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ZIMMY   
13 Mar 2010
Love / How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported. [129]

I can use the same argument for all your links.

No madam, you cannot!

If you actually took the time, that is the courage to read some of those studies you would see that they are not politically driven and were researched by a myriad of unrelated professionals. No one ideology or political belief ties them together.

ll you need is some straight crime statistics

Wrong again. As pointed out, men do not officially report being violence victims so in the case of (shameful) domestic battery, the official government figures for men do not reflect the reality that women commit half of all domestic violence.

In several dozen Feibert studies, women themselves report that they batter men so it isn't just men stating it. But stick to the V Day gals who wanted to counter Valentine's Day with a hate day called V Day. You seem comfortable in that cult.

As to murder stats, 75 percent of all murder victims in the U.S. are male and most are killed by other men. It may surprise some that 50 percent of all murders in the U.S. are committed by black Americans and there are unfortunate cultural and societal reasons for that.

In domestic violence murders men are now more apt to kill their partners than women are.
That wasn't the case until the 1980's when the ratio was 50/50. There are reasons for that as well. Women have many outlets of help, shelters and other institutions which help women only. Men do not. Men do not have support structures (unless family and friends are there for them) That's no excuse! Murder is never justified. It is however, a fact.

Nevertheless, even the government reports are not quite right. Women will, much more frequently than men, hire someone, often another male friend to kill their husbands. When this occurs, it is not counted as female domestic murder but as a group crime or sometimes a "couples crime". (U.S. Dept. of Justice "Crime in the United States" Chapter: "Victim Offender Relationship by Race and Sex")

Finally, men who are murdered by poison (women use this means 20 times more frequently than men) are reported to have died from a heart attack. Unless an autopsy is performed such murders go unnoticed.

It's logical to know the 'fuller truths' on a particular subject. Those with an agenda have difficulty with this.
ZIMMY   
13 Mar 2010
Love / Secret meaning..What does it mean when a polish girl touches her nose? [43]

What does it mean when a polish girl touches her nose?

As the great bard once said, it's "much ado about nothing".
Maybe she just had an itch.

(well, I did see one woman tugging on a lone hair on her nose but there is nothing bad to be said about that)
ZIMMY   
13 Mar 2010
Love / How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported. [129]

LOL, yes indeed, your bottom link is from V Day, a misandrist feminist website known for reinterpreting facts. No wonder you prefer your 'female fancy' world to the real one. No wonder you are not budged by violence against male spouses let alone admit to it.

That would inhibit women like you playing the victim card.

Conversely, my link is politically neutral as it gathered objective facts {271 scholarly investigations: 211 empirical studies and 60 reviews}, and here is the corporeal difference - none of those many studies with an aggregate sample size exceeding 365,000 are related to each other or to any political agenda. That's a far cry from the agenda driven V Day feminists which you proudly but shamefully link. Perhaps you don't understand the difference.

....and oh, men don't report being beaten or hit by women anywhere near the frequency that women do, and most posters here inherently understand the cultural reasons for that.

Government agencies like the Justice Department take the given numbers and this official (but inaccurate) information is thus reported. However in professionally gathered studies where they feel less inhibited, men, like the women in the vast Feibert studies feel less inhibited to tell the truth.

You are aware that V Day was started by radical feminists as a counterpart to Valentine's Daywhich celebrates love between men and women.........aren't you?

Yet you use them as a source.

Your first link notes international domestic violence in countries such as Tanzania, etc and it is probably true that women in third world countries are disproportionately mistreated.
ZIMMY   
13 Mar 2010
Love / How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported. [129]

The abuse continues if a woman cannot leave.

Your assumption may only be half true. You left out the very pertinent fact that half of all domestic abuse is initiated by women.
Once again, women like you posit the statement from a skewed, that is, half true perspective. That is a big part of the problem when dealing with the totality of domestic abuse.

divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/male_abuse.htm

men like Zimmy are mad at feminists because they see them as empowering their victims.

This is tired, cliched, stale repartee right out of the feminist studies classroom. Hopefully, politically correct and overused words like "empowering" will soon die a natural death.

Such feminist cookie-cutter responses must even be tiring to those who repeatedly use them.
ZIMMY   
12 Mar 2010
Life / COMBATING "POLACK" JOKES [460]

Bratwurst Boy does not deserve the name-calling diatribe against him. He is a staunch defender of things German and there is nothing wrong with that. I have had some differences with BB as well and felt like knocking his helmet off on more than one occasion, but the vicious attack(s) against him are not warranted. After all he is wrong only about 75 percent of the time.
ZIMMY   
12 Mar 2010
Love / How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported. [129]

Much of the violence in the black and Hispanic community has to do with culture and not finances. Many poor people do not beat up their spouses; those who do have other issues which include raising children in single parent households. Those children grow up and continue this cycle which of course includes inherent poverty. Additionally, government welfare programs contribute to this sort of dependence.
ZIMMY   
11 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / Which country is more corrupt - Poland or the UK? [35]

FFS they are still blaming communism for everything and that was 2 decades ago.

Yea, Poland should have been a utipia by now despite nursing all those wounds from WWII and barely surviving under the Soviet yoke.

Next time you break a leg, put a cast on it and I'm sure you'll be 100 percent the next morning.
ZIMMY   
8 Mar 2010
History / WAS KATYƃ GENOCIDE? Polish officers were killed [237]

Weren't they executed because they were Polish intellectuals or was it because they were intellectuals living in Poland? :

Were intellectuals from other countries executed in the same way? Therein lies your answer.
ZIMMY   
8 Mar 2010
Life / Polish "Mall Girl" Culture? [125]

Well, I suppose it's a "relationship" of sorts, but yes, very doubtful that it leads to marriage.
ZIMMY   
7 Mar 2010
Life / Polish "Mall Girl" Culture? [125]

WARSAW - They loiter at the mall for hours, young teenage girls selling their bodies in return for designer jeans, Nokia cell phones, even a pair of socks.

nytimes.com/2010/03/05/world/europe/05iht-mall.html?ref=global-home&pagewanted=all

Say it isn't so.
ZIMMY   
1 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / Britain... What the Poles did for us. [444]

How very Polish of you to blame a back-bench MP and a dead man for events in Poland following the end of WWII

How very antiPolish of you to not comprehend that these two set events in motion in Teheren and Yalta which guaranteed the unfortunate demise of free Poles and Poland. Your inability to connect the obvious dots is rather disturbing, but given your inherent prejudice it is not surprising.
ZIMMY   
1 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / Britain... What the Poles did for us. [444]

the Provisional Government of National Unity?

By mid July 1945, the U.S. and Britain withdrew their support of the Polish Government in Exile. That was a very major blow to freedom seeking Poles.

By the end of the following year communists controlled 90 percent of Polish industry; thanks to cousin Churchill, lame president Roosevelt and most of all to Uncle Joe.

Not much anybody could do at that point as the previous years took their toll on ordinary Poles who were barely surviving.

the cowards in London chose to not put their own yellow hides at risk shows which government the really Polish people were in in 1946.

Real cowardice occurred in Teheran and Yalta. Expecting Poles in exile to overcome Stalin's armies when the British and Americans dared not (to) are the ravings of someone who is 'not quite there'.
ZIMMY   
1 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / Britain... What the Poles did for us. [444]

What would you call the government of Poland in 1946?

Soviet controlled and not the government so many heroic and honorable Poles fought for!

The courage and character that Churchill pledged for Britain had already been demonstrated by Poland. It was the first country to experience the terror of the Nazi Blitzkrieg, the first to fight back, the first to say -- and mean -- "We shall never surrender." Poland fell in October 1939, but its government and military refused then, and refused for the rest of the war, to capitulate. In a remarkable odyssey, scores of thousands of Polish pilots, soldiers, and sailors escaped Poland -- some on foot; some in cars, trucks, and buses; some in airplanes; some in ships and submarines.

polandinexile.com/vp1.htm
ZIMMY   
1 Mar 2010
UK, Ireland / Britain... What the Poles did for us. [444]

Hey, how is your 1945 Parade invitation from Britain? It was, unfortunately, made, but to whom? Traitors? WWII instigators? Come on! And they are still not satisfied, "everyone betrayed us, we were sold..." Ha-ha-ha-ha.....;) Double-faced creatures.

Okay, let's put this one to rest. From "An Army In Exile" by General Anders (page299):

"On June 8, 1946, the Victory Parade was held in London. The Polish forces, who had been the first to fight the Germans, and who even in the worst days had never deserted their allies, were not invited to take part. That would not have been politically expedient. An invitation was, however extended to twenty-five airmen from amongst those Polish airmen who had had so big a share in the Battle of Britain. The airmen declined, for they did not wish to represent the Polish forces at a ceremony from which the navy and the army had been excluded."

"On June 5, Mr. Winston Churchill said in the House of Commons"

"The fate of Poland seems to be unending tragedy, and we, who went to war, all ill-prepared on her behalf, watch with sorrow the strange outcome of our endeavours. I deeply regret that none of the Polish troops, and I must say this, who fought with us on a score of battlefields, who poured out their blood in the common cause, are to be allowed to march in the Victory Parade."

There's more but objective readers should get the picture.
ZIMMY   
27 Feb 2010
Life / COMBATING "POLACK" JOKES [460]

are the first to complain if a degrading joke is made about their ethnic background.

These jokes were 'popular' around 30 years ago, but I haven't heard them at all in the past decade. When I was growing up the big ethnic jokes were either Swedish jokes or Bohemian jokes. Perhaps that was a regional thing.

Back in the 70's and 80's when someone attempted to tell me a Polish joke I cut them off and asked, "let me hear this same joke but with your ethnic background". That put things in perspective.

If I didn't like the person about to tell the joke I would intentionally look disdainful and tell the 'humorist' that if the joke was insulting and not funny that it would be unfortunate for the teller. Of course I had a bit of a reputation as a 'tough guy' back then and perhaps it was easier for me to make this kind of comment.

Um, Arien, there is something called Polish humor which is funny as contrasted to the Polish joke which is meant to insult.
ZIMMY   
27 Feb 2010
USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]

I didn't read it as it was the Daily Mail.

Simply put, a woman wants a £560,000 payout 25 years after divorcing her husband. He's been paying her £27,000 a year in maintenance all that time but being an "empowered" woman, it seems that isn't enough for her "entitled" female self. No kids are involved.
ZIMMY   
26 Feb 2010
USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]

Yeah, talk about raw deals.

.....and then, with some women a divorce settlement is only permanent if a woman says it is.
How's this for 'female entitlement'"

dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1253909/Ex-wife-claims-560-000--30-years-marriage-split.html
ZIMMY   
26 Feb 2010
USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]

Marriage is for life and you should remind her of that.

That's assuming the woman is a rational human being. As you must have found out by now most women make their decisions based on 'feelings' not logic.

the man should stay as that is his life.

Of course. The woman took the "for better or worse" vows but evidently those don't mean much in the modern feminized world, and indeed, our current culture gives women incentives to divorce.

"While 70% of all divorces are initiated by women, 85 to 90% of custody awards go to the women."

askmen.com/daily/austin_60/92_fashion_style.html
ZIMMY   
26 Feb 2010
Love / Do Polish women have bad tempers? [49]

My Polish woman has a temper that would send anyone into shock, quick isn't the word. Thankfully it's like water off a ducks back with me, which only makes her even worse.

Women seek attention; even when it's negative. She is looking for you to counteract her emotional diatribes but since you don't, she goes ballistic. The worst thing anyone can do to a woman is to ignore her. This drives women crazy.

I think there's a pressure valve in her head

This valve is on "high", can you adjust it to "low"?.,....and is this woman worth keeping?

I've got to be careful otherwise she can be moody for days...

She is emotionally controlling you. Evidently you are smarter than she is and the only way she can be dominating is by going 'nuts'. You shouldn't have to "be careful" as you put it.
ZIMMY   
25 Feb 2010
Love / Do Polish women have bad tempers? [49]

My Polish girlfriend threw me out after I e-mailed her about how much I was hating things lately

She may not be accustomed to being corrected or criticized. How dare you complain about anything; that's her job (in her mind). You are showing too much independence and that means that she feels that she cannot manage you.

She may have found an alpha male who interests her more. Sorry, but that is a possibility and your e-mail comments were just an excuse to dump you.

Then there is this: youtube.com/watch?v=mCwKbUVyHLY
ZIMMY   
25 Feb 2010
USA, Canada / My wife wants to return to Poland...but I want to stay in the US [155]

I think calling someone 5 times a day for money is crazy.

Second wives frequently find out how 'evil' first wives can be. They understand what so many divorced men go through. Calling so frequently is psychological (emotional) abuse.

his own medical issue to attend to.

Doesn't matter to ex wives. 'It's all about them(selves)'.

All I am asking is that she calls for the child to talk to her dad

That doesn't matter because it's all about the money. Additionally, many women tell the kids that "daddy doesn't love you". It's called Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS).

mrcustodycoach.com/blog/

the phone calls started again at 4 in the morning.....

That's intentional; lots of stuff for you in the link above. Good luck.
ZIMMY   
20 Feb 2010
Life / Ripped Off in Poland? - Expose here: [185]

I never buy extended warranty. Not even on the car.

Absolutely right. Extended warranties make money because people pay 3 times more than these companies pay out. It's a bad deal for the consumer.
ZIMMY   
19 Feb 2010
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

Why are Polish women so sexy ?

Despite her name, she certainly doesn't look sad.

fhm.com/girls/kasia-smutniak---polands-greatest-export-to-date-20100219
ZIMMY   
17 Feb 2010
History / "Poland's Concentration Camp" ?? [570]

this Israeli documentary

The 121 + comments are not sympathetic to this 'documentary'. I guess that by some Jewish standards it means that these people are also antiSemites or more properly antiJewish as there are many more Semites that are not Jewish than are Jewish.

It was a matter of time. They used Jews as labor for 3 years before started exterminating them; it would have taken more time, but the Poles were to be next. Many documents confirm this.

Since Poles were not Jewish it isn't as important.

the kids have no chance to see for themselves that they don't need escorts, armed guards, and hateful propaganda.

Truth doesn't matter; an agenda does.

I will never forget what an aging Jewish survivor told me some 30 years ago. He said, "it is important that the world see us as the ultimate victims. Others who died may have had a hand in their own suffering but we Jews are pure in this." (I admit to paraphrasing but that was his message).

It is this sort of "chosen people' thinking that brings me back to take another look at the plight of the so-called Palestinians. My sympathy has always been with Israel as I abhor the violence that so many Arabs perpetuate against Jews and against themselves - yet, there does seem to be something not quite right about so many spokesmen who claim to represent Jews. Blaming innocent Poles (or name your country) while dodging thorny issues like the role of Capos and other enforcers as well as attempting to skirt the role of Jews who pointed out Poles (for death) to incoming Russians makes my blood boil.
ZIMMY   
17 Feb 2010
Love / How to please Polish women? [216]

Women like massage,cunnilingus and podarunki.

liveleak.com/view?i=a09_1266313933

Typical female, this one is Romanian. It's okay for her to slap a cop but when she gets slapped then it's all crocodile tears and suddenly she is the victim. I've seen this sort of thing played by women several times in a variety of similar venues.

Hopefully no man is married to this wench.
ZIMMY   
15 Feb 2010
USA, Canada / Most common ancestries in the USA [56]

are you running out of options?;)

Not in a million years as the world is my oyster. ...and yea, people who back up their statements with an assortment of proof (links) tend to be taken as being credible. You should begin this rather basic aspect of communication before you lose the ability to do 'critical thinking'.

so I need to provide links to be credible

When you postulate something then YES. Your verbal/written entitlement mentality is insufficient as it is not evidence.

Do you suggest I use Ali G in order to be a partner in a discussion with you?

I do throw in a little humor now and then. Glad you enjoyed it.

right back at you:)

I give you concrete and steel and you toss me smoke; lol
ZIMMY   
13 Feb 2010
USA, Canada / Most common ancestries in the USA [56]

There is even a german-american heritage month!

Yes, but they are asked to leave their guns at home.

Filmed in Chicago "Ferris Buellers Day off"
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