Love / Don't know whether she loves me or not ? [64]


Because I have seen so many cases of con artists ripping off the naive.
In your case, once you are absolutely sure she is real, my final advice is this: make sure it's mutual. Show interest and back off. Do not call or email for a week and see what happens. Women love attention and, normally, she would be upset being ignored if she wants to be pursued. If she does not come back with "where have you been last week", it's over and you should move on. The last thing you want to do is be a pest.

USA, Canada / What I like about Poland unlike America [38]


So this is the best you can do in response to a very reasonable post?
Of course, he is right. The US has the highest number of prisoners even in absolute numbers. Recidivism rate is legendary. Prisons are run by the inmates. They serve as schools where criminals learn how to be better criminals after release. Our death penalty is a joke with some spending 30 years before execution. California has it but does not execute but the cost of appeals is still there and borne by the taxpayers. And I am just warming up...

Even the Latino scum on the way to the US filed suit claiming that their 5th Amendment rights are violated. If that is not insanity I don' t know what is.

The OP is just scratching the surface and deserves better that what he got so far.

Love / Don't know whether she loves me or not ? [64]


Did you call her AND actually speak to her?


You mean there is no doubt that she is not fake? Right?
Did she ask you for money?
Did she give you any sob stories about herself or her "loved ones"?

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]

So do spies. Becoming a lobbyist after serving in the US government in any capacity should be a felony. Just like revealing the name of a CIA agent.

News / "It's too late for Germany" (but not for Poland) [1798]


As a smart guy that you are you should know by now that the surest way to end a debate is by throwing God into it.

Love / Don't know whether she loves me or not ? [64]


Go easy in small steps just in case she is for real. You don't want to start showing that you don't trust her. Keep in mind that she is "the love of your life".

1: Ask for her phone number.
2. Ask her for a short video of her saying something in context of your relationship. Like, tell her that tomorrow is your mom's birthday and ask her to wish her "happy birthday, Ms XXX." Your "mom will be so deeply touched". Remember to ask for something specific to be part of that video that applies only to you so "she" will not pick it up from the internet.

Get back here after that and tell us how it went. If it's a crook, you will not get past Step 1. If you get that phone number, call her. It could still be a fake even if you hear a female voice, so Step 2 is a must.

Just one more thing for now...
Never pay any attention to the advice that tells you to "trust your feelings".
Being in love is a form of mental disorder with "feelings" replacing common sense. There are thousands of people in the US who parted literally with all they had and some only because they "trusted their feelings" after they met "the love of my life" on the internet. I researched this subject thoroughly for my book on this and other subjects like that.

Love / Don't know whether she loves me or not ? [64]

Yes. Plus living together to have a chance to observe that person under all circumstances, including how they handle disagreement, intoxication, personal hygiene, sex, and everything else.

Texting is the favorite tool liars use to play games, at best, or to rip off the naive suckers, at the worst. There is no substitute for a live, face-to-face meeting. Crooks avoid even phone conversations. The second the other person asks for money for any reason it's a ripoff.

Love / Don't know whether she loves me or not ? [64]


How do you know "she" is not a Nigerian crook?

Love / Don't know whether she loves me or not ? [64]

Is this thread a joke? Falling in love with the letters on the PC monitor? Is somebody insane here?

Love / Don't know whether she loves me or not ? [64]

Assume she is lying and you will be fine. Later, you can even marry her, but always remember that their relationship with the truth is complicated.

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]

You are correct. I should have used that term.

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]


I have no problem with consultants. I have a problem with the who*es - the ex-politicians turn "consultants" peddling influence to the benefit of our enemies like China and to the detriment of the US or the American companies.

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]


I think you missed my point. I wrote "consultants", not consultants, for a reason. Not the same thing.

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]

Your suggested subjectivity can explain only so much and go only so far. There are objective measures. We already discussed that so I will show a remarkable retrain and will not repeat it.

News / "It's too late for Germany" (but not for Poland) [1798]

They "welcome" refugees as long as those refugees live somewhere else and as long as the welcoming morons don't get the invoice for the services rendered to said refugees, but pay they will. They are just too stupid or too pc, which is the same thing, to think about.

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]


...which the US forfeited at the altar of individual greed as exemplified by the political wh***s turn "consultants" aiding and abetting our trading enemies. In China, that would be treason. As far as I know and hope, they execute traitors.

Love / Polish girl confusing me [22]


There is falling in love, being in love and loving. Never make any decisions when you are in the first phase - a form of mental disorder for which the only cure is time or living together and seeing everything, warts and all.

News / "It's too late for Germany" (but not for Poland) [1798]

I didn't catch the sarcasm first, until that "soo".
You are so right. That was a short "so".

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]

You forgot commercial theft, military espionage, and their protectionist practices, which, of course, would be called "trade wars" if practiced by the US.

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]


If they were smart they would be armed and would kill every European before the task became too hard. In that contest, the smart ones won.

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]

AIDS is also an African invention. Thanks so much.

News / "It's too late for Germany" (but not for Poland) [1798]


That is why liberals love running to the courts to get what they could never, ever get any other way, especially referendums.

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]


No, I am not. Your prison is political correctness.
Try this. Imagine that tomorrow you wake up in a world (world #1) where every single thing invented or created by the blacks is gone.
Now, do the same assuming that every single thing invented or created by the whites is gone. That would be world #2.
Question: which world - 1 or 2 - do YOU think would the 7 billion people alive today choose?
Easy, yes/no question, so no essays please. My answer: #1.

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]


OK, since nothing is ever equal, races included, which one accomplished the most from day one till today?

Life / Political correctness in Poland [210]

...and only after they stole from us and after we foolishly shipped our manufacturing to them and after we gave them access to our markets while they denied theirs to us and after we put the Japs and the Koreans on our military welfare. Other than that, Asians are great.

News / "It's too late for Germany" (but not for Poland) [1798]

And that is why I don't care about them, the rapists and the raped. You want that Muslim garbage? Deal with it.
In fact, I want more rapes until there is an uprising. A**holes.

News / "It's too late for Germany" (but not for Poland) [1798]


I wonder if her daddy still feels that Germany has to repent and open its heart ...

Love / Polish girl confusing me [22]

Rule One in men-women situations: Never try to talk yourself into a relationship. If you ever think or say, I love her, but...give it up immediately.

Love / Polish girl confusing me [22]


Bingo!
Later, she will tell you that you eat more, so let's adjust accordingly what we save in our separate bank accounts.
Run, baby, run!

Love / Polish girl confusing me [22]

Charge her for the hugs, $10 per hug. That should be about equal to your mortgage co-pay.