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I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]
1) We both know that a court in Egypt, a muslim country, with the judge being most likely male, will not choose to enforce a ruling of a court in Poland that was issued on behalf of some female Polish non-muslim "sharmouta" if it would harm a God-fearing muslim male, so let's stop beating about the bush.
Egyptian guys have a downright bad reputation in Poland at the moment ( please see the documentary I linked up ) and the girl probably needs a divorce ruling obtained quickly in which a Polish judge will say that she's a pure virgin without a fault, so she can placate some Polish sucker willing to take her in after her x years of "vacation" in Egypt.
2)
Yes. He will have to pay child support regardless.
Only if he wants to, the ruling of a Polish court isn't IMO enforceable in Egypt.
3)
in riyath
Do you mean Riyadh, the capital of Saudi Arabia? ( not that it changes anything, the Kingdom is even more pro-muslim and anti-female than Egypt ).
4)
she stops going behind his back and come with some sly documents and threats.
I'm sorry, but filing an appropriate petition in a court of law is a perfectly proper solution in terms of dissolving a marriage and she can't be viewed as a backstabbing person if she's just doing that. It is called protecting one's rights and there's nothing dastardly about it.
5)
then had an affair with a polish guy that's why he had to divorce her,
I find it hard to believe, since the number of Polish guys in Egypt and in Riyadh, S.A. is negligible and Polish girls who go for Arabic blokes usually consider Polish guys chimpanzees not worthy of their attention.
But ok, it is his story and let's assume it is true.
6)
for a three years solid he hasn't stopped supporting her financialy because of the children he loves most...
He's not doing anyone a favour by paying child support, but ok, it does put him in a favorable light when compared to most Egyptian guys who "broke off their ties" with their Polish women.
7)
he has already issued the divorce and is sending it to the court he is meant to attend on february this year.
You mean the Egyptian divorce? He should obtain in a lot quicker then she obtains divorce in Poland, but whether a Polish court will honor such a ruling is anyone's guess, methinks the answer is "no".
8)
Now is he really liable by Polish court to sustain her financially and supply a place for her and the kids though he hasn't lived with them for three years?
The Polish court may issue a ruling for him to sustain her financially if he's found to be the solely guilty party in a divorce case.
Notice that I wrote her, as I'm now referring to a ruling in which he's supposed to pay alimony for: a) the children and b) his former wife. That's what the girl's gunning for, but I think her true intentions fall along the lines I described in 1) above.
But I don't think he has to worry even if such a verdict is reached, provided he makes his money in Egypt ( or Riyadh, Saudi Arabia ), because a ruling from the Polish court can only be used as toilet paper in those parts.
If he has assets in Europe she might go after them, but that's pretty much it.
Harry -
Alternatively we can just have him roundly whipped until he buys his own ticket.
Splendid idea.