Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

JustysiaS

Well, it's not really my style. But if a girl is really confident and used to guys kissing her a@@ all the time, a bit of cocky is needed.

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


I believe you. It's just a generalisation of course.

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


That's true. But with Polish girls, I think a guy needs to be extra 'careful' here.

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


It seems you are jumping to conclusions here. I was talking about the whole package, not the looks. You're right, looks aren't that important. I've spoken to lots of women here in relationships with insecure 'pantoflarz'-type guys - they say that stay with them out of fear of being with someone more challenging. They would even admit they feel safe with an insecure guy, because they know he'll let them do whatever they want and will always be waiting at home for them, even if he can never satisfy them. Everyone living in Poland knows this cultural phenomenon. I met a Polish girl in a cafe the other day, and she told me herself that when she goes abroad she can always recognise other Polish girls by looking at their boyfriends LOL I think the cultural differences are interesting. In England and the States etc, I think girls are more attracted to challenging, cooler guys - probably because the culture encourages ambition, and the girls are perhaps bolder.

Btw, I'm not trying to find out how to seduce Pl girls -I'm just writing cause I'm bored at the moment. But if any of you foreign guys are looking for tips, here's one: most Pl girls are afraid of being 'taken advantage of' by foreigners - this is because since the good old days of 1990s to 2002, so many foregners have come over to Poland and given us foreign guys a bad name. So, if u meet a Polish girl here, try to be as humble and warm as you possibly can. Don't come across as too cocky, playboy or cool - that will trigger a negative response immediately and you'll get nowhere (unless the girl is the super-confident type).

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


How does that work? Simple. I'm giving the general opinion. Many guys think they're hot, some complain that although there are a lot of pretty girls, there aren't many classy, stunning-looking ones. People have different opinions.


Thanks for the tip, but I don't think I could deal with all the attention LOL Only joking. Look, I never said it was my opinion. Though I have to say that I don't think I've met any foreigner in Krakow who has not remarked more than once "What is she doing with that loser?" at the sight of a hot girl with an insecure, not very attractive, jealous 'pantoflarz'-type guy who appears to have little going for him.

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

Having lived in Poland for 8 years, and having listened to 1000s of opinions of fellow ex-pats living here, I can summarise the general opinion on Pl girls:

Positive traits: hot, slim, feminine, cheerful, friendly, sweet, smiley, resourceful, considerate, sexy dancers, open-minded

Negative traits: simple, dumb, awful taste in men (unable to recognise a 'loser'), only plain pretty, insecure/too worried about what men think of them, lacking in ambition, lacking wit/sense of humour, slutty, too passive (don't stand up for themselves)

I think that covers everything.