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Teffle   
12 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / The more subtle differences: Ireland/Britain v Poland [310]

odd? why?

Read back, I said why : )

so you go dirty to bed? yuck!

And most poles by your definition therefore go to work dirty! Personal preference and as I said makes more sense from the sex aspect ; )

And don't start telling me that most Poles have showers in the evening and in the morning because I know it's not true!

In fact, a few I know wouldn't necessarily even have a daily shower at all.
Teffle   
12 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / The more subtle differences: Ireland/Britain v Poland [310]

At this point,you are letting the person know he intimidates you, if in Poland stare back.

Aha - so it actually is a challenge then in your opinion?

Nice one. Next time, as an experiment I'll focus a cold-hearted dead man's stare through the feckers and watch them wither ;)
( I can look very intimidating if I want to)
Teffle   
12 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / The more subtle differences: Ireland/Britain v Poland [310]

Depends what exactly you mean.

In Ireland anyway, if it's draught beer - absolutely always a fresh glass, not even discussed.

(I did notice in England however that it wasn't that unusual to have draught refills into the same glass - tended to be among older men though. It was the first time I had seen this)

For bottled beer drunk out of a glass, the barman will always ask you if you want a new glass.

No idea if there is any H&S thinking behind any of this though.
Teffle   
12 Oct 2010
News / Smoking ban in Polish bars and restaurants (AT LAST!) [400]

Don't be too hasty.

We were the pioneers of this 'wonderful' idea - but also in ways of getting around it (kind of)

The law probably isn't going to be exactly the same in Poland as it is in Ireland though I suppose.
Teffle   
12 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / The more subtle differences: Ireland/Britain v Poland [310]

Re staring, yes, I've definitely noticed this.

Where I come from it could potentially get you into a fight to be honest.

It's seen either as excessively nosey, a challenge, or as sexual interest.

I'm sorry but staring is simply rude - end of story. There is no culture that I am aware of in which it is not regarded as rude.
Teffle   
12 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / The more subtle differences: Ireland/Britain v Poland [310]

Have you got used to use one?

Ha ha - yes, that was a little strange for me. Sensible, but strange. It reminded me more of industrial or catering use.

Something else that was commented on by Poles in Ireland was the safety "pull string" for the bathroom light.
Teffle   
12 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / The more subtle differences: Ireland/Britain v Poland [310]

What about covering all windows when it gets a bit darker,

Are you saying that this is common in Ireland & Britain but not in Poland?

I think it's normal anyway - what are curtains for then? : )
Teffle   
12 Oct 2010
Food / Cornish game hens in Poland? [13]

I had never heard of them before

Possibly the same, or at least similar to, pullet, which would be the more typical UK/Irish term I think.
Teffle   
12 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / The more subtle differences: Ireland/Britain v Poland [310]

yeap and hows with that in Ireland/Britain?

What do you mean?

Wash the grime of the day off..rather than sleep in..

What 'grime' is going to get attached to e.g. your knees or back? Your hands and face can be washed whenever.

Depends what way you look at it. For me, showering in the morning has the added benefit of helping you wake up. Also, morning showerers are basically cleaner than all the evening showerers they meet during the day and early evening ; )

Also, it has to be said, assuming most people have sex at night a morning shower makes more sense in many ways.

Anyway, you really think it's not the norm to shower in the morning in the UK? Like I said, I lived there and every single personI encountered did this.

There are plenty in the UK that practice this - what's odd about not walking muck into someones home?

Plenty? really? Maybe some, but I lived in England for four years and never came across it.

I just think it's a bit much - you just make sure you wipe your feet properly, end of. Dogs (who have a lot worse on their paws than the average human shoe I'm sure) can run around peoples houses without wearing little pet slippers so what's the big deal? What's so important about your house - you have a hoover. That's how I feel about it anyway.
Teffle   
11 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / The more subtle differences: Ireland/Britain v Poland [310]

Well if you can easily see in, yes of course. If not, I don't think it matters really.

Another difference for me by the way was beer (lager) not being served cold. Coolish to lukewarm was my experience. At first I thought it was a mistake but it appeared to be the norm.
Teffle   
11 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / The more subtle differences: Ireland/Britain v Poland [310]

They had a habit of sleeping naked with their bedroom door open,

Well that part would be normal for me.

Although the bed is positioned so that you would need to look in and round the corner to see anything.
Teffle   
11 Oct 2010
Language / déjà vu in Polish [23]

Maybe some of the phonetics are ambiguous but

coup d'état like kudeTA

That looks pretty much correct to me.

Mind you, Americans tend to pronounce femme as FEM which is wrong so I wouldn't throw too many stones ; )
Teffle   
11 Oct 2010
Life / Stereotypes: Do Poles believe in fate? [18]

You mean modern day Scots?

Irish too ; )

I'm not remotely superstitious if that's the issue. In fact I go out of my way to do "unlucky" things sometimes. Regarding the notion of fate specifically, it barely registers. Your path is created as far as I'm concerned, not premapped.

But thinking about it, it does seem to be a romantic Eastern European cliché as portrayed in movies - destiny etc.
Teffle   
11 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / The more subtle differences: Ireland/Britain v Poland [310]

For me it was:

Showering in the evening. For me & almost everyone I know, a morning shower is the norm.
I was told that I shower "The French way"

Breakfast as a "proper meal" - ham, gherkins, onions etc etc. I mean it's nice generally but not at that time of the morning - not for me anyway.

Removing shoes when entering houses. This was odd for me.
Teffle   
10 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / Do all Brits take (illegal) drugs? [114]

Ok so I know what's your experience, PF users, but what's your attidute now?

So what is yours now Zeti?
Teffle   
10 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / More honest - Brits of Poles? [9]

In response to the question I can only say what I have observed. The British (and Irish) are more likely to tell "white lies" than Poles.

E.g. "your new hairstyle is really nice" "that meal you cooked was lovely". Poles are a bit more blunt and are less likely to tiptoe around. There are advantages & disadvantages to both.

If there is a difference in terms of "honesty", that's the only one that I can really discern.
Teffle   
9 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / Do all Brits take (illegal) drugs? [114]

Ok so I know what's your experience, PF users, but what's your attidute now?

Very occasionally take a toke. Would do a line if the opportunity presented itself and if I was sure of the quality and the company - but wouldn't bother otherwise. It would need to land on my lap really. That's it. Stopped regularly taking stuff when i was about 30 I guess. Started at about 16, peaked at maybe 22-25.

When I did take stuff, I was probably a bit irresponsible, took risks, put myself in occasional danger etc - but obviously that's all with hindsight. Having said that, wouldn't change any of it.
Teffle   
9 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / Do all Brits take (illegal) drugs? [114]

MDMA has nothing to do with the XTC sold on the street, unfortunately.

Of course, I know what you mean. Maybe I've been a bit lucky in the quality of pills I had though. Worth the money for me anyway ; )
Teffle   
9 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / Do all Brits take (illegal) drugs? [114]

They are just not real ones.

Exactly. Have only taken E about 6 or 7 times but you would know if you had a proper E, definitely. Even one.
Teffle   
9 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / Do all Brits take (illegal) drugs? [114]

I heard that Kennedy was addicted amphetamine user (or something similar)

Many were in those days Zeti - wasn't illegal for ages. You could get it like you can valium these days and it's potential for addiction wasn't fully realised. Wasn't regarded as a big deal.
Teffle   
9 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / Do all Brits take (illegal) drugs? [114]

Don't knock the Buckie ;)

Well a Scot never would eh? ; )

Buckfast abuse/intake/consequences in certain areas in Scotland is supposedly notorious.

Dunno how much of this is Daily Mail (or the Scottish equivalent) hysteria or what though?!

Edit: Just saw your post Zeti - basically sounds much the same as here (and most of western Europe) then.

I find this to be a general difference between Poland and Ireland/Britain and I would not just put it down to old people either.

Not sure what you mean Sean?
Teffle   
9 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / Do all Brits take (illegal) drugs? [114]

Speed is dodgy stuff. We only ever took it when we couldn't afford coke. It's rough and nasty and a bad comedown. If coke is champagne, speed is basically Buckfast ; )

Edit:

I have to say that from all the drugs, grade A cocaine is the best if you get the good stuff

Exactly. And providing you don't go mental, you can get up the next day as if nothing has happened.
Teffle   
9 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / Do all Brits take (illegal) drugs? [114]

I've been reading comments on this forum and noticed that many of you give a hint that taking drugs in your country is common, wide-spread and socially accepted.

So, what about in Poland then - what is your impression?
Teffle   
9 Oct 2010
UK, Ireland / Do all Brits take (illegal) drugs? [114]

I couldn't say how popular it is now as I'm past all that (in my fourth decade) so not very in touch "wiv da kidz" as they say. ; )

However, in the day, it was fairly common - maybe 20% or so of my contempraries regularly smoked, took mushrooms, acid, speed etc. This was in Ireland by the way.

My impression anyway from talking to Poles here is that it was more widespread than in Poland anyway.

socially accepted.

This bit is wrong though.
Teffle   
8 Oct 2010
USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]

while pretending to check the ceiling for the fear of eye contact

I wouldn't be afraid of it - chances are the "poor bugger" wouldn't think twice about giving you the full once over, with a final glare right in the eyes for good measure !
Teffle   
7 Oct 2010
Life / Jehova's witnesses in Poland - how to deal with them? [110]

I don't admire them but neither do feel or show disrespect to them. I am just indifferent to them. On a personal day to day level, the only 'controversy' that presents itself is their refusal to take no for an answer - I realise that persistence in their mission to convert is part of who they are but to be honest, as far as I can see, it annoys nearly everyone.