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BritinPoland   
25 Nov 2010
Life / How popular is Radio Maryja in Poland? [163]

Isn't there some audio of Rydzyk on Youtube or somewhere laughing off suggestions he has a Maybach and joking that he should use his submarine or 'copter? I don't think I can post links or I would look for it and post.

Whenever I put the case to people here that support RM etc about the newspaper ND and the rest of it having a less than perfect reputation among the internet forums, I am told it is all propaganda to smear the good works of Rydzyk and that Rydzyk is hated because he and his press "tell everyone the truth" about various issues.

I have no idea what the truth really is, I am little more than a tourist here really and don't want to speak out of my backside, but that's what they say when I highlight the criticisms of his media empire and school. They say it's all lies about him, a campaign of smears, etc etc. They laughed hysterically when I said he had a Maybach, and added "Do you really think that is true? You are really gullible if you do." So is it me that's gullible or them? I am yet to find out, so far nothing heard or seen that worries me from their output which may of course now be all sweetness & light if they are under threat of having their licence pulled - no idea if that rumour is true or not btw.

The S American money man story - it has been called a smear by Rydzyk I think. No, don't ask me if it is or isn't, I haven't he foggiest! If it is true, shame on RM big, big time.

Jonni, don't all these religious types get nice cars? I can think of a charity in the UK that gave exec cars to its staff in the 80s - where's the justice in that? People weren't donating for ROver Sterlings to be bought, they were donating for the needy. Anyway, probably the UK's senior clergy get something a bit fancier than a 1998 Nissan Micra Equation too :o)
BritinPoland   
25 Nov 2010
Life / How popular is Radio Maryja in Poland? [163]

Jonni, I looked into RM a lot before I came to Poland using the web. I developed a great deal of irritation about them and expected to get angry here when I tuned in and got proper translations for the first time live. However, so far, a big fat nought. I even enjoyed a few shows on TWRAM when I think they discussed some local community issues and had cameras on location about roads or buildings in some area, another time I think they discussed water standards, can't remember now, anyway I remember thinking this is a bit of a novelty - roving investigative reporters in dog collars. They didn't go all Jeremy Paxman about stuff but nonetheless I have to say it was way above what I expected from a religious TV channel. Of course the rest of it with their religious services and prayers does turn me off, and their daft RMTV fanfare jingle sounds like it was off an old royalty-free cassette from the 70s, but then again they know their audience and that's what they like I suppose. By the time I'm 75, they'll probably be interspersing news bulletins with a jingle burst of Eminem & Rihanna...
BritinPoland   
24 Nov 2010
Life / How popular is Radio Maryja in Poland? [163]

Since you seem interested in religious radio, try Radio Jozef, the Church's official station.

I'm not actually, I am not interested in it other than from a psychological point of view, by that I mean I find it interesting to see people having faith in religion, and sometimes (my apologies if this offends anyone, not my intention) I find it a bit scary that they seem to be kind of under the control or whatever (can't think of the right word) of religion. I don't rule out the existence of a Creator etc, I'm more a pantheist than atheist. I do note that some people who quite literally put all their troubles and dilemmas "Into the hands of God" seem to not worry as much and seem to do a heck of a lot better than people like myself who don't really have any beliefs really. It's tempting for me to think I am more sophisticated by being not religious, perhaps that's a delusion I have, but I do tend to look at religious services and sermons and stuff like that and feel it is to put it politely a waste of time for someone like me. If the friends I mention in posts above hear me say that they get very annoyed, as you can guess, so I keep my thoughts to myself these days and respect their religious activities.

I like listening to RM and watching that TV channel TWAM or whatever it's called because it has no ads, has that world in pictures bulletin, and interesting discussions on non religious stuff fairly often. Now, if they are trying to push religion into those discussions then yeah I am too thick to notice, and it certainly hasn't subconsciously encouraged me. I am even less interested in becoming religious since coming to Poland than I was before. Although I have to say I do love some of the churches, they are impressive, and it is nice to see people going to church as a family and having optimism from their faith. Can't knock that and wouldn't want to, I say it's not for me but most definitely good luck to 'em!

EDITED to say I will definitely try to catch those programmes you mention, Jonni, many thanks.
BritinPoland   
24 Nov 2010
Life / How popular is Radio Maryja in Poland? [163]

The poles I know have admitted as much.

I challenged them on that, I said before to a couple of them something like "Come on, you just don't want to admit that you've been donating to these people" (I assumed they'd been donating, apparently they haven't!)

I think I recall a caller ringing in and saying the word "Jew" in a negative way a few weeks back and this too was interpreted faithfully, the caller was given short shrift it seemed and they moved swiftly on to the next. I can't remember the subject, though, but it was the UC evening prog.

You must have some VERY good friends who will sit roung with you and interpret radio maryja programmes, I had to learn Polish cos my friends and family were getting pissed off with translating.

I do, that's why I'm here for an extended stay. Don't get me wrong, I think a bit of skepticism about people who post on bulletin boards is a very healthy thing, but let's not get carried away eh. I ain't no RM plant, at worst I'm a bit of a geek originally from Essex, minus the white socks and Ford Capri, but that's about the worst that could be said of me.
BritinPoland   
24 Nov 2010
Life / How popular is Radio Maryja in Poland? [163]

how in God's name do you understand what the hell radio maryja is talking about??

There's other ways of asking a question than to put it in such terms, any real need to write so excitedly "what the hell"? The answer is plainly obvious, apart from the fact I understand some very basic Polish, I listen to it only when others who are native Poles are around and they interpret it. I have no reason to believe they omit anything.

I am keen to know why there is the hysterical dislike for RM, evident on this board, and in the people I ask about it back home in England. As I said before, as yet I've heard nothing, nada, zilcho, that I haven't heard said far worse on the UK telly in so-called news discussion slots.

I'm left to assume that either there is indeed a campaign against RM, or there is some grain of truth in it but not as bad as web posts suggest, or that whatever happened is in the past and they are now steering clear of the same controversy. It's an interesting quest for the truth, I'd have loved to hear something nasty in their output so that I could have reached a conclusion by now and condemned them with the rest of you. So they've either turned over a new leaf or, and apologies to the mods for saying this, the talk of them being deliberately anti whatever is actually a load of bollox. Goodnight, folks.
BritinPoland   
24 Nov 2010
Life / How popular is Radio Maryja in Poland? [163]

I've heard much of this stuff before, I think the witch comment was verified as correctly reported. The rest of it, people I know who listen to RM, laugh off as propaganda and nonsense. Having listened to RM myself and not heard anything, especially not any anti-Sem stuff which I'd find particularly vile and offensive, I don't know what to think. I too had heard the S American Nazi rumour etc etc and that too was laughed at by a listener I spoke with as utter nonsense.

However, if you randomly talk to Poles in the UK about RM, they will say it is an embarrassment & condemn RM. I did not find any that liked it.

When I put that to Poles here in Poland who like it and listen to RM, they say that people who criticise it have never listened to it and are just believing propaganda.

So, I don't really know what to believe - except to say I am as yet completely unable to find anything nasty when I listen myself. What I term as nasty is racism, homophobia, anti-Semitism, prejudice, xenophobia, to name a few.

Anyone want to enlighten me, who has heard 'bad' stuff live with their own ears, I want to get to the truth.
BritinPoland   
24 Nov 2010
Life / How popular is Radio Maryja in Poland? [163]

Just to be clear so I know if I am missing something, Harry could you tell me whether you heard offensive output yourself? If so, was it live (ie as broadcast at the time) or was it a recording found online said to be their output? Obviously something from them has wound yourself and others up, and Nazi or anti-S etc remarks would wind me up too, but so far I have not heard any, and what little I did hear was less worrying than I might hear to a phone in on some late night UK radio programme before the host cuts them off or plays a jingle over it as the 7-secs censor/time delay button is pressed.

Interesting discussion. I heard a lot about it before I came to Poland, so far I've not heard anything dodgy. All I can recall is a phone in one night when a listener might've been a bit offensive about another religion but they were sort of retorted and then cut off by the host. Nothing worse than you can hear on the UK's late night phone ins, and I've heard more offensive stuff from UK MSM foreign correspondents and debates on a Sunday morning on UK terrestrial TV.

So, I'm waiting to see what all the fuss is about.

Sure, the mohair berets on Youtube look and sound ghastly, the ones that were swearing etc, but surely that's not enough to condemn a whole radio station is it?

Most of their debates and discussions on topics diverse and away from religion I find pretty good and I like it more than Radio 4 in the UK. Yeah the religious stuff bores me, but the rest of the output is intellectual food for thought on topics I usually quite want to know about.

I'm not going to claim to be listening every night, but when I have tuned in at random I am yet to hear any of these supposedly controversial anti this and anti that remarks. If their listeners phone in and say them, well we can argue that the listeners are dinosaurs, but not sure you can hold a radio station responsible for its wider public having free speech, even if we disagree vigorously with the tone or content of that free speech. Anyway, as I say, so far I've not even heard anything that remotely matches what I had feared I'd hear. So far, though, so far...

(Apologies if I have missed what all the fuss was about, I can only speak following my irregular listening this year. All I am aware of is the shirt/Jews comment and some quip to an African priest, both stupid and immature remarks no doubt, but a mouth opening without first brain-engaging is a common phenomenon globally.)
BritinPoland   
24 Nov 2010
Life / How popular is Radio Maryja in Poland? [163]

And to quote the Council of Europe, Radio Maryja has been "openly inciting to antisemitism for several years".

I share your disgust at anyone that is genuinely as you describe.

I can only speak as I find - so far I have not noticed anything to substantiate the Council's comments - I can only assume they are mistaken or the offences to decency were in the past.

I've not listened to RM night & day as am not Catholic nor even remotely religious, but I do tune in regularly and at random in the eves, and like some of their discussions on radio and TV. So far, as far as I can tell - nasty swearing 'mohair beret army' on Youtube or not - there seems little or nothing coming out of RM to substantiate the bad press and allegations. Obviously, whether I have missed the bad stuff in the past I don't know, but so far I have actually been somewhat impressed with the discussions and their tackling issues the MSM would not. In fact I like them more than I do Radio 4!! If I may inject a little humour, I am reminded of a fake ad for a spoof magazine periodical at (UK) satirical site The Daily Mash, it was in the style of The Oldie or some such, and the spoof mag was called "The Racist Nan" (eg a magazine for racist grandmothers in Britain). Having met a few elderly ladies there who are mildly (if there's such a thing) racist, I can with some sadness say that the satire is not lost on me.
BritinPoland   
24 Nov 2010
Life / How popular is Radio Maryja in Poland? [163]

The only connection to Era is that they use Era's network (as a VMNO). wR's owners seem to in the process of fuccking over their former partners, the noted ....

Hello Harry

Are you sure all that talk about Radio Maryja and TVTWRAM or whatever it's called is true? I heard all that stuff and looked into it when I got here, I didn't hear anything dodgy from those sources, I think worse is heard on some UK national news programmes when they have their round the table debates with foreign correspondents.

I am aware there is lots said online about RM et al, but I am yet to actually come across anything substantiated except the shirts off your back nonsense and the brainless tactless quip about the African-appearance priest or whatever it was.

Is the negative press about RM not really a load of hyperbole nonsense whipped up by anti-church types or anti whatever political party RM was supposed to be aligned with (allegedly!) ? Honestly, every time I tune in to Unfinished Conversations with someone else who speaks fluent Polish I don't hear anything anti-S or whatever, I think once some listener caller said something about Jews but they were given a sort of neutralising retort by the host and I don't recall any more than that since I've been here this year. I am aware there is a lot alleged online about RM that is negative, and possibly stuff might have been said before that I am ignorant of, but from what I see right now on their TV channel and what I hear on RM in the evenings it seems very mild or non existent compared to the rumour mill. Can I just point out I do not even in the slightest agree with or condone racism, anti-Semitism or homophobia.
BritinPoland   
24 Nov 2010
Life / Mental health problem or one of the grieving stages? Death and denial in Poland. [93]

This sounds nuts, but is it possible that she's involved with some sort of sect? For some reason, this sort of behaviour sounds like someone is encouraging it - though that's just a blind stab in the dark.

I don't know. She is very religious in some ways, and she is an avid reader, she has various religious types as contacts on Facebook - I'm sure she's told me that before, but sects well I really don't know. Her mobile gets a lot of texts (SMSs), I know that. When she called me over to her computer once I saw an email from someone or a group or site called "TFP" and the email subject line said "Deathbed ..." something or the other. She is on Facebook a heck of a LOT though and gets a great many "friend" requests because I have seen them when talking to her on the screen behind her. I'm not on FB myself so not sure how it works or what potentially happens on SN sites.

Then I would ask why change it. The acceptance of her fathers death will come in time, if it is not having any negative effects on her life at the moment, then just prepare yourself for that time when it all comes crashing home.

Because crashing home realisations don't sound a safe bet to me, left unchecked with any sudden waking up to the facts, could be the same as letting a drunk driver drive on because he's not hurt himself or others - yet. I just don't feel comfortable with this time will heal business, even if at present there seems no other option than to try for that to become the case. It does however seem to be at least a year that time has not healed, possibly 2. I do not know, I have not been here all that time, and I will soon be back in the UK and unable to help her from there.
BritinPoland   
23 Nov 2010
Life / Mental health problem or one of the grieving stages? Death and denial in Poland. [93]

get help, don't do it on your own.

You're of course right, but I can't see how help will come, her family are yet to act on it and she won't listen to my suggestion to come along to the doctor's with me. You see, she thinks it's other people whose thinking is wrong on this, not her. Her mind seems to be saying to her "Oh those poor fools, why do they jump to conclusions like that? They should be humoured and not scolded." It's just like her memory has gone but she doesn't realise what's missing, like a hypnosis. When I say to her "But does it seem logical to you that he'd not be in touch all this time?" she makes non-logical responses, and usually it seems she is unaware it has been years and seems to think it's months. Recently I said "It has been several Xmases" and she seemed unsure how many. Time seems to be distorted for her.

Just a quick question, as I haven't really read over everything yet, but is this having a harmful affect on herself or her behaviour?

She gets up very late in the day, say 11am, and is on Facebook or online until very late, going to sleep at about 2am or so most of the time. However, she seems very lively and efficient when at work, good mood, sings to herself a little, concentrates well, remembers all manner of academic stuff, speaks several languages flawlessly, dresses well, eats well, no drugs or drink or smoking. I edit to add, on the rare occasions when there are very early starts at work, she is always on time.
BritinPoland   
23 Nov 2010
Life / Mental health problem or one of the grieving stages? Death and denial in Poland. [93]

I can't really help, but has she been back to visit the grave. what happened Nov 1st the day one leaves flowers at the graveside.

Yes, we all went to the graveside then. It is a family grave with her g/parents and also now her father. She stood nearby, said prayers and then argued with her mother, telling her off for affixing the memorial plaque marking the grave of her father. She said to her mother in a slightly raised voice but not raging or screaming or anything: "He is not dead, you can't wait can you? He will be back, you will see. You are very nasty, almost evil, to do this [marking a grave with my father's name] to me." However she resumed pleasant relations with her mother within a few minutes when they visited some friends' graves and some others there. I have already discussed it privately with her mother, she seems happy to wait it out rather than get her some help or counselling. Apparently her brother does not want to get involved and is rarely in touch with the mother anyway, indeed he did not even come to the graves.

Hard for anyone to say without talking to her but I would say she needs to talk to a professional - good luck.

She won't go. I have offered to pay, she asks me why she would need to go, she just doesn't seem to understand. The strangest thing is that moments after my saying to her that he is dead and she needs to come to terms with it or regain her memory, she dismisses the suggestion with a "don't be nasty" or "he'll be back, you should talk to him, he's very clever" and no argument or unpleasantness follows, she seems almost used to people telling her he's passed on as if everyone else were wrong. Sometimes her retort is so convincing that for a moment it seems as if I am indeed the one who has got it wrong and he is merely absent rather than passed away! It is so peculiar that if it were in a novel I would say "how far-fetched!".

I have recently suggested to her that we go the hospital he was last at for her to speak with them. She dismissed this and said the doctors will have no records as her mother discharged him (untrue, he died in the hospital there). She also says she has no parish priest or other close priest when I suggested that to her. At the same time she dismissed any ideas that she needed to discuss the matter with a priest, all she would say is "they don't know where my dad is, what can they do" although she added "but they could pray for him, we should all pray for him" - when I asked her to qualify what sort of prayer, she said "pray for him to recover and return to us soon to help us be a normal family again".

It may amaze some of you to read also that she was not bothered or cross when she caught me typing this message on the forum earlier. She seems perfectly convinced that it is others' mistake about her father and rolled her eyes that I was "still" being silly in thinking he was dead and even asking others for advice about her. Within moments she had changed the subject and talking about work and holidays etc.
BritinPoland   
23 Nov 2010
Life / Mental health problem or one of the grieving stages? Death and denial in Poland. [93]

Thank you all very much for replying, many of you really giving lots of thought and coming back with more suggestions, I appreciate it.

The oddest thing is she functions 100% fine in everything else, brilliant at her work, exceptionally bright academically, great sense of humour, just no way of knowing all is not well unless this subject is brought up.

Thanks again all.
BritinPoland   
23 Nov 2010
Life / Mental health problem or one of the grieving stages? Death and denial in Poland. [93]

anger

Well, I remember the anger stage back then - she was very angry that the doctors had not attended to him and that a member of her family had not helped her speak up and get her dad moved to some other hospital with a specialist in his illness. She was heard to say to the effect that better care would have prevented him dying, I remember that and her floods of angry tears quite vividly. But since then of course, something's changed in her mind.
BritinPoland   
23 Nov 2010
Life / Mental health problem or one of the grieving stages? Death and denial in Poland. [93]

what does she say if you ask her if and when she saw her dad last time

She says "I'm not really sure, it was definitely at least some months."

The reality would be over 2 years, of course.

Just today she said she was hoping to see him in the street near where he worked before he was ill. "I am always hoping to see him, you never know," she said to me.

"But he passed away" I replied, "No, don't be stupid, that's nasty!" she replied.

If you can,t get her to a doctor , then maybe you need to talk to one to find out best how to help her...?

I don't see her co-operating with any suggestions, and her family will probably tell me to mind my own if I push the matter again, I have already brought it up with them privately a few times. "Time will heal" is their response, in a nutshell.

The day will come when either the memory will return and she will be devastated
or
it will return and she will carry on as if the whole period of denial never happened.

I don't know which scenario is worse when trying to ascertain future stable mental health, I really don't.
BritinPoland   
23 Nov 2010
Life / Mental health problem or one of the grieving stages? Death and denial in Poland. [93]

I think it would be better that she is led gently towards the truth , rather than it hit her full in the face...she may not be able to cope with it....

If she was able to deal with it , she would not be in denial to this extent...

I have done my very best to sit down and very gently bring her mind back to the days before he died and the day he died. She remembers a bit of that day but when I say "and do you remember that I then said xyz because I had to xyz that day" it is all as if erased from her mind. When I show her an email to me where she mentioned she had received condolences from people she says those condolences were for another person who died in her family and not her father. When I say to her "do you recall the two hours on the phone when you were alone & very distressed just after the funeral so I called you from the UK to talk to you" she looks at me blankly and says I am confused, that it was when her father was ill, not anything to do with any funeral, and "what am I talking about?!"

So I have no idea how I could lead her gently towards the truth, I have been trying now for some months, a few times a week just very carefully trying to verbally get somewhere. It seems to be getting more and more hopeless.
BritinPoland   
23 Nov 2010
Life / Mental health problem or one of the grieving stages? Death and denial in Poland. [93]

wow, this is tough, and i'm really sorry about your friend's father...

have you suggested her to see a therapist? maybe you could go with her? or she doesn't see the reason to do it?

I have very gently suggested that on several occasions, she asks "what for?", when I say "because you need some help to come to terms with his passing" she replies "what are you talking about, you are sick, it's you that's not well, has my mother been speaking to you for you to come out with this cr*p?"...

I am not an expert in mental health , but i can tell you two things... First of all its normal to go through a period of denial after a loss such as this , secondly , its not normal to take the denial to this level , or to carry it on for this length of time...

I was fortunate enough never to have any denial when I lost my parents, I was very close to them, shocked and in pieces when each passed, but I never for a moment thought they were still alive. I hear of this denial stage a lot from articles I read but don't understand how denial can go on beyond the point of going to the hospital and speaking to a doctor who confirms death. I must confess my total ignorance at how anyone can deny a death beyond that point.

Shell grieve when shes ready and i suspect it will come in a burst at some point.

That's kind of my fear, from what I can gather that would not be a good outcome, not good at all given her personal circumstances (forgive me for not elaborating more on that).

I appreciate the above replies and any more that may follow, thank you.
BritinPoland   
23 Nov 2010
Life / Mental health problem or one of the grieving stages? Death and denial in Poland. [93]

Someone I have known for many years here in Poland, a Polish national, lost her father a couple of years ago after a long illness.

I was with her at the time he died, we were both in the UK at the time.

She had been praying and I recall how upset she was the morning the phone call came that despite the prayers which she had so sincerely believed in, he had passed away.

Somehow in the period since, she has decided that her father did not die and is merely in a hospital or care home somewhere.

She dismisses the fact that her mother has placed his name and date of death on the family grave as her mother being "unreasonable" and "always in a rush", to quote her "my mother acts like she has a fire under her tail."

We were at the grave 3 weeks ago and when she saw the grave she merely prayed for her family members and for her father to recover. Her mother said to her "He's not asleep, he died, look" gesturing to the grave memorial.

Reacting to this, she called her mother "nasty" for suggesting such a thing, and said "my father will be back". This is something she says a lot.

I have asked her mother whether she is to get help for her daughter on this but it appears she believes "time is a healer" and leaves her daughter to carry on with her everyday life as if this problem does not exist. Her daughter works and is highly intelligent, I know her for some years now and would say she has gained self-confidence and humour over the years, does not seem even slightly depressed and is very competent at work, gets on well with people, speaks several languages etc.

When I have mentioned to her that she herself told me her father died, she implies I am lying or that I am not in good mental health. When I ask her where she thinks he is and why he would not be in touch for years she makes various comments which depart from logic. She remains calm and pleasant at all times, even when accusing me of being nasty for saying her father has passed away. The next moment she is back doing her work and smiling and joking with people on the phone, etc.

From talking to her it seems she has no memory of the day he died, the funeral (which I recall her telling me about in great detail previously), her mourning period (which I also recall).

She also insists everything in her dad's room be kept exactly as it was, nothing moved or used, no clothes given away. She leaves his post for him in a pile, and refers to him in the present tense often.

This has apparently been going on for at least a year, maybe 18 months.

She is a very nice person - is there anything to help her available, her family seem to believe either a prayer will help her or she will get better on her own. Is that a wise thing to do, or should she be seen by an expert? Not that I have any way of getting her in front of one, she refused to visit her GP with me.

Just from what common sense suggests to me as a layperson: denial for this long period as in a firm belief (or so it seems) that the death did not happen and her father is alive, or a loss of memory if that's what it is, should almost certainly be a matter that someone qualified in bereavement counselling or medically trained should be helping her with, no? Yet no one is helping her and her family are passive. (I am 99% sure she has seen no professional on this matter btw.)

Any advice would be good. Thanks.
BritinPoland   
23 Nov 2010
Life / Polish Pay As You Go Phone SIMs - do all have compulsory recharging / top up? [11]

Thanks delphiandomine, will look into that one too.

I have looked into the wR SIM - it seems 20 zl buys a SIM and it doesn't need a recharge or top up for 12 months if you don't use the 20 zl. I am not allowed to post a link but if you google it then you should see. The card is it seems something to do with Era as the phone says wR and Era on it when that SIM is in.

I have gone on to Play for my SIM now. The outgoing calls from Play are competitively priced.

However, someone has told me it costs more to call a Play number than for example an Orange, or Era, etc etc. If that's correct, how much more typically (in percentage approx?).

Thanks if anyone knows.
BritinPoland   
22 Nov 2010
Life / Polish Pay As You Go Phone SIMs - do all have compulsory recharging / top up? [11]

Thank you Harry, and Bolle. I much appreciate the very fast replies.

BTW, someone I know says "wRodzinie" (a network I assume) doesn't expect regular top ups. Now, I've no idea if that's true or not, but if anyone wants to read their Polish website and confirm it's true and if it's a good deal for PL consumers, please do... thanks.
BritinPoland   
22 Nov 2010
Life / Polish Pay As You Go Phone SIMs - do all have compulsory recharging / top up? [11]

Hello all

Do all the PAYG SIMs in Poland require the SIM card user to put money into the account every x number of days or else the phone no longer allows outgoing calls or SMS/texts, even if there is a credit balance?

I have a Heyah SIM on PAYG, I didn't use all my credit up, and despite having enough credit still in the account to phone or text, Heyah it seems will only let me use that credit if I now make an additional top up (recharge) of money to the SIM.

Having had a quick look at the Plus and Orange websites, looks like they do the same in Poland.

In the UK, most of the networks don't expect you to top up every month or whatever, they just ask that you make a call every 90 days or 6 months (depends on the network). Provided you do that you can use whatever credit is in the account, even if you haven't topped up for some time.

Is there a Polish SIM that works on those lines?

Thanks.

PS Anyone know how you turn off the recorded promotional message that speaks/plays over the ringing tone when someone dials a Heyah telephone number? People ringing me from the UK find that confusing & hang up when they hear the voice and the ringing tone.