aphrodisiac
21 Mar 2010
Love / Is Indian/Polish relationship possible? [370]
:)
I guess they need attention and they have it from us so as long as they are happy, we are glad too.
:)
aphrodisiac
21 Mar 2010
Travel / What to do when it's raining in Gdansk [33]
I kind of like it, even though it could be quite and experience at times.
I kind of like it, even though it could be quite and experience at times.
aphrodisiac
21 Mar 2010
Love / Is Indian/Polish relationship possible? [370]
we all know that being born in Europe alone is not a ticket to humanity....
he was BANNED already in the past and was told to behave. It does not look that he got the message from the mods yet. Slow thinking might do that to some.
we all know that being born in Europe alone is not a ticket to humanity....
stupid people should stick to stupid people, bad to bad and good to good. That's the way I see it....
he was BANNED already in the past and was told to behave. It does not look that he got the message from the mods yet. Slow thinking might do that to some.
aphrodisiac
21 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / English teenager refused service at Polish shop [87]
is your site translated into other languages? Maybe you would get more customers and continue to built your empire.
The 'Polish community in Goole' have a website translated in to various lingos, just find the flsags click on Uncle sam and you will find it hasn't yet been translated into English.
So much for multi culturalism.
So much for multi culturalism.
is your site translated into other languages? Maybe you would get more customers and continue to built your empire.
aphrodisiac
21 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / English teenager refused service at Polish shop [87]
YOU picked up the old thread, YOU do the search and provide the conclusion backed up by facts.
I would be happy to read something with substance for a change, otherwise you are a troll.
Maybe (fave word with some), we should contact the shop owner, the journalist who put her name to the story, Humberside Police and Kaley Leighton herself (she is on facebook), then we will hear the full story from different sources.
YOU picked up the old thread, YOU do the search and provide the conclusion backed up by facts.
I would be happy to read something with substance for a change, otherwise you are a troll.
aphrodisiac
21 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / English teenager refused service at Polish shop [87]
this story is water under the bridge.
this story is water under the bridge.
aphrodisiac
21 Mar 2010
Love / Is Indian/Polish relationship possible? [370]
There are - believe me.
those two punks have been suspended in the past and one of them has had 3 different nicks.
Most people think like me, they one the other hand represent the loser minority and come back like a bad rash here. Every time somebody makes sense, they would come and trash it because of their warped perception of the world. Unfortunately, I cannot avoid reading some of their trash. They are classic trolls.
Good luck and all the best:)
Thanks mate for replying to my post, as I said there are good and bad people but I hope there are more people like you.
There are - believe me.
those two punks have been suspended in the past and one of them has had 3 different nicks.
Most people think like me, they one the other hand represent the loser minority and come back like a bad rash here. Every time somebody makes sense, they would come and trash it because of their warped perception of the world. Unfortunately, I cannot avoid reading some of their trash. They are classic trolls.
Good luck and all the best:)
aphrodisiac
21 Mar 2010
Work / Canadian working in Poland? How do I go my taxes? [30]
HAS ANY OF YOU ANSWERED THE OP QUESTION, OR YOU GONNA GO AROUND LOCKING HORNS IN ORDER TO SHOW WHO IS SMARTER???
If I were a mod here I would wipe your off topic responses to the random. I would never ask any question about Poland on this forum, because I would just feed silly trolls.
So: DOES the OP have to pay taxes or NOT????
HAS ANY OF YOU ANSWERED THE OP QUESTION, OR YOU GONNA GO AROUND LOCKING HORNS IN ORDER TO SHOW WHO IS SMARTER???
If I were a mod here I would wipe your off topic responses to the random. I would never ask any question about Poland on this forum, because I would just feed silly trolls.
So: DOES the OP have to pay taxes or NOT????
aphrodisiac
21 Mar 2010
Love / Is Indian/Polish relationship possible? [370]
because you encountered internet trolls and I like you post because it is closer the the truth, while those losers- well - you would not want to be in their shoes anyways. Their life is a miserable one and the only thing they can do is to come here and spread their unhappiness with half smart a** remarks. good luck to you:)
and by the way for those who have low mentality and who would think I married someone for nationality then for your kind information I am Dual National American and Pakistani
because you encountered internet trolls and I like you post because it is closer the the truth, while those losers- well - you would not want to be in their shoes anyways. Their life is a miserable one and the only thing they can do is to come here and spread their unhappiness with half smart a** remarks. good luck to you:)
aphrodisiac
21 Mar 2010
History / Why did Hitler kill so many Jews in Poland? [261]
well, why don't I just go to a Jewish site from here?
You sure can research this on the net.
well, why don't I just go to a Jewish site from here?
You sure can research this on the net.
aphrodisiac
20 Mar 2010
Work / Canadian working in Poland? How do I go my taxes? [30]
check with Canada Tax Revenue, I am sure they have an option for people who work abroad.
here is a useful link:
settlement.org/discuss/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=7806
check with Canada Tax Revenue, I am sure they have an option for people who work abroad.
here is a useful link:
settlement.org/discuss/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=7806
aphrodisiac
20 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / English teenager refused service at Polish shop [87]
somebody is NOT telling the truth.
somebody is NOT telling the truth.
aphrodisiac
19 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / Brits are the scruffiest in Europe [7]
sound advice;)
how about waking up to a tube of toothpaste, now that would be shocking:)
sound advice;)
aphrodisiac
19 Mar 2010
aphrodisiac
19 Mar 2010
Travel / Poland from a Persian Tourist's Perspective [269]
this ain't gonna happen.
If all western nations would just stop meddling in the affairs of middle eastern nations then everything would just sort out itself.
this ain't gonna happen.
aphrodisiac
18 Mar 2010
History / Which nation were the biggest pussies of WWII? [120]
good point, but Sok will just come up with another slur;). I will come back to read his slurs later on.
Answer the question, or just tell me that how the Poles acted under communism was different because (enter excuse here).
good point, but Sok will just come up with another slur;). I will come back to read his slurs later on.
aphrodisiac
18 Mar 2010
aphrodisiac
18 Mar 2010
History / just before the war the Polish/Ukrainian szlachta learned Ukrainian [243]
thanks for the explanation. It clarifies many misconception I had. I think that living in another country could be a test. On the other hand, British deal with an influx of Eastern european immigrants and one would expect varied reactions, some of them you have described and I have read on PF from other posters.
I would comment more, but I am off topic and I will try to comment on your blog one of these day, since that would be more appropriate:)
thanks for the explanation. It clarifies many misconception I had. I think that living in another country could be a test. On the other hand, British deal with an influx of Eastern european immigrants and one would expect varied reactions, some of them you have described and I have read on PF from other posters.
I would comment more, but I am off topic and I will try to comment on your blog one of these day, since that would be more appropriate:)
aphrodisiac
18 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / No job unless you're Polish [201]
it is not gonna fly and you know it.
That the benefits shall be granted on the rules of the country of origin.
it is not gonna fly and you know it.
aphrodisiac
18 Mar 2010
Travel / Poland from a Persian Tourist's Perspective [269]
I cannot help but notice that Darius is a tad condescending in his posts. One can be critical without offending anybody. Just my 2 cents.
Sure Poland is not as developed as other countries.
Sure Israel is doing what it is doing.
Sure Polish dentists (all of them) had less access to world wide standards.
Sure you have been a victim of racism, so were some Poles, some Jews, and other nationalities posting on this forum.
I know that it will sound like a cliche, but what will not kill you will make you stronger.
We all have a choice of choosing between remaining a bitter and critical victim,or we can move on and become better humans. The choice is really ours.
I wish you to finish you studies and have a happy life.
I cannot help but notice that Darius is a tad condescending in his posts. One can be critical without offending anybody. Just my 2 cents.
Sure Poland is not as developed as other countries.
Sure Israel is doing what it is doing.
Sure Polish dentists (all of them) had less access to world wide standards.
Sure you have been a victim of racism, so were some Poles, some Jews, and other nationalities posting on this forum.
I know that it will sound like a cliche, but what will not kill you will make you stronger.
We all have a choice of choosing between remaining a bitter and critical victim,or we can move on and become better humans. The choice is really ours.
I wish you to finish you studies and have a happy life.
aphrodisiac
17 Mar 2010
Love / What do Polish guys think of Irish girls? [187]
I think this is changing with Polish mixing more with Irish then in the past, no? Therefore, ties are being formed as we speak:)
I think this is changing with Polish mixing more with Irish then in the past, no? Therefore, ties are being formed as we speak:)
aphrodisiac
17 Mar 2010
History / just before the war the Polish/Ukrainian szlachta learned Ukrainian [243]
I merely stated my preferences when it comes to reading material and we are way off topic.
I merely stated my preferences when it comes to reading material and we are way off topic.
aphrodisiac
17 Mar 2010
History / just before the war the Polish/Ukrainian szlachta learned Ukrainian [243]
well, maybe I was a bit to sarcastic, but I feel that it is really difficult to discuss anything with you, unless is in your head, because you making a lot of confusing statements, which are most of the time impossible to understand.
However, I admire your effort of you are making to record your experience while in the UK, although I feel it is very personal, therefore the "comments" from other people I think.
I don't find your blog very objective, instead it is ridden with prejudice, lack of patience and understanding for the culture you are living in. Ksysia, people are the same everywhere, you just need to give them a chance and I feel that you look at some British as if they were aliens. In a way they are, but it is because you have a tendency to look at them that way.
I personally prefer the journalistic style of writing, when the author puts the facts in and does not judge, or implements feelings, which is a very difficult thing to do in my opinion. Kapuscinski comes to mind, because his style of writing was like that. He was able to take the reader to whatever place he was writing about. You are talking readers to your personal world most of the time and there is nothing wrong with it but I think you blog should have a disclaimer.
That's really nice of you guys to read some of my musings, and comment on them. Thanks for not saying 'this is stupid so get out'.
well, maybe I was a bit to sarcastic, but I feel that it is really difficult to discuss anything with you, unless is in your head, because you making a lot of confusing statements, which are most of the time impossible to understand.
However, I admire your effort of you are making to record your experience while in the UK, although I feel it is very personal, therefore the "comments" from other people I think.
I don't find your blog very objective, instead it is ridden with prejudice, lack of patience and understanding for the culture you are living in. Ksysia, people are the same everywhere, you just need to give them a chance and I feel that you look at some British as if they were aliens. In a way they are, but it is because you have a tendency to look at them that way.
I personally prefer the journalistic style of writing, when the author puts the facts in and does not judge, or implements feelings, which is a very difficult thing to do in my opinion. Kapuscinski comes to mind, because his style of writing was like that. He was able to take the reader to whatever place he was writing about. You are talking readers to your personal world most of the time and there is nothing wrong with it but I think you blog should have a disclaimer.
aphrodisiac
17 Mar 2010
Love / I don't know if she's married and I don't speak Polish - help me romantic folks [55]
unlike you;)
it would be impossible for me to go out long-term with a girl who demands a very low level of stimulation.
unlike you;)
aphrodisiac
16 Mar 2010
Love / How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported. [129]
I will tell you why.
1. women are not seeing by a society as physically violent for 2 reasons: they are less inclined to be as violent as their male counterparts, they are physically less damaging to their male partners, culturally women solve conflicts in other ways: negotiations, divorce, pleading, sex manipulation and many other ways, so even if in fact their violence amounts to 50%, they are not perceived that way. I hope that I made some sense.
2. It has little to do with PC, but with the way women are perceived by the society, which I explained in point 2
3. it is possible that your statistics are flawed ( I am not saying they are) and the fact that you are so negative about the feminist movement might want people (especially women) to turn their ears off.
salsa is even better, but lets get back on topic, shell we?
that would be the perfect solution, but it appears that women were lagging behind for a long time (Western societies) and they are catching up (in my opinion). The process is not a smooth one and is constantly evolving (can the process evolve lol, cannot think of any other term at the moment). Women are being pulled in two major directions: more freedom and independence=less dependence of men, which might result in men being seeing as less important and unnecessary in their lives. Another direction is staying in a relationship, having children, staying at home and being financially dependent on men.
So women are not in a very comfortable situation ( I am aware of the fact that I am simplifying my explanation for for the benefit of delivering a quick answer), but men, who are on the other side will also be effected by this conflict, because of the vacuum, which has been created. I hope I am making sense here:)
you are right to a certain degree. I still think that the number (%) of raging feminists/hard core/ anti-male are not as high as you claim to be, however, one cannot overlook that fact that feminism contributed a lot to women's freedom. You cannot deny it. So when you are making an effort to criticize feminism, perhaps an approach, which will vilify feminism ( including the positive things) is not the best road to take.
It is probably better to deal with WHAT IS, then to wish that things were different:)
Why some people (not you) have a difficult time accepting that is most interesting and shows just how "PC" are culture is.
I will tell you why.
1. women are not seeing by a society as physically violent for 2 reasons: they are less inclined to be as violent as their male counterparts, they are physically less damaging to their male partners, culturally women solve conflicts in other ways: negotiations, divorce, pleading, sex manipulation and many other ways, so even if in fact their violence amounts to 50%, they are not perceived that way. I hope that I made some sense.
2. It has little to do with PC, but with the way women are perceived by the society, which I explained in point 2
3. it is possible that your statistics are flawed ( I am not saying they are) and the fact that you are so negative about the feminist movement might want people (especially women) to turn their ears off.
I prefer to jitterbug. So much fun. :)
salsa is even better, but lets get back on topic, shell we?
No argument there but I've always preferred to think that both men and women are into real liberation together;
that would be the perfect solution, but it appears that women were lagging behind for a long time (Western societies) and they are catching up (in my opinion). The process is not a smooth one and is constantly evolving (can the process evolve lol, cannot think of any other term at the moment). Women are being pulled in two major directions: more freedom and independence=less dependence of men, which might result in men being seeing as less important and unnecessary in their lives. Another direction is staying in a relationship, having children, staying at home and being financially dependent on men.
So women are not in a very comfortable situation ( I am aware of the fact that I am simplifying my explanation for for the benefit of delivering a quick answer), but men, who are on the other side will also be effected by this conflict, because of the vacuum, which has been created. I hope I am making sense here:)
unlike the divisiveness and self-centerness that is so obvious in feminism.
you are right to a certain degree. I still think that the number (%) of raging feminists/hard core/ anti-male are not as high as you claim to be, however, one cannot overlook that fact that feminism contributed a lot to women's freedom. You cannot deny it. So when you are making an effort to criticize feminism, perhaps an approach, which will vilify feminism ( including the positive things) is not the best road to take.
It is probably better to deal with WHAT IS, then to wish that things were different:)
aphrodisiac
16 Mar 2010
Love / How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported. [129]
NO, I did not. I am pretty sure that some women do it. It takes two to tango.
wait the minute. Where do you draw the line here. How much freedom is not enough, too much and enough. I think it is up to those women to fight or request it. No?
That's never been the issue. It's the denial by feminists that women hit or batter men that is the point. Didn't you log on to the Pizzey link?
NO, I did not. I am pretty sure that some women do it. It takes two to tango.
That generalization may be unfair but in the case of Arabs, it amazes me how the women there defend their imprisoned position. Unlike western women, Arab women definitely need liberating.
wait the minute. Where do you draw the line here. How much freedom is not enough, too much and enough. I think it is up to those women to fight or request it. No?
aphrodisiac
15 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / Documentary on foreign and local workers in a town in England. [66]
what do you mean by that?
I have a friend who had to go back to high school (do extra credits) because he wanted to finish university, he was born here and knew that there was something lucking, so he went back, got accepted and finished university - he was way passed 30. it is never to late to go back to school, well unless you are on a death bed:)
They demand higher qualifications in order for you to attend college or university.
what do you mean by that?
I have a friend who had to go back to high school (do extra credits) because he wanted to finish university, he was born here and knew that there was something lucking, so he went back, got accepted and finished university - he was way passed 30. it is never to late to go back to school, well unless you are on a death bed:)
aphrodisiac
15 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / Documentary on foreign and local workers in a town in England. [66]
I just finished my studies and it was the hardest thing to do: financially and in any other way to be honest. However, many of my friends and relatives were convinced that it was a piece of cake. In difficult times the only think that kept me going was the fact that I considered myself lucky to have such an opportunity, because millions of people around the world don't.
Arien, I would look into education opportunities across EU if I were you. Also, there are Erasmus EU funds, but I don't now the details, so YOU need to do the digging if you want it bad enough:). Good luck:)
I know quite a few people who have done and are doing this, they also find part time imployment if possible.
I just finished my studies and it was the hardest thing to do: financially and in any other way to be honest. However, many of my friends and relatives were convinced that it was a piece of cake. In difficult times the only think that kept me going was the fact that I considered myself lucky to have such an opportunity, because millions of people around the world don't.
Arien, I would look into education opportunities across EU if I were you. Also, there are Erasmus EU funds, but I don't now the details, so YOU need to do the digging if you want it bad enough:). Good luck:)
aphrodisiac
15 Mar 2010
Love / I don't know if she's married and I don't speak Polish - help me romantic folks [55]
You could have a point, but Wulkan did not present himself as having a technique by giving him the wrong advice/mocking, so he either has NO girlfriend, or the girlfriend he has is not a girlfriend Hector would be interested in having:)
He doesnt need to, he has a girlfriend..you on the other hand dont have one - who is lacking in technique?
You could have a point, but Wulkan did not present himself as having a technique by giving him the wrong advice/mocking, so he either has NO girlfriend, or the girlfriend he has is not a girlfriend Hector would be interested in having:)
aphrodisiac
15 Mar 2010
History / just before the war the Polish/Ukrainian szlachta learned Ukrainian [243]
that is what I fear;)
When Poles begin to disagree with her, her world will collapse ;) ;) ;)
that is what I fear;)