MareGaea
13 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]
True. It also means: I don't want to share my bed with you, but I kinda "like" you as you're not a prick. Therefore, I'm gonna torture you for all time by telling you stories about guys who I think are better than you and yet they turn out to be *ssholes. I'm gonna tell you all the excruciating details about them, and you will sit and listen and buy me drinks and not expect anything from me.
Furthermore, it means: I want to have all your benefits without having any obligation towards you. And if you agree to that I think you're a total loser, because why would I want to start something with you when I get all that I want without having to give anything in return?
Also true. You're being relegated from number 1 to one of many with the same rights and you're not allowed to know the things anymore she used to share with you. It doesn't work. If you get dumped or if you dump someone, it's best to move on.
The truth in these kinda scenarios you're never gonna get. Sometimes it's better like that. But if you ask them, they nearly always say "don't ask." Why is that? Because they cannot admit that they just changed their minds or that they have met another guy. It's usually the latter reason.
>^..^<
M-G (is not the best example, and knows that)
''I want to stay friends'' means ''I don't want to be your girlfriend'', which in most of the cases, (Especially when she ignores you!) also means ''please **** off''.
True. It also means: I don't want to share my bed with you, but I kinda "like" you as you're not a prick. Therefore, I'm gonna torture you for all time by telling you stories about guys who I think are better than you and yet they turn out to be *ssholes. I'm gonna tell you all the excruciating details about them, and you will sit and listen and buy me drinks and not expect anything from me.
Furthermore, it means: I want to have all your benefits without having any obligation towards you. And if you agree to that I think you're a total loser, because why would I want to start something with you when I get all that I want without having to give anything in return?
friendship after love doesn't exist
Also true. You're being relegated from number 1 to one of many with the same rights and you're not allowed to know the things anymore she used to share with you. It doesn't work. If you get dumped or if you dump someone, it's best to move on.
I think most guys can handle the truth, if you give them a decent answer and maybe some kind of explanation. Don't you think that would be a little more honest?
The truth in these kinda scenarios you're never gonna get. Sometimes it's better like that. But if you ask them, they nearly always say "don't ask." Why is that? Because they cannot admit that they just changed their minds or that they have met another guy. It's usually the latter reason.
>^..^<
M-G (is not the best example, and knows that)