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DominicB   
11 Dec 2016
Law / I am staying illegal but married with Polish. I want to apply for Temporary residence card [5]

Hell hath no fury like a Polish mother in law who hates your guts and thinks you are the Devil incarnate, and you can count on her to make your life a living hell. My guess is that your wife's family will pressure her to apply for a divorce. When forced to choose between her husband and her family, my guess is that she will go with her family, and drop you like a hot potato.
DominicB   
11 Dec 2016
Law / Temporary Residence card - Karta pobytu (negative result) [3]

Consult a lawyer, or a fortune teller. Nobody else can tell you that.

is it possible to appeal?

Not really, unless you can prove that the office for foreigners did not act in accordance with the law, and that's very difficult to do. Without a legal basis, your appeal will not be accepted for review, and you will have to return to your own country. You can't appeal simply on the basis that you didn't like the decision. Nobody cares what you like, or don't like. You have to have a credible and plausible legal reason.
DominicB   
8 Dec 2016
Love / My Polish Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Very Suddenly, Did She Use Me? [23]

@LifeGoesOn

There are plenty of fish in the sea, and this one isn't going to end up on the floorboards of your boat, so move on and find someone else. Or not and just concentrate on school. I don't think you're ready for a serious relationship yet. You have a lot of silly romantic ideas that you'll have to get rid of before you are. Which is normal because you're still a kid. Practice by playing the field for a few years and leaning the rules. But mostly, concentrate on your studies. Having to pull an 18 hour marathon to catch up with your school work is a bad sign that you are preoccupied with non-essential matters.
DominicB   
6 Dec 2016
Life / Electricity, water, gas charge in Warsaw, Poland. [17]

@Cerasella

The biggest red flag is YOU, the renter, being too lazy, shy or stupid to find a reliable OLDER experienced native Pole to check out the apartment and negotiate with the landlord on your behalf. All the tales of woe you read here are from naive foreigners who don't speak Polish and do not have the slightest clue how to interpret and ad or contract. Some of them didn't actually get ripped off. They just thought they did because of their own ignorance.

We are all ignorant about some things, even in our own countries. The solution is to find someone knowledgeable to help you make decisions in areas in which you are ignorant. For example, I know jack $hit about cars. I would never buy a car without the help of someone who did know a lot more, even in my own hometown.

Why foreigners think that they are going to be able to find and rent an apartment without a hitch without the help of a knowledgeable and experienced OLDER local is beyond me. There will always be someone at your place of work or your school who can help. Of course, they should be properly compensated for their efforts.
DominicB   
5 Dec 2016
Genealogy / Genealogy help with the surname Plis/Ples/Pless [31]

@Chemikiem
An example I like to use is one I encountered while working in a small town in the Midwest. The original surname ***** was spelled give different ways by different branches of the family: Kunz, Kunce, Koons, Coons and Coontz. The last three I could see; they wanted to to change the pronunciation for obvious reasons. The second one, though, was obviously not well thought out.

Stupid censor. The original name was spelled K u n t z
DominicB   
5 Dec 2016
Study / Is Poland a good Place for quality education? [19]

@Bhaumik02

It would be a waste of time and money for you, so it would not be worth it and it would not be valuable. Forget about studying in Poland.

Your English is also not good enough to study in English, so it would be best to study in your own country in your own language.
DominicB   
5 Dec 2016
Genealogy / Genealogy help with the surname Plis/Ples/Pless [31]

with genealogy it's never worth taking anything for granted.

Indeed. Speculation can lead you up blind alleys. What matters is what can be documented.
DominicB   
5 Dec 2016
Genealogy / Genealogy help with the surname Plis/Ples/Pless [31]

I would say that this should be Kubiński.

More likely to be Czubiński, based on the information given.

Ciubiński also exists, but is very, very rare, and most likely a rare spelling of Czubiński limited to a single, very small family.
DominicB   
5 Dec 2016
Study / Is Poland a good Place for quality education? [19]

@Bhaumik02

Polish is a very difficult language that takes years of hard work to learn to the level that you could study in it. You will not be able to study in the Polish language, so coming to Poland to study management would be a waste of time and money.

And don't bother studying something useless like management. Pick a math-intensive field like the ones I mentioned above.
DominicB   
5 Dec 2016
Study / Is Poland a good Place for quality education? [19]

@Bhaumik02

Getting a degree in management from anywhere but a top school is a waste of time, and won't help you get a job, whether in Poland, India or elsewhere. Without speaking Polish well and being able to study in Polish with ease, you will have to take a course in English, and those courses are of very low quality. Future employers are unlikely to be impressed.

Study a useful subject with lots of math, like econometrics, financial engineering, financial mathematics or actuarial science. Non-math degrees in business-related fields are useful only if they come from the best schools.

Sorry, but studying an English language course in management in Poland would be a poor investment.
DominicB   
3 Dec 2016
Genealogy / Genealogy help with the surname Plis/Ples/Pless [31]

@wasanah2

I'm originally from Dupont and I know the name Plis, though I don't know any of them personally. A good number of the Poles who came to Dupont came from the area of Kolbuszowa, which is why your post struck my eye. Have you tried contacting the Plis's who still live in Dupont? One of them might have done some research that could help you.
DominicB   
2 Dec 2016
Work / Information about jobs for Indian students in Poland [286]

@dolnoslask

Not a chance. A van isn't cheap, especially one fitted out for cooking. He would never be granted a business license and can only work during the summer months on a student visa. Like all food-based businesses, it would take years to realize a positive return on investment.
DominicB   
2 Dec 2016
Work / Information about jobs for Indian students in Poland [286]

@aamer1234

There's zero chance that you will get a part-time job in Poland. If you cannot pay for 100% of your tuition and living expenses in Poland from your own savings or get all of the money from your family, then Poland is not a realistic option for you. Make your plans on the very safe assumption that you will never be able to earn even a single penny during your stay in Poland.
DominicB   
1 Dec 2016
Real Estate / How to rent a bedroom in Poland? [9]

@sophiedeau

First of all, Wrocław is one of the more expensive cities in Poland, right up with there with Warsaw and Kraków. Don't expect to find deals in Wrocław.

A small room in a cheap student apartment will cost you about 500 to 700 PLN all inclusive. A larger room in a better apartment can well cost you about 900 PLN all inclusive.

Deposit is whatever the one who is renting the room says it is. Take it or leave it. Twice the monthly rent is not unreasonable.

The best way to find a good room at a good price is, of course, word of mouth, that is, by asking friends. Otherwise, you will have to rely on Gumtree or Stancja dla studenta.

If you don't speak Polish, you will probably not be able to find a room by yourself. You will need the assistance of a Polish speaker. All of the ads are in Polish, and make sense only to a person who is Polish or has live there for some time.
DominicB   
28 Nov 2016
USA, Canada / Bringing girlfriend to USA to work. Fiancee Visa Questions. [9]

@treeman

Ask at the US embassy. They'll tell you what is and is not possible. No point in talking to a lawyer until you know what's possible.

I wouldn't hold my breath. As far as the embassy is concerned, your girlfriend and her kid are no one to you until you get married.
DominicB   
28 Nov 2016
Law / Polish Visa, Work Permit, Residency for Spouse of Polish Citizen [69]

@sebastian rubin

You realize that you left out a lot of important information, like where you are from, what is your status in the UK, whether you speak Polish, whether you intend to work in Poland, and where you plan on living in Poland?

Briefly, I wouldn't wish living in close quarters with a Polish mother-in-law on a dog, especially if you do not speak Polish. It sounds like a recipe for disaster. You will be socially isolated and totally dependent on your husband and his family, and you will feel trapped. If you and your husband cannot afford your own apartment at some distance from his parents, then it would be foolish to go.
DominicB   
27 Nov 2016
Work / Salary and cost of living information - Krakow [257]

@KN2

You're forgetting about clothing, baby supplies, baby sitter and entertainment. This last is important so that your spouse does not go crazy from isolation. You do have to spend money to keep your spouse from feeling that they are in prison.

A foreigner that does not speak the language cannot live as cheaply as a native Pole can. You have to pay a "foreigner tax" for not being able to communicate effectively, not knowing how the local culture works, and not having an extensive network of family and friends to help you.

And, of course, you have to deduct the cost of relocating to and from Poland, getting your residency permits, and furnishing your apartment from your earnings, as well as any trips to and from you home country. Divide the total costs by 12 and deduct it from your monthly income.

Your costs are going to be more like 6000 if you are frugal. Add travel and that cuts down significantly on your savings. Saving 4000 PLN a month is unrealistic, especially if you're thinking of traveling in Western Europe. To achieve that, you would have to sacrifice a lot.

If saving money or paying off debts is a major priority, then Poland is not the country to come to. The wages are too low for that, and the cost of living for a foreigner are too high. Savings potential is very low.

You would be lucky indeed to have 5000 USD in your savings account at the end of your first year if you live the lifestyle you describe, a tiny fraction of what you would be able to save in the richer countries of Western Europe or the English speaking countries.

If you were single, I would say go for it. The adventure would do you good. With a spouse and kid in tow, though, I say focus on finding work in a richer country with a higher savings potential than Poland.
DominicB   
25 Nov 2016
Language / Difficult verb pairs in the Polish Language; iść-chodzić, jechać-jeździć [34]

Take it this way the first is an action. The second is a habit

Highly simplified, but sort of gets the larger idea across:-)

A bit too simplified. The first one is a single one-time action currently in progress and directed toward a goal that will end at a unique point of time in the future. When it's finished, the past action would be expressed using the perfective (if successful).

The second is anything else taking place at or around the present time that doesn't fit the above rule, whether it is a habit or a single one-time occurrence. When it's finished, the past action would be expressed using the imperfective.

If you are walking to the store, then use the first.

If you are just walking around with no apparent goal or terminus, then use the second, even though you would use progressive/continuous in English.
DominicB   
25 Nov 2016
Work / IT Infrastructure Engineer Expected Salary in Poland [10]

I have to agree with Terri that a year in Poland is unlikely to further the career goals of an American IT engineer, UNLESS they are sent to Poland by their employer, or they speak Polish well enough to do some heavy-duty networking.

Like I said above, treat it as a working vacation, not as a wise career move.

Another part of the opportunity cost that has to be taken into account is being cut off from effective networking in the States. While that might not actually set you back much, it will prevent you from progressing during the year you are here. It would be a hiatus. Whether it is worth it or not depends on what you hope to gain from living and working in Poland. If it is career advancement or savings, then it would probably be best to forget about it. If it's only fun and adventure, go for it if you think you can afford it.

Future employers in the States will probably view it as a hiatus and might ask for an explanation, as Terri said. They probably won't hold it against you, but it is unlikely to help, either.
DominicB   
25 Nov 2016
Work / IT Infrastructure Engineer Expected Salary in Poland [10]

@grady

First of all, I'm assuming that you are single,

If so, then the only financial figure that matters when you take a stint abroad is savings potential in dollars. Wages and cost of living are not important in and of themselves except in relation to savings potential.

The cost of opportunity then is the loss of savings you would incur in coming to Poland versus working in the States. While the decrease in wages may seem acceptable to you, you really have to calculate the decrease in savings, which is going to be more drastic.

Taxes are more like a third of total income.

You'll be more than able to live comfortably and travel, but you're not going to be able to save up near as much as you could in the States. You will have to decide for yourself whether the net loss in savings is worth your while. Don't forget to include the losses associated with social security and pension funds.

There are plenty of threads on here about cost of living in Poland. Most pertain to young entry level workers, so you'll have to up those figures to match the lifestyle of a senior IT specialist. A car will be a significant expense that you can probably do without.

Consider it a working vacation than a wise career move. The change in scenery may do you well enough to offset the financial loss. The networking you do may pay off in the future. But if savings is an important factor for you, then be prepared to take a major hit.
DominicB   
23 Nov 2016
Language / Difficult verb pairs in the Polish Language; iść-chodzić, jechać-jeździć [34]

If he is a beginner, your answer is too complex

they were apparently much too complex.

The OP's questions require a rather complex answer, which is why I referred him to Swan. Any simplified answer will fall short of the mark. If he is a beginner, he has bigger fish to fry for the time being, and is wasting his time trying to understand something that is inappropriate for his level. I assumed, though, that he is not a beginner.