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Midas   
17 Jan 2012
Love / Problem with a brutal American guy (now I live in Poland) [88]

And again Jews mysteriously slither their way into the author's incoherent ramblings.

I'll repeat myself - this is all just a bunch of BS and the message that is supposed to stay in the head of the readers is "Jews/American Jews are baaaaaaad".
Midas   
16 Jan 2012
Real Estate / Foreign investor, properties in Poland, walk away from mortgages? [209]

LOL ! What do you think then would happen with this debt ? Would it disappear ? No really, someone else would have to pay it back. Please tell me why others should pay back debts, which are not their own ?

Americans are used to solving the issues that are connected with mortgages that are "under the water" ( price of property < amount of credit ) by way of mailing the deed and the keys to the house to the bank and walking away from the deal.

I wouldn't be surprised if U.S. courts actually approved of that solution, based on the idea that in every credit deal the bank is the stronger party ( a legal notion that is completely alien for Eastern European courts and judges ).

I am actually looking for someone that would help me to get out of this loan

Read what I wrote earlier. Not going to happen.

Are you forgetting the protests against food shortages and communism or are these other little facts that you like to leave out of your posts.

Polish people and people in Eastern Europe in general are VERY unlikely to mass-protest, it was really a lot of work put in by the Reagan administration back in the 1980's that they went on mass strikes and ultimately brought down communism.
Midas   
16 Jan 2012
Love / Problem with a brutal American guy (now I live in Poland) [88]

This is a false dichotomy. Circumspect readers will "walk away" with neither a gross anti-Semitic generalization nor a patronizing dismissal of the OP.

Because you said so, right.

I am a grown-up woman.

Start acting like one. Also see a doctor.
Midas   
15 Jan 2012
Love / Problem with a brutal American guy (now I live in Poland) [88]

F-Stop you do realize that there are Jewish-Americans who do have a hatred of Poland because of the Holocaust Industry

And there are Polish people in Poland who think Jedwabne was the best thing since sliced bread.

So what?

I'm not a big fan of "pay me 'cause I'm Jewish".

or anti-jewish

He/she keeps changing the story ( notice the human trafficking bit has been gone for quite some time now after people commented it was ridiculous ) which becomes less and less coherent every time it is repeated until the only thing that is supposed to be left for memory is the "message" ( in this case: "Jews/American Jews are evil ).

Nothing new, really.
Midas   
15 Jan 2012
Love / Problem with a brutal American guy (now I live in Poland) [88]

every Jew has a problem with Holocaust... How did he relate to you, exactly?

Well, obviously he blamed her for the Holocaust, hence the whole mess...

This thread has seriously no value whatsoever, it is full of incoherent ramblings and accusations that, as we now know, have been investigated by the Police and no criminal behaviour was found.

Either it is one of those threads in which you're supposed to forget everything quickly and just walk away with one bit of information ( in this case that Jewish/Jewish-American guys are pure evil and involved in human trafficking ) or the girl has serious paranoia.
Midas   
15 Jan 2012
Love / Problem with a brutal American guy (now I live in Poland) [88]

The fact that he was a Jew, or American, is incidental.

Tell you what, you go write a statement along the lines of "Since he was African-American I'm sure he was out to use me and possibly profit off me by selling me to a white slavery ring" on African-Americanforums.org and let me know how that works out for you.
Midas   
15 Jan 2012
Love / Problem with a brutal American guy (now I live in Poland) [88]

I'm not the only person who finds the thread odd, to say the least and I find it offensive that in the deleted part the threadstarter chose to say the guy's doing stuff because he's a Jew.

You on the other hand think it is a great time to explore various evil deeds of Jewish people.

Sorry, I refuse to be drawn into this discussion, so go sweetheart someone else.
Midas   
15 Jan 2012
Work / What job can I find if I just finish Polish preparatory courses? [5]

There are Polish people out there who speak 4 languages fluently, have double M.A.'s and are unable to secure employment in Polish academia because their PhD's ( awarded by Polish institutions ) aren't good enough or the university only hires cousins of active faculty.

You're daydreaming.
Midas   
15 Jan 2012
Love / Problem with a brutal American guy (now I live in Poland) [88]

1. I really think this is, at best, some kind of a tug-of-war between a hoodie Jewish playboy and his former Polish girl-toy. At worst this is a bullshit thread or an antisemitic thread ( in the deleted parts the "victim" makes references to the guy being Jewish and even claims that's probably the reason why he'd use her is his nationality ).

If the guy is a criminal - by all means inform the Police.

If you informed them, they ran an investigation and nothing came of it then perhaps you're not the Sherlock Holmes you thought you were and it is time to let the matter go.

2.

I called the Police - I have the number to the detective in New Jersey who was investigating this case.
No-one has got back to me with more details, the police officer in Stamford is more than impolite and rude - treating me like "you don't come from the same rank as him" ..

Madam, if your spoken English is as bad as Your written one you may have misunderstood the officer.

Also, if you called for the umpteenth time asking "Is he in jail yet?" they might have gotten slightly miffed, given the whole thing feels like a domestic.

3.

But he is very heavy on drinking and sometimes talks rubbish and I could see he was sort of "trained" to make women his or others
( it could be the group of people ) the slaves, the victims ...
No, he is white American, works as the engineer, quite intelligent and not stupid but used to get people wrong .. he likes it. For me - it's sick and brutish, as I mentioned.

And based on the fact that he does drink and is "a brute" you informed the Police that he might be a human trafficker?

You're off your rocker.

4.

You should report the weirdo to Interpole and the FBI

You left out the KGB and the Somalian Warlords.

5. 1jola

One could be cynical and claim that it was Hitler that halted Polish-Jewish girls being sold into prostitution by Polish-Jewish gangsters...for 80 years.

Then that "one" would be a complete antisemite, of course, hardly worth spitting on.
Midas   
14 Jan 2012
Love / Problem with a brutal American guy (now I live in Poland) [88]

It's criminal story. It's not fun.

You are seriously over-exaggerating.

If this is a criminal matter, quit bothering us and inform the appropriate Police department.

I have a feeling however that's one of these topics that contain a lot of nonsense and the piece of information everyone is supposed to walk away from is that Jews are evil human traffickers...
Midas   
14 Jan 2012
Life / Why is Prostitution still legal in Poland? [106]

I think most people who aren't aware of what I wrote about Poles and Roman Catholicism earlier on find it odd that a very religious country never even moved to outlaw prostitution in any way, hence the thread.
Midas   
14 Jan 2012
Love / Problem with a brutal American guy (now I live in Poland) [88]

1. Read the other thread ( the posts are in the deleted bin ). He/she removed the most offensive bits from this one ( including the one about human trafficking ). The deleted thread sounded like the guy was trying to send her to a brothel in Queens.

2.

The question is are they perceived as such because they really are, or merely, because they're Polish, Czech or Russian etc.?? Here's where the perpetual native stereotyping comes into play and bogs us all down in the morass of prejudice:-)

The reason why Polish/Czech/Hungarian/Ukrainian/Russian women are "perceived as an easy lay" for foreigners is because a visible number of girls from these countries happen to be an easy lay for foreigners, no need to sugarcoat it.

Not the whole population, obviously, but most of the time you don't see Italian or Dutch women ready to **** at the drop of a hat when they hear a foreign language.
Midas   
14 Jan 2012
Love / Problem with a brutal American guy (now I live in Poland) [88]

who see, especially Eastern European, women as little more than an easy lay.

Which, coincidentally, has nothing to do with roughly 25%-30% of Eastern European women actually being an easy lay for most British/American guys, rotfl.

Sounds to me anyway like simply a culture clash!

Threadstarter has started 2 topics pertaining to thee same problem, in the other one ( it already got deleted ) she/he ( I seriously doubt the topic isn't fake ) claimed that the man was a "human trafficker", that she/he was afraid of him since he sent menacing messages and so forth.

Then she/he went on to write that the guy was probably out to take advantage of him/her criminally, because the guy was Jewish.

Now here we got him/her again, under new nickname ( "Found Benek" ).

This post is a fake.
Midas   
13 Jan 2012
Life / Why is Prostitution still legal in Poland? [106]

I personally found it rather annoying, some of these girls were notoriously hard to shake off if they knew you had cold hard cash. Also, I knew for a fact that 99% of them "cooperated" with the SB ( Political Police ), so everyone that really really just had to "help" a foreigner by providing access to a prostitute naturally came under suspicion. Usually for a good reason.

Other than that it made me a bit sad sometimes, all these women ( quite often - university graduates ) whoring themselves out like that and getting treated like cheap trash by sometimes not-too-bright expats for a few dollars. Some of them, as someone pointed out already, were married, sometimes even with children and still being a "dollar" prostitute on the weekends was their main source of pride ( "I'm so pretty they pay for me IN DOLLARS" ) and a life's accomplishment. A truly sad state of affairs, it wasn't just a "Polish" thing though, it took place in the whole Eastern Bloc.

Now apart from "bladzie" there was also an issue most expats who did business in Poland encountered more than once in the 1980's --> regular ( by that I mean "non-prostitutes" ) Polish women falling head over heels over guys who had:

a) dollars in their pockets,

b) foreign passports and thus an ability to "get them out of this hell-hole".

Every foreigner who came to Poland often enough in the 1980's most likely encountered more than one Polish woman ( some married, some with children, some with "responsible" jobs - doctors, journalists, etc. ) who told him in no uncertain terms that she would completely drop everything they had ( kids included ) in Poland and run off with him if he was only willing, along with the usual bullshit about what a great wife she'd make based on the virtue of being Polish.

Some of these girls, again, had acute problems with taking "no" for an answer even if the object of their "affections" was happily married.

I had that happen to me more than once in the 1980's, I think I described a bit where I dumped one such girl on a friendly Swede somewhere on the forum.

So in my opinion it was actually more sad than glorious, but to each his own, if having women worship you on their knees because you had a few dollars and a foreign passport or being neck-deep in prozzers for 30 dollars worth of money are your definition of glorious, then yes, you missed out on some glory days.
Midas   
13 Jan 2012
Life / Why is Prostitution still legal in Poland? [106]

Maybe you studied at a provincial university.

Warsaw, Cracow, Tri-City and Lodz --> they were always around. Especially visible in Lodz where the University taught Polish for beginners to all foreign students.
Midas   
13 Jan 2012
Life / Why is Prostitution still legal in Poland? [106]

That's actually a pretty good topic for a discussion.

As one of the last bastions of the Catholic Church in Poland, how can prostitution still be legal and morally accepted?

Risking a shitstorm over my head I will say that few Poles are religious in a way that makes them actually follow the good book in every day life ( contrast with some Americans, for example ). So many Poles will be token Catholics, whose ties to the Catholic church do not go beyond visiting the church on a Sunday/holiday and paying off the priest for his services ( wedding, etc. ).

So the obvious moral conflict between legal prostitution and Roman Catholicism isn't simply present in the heads of 99% of "Roman Catholic" Poles.

Based on the same "thinking" many Polish Catholic girls don't have the slightest problem with abortion.

80's I have been told many a story of Polish women entertaining Arabs in Warsaw in the aforementioned period, many of them married as well, the husband would turn a blind eye, for a few green backs. Good to see things have moved on, or have they.

It wasn't just the Arabs. In Warsaw in the 1980's "bladzie" ( a word my Polish friend used to describe them back then ) were simply everywhere, every restaurant or club that catered to expats doing business in Warsaw had their own stable of "bladzias" ready to do whatever for a few dollars. Also in every single hotel I visited in Poland at the time there was at least 1 night porter or cleaning lady that suggested, in broken English, that if one wanted fun was just a few dollars away. Of course everyone who was "in" on the thing got a cut from whatever the girl made and still the pro's probably earned more than 1 month of their official Polish salary for 1 night of work, in hard currency too.

Then there were the taxi drivers. Every other time I took a taxi the bloke at the wheel suggested he knows a few girls I'll like and can arrange everything. It got a bit annoying at times.

Regarding the Arabs I heard ( I'm probably not the only one ) the stories about some Libyan or Palestinian students ( there was plenty of them in Poland in the 1980's ) who would offer Polish girls they met at university or in the dorms the magical "one dollar" for a night of ******* and they supposedly found takers.

Prostitution was a HUGE part of the underground Polish economy in the 1980's. A humorous note of warning to anyone who ever used a Polish prostitute in the 1980's - they all had two sets of pimps. One was the gold-chain wearing thug with a knife who made sure no one "bothers" the ladies and the other one had a uniform and worked at the local branch of SB ( Communist political police ). Apart from a free monthly **** the SB guy got all the tidbits about foreigners from the prozzers he had "under" him, so if you used one --> they have it on file somewhere :)

Which leads nicely into it all being proper and legal in Poland up unto this day. Things have supposedly improved in a way that nowadays a woman who owns a mansion, 3 cars and 2 companies in Poland cannot simply claim she got it all from whoring around ( that was supposedly a fire-proof way of avoiding taxation on undisclosed income in Poland in the past ).

But a "kurwa" in Poland is still a holy animal and her trade is steeped in tradition so much it is considered sacred ( bit of sarcasm here ), so I don't see Poland putting any squeeze ( tax or criminal ) on prozzers any time soon.
Midas   
13 Jan 2012
Life / Reaction regarding Pakistanis respected in Poland [54]

u people are sick......and so much jaleous.y u worring from us if u got something to offer.and if we can get job in ur country then thats our intelligence and hard work.so stop being jaleous and start workin hard like ur......and dont be racist.i see to many racists here

Take that race card and shove it up your ass, pakistani boy.

Nobody here is worried about anything other than pakistanis blatantly breaking immigration laws, moving into EU illegaly or by way of a visa scam usually in Poland, Slovakia, Czech Republic, Hungary or some other Eastern European state where immigration offices are manned by incompetent and corrupt officials, then "moving on" to pastures greener --> usually not far away from London town.

And since you'll probably claim visa scams never have anything to do with pakistanis here's HM's government's take on the matter:

ukba.homeoffice.gov.uk/sitecontent/newsarticles/2011/december/79-sham-jail
Midas   
11 Jan 2012
Love / My PL GF wants name on bills, morgage, and business [35]

any advise to me thanks

Find a new girl. Polish if that's your fancy, although the situation might repeat itself then. Polish women are like pebbles on the beach in UK right now anyways.
Midas   
11 Jan 2012
Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]

Thank you Middas,

No problem.

I can just assure you that he would continue money regardless the Polish court would asks him to or not.

Yes, although we both know that at times maintaining friendly relationships after a marriage/stable relationship falls apart is impossible.

I personally think ( which is why I mentioned the prices ) that if she really expects the guy to buy her a flat in Poland ( which can cost more than a house in America these days ) then she's quite simply mad and should see a doctor.

I don't think your "friend" has anything to worry about regarding a possible sentence from the Polish court ( as I mentioned muslim countries and European family courts rarely see eye to eye ), but if he's that worried he probably should meet up with a lawyer in his place of main residence ( Riyadh or Egypt ) and ask about the enforceability of sentences handed down by European courts in his area of main residence.

More likely then not that he'll hear exactly what I wrote here --> that she might get a ruling in Poland which says he's supposed to build her a castle with 5 towers but that still won't mean any public official in Cairo or Riyadh will respect it.
Midas   
10 Jan 2012
Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]

1) We both know that a court in Egypt, a muslim country, with the judge being most likely male, will not choose to enforce a ruling of a court in Poland that was issued on behalf of some female Polish non-muslim "sharmouta" if it would harm a God-fearing muslim male, so let's stop beating about the bush.

Egyptian guys have a downright bad reputation in Poland at the moment ( please see the documentary I linked up ) and the girl probably needs a divorce ruling obtained quickly in which a Polish judge will say that she's a pure virgin without a fault, so she can placate some Polish sucker willing to take her in after her x years of "vacation" in Egypt.

2)

Yes. He will have to pay child support regardless.

Only if he wants to, the ruling of a Polish court isn't IMO enforceable in Egypt.

3)

in riyath

Do you mean Riyadh, the capital of Saudi Arabia? ( not that it changes anything, the Kingdom is even more pro-muslim and anti-female than Egypt ).

4)

she stops going behind his back and come with some sly documents and threats.

I'm sorry, but filing an appropriate petition in a court of law is a perfectly proper solution in terms of dissolving a marriage and she can't be viewed as a backstabbing person if she's just doing that. It is called protecting one's rights and there's nothing dastardly about it.

5)

then had an affair with a polish guy that's why he had to divorce her,

I find it hard to believe, since the number of Polish guys in Egypt and in Riyadh, S.A. is negligible and Polish girls who go for Arabic blokes usually consider Polish guys chimpanzees not worthy of their attention.

But ok, it is his story and let's assume it is true.

6)

for a three years solid he hasn't stopped supporting her financialy because of the children he loves most...

He's not doing anyone a favour by paying child support, but ok, it does put him in a favorable light when compared to most Egyptian guys who "broke off their ties" with their Polish women.

7)

he has already issued the divorce and is sending it to the court he is meant to attend on february this year.

You mean the Egyptian divorce? He should obtain in a lot quicker then she obtains divorce in Poland, but whether a Polish court will honor such a ruling is anyone's guess, methinks the answer is "no".

8)

Now is he really liable by Polish court to sustain her financially and supply a place for her and the kids though he hasn't lived with them for three years?

The Polish court may issue a ruling for him to sustain her financially if he's found to be the solely guilty party in a divorce case.

Notice that I wrote her, as I'm now referring to a ruling in which he's supposed to pay alimony for: a) the children and b) his former wife. That's what the girl's gunning for, but I think her true intentions fall along the lines I described in 1) above.

But I don't think he has to worry even if such a verdict is reached, provided he makes his money in Egypt ( or Riyadh, Saudi Arabia ), because a ruling from the Polish court can only be used as toilet paper in those parts.

If he has assets in Europe she might go after them, but that's pretty much it.

Harry -

Alternatively we can just have him roundly whipped until he buys his own ticket.

Splendid idea.