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'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]
Any guy thats been in a relationship with a loopy woman knows very well that a woman can push even the most mild mannered man towards violence....
My first experiance of it was way back when i lived in London...she would push and push the argument untill i wanted to hit her....My reaction was to go out for a ride on my bike and come back when she was in a better mood , but she would then threaten to trash the house , and some very expensive racing machinery , in other words , she wanted to give me no chance to avoid violence...
She grew up with her mum and dad smacking each other about , and i am sure she saw it as the normal way to go on...
Recently i was in touch with this woman again , after a 28 year gap , as she is the mother of my son , thankfully she has chilled out a lot , but i was not entirely suprised to find out that she has been in several abusive reationships , and also that her mum is now in a nuthouse , perhaps its in the blood....?
I don,t agree that violence is right , especially against a woman , but if some woman punches me in the face , she is quite likely to get one back , whatever the result is going to be....
The best option if its got to this stage is to walk away...but that option becomes difficult if you share a home and have kids...