UK, Ireland /
Polish community in Northampton (any success stories / bad experiences?) [20]
I think it's ridiculous to form Polish communities in a country that is not Poland
Why? If its to the total exclusion of all non Poles from your life,yes,that would be silly,but,here in my town there have been Polish and Ukrainian clubs since the 1940s. People went to these clubs maybe one evening a week or in the early days to communual English lessons on the weekend but for the rest of the week these people were just British people with "funny" accents. Their kids might hold their wedding receptions in the clubs but they all speak with broad Yorkshire accents and by todays generation its completly intergrated.
i find the english smile very confusing - never know when it is for real and when it's backstabbing.
Thats a shame you felt that way. To be fair ,I think "backstabbing" may be a touch of paranoia on your part(i dont mean that in a funny way,but I know the Dutch too are a little taken aback by the english habit of smiling at strangers :) ) maybe you lived "dahn sarfff" amongst the heathen mockneys but come up north and a smile is a smile,a frown is a frown and a "get the fook out of here "is as much a term of endearment as "flower" :)
Of course I cant speak for everywhere in england,its a hiding to nothing if you think the "english" all have much in commen charector wise;
i've read the book "watching the english"
Ive not read this,I'll have to keep an eye out for it as,being proudly Scottish and irish but having lived amongst the english for 30 out of 35 years it will be interesting. I take it though it has sections on, "watching the brummies" ,"watching the scousers" ,"watching Yorkshire folk",watching lancastrians","southeners","northerners","geordies", "west country",Essex",........................................