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Joined: 18 Dec 2013 / Female ♀
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Uglywoman   
19 Dec 2013
Love / Rejected - Rafal thought I was ugly? [85]

You're very kind English. Thank you so much for your words but at the moment I cannot believe that I am not ugly :/
Uglywoman   
19 Dec 2013
Love / Rejected - Rafal thought I was ugly? [85]

I don't think he is gay because he asked me if I wanted to watch a movie with him back in the day. (Maybe he thought I am pretty then because he was drunk.) It was a group activity, but I thought maybe he fancies me then *.*

Actually when I spoke to Rafał on the phone, I explained that I had been looking for him and thinking about him, and he asked me if I want to know about £ukasz, but I said no, I want to talk to you. So in fact I was talking in a platonic way.
Uglywoman   
19 Dec 2013
Love / Rejected - Rafal thought I was ugly? [85]

Thanks English, I am nervous to post my photo here because I know you guys will laugh at me but here you go :'(


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Uglywoman   
19 Dec 2013
Love / Rejected - Rafal thought I was ugly? [85]

Well I just feel really upset that Rafał rejected me and I feel like it's because of my looks because he had 1.5 weeks to get back to me with his e-mail address. I feel like he had a phone but he just didn't want to talk to me. Being ugly sucks so bad.
Uglywoman   
19 Dec 2013
Love / Rejected - Rafal thought I was ugly? [85]

Ah thank you for explaining. Rafał is usually arrested for being drunk and disorderly or for getting into fights. I see what you are saying. I have been arrested twice myself. I stabbed one of my ex-boyfriends, who was also named Rafał. The thing about Rafał (not my ex-boyfriend) is that despite his issues, he has a beautiful soul. Rafał introduced himself to me one day and that was very nice and friendly of him. Also, he did not talk to me in a disrespectful manner. He is kind to his friends and does not take himself too seriously. He is incredibly smart because he knows how to speak English. I would absolutely love to sit with Rafał in the park or eat lunch/dinner with him. I wrote him a very beautiful letter but of course he never received the letter since he didn't want to talk to me. Here is the letter:

Ja pamiętam, kiedy poznałam cię po raz pierwszy. Staliśmy w kolejce na Cobbold Road. Ty byłeś przede mną. Ty pytałeś o mnie. Byłam nieśmiała, ale pomyślałam, "Ojej, on jest grzeczny i życzliwy." Jesteś niezapomniany.

Potem ty zapytałeś mnie, czy chciałam iść do kina z tobą. Ale £ukasz czekał na mnie.

Ty często byłeś w niebieskiej kurtce i byłeś wysoki. Czasami też miałeś czapkę. Zauważyłam, że ty raz zgoliłeś owłosienie z głowy.

W jakąś sobotę my byliśmy wszyscy na Ladbroke Grove. Ty i brat Bartka zostaliście zaaresztowane, bo zakonnicy rozgniewały się na was. Jesteś śmieszny!

Też pamiętam, że ty, £ukasz, i ja spacerowaliśmy na Hammersmith Road, bo wy chcieliście ukraść derkę od hotelu.
Raz ty i brat Bartka spacerowaliście na Uxbridge Road. Zapytałam, czy pójdziecie do Ladbroke Grove.

Zobaczyłam cię i innych przyjaciól, których kocham, na wideo. Ucieszyłam się ogromnie was zobaczyć - jestem pewna, że jesteś bardzo pięknym człowiekiem, chociaż nie znałam cię dobrze i często przypomniłam sobie o tobą, żałując, że nie rozmawialiśmy bardziej.
Uglywoman   
19 Dec 2013
Love / Rejected - Rafal thought I was ugly? [85]

What's a chav? Rafał was homeless at the time so he wore free clothing. He is a very modest and humble guy who does not mind not wearing the most up-to-date things. He is not prideful at all. I know he is not dating someone because he is looking for a job and most women that I know do not like to date a man who does not make at least as much money as them. Also, he has a long arrest record and most women do not like that as well.
Uglywoman   
19 Dec 2013
Love / Rejected - Rafal thought I was ugly? [85]

Thank you, sigh, I thought Rafał was a polite, respectful, kind, thoughtful, modest, and down-to-earth guy. I feel like such an ugly loser now.


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Uglywoman   
19 Dec 2013
Love / Rejected - Rafal thought I was ugly? [85]

I knew this guy named Rafał when I was living in London. The first time that I spoke to him, he introduced himself and was friendly and polite. Another time, he asked me if I wanted to watch a movie with him. I hesitated because I had just started dating my (ex) boyfriend, £ukasz. Another time, I ran into Rafał and a mutual friend and asked them if they were going to Ladbroke Grove. After that sometimes £ukasz and I ran into him and they had a quick conversation but we didn't talk. I felt kind of awkward because he may have been asking me out about the movie (though it would have been a group thing) and I assumed he felt the same way or felt like he shouldn't talk to his friend's girlfriend.

I had been thinking about Rafał since leaving England in April 2012 and finally decided to contact him. I got in touch with someone, Bruce, to ask about him, and he contacted me saying he had run into Rafał, so I spoke to Rafał on Bruce's phone. He said he didn't have a phone but that he would make an e-mail address and give it to Bruce the following day. In fact Bruce told me that he had given Rafał my e-mail as well.

However Bruce has not heard from Rafał although Rafał knows where to find him (and not vice versa). I feel like he lied about having a phone (it's true he did not have a phone when I was in the UK, but he was working sometimes in the last year, so you'd think his boss - construction - would call him sometimes) and e-mail in order to avoid talking to me. When Bruce ran into him, he was looking for work. It's possible he did not find work yet and was drinking with friends or got arrested after drinking and committing some crimes, but it would seem that his mentality is different now that he's looking for work, which would suggest that he no longer drinks as much and gets into trouble.

I feel like maybe Rafał thought I was ugly and am hoping for some thoughts....thanks in advance :)