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Poland - never again [593]
Nonetheless, a truly delightful custom I encountered when first in Poland, and was touched to see men of any economic station, be they a construction worker or an aristocrat get up or if standing gently take the woman's hand and raise it to his lips (not really kissing it, of course) muttering the words "Caluje Pani raczki!".
The seventy-five year-old father (a semi-literate retired lathe operator) of my Polish colleague recently met my wife and at the end of the luncheon before they were both about to leave, Viktor took my wife's hand and went through the usual ritual. My wife was enchanted!
Oh, I know the Viennese have the same ablution, only the difference between "Kuess d' Hand, gnae' Frau!" and the Polish as well as the Hungarian "Csokolom!", is that the Poles mean it:-)
Pity such traditions are going the way of holding a door for a woman and various other civilities.