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Ant63   
15 Jun 2013
Law / Jobs and Economic Status in Poland [64]

And how many returned?

This would make a really interesting discussion if only there were some solid facts to debate with. I don't believe any UK figures and the latest census cannot be relied on at all. The buggers changed my nationality and added "ski" to the end of my surname when the council tax bill came through. Slightly irritated by that and slightly amused at the same time.

We have a very large Polish community where I live and are well connected. I know of two that have left but there of course more. There have been a lot of new arrivals recently that I am aware of. Not that I keep count but as a hairdresser my partner gets asked if she knows of rooms to rent by friends of friends.

So I would say from Poland its still a positive flow.

It doesn't help agencies are still posting jobs in Poland which appear to be non existent.
Ant63   
13 Jun 2013
UK, Ireland / Study about Polish immigrants in England [29]

Slightly biased don't you think?

How can it be biased when its states it is targeting a specific genre?

It's not biased. It's not PC.
Ant63   
12 Jun 2013
UK, Ireland / Study about Polish immigrants in England [29]

But it seems they are not allowed to have good impressions.

So how does very positive and very negative fit in with your statement. Perhaps you read the post and not the questionnaire.

I feel it is a little unfortunate in tone but in business dealings I've found the Dutch to be very matter of fact.
Ant63   
12 Jun 2013
UK, Ireland / Study about Polish immigrants in England [29]

I'm doing a study about the image English people have of polish immigrants

The clues in the post Pam

I thought that universities in Holland have higher level

Possibly its aimed at those with less liberal views than yourself.
Ant63   
4 Jun 2013
Life / Poland's instability? Voivodships and education. [4]

So what would your preference be regarding education? It's an interesting subject for me as we have two kids that are poles apart. Starting school at 7 seems to have been disastrous for one child as the child has more interesting things to do than being educated. I've tried every tactic I can think of to get him interested, and on occasions I see willing but now understand this to be playing the game. He's definitely smart in some respects. The other started at 5 and a 18 months later is reading with children a year higher, is unrecognisable from her English peers in her spoken language, a wants to impress both me and her mother with her talents. It feels like the ship sailed with the older child, he missed his moment to shine, and I despair sometimes at our inability to motivate him in the right direction. I get damned angry with the school which is more than willing to accept mediocrity and congratulate children who are failing. That makes me sound harsh but when the achievements are at a level 3 years below, I see a need to say well done but we need to catch up or the child becomes happy with their minimal effort as they have been rewarded gratuitously for little or no achievement.

Maybe I'm wrong and it will all come good one day. I hope so.
Ant63   
2 Jun 2013
Life / Poland's expats' colonial mentality? [176]

We are a family of four the cost of our weekly shop in the UK at Asda is less than the weekly shop at Carrefour (Warsaw) Like for Like !!

As I thought.
Ant63   
2 Jun 2013
Life / Poland's expats' colonial mentality? [176]

I've always thought for some people, the UK was an escape from the Polish way of being rather than for purely economic purposes.

I agree with you on this. I've often heard the word "free" used in conversations which I have assumed is a reference to the impediment of family culture.

but the cost of ordinary life is much lower.

It would be interesting to compare receipts for a weekly shop for a family of four. Trouble is you would never get a like for like comparison.

Heard it many times, yet rarely seen any real evidence of poverty.

It depends on your reference point really. If you are using a Bangladesh slum as a reference point then extreme poverty doesn't exist in Poland unless alcohol is involved. I've yet to come across an apartment building in the UK (I'm sure there are examples) where a single toilet is shared between a whole floor and not one apartment has a bath. I have visited two such places in Poznan. Interestingly these people living there do not use the "I'm poor feel sorry for me" ruse, but better off acquaintances do.

Then there is the lack of safety net if life goes pear shaped which it can do in a moment.
Ant63   
2 Jun 2013
Life / Poland's expats' colonial mentality? [176]

Either they have no hope (someone with no education in Poland is going to struggle)

I think this is unfair. Many I know here have skills but there are not jobs available to them in Poland. Qualifications and skills hold little value if there are no jobs.

but solely because they wanted to get their English to a really high standard and it wouldn't happen in Poland

This would form a very small minority in my experience. Most do not diversify beyond their peer group.

which given the astronomical cost of living in the UK

From what I have seen prices have risen considerably in Poland. Unless you are prepared to shop at multiple locations, it's not far behind the Uk

I don't see what's so difficult - there's a health service, a free education service, public transport is subsidised by the State, etc etc.

Delph next time I'm in Poznan, maybe you would like to meet some of the people I know. They would be outraged to hear you talk like this.

The black economy is huge in Poland because of a lack of enforcement, not for any other reason. If they started going after every single person advertising on Gumtree, habits would change - quickly.

If they paid the Police a living wage and employed people that weren't bullied at school, then, maybe, you would have enforcement instead of corruption committed by the forces that are there to prevent it. Perhaps making it an offence to lie in court, or imposing a draconian levy for doing so, instead of encouraging it might help.

but everything wrong with being a twat.

There are some highly educated tw*ts that do very well for themselves but do and say incredibly tw*tish things. Implying you don't need an education to be a tw*t is not fair on the educated twa*ts of this world. We can all be tw*ts at sometime or other. I have made many a tw*tish comment on here. I have decided to refrain from tw*tish behaviour although when I read the statements made on this forum sometimes it does draw the tw*at in me out from time to time.

MODERATOR: Please ban the word tw*t. It's ugly and not a word one should use in a public forum. Forgive me but I did * it out.

Last day in court in Poland Friday. Yahoo! 3 years of wasted time and money. Maybe after I can see Poland in a better light.
Ant63   
1 Jun 2013
UK, Ireland / Polish Qualified Electricial transferable skills to UK? [9]

Polish and UK systems differ considerably. Spurs vs Ring mains. Without country specific certification I can't see how skills would be transferable in either direction. I believe ring mains are peculiar to the UK but you could correct me on that.
Ant63   
29 May 2013
Life / Freedom of religion v animal rights in Poland? [38]

I think

They don't think on the same level as you or I. From experience of slaughter houses, I am sure they are aware that something significant is about to happen. Maybe they smell death.
Ant63   
29 May 2013
Life / Freedom of religion v animal rights in Poland? [38]

It's a pity that most peoples supposed knowledge of such processes is gleaned from articles with an agenda. It's also a pity that populations have ever distanced themselves from the realities of farming animals. Most people are now so out of touch with the realities of meat production, their comments are worthless.

I once worked a turkey farm, while still at school, for some extra cash one christmas. The turkeys, while fully alive, were hung by their feet on a conveyor which lowered their heads into a tank of water which was electrified. Unfortunately some turkeys were able to raise their heads enough to avoid the water and subsequently hit the plucking machine alive and fully conscious. Really not nice.

The gradual fading out option is my preference.
Ant63   
28 May 2013
Life / Freedom of religion v animal rights in Poland? [38]

The issue of re-legalising ritual slaughter (demadned by Jews and Muslims)

Back to this again. Making it illegal was simply just a protest by supreme court judges against their loss of control. This is just a platform, using an emotive subject, for protesting against losing control of Polish law to Europe. There is nothing that can be changed, the deals been done.

I'm sure you are aware that Poland is a major exporter of H and K meat. What damage would be done to this industry?
Ant63   
17 Feb 2013
UK, Ireland / Benefit cuts for Poles in The UK? [143]

I thought you'd say something along: "Poles are smuggling their cancer patients to Britain."

Thats a bit harsh Zeti

I had a Polish friend I used to see regularly on Sunday mornings. A big feller and rather tough looking and I was surprised to see him crying one morning. I was unaware his son was disabled and that morning his son had said to him "Why me?". A difficult question to answer. Over a period of time he told me the reason he came to England was that there was nothing for his son in Poland. No future and it was impossible for him to attend school. In the UK a bus was supplied to get him to school and free access to medication and care through the NHS. This isn't a criticism as I'd do the same if it was me. It demonstrates the difference in thinking and care over the disabled in Poland and the UK.

Recently, and this is on going, a friend of ours in Poland became seriously ill. A single woman in her mid thirties with no living relatives. In November she was operated on for a brain tumour and has since developed a heart condition. The doctors pronounced her unfit to work, but a ZUS(?) doctor says she is fit to work. She is appealing the decision but she has had no money since November and is relying on hand outs to eat. She cannot afford the medication she requires and is deteriorating fast.

Of course people move for medical reasons. Who can blame them?
Ant63   
23 Jan 2013
Love / Woman 23, man 47 years old. What do you think about ? [162]

I got respect for the geezer if he can handle a woman half his age.

It's easier. With experience you learn to deflect what would become a childish argument. I wish I hadn't smoked so many cigarettes though.

Sometimes it is called sponsoring in Poland.

:) :) Not far from the truth.
Ant63   
21 Jan 2013
USA, Canada / Differences in How Polish People Raise a Child and How Americans Raise a Child [149]

but I was shocked to discover that it's a norm in the Uk to live an adult life for a 16 years old!

Gosh this opens a can of worms. Politics, education, class structure.

Its not a good interpretaion. At sixteen you are considered an adult within the legal system for certain things. You should be prosecuted as an adult for example but most likely you wouldn't be.You could get married for example, but still need the permission of parents. The school leaving age has now changed to 17. For many things, you are not legally an adult until 18. So its a bit random really. It should be understood that it is not a good idea to be leaving education at 17 but it is preferable that some individuals do. The naughty boys and girls.

Politics and class structure are involved when a crime is reported. This is really annoying. A 16yr old from a poor background will often be refered to as a man whereas a 16yr old from a good backround will be reported as a teenager. Kind of trivialises the crime for the child from a better background.
Ant63   
20 Jan 2013
USA, Canada / Differences in How Polish People Raise a Child and How Americans Raise a Child [149]

Pip is right, Polish parents are overcaring.

It would be interesting to hear some opinions from Polish parents in the UK. You often hear them complaining that their little one is not wearing their coat and blame the teacher. Personally I feel it has nothing to do with the teacher what the child wears in the playground. Its the parents responsibility to educate their child on the basics. The English kids don't seem to need the same Antarctic attire as their Polish companions although it must be a bit chilly wearing a skirt and knee socks in the snow. Poor little things. They look happy enough though.
Ant63   
15 Jan 2013
UK, Ireland / Polonization of Britain - Tipping Point Confirmed in 2011 Census [97]

Poles who have been in the UK over the past 70 or 100 years were not significant in their numbers.

But they integrated and retained their culture. I doubt their children did. Certainly the ones I knew were as English as me from the outside. Who knows whats on the inside.

The Anglo chauvinist idea of integration (back then as well as today) is for immigrants not to speak their native language in public and no longer have access to facilities or communities to keep their traditions alive and passed along to the next generation.

It is in their interest to speak the language. Nobody gives a damn if they speak amongst themselves in Polish. We are used to foreign languages being spoken around us. Traditions are forgotten with time it doesn't take intervention from another nationality. Intervention would strengthen tradition.

We are not talking a about a group of people that have come here to retire. They have come here to work. Its in their interests to "fit in" to further their fortunes. If they choose to retire back to Poland, its of no consequence to anybody here.

Poles live in cities and villages just like you do. They don't live in ghettos.

You are correct but its funny how they refer to their neighborhoods as the Polish ghetto. I wonder what they are thinking.

If you want to see stolen gold you may very well find it in the Bank of England

Gordon Brown sold it I believe.

The large Polish community in Britain is a golden opportunity for the British to start showing civility and do whatever they can to learn from Poles and adopt and preserve their ways.

There may be freedom of movement but they are still guests in this country unless they choose otherwise as I would be in Poland. Unless they integrate, there is nothing to learn from them and preserving their ways is their problem, not ours.

Not paved with gold but certainly built off of slave labor and war bounty along with the agricultural and mineral exploitation from other countries.

You forgot about the industrial heritage of the UK. You are slipping.

And don't worry about having to learn any Spanish; your fellow expats get on absolutely fine there with their lazy tongues, imported British stodge, and unfettered access to all media back in the UK.

This sounds very much like Poles in England except most of those expats in Spain are retirees. It's not comparing like with like really is it.

Some of them are so brainwashed they think their countries are being "enriched" by third world immigrants as their own ethnicity/nation/cultures gets raped out of existence slowly.

Don't believe the hype. There are some that are blind fools, but not many.
Ant63   
14 Jan 2013
UK, Ireland / Polonization of Britain - Tipping Point Confirmed in 2011 Census [97]

What is wrong with UKIP?

Nothing from what I have seen and heard. Nigel Farage seems to have his head pretty well screwed on. He tells it how it is which is alright by me. I don't like all this ***** footing politics. Gets you nowhere.

Edit

Whats wrong with cats ????
Ant63   
14 Jan 2013
UK, Ireland / Polonization of Britain - Tipping Point Confirmed in 2011 Census [97]

So your comment is irrelevant.

Its perfectly relevant if it takes 3 months to get another job.

A agree you can walk into low paid insecure job within a couple of days. Is that OK when you have a family? A lot of families would end up homeless pretty quickly with your idea of relevance.
Ant63   
9 Jan 2013
Life / Polish vs British vs American - Clash of cultures [390]

Oooh the gynaecologist! I've been living in the UK for over 6 years and the fact that one can't just go to have their chickparts checked was a shocker.

You can if you pay
Ant63   
9 Jan 2013
UK, Ireland / Polish city that's moved to Britain [120]

She looks Polish though.

She must have integrated :)

I haven't seen a women wearing cotton tracksuit pans on a street since 2004

Come to England. :)

I believe that you can recognize foreigners but narrowing it down to Poles, well?

It's not so hard. Although there are many different looks, the language is a giveaway. They tend to be quite loud and a shopping trolley becomes becomes a tool to part the sea of people in front of them. Oops! I repeating Rozumiemnic. Sorry.

I don't think its so easy to tell the Slovakians apart. The Hungarian women I have met, resemble Bulldogs chewing wasps. Definitely not like the movies so they are easy. I guess the nice ones stayed home.

I asked my partner what her percentages were on Lidl last night. Remarkably close to mine.

55% Polish (I'd have put this at 50%)
15% Rusian (Lithuania, Estonia)
20% English

The rest are of unknown origin. Portuguese, some asian.

Perhaps a video of a shopping trip to Lidl would surprise a few Poles as to how many are actually here.
Ant63   
7 Jan 2013
UK, Ireland / Polish city that's moved to Britain [120]

I think the UK equivalent of Lodz has to Birmingham.

If you were talking about Birmingham 30 years ago, I'd agree. Birmingham has rebuilt itself, certainly not to its former manufacturing glory, but it has evolved. I can think of other cities in the UK that would compare. Not Birmingham though.

I cannot say I've met anybody from Lodz as yet in the UK.

in the Middle Ages most people believed the earth was flat

To be fair there wasn't the same level of education there is now.
Ant63   
5 Jan 2013
UK, Ireland / How much people in UK are manipulated by false anty- Polish propaganda [37]

Oh , gosh you have some high ego about yourself

It helps in life but it also helps if you can be magnanimous sometimes.

Its fairly simple to check facts in the UK as the schools publish league tables. The only difficult thing to check from your end is which ethnic groups attend which schools.

There are statistics and lies, Monia. Often we see lies in England in an attempt to quell bad feeling. Not that I see much bad feeling involving Poles anyway. It seems to be a fantasy story created in Poland.

Did I link to one article or hundreds? In fact I didn't even notice the first one was Poles doing over Poles as is often the case in the UK. I only read the title and assumed it was English people taking advantage.God help your customers Monia. Accuracy is important in your game.

Honey ,of course , as an attorney I have better opportunities in Poland

Did you notice the transferable skills? Yours are not transferable. A Dentists are. Surprisingly I'm here on the ground. I know what the score is in the UK. You obviously want to teach me to suck eggs though.

It's the first time I've been called Honey. Don't be so patronising. I'm ugly. Any expletive will do based around ugly. Honey no.

Please revisit the link I provided and look down the list. There are some good some bad. Its not propaganda, It's news.

A success doesn't rest on being intelligent. There is a lot more factors and intelligence is the least important one.

Depends on what your doing really or what you consider being a success. If success is just being happy, then intelligence isn't critical. A nuclear physicist might consider intelligence important.
Ant63   
4 Jan 2013
UK, Ireland / How much people in UK are manipulated by false anty- Polish propaganda [37]

Monia I would really like to see this false anti-Polish propoganda

bbc.co.uk/search/news/?q=polish

Now I see in this list of news articles, 'balance'. Currently in the list there are one or two naughty people/murderers. Is reporting on the naughty ones anti-Polish propaganda? No it's news.

Even , the fact , that having Polish children in schols is an asset , you gain a lot in other spheres too.

I read that article when it was first presented. Now I have a little experience so can comment with some conviction. At my partners children's school, there is ONE Polish, young lady who has done exceedingly well. She is a special child and her parents are justifiably proud of her. She is a very pleasant, polite young lady. She was born here. The rest are either running mid class or struggling to come to terms with the language. A great deal of extra support is provided for the ESL children which of course is expensive and drains resources.

The Daily Mail article is misleading. I was surprised at its conclusion so I did a bit of research. The nearest school to us has a high percentage of ESL children. In one class of thirty there are 17 ESL children. This school is new and a very popular choice with Polish parents, but is the lowest achieving. The local Catholic school again has a higher level of ESL children. This has better results. The C of E School that my partners children attend is doing very well. This school has on average 3 ESL children per class. Admittedly this school is in an area that gets substantially more investment because it is in an extremely poor area of town. I think that overall it is more complicated than just how many ESL children there are in a class. It also depends very much on how much input parents give to a child's education also. It is notable that some some Polish families excel with the level of input. My conclusion is that if there are 2 or 3 ESL children in a class, then that should be considered a benefit to all the children in the class. It also helps prevent an us and them scenario. If there is a high percentage of ESL children in a class, then it will slow the children down overall.

You get newcomers with the highest IQ in Europe .

I think it would be reasonable to assume that if you had a high IQ then you would have had a reasonable job in Poland so why would you come to the UK. If you have transferable skills then fine, you can do it, but if you are a solicitor then you are hardly going to come here to pack fruit are you. Mostly Monia we got the lower end of the scale!

just some wacko Jewish press is not . But who takes them seriously ?

You obviously do or you would ignore it.
Ant63   
2 Jan 2013
News / Highlights of passing year, in Poland (or elsewhere) which made hot discussions in PF [57]

Don`t be silly. Evil journalists who hate Poland propagate the wrong phrase because it suits their agenda.

Why do you think there are evil journalists that hate Poland? I saw the appalling article posted just before Christmas, but that could be considered journalism. It was a vile diatribe. I see criticism sometimes, and I see a lot of people being over sensitive. If English people were as sensitive we would have all hung ourselves by now. We get it from everywhere. What is there to hate about Poland? I for one have had more than my fair share of trouble because of the Polish Courts; it doesn't make me hate Poland. Don't get me wrong I'm not happy with what happened, and I wasn't happy to be taken away at Poznan airport by the border guards for not going up with my partner to show my passport because the sign said "One At A Time". I've met dick heads in England too although that incident was by far superior.

Poland's a pretty nice place; sometimes my opinion bends the other way because of evil, hateful posts on here. The defenders of the realm go a little too far sometimes but then you step back and see they only represent themselves.

I agree with what you are saying, because there is a presumed knowledge in the statement and it can only be used in the correct context.

Nonsense, Polish death camp means a death camp run by Poles

As in the previous post Barney, it depends on the context, so it's not nonsense.