Why is Prostitution still legal in Poland? [106]


You doubt needlessly.


You miss the larger logical point. The fact that a certain law exists does not make it a good law.
By your 'logic' why not make only the recipient of an illegal act accountable and not the person who pays? That sort of thinking also misses the bigger picture.

I'll put this simply for you. If prostitution is illegal than both participants in it should be legally liable. How can a participant in an illegal act not be held to the same standard as the other participant (the other half) of that act?

Life / Why is Prostitution still legal in Poland? [106]


I agree that prostitutes in Mecca should wear appropriate clothing. Of course we know what strict Muslims consider appropriate, don't we?


You seem to ignore the point that both parties to an illegal activity should be held equally liable for that activity. As to you suggesting that prostitution is not illegal then why should anyone be held legally liable?

Life / Why is Prostitution still legal in Poland? [106]


Really? Who is that?


Do the prostitutes who work in Mecca wear hijabs?


Why would you approve of a law that discriminates based on sex? How can a person who receives money for an illegal purpose escape punishment while the one who pays the money is prosecuted? Very illogical but it shows you the power of our feminized culture.

Love / What do Asian boys think about Polish girls? :) (and vice versa) [150]

While individual people have a preferred 'type', it doesn't seem to matter when that strange emotion called 'love' becomes a factor.

Sometimes there are other factors at work. For instance, in recent years lots of white males have been marrying Asian and other non western women. The reason? Men don't trust the constantly whining western women who act 'privileged'.

Another example is the growing discontent of black females. To quote tennis star Serena Williams, "'a white man is the only real choice for a successful black female".

Life / Why is Prostitution still legal in Poland? [106]


Individual women have a right to decide that for themselves.


Those women who are thus abused should be helped HOWEVER, the vast majority of prostitutes do it because they have drug or drinking or gambling habits. Additionally, many women have total control of themselves and do it for the money and the independence it affords them. In short, they are professional career women. The "politically correct" bureaucrats and certain feminist organizations have tried to convince people that all the prostitutes are abused and demeaned in some manner.


This was a major point foisted by feminist groups. Actually, the opposite would occur as more women would find the 'legality' of prostitution as an excuse to get into it thus any demand for "trafficking victims" would be greatly diminished.


No you don't, but you forgot to include feminists .........
Good luck banning the planets oldest profession.

Life / Why is Prostitution still legal in Poland? [106]

What a fine line it is between the 'honest' working prostitute and the woman who pretends not to be one when getting her dinners and assorted entertainment paid for when dating.

Love / How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported. [129]

Female teachers who abuse are sometimes [and finally] held accountable in todays liberal society.
wlsam.com/sectional.asp?id=40838&cid=2

USA, Canada / American father's son is in Poland, [he's] told to pay child support.... [30]

Here is a shocking case from Australia. .... and yet, some deny that men are discriminated against in law and culture.

From the link: "The father was given rights of access to his daughter by a family court. They were very minimal rights, allowing him to see his child only two days out of every two weeks, but Mom decreed that to be too much. Indeed, she ruled that any contact at all was more than she desired, and so she permitted none."

So the child is denied her father and the father is denied interaction with the child. What happened to the "best interests of the child"? How could a woman violate previous court rulings and not be punished? How could a judge let her get away with it in the first place? While this is an extreme example of how men are treated in western societies when it comes to law, it is nevertheless the tip of the proverbial iceberg that shows how bad, in various degrees, men are treated in law.

USA, Canada / American father's son is in Poland, [he's] told to pay child support.... [30]


As we all know, courts almost always default custody to the mother. For men to obtain custody, they have to prove the mother was negligent in some manner. The Canadian court heard the evidence that she was abusive and gave the kids to dad.

What we do know is that this woman kidnapped the children which adds to her dubious character. She seems to have attempted 'parental alienation' as well. This also reflects on her character.


It isn't some Canadian but a father who has legal custody of his children.
If you support kidnapping children by the non authorized parent then just say so. The dad seems like a very concerned parent.
youtu.be/3c-8C68AdXU

History / Was the holocaust by Germans in Poland the worse genocide in history? [210]


In the general sense that slavery was acceptable by most civilizations as something 'normal' then yes.


The slave trade was going on for centuries prior to the western powers getting involved in it. Muslims are responsible for more slavery than anyone else and indeed they continue to deal in slavery in two countries in Africa to this day.


African tribes were enslaving each other for hundreds if not thousands of years before the wooden western ships ever got involved. As you know, slavery was a traditional part of African society with many states and kingdoms in Africa. Many African chieftains captured slaves, interned them in slave forts and sold them to Europeans. Africans who enslaved other Africans were more than half the problem because without them the Europeans,Muslims and others could not get their slave quotas filled.


Once again, this crime was terrible, and a holocaust unto itself, but to place it as "humanity's greatest crime" omits all the other slave institutions that have existed, not to mention the suffering during the world's major wars.

Additionally, some countries were never involved in the slave trade; Poland for instance.
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The word holocaust has been so successfully marketed that many people assume that it automatically implies the Jewish suffering and horror only. Often one hears, "the Holocaust" and immediately it connotes the tragic Jewish deaths. The word however should retain its broader meaning and value.

USA, Canada / Where do most Polish-Americans identify on the political spectrum? [142]

Working class and union member Poles in America vote Democratic. Since most Poles live in urban areas that are run by Democrats, they are no different than other ethnic groups who also vote for Democrats. Professional Pol-Ams vote Republican with a sliver voting Libertarian but younger and second generation Pol-Ams now split their vote between Dems and Repubs.

USA, Canada / American father's son is in Poland, [he's] told to pay child support.... [30]


The success of male-bashing feminists is evidenced in law. It's evidenced in culture. It's evidenced in false suppositions like the phony wage-gap. It's evidenced in special departments in both business and government that are 'for women only'. It's evidenced in health care spending, and it's evidenced in their 'pick-and-choose' jobs, etc, etc. Still feminists and their fellow travelers complain like shrill banshees.

In child support issues, there are men who have been made to pay for children who are not theirs. No penalties are applied to women who have cheated on their husbands and then claimed the child was his. Males who support these misandric laws are pitiable manginas. They have been brought up in weakened feminized cultures and are incapable of over viewing the human condition, instead, they seem trapped in it.

Most women have been educated to 'feel' they are victims. That explains the huge chip on their shoulders (not all women). In the end, no good can come of it as the human race will once again reset to mother nature's directives. Nature will triumph over false nurture.

Canadian dad in Poland wants his sons back.

fathersandfamilies.org/?p=22200

From the link: "Canadian authorities issued an arrest warrant for Edyta Watkins when she first abducted the boys, but Canada and Poland have no extradition treaty, so her criminal wrongdoing will go unpunished as long as she remains in Poland."

Love / How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported. [129]


There is an epidemic of false domestic violence abuse as well as false restraining orders filed by women. Real victims are affected because those false claims raise suspicions when real abuse occurs. Additionally, women are much more likely to file charges when they are abused then men. There are obvious societal reasons for that. Men feel much more shameful then women when reporting abuse. Often times abusive women know that the men will not file charges. That is what makes the Fiebert Studies so important. Those hundreds of studies by diverse institutions gage the real incidents of DV and not just the reported ones.

Here is a situation involving a mother-in-law which is a bit unorthodox.
thesmokinggun.com/documents/mother-in-law-shoots-son-654819

The following link is unfortunately typical. Females who take up womens studies are impressionable and thousands of false rape claims make feminist organizations happy because they claim that every charge is true thus inflating their preconceived statistics which are then dutifully reported to the media.

saveservices.org/2011/12/michigan-false-rape-accuser-charged-with-felony

From the link: "Johnson had previously made false reports and investigators were able to disprove her allegations." and yet, feminists don't want a woman's past revealed

during trials. Women who name innocent men as rapists should receive prison terms as lengthy as those given real rapists. Destroying lives demands justice.

In related news, Lisalyn R. Jacobs is a feminist lawyer and National Organization of Women attorney. She also served as Chief of Staff of the federal Civil Rights Division. She helped format the highly discriminatory and unconstitutional VAWA legislation which doesn't come close to meeting constitutional viability because it discriminates against men. She believes that violence against women is wrong but evidently it's okay against men. She assaulted a man for videotaping her and others.

annmariewhaley.com/2011/12/05/lisalyn-r-jacobs-charged-arraigned-for-assaulting-daddy-justice-at-vawa-hearing-in-d-c-senate-building

A good feminist democrat, Ms Jacobs is also a proponent of affirmative action. God help us if people like this run America.

News / Polish media excited about bad article on Relativity Theory, published in a shady journal [27]

The Cern/Gran Sasso Laboratory experiments will almost certainly be found to be in error. The follow up experiments using fewer neutrinos than the original tests have seemingly verified the initial 'faster than light' theory but the scientists used the same clocks so any systematic errors would be the same. I suggest using new and refitted clocks and lets see what happens.

As an aside our universe (or at least what we know to be our universe) is already expanding faster than light, at least that's what the Hubble constant tells us. Of course hyper inflation caused by a probable Big Bang expanded our universe into 'nothing' as we currently theorize it so that may be outside Einstein's theory. Exciting isn't it?

Love / How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported. [129]


Ambiguous as always. At least you are consistent in your vagueness. lol You have a difficult time making decisions, right?


What nonsense? Are you hearing voices in your head?


Politically correct hype and false feminist statistics have made their way into main stream media in so strong a manner that most people think that men are the overwhelming brutes who initiate domestic violence. Pointing out that women initiate at least 50% of DV is a positive step to understand the full facts. Nothing wrong with that.


I knew you could do it.


But it is related to the topic. As to how it relates to Poland: polandian.home.pl/index.php/2009/01/19/feminism-in-poland-3/

From the link:
What are women's main problems in Poland today?

"There still is plenty of them. From such things as unemployment rate being much higher among women. Through women being silent victims of home violence, or sexual violence. To having no real influence on political decisions, especially at the top level. Women being treated with flippancy. And there's the invisibility of lesbians in the public life."

So here we have the usual feminist mantra that men are violent and lets not forget the lesbians whom I have nothing against but it's the same crap we hear in the U.S.

Let's not forget the feminist Women's Party:
clericalwhispers.blogspot.com/2007/09/polish-party-posts-nude-posters-for.html

Ever notice that women will take their clothes off for any cause? It's a real phenomena or is it just in women's nature?


That part is true but not in the way you think it is. Fact is, I'm with so many women that I fear getting estrogen poisoning. (that's as humorously as I can put it)


I have two daughters and two sons.


If you want to make a valid point then don't exaggerate or lie like this. I've been on many threads here which include many diverse subject matters. The fact that you see my threads this narrowly only suggests that perhaps you are the one who has a problem with this particular issue.


That is part of the problem. There are several other sociological components.

Love / How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported. [129]


Our schools have been overrun by "politically correct" anti-male feminist agendas and a few of my previous examples show that. I'm glad you agree.


I'm glad that we agree once more but I am confused when you state, "it is very often very okay to hit someone". Are you referring to self defense?


Now you've gone off the reservation (again) and in the most ironic manner. The irrelevance is all yours since you introduced something not related to you quoting me.

At any rate, I highly recommend the link in my post #92 which shows that domestic violence in all its forms is unfortunately an equal opportunity crime. You wouldn't know that from reading the main street media tripe.

News / Couple Busted For Having Sex On Water Slide At Opoczno, Poland Amusement Park [30]

Hey, remember that thread about the woman who claimed her daughter got pregnant while swimming? Hmmmmmm, maybe, nah, never mind.

I've had sex in unusual places as well (it was her fault) BUT never in public in full view. That is a breach of ethics and worse so some sort of fine should have been levied on that couple.

News / Couple Busted For Having Sex On Water Slide At Opoczno, Poland Amusement Park [30]


My empirical experience is that only 2/3rds are. Of course every now and then, they tell me they cannot walk for a few minutes........


Lol, unfortunately true.