Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]


I have always put the needs of others before myself, theres nothing wrong with
that, and as Ive said before in another thread, its better to say I have loved
then to never have loved at all. not knowing this feeling or denying it is denying
oneself the chance to feel.. so just because you have a caring nature, doesnt mean
your less of a man, it makes you more a man to show this rather then hide it behind
a masked smile.

Being fed up with life? only because you cant accept rejection? its part of life, if
someone isnt attracted to someone , its part of acceptance. being scared is
a natural feeling, but you have to be able to handle the blow, we all have rejection
the Word No exists in our language and it always will. theres someone for everyone
you have to remember that. and you might get several Nos before you get to the
yes I will have dinner with you tonight. physical attraction and mental attraction
both have to be two sided. you dont want this person going with you just because
they feel sorry for you. bring the man back to the table ken. you dont have to be
rough on the exterior, just hold your head up high and confident. but do some
things for yourself too. maybe take up going to the gym. or find spiritual advisor?

and for god sakes date someone who matches you, not someone you feel is out
of your league, you cant experience love that way, your be fumbling to please and
this isnt love, this is lust.. love is entirely different. its not a fantasy, its real.


we still are together, spite the days when I want to ring his neck.. lol but we do
love each other, not everything is perfect, nor should anyone expect it to be.
marriage is something you have to work at.. even in the toughest times.

Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

ken, I didnt mean for it to sound so harsh, its more of a get you going post.

I know your not alone in being shy, alot of people are shy. but why are your
standards so high that you would be so afraid of someone. or intimidated by
someone?

its funny, my husband, when we met, I thought he was a jerk. he came up
next to me at the bar. I thought to myself, how arrogant and stuck on himself
and didnt know he was doing this to impress me.. anyway, he didnt look at me at
first, I sat there mad as hell, thinking, go away.. but he looked up and smiled
and said hi. and I melted. but I didnt show that, I more or less played the hard to
get.. so even if you think its rejection , it might be just the hard to get, because
not always does a woman want to show she is weak in the knees around a man.

this isnt good for our female state of mind. give in the first time, and its all over with.

so yes, we have to hold back too, what you think is to reserved is just our inner
person holding back the excitement.. the day that I met my husband, i had the girl
meeting in the bathroom with my friends, and they all were asking me what he said
and all I could do was get a hold of myself and go back out and act non chalant so that he didnt get the impression that i was more then excited..

and ken, I bet your better looking then you think, everyone is critical of themselfs
you can always find something wrong, but everyone has imperfections, so dont
be all depressed that your different, cause your not.

like I said, go out, buy that new suit, spend some cash on yourself.
smile at the guy in the mirror..

Love / Polish stranger wants me to write to him [34]


well, your not in love thats for sure..

why marry because its the right thing to do for whom?? you child? no, you will be
fighting , hating each other, you already show that you are angry with him, and
marry because your parents are strict? are they going to carry the burdens you do?
will they ever know how heavy your heart will feel?

I could tell you have other things going on. just dont let this guy have so much
trust.. be wary, keep composer, and take things slow, dont invite him over
without company, kinda find out why he picked you first.. ask him that in the note.

ask alot of questions. and give the ring back, even if he isnt the man you want,
least you will feel better that you did the right thing by saving /sparing your children
from all the sadness. sometimes its better that way till you find the right person..

ok, got to head out to work,,, keep me posted..and be careful!!

Love / Polish stranger wants me to write to him [34]


Why do you want to help him, because you want to be sure the marriage you are
about to commit to might not be what you wanted in the first place?

that is what I am getting out of you, love is something that no one can interfere
with, and being that this simple note made your mind confused tells me that you
are not committed to this soon to be union.

your going astray.. not good sign.

what if he is only wanting to get to know you in one way, maybe that he has
no intentions of anything other then that.. why would you want to know about
a stranger who hands you a note , yes this could be a love story, or could be
disaster..

UK, Ireland / Your opinion about cheap and easy Polish Girls in UK? [30]

Kasia :)

That is why I think that this thread is for the birds!!

when someone wants to know opinions on cheap and easy girls it doesnt say
much for the person who posted it in the first place.

# 1 lack of brains.
# 2 lack of brains.
# 3 extreme lack of brains.

how bout we start a thread on all the sleezy cheap men who want sex? who
contract disease? hmmm. yeah, that would be a good thread on a polish site.

sorry folks, this is irritating. I am with Kasia on that. women should be respected
by men as men would want the women to respect them.
if you want to know about cheap and easy, I am sure there is plenty of other sites
you can visit that are more appropriate for the subject.

peace!

USA, Canada / CULTURE SHOCK! (of my Polish finance who visited the US) [210]

Wow!! overwhelming words of wisdom,, some do have actual good time here :)

Back to topic. I do hope that Krysia's new hubby to be will enjoy it here. take in
a little at a time.. :)

USA, Canada / CULTURE SHOCK! (of my Polish finance who visited the US) [210]


Ahhhhhhh Words of Wisdom!! thanks Decorator, your open mind is refreshing!
:)

USA, Canada / CULTURE SHOCK! (of my Polish finance who visited the US) [210]

facts? do you get inside someones head and take it apart??

wow, some really depressed people here.

USA, Canada / CULTURE SHOCK! (of my Polish finance who visited the US) [210]


umm no, it isnt that way, because alot of the time you can have a really good conversation with a stranger who works at a store, and say have a good one, I mean it

when I say it, and I know the other person does, we leave on a great note just because we had talked about something in common. maybe some, but not all.

sad way to look at it really, if I felt that way every time I left the store, I would be
flipping out on people. you really have a bad outlook on life. something needs to
change in your otherwise you wont see the change in the world.

Krysia, welcome back, you were missed. :)

Congradulations again. I wish you both the best.

Life / How Safe Are the Polish Cities? [179]


you need to move to a safer neighborhood. I have lived here all my life , these things
happen in poorer neighborhoods or were its highly populated in bigger cities.
I am sorry to say that, but its true.:)

Genealogy / Polish family history societies in Poland? [7]


Family History Centers in Poland [refine search]

Warsaw Poland
38 Nowy Swiat
Warszawa, Warsaw, Warsaw, Poland
Phone: 48-228 276 311
Hours: Tues- Fri 1000-2000, Sat 1000-1700

found on the website. just type in the location on the home page for where locations
are for your country. they are all over the place. :)

Genealogy / Jankowice Town in Poland - records [77]


I only know of a Jankowice.

come on anyone can help KS with some answers? Wheres Wroclaw been lately?
hes usually really good at this.

Genealogy / Jankowice Town in Poland - records [77]

I know what king is saying, cause he doesnt have that far back so he would be
more then likely looking blindly at records.

if you get a definate on the town name and location, you can write to the church
if someone can get the address?

anyone willing to help KS locate a address of a Church so that he can write to them
and get some records?

Genealogy / Jankowice Town in Poland - records [77]


yes it could, because name spellings come up differently. never say never :)

Mormon site has a history center, they microfilmed tons of stuff in Poland.

you can do a town search and see what is microfilmed. do you have a local
history center?

ya know what I will check and see if you have any in Australia.
if you do, you can order these films and go copy the records of all folks pertaining
to your last name and figure it out from there.

pretty sure you will find something :)

Jankowice
Germany, Preußen, Posen, Jankowice
Jankowice (Poznań)
Poland, Poznań, Jankowice (Poznań)
Jankowice (Radom)
Poland, Kielce, Jankowice (Radom)
Jankowice (Sandomierz)
Poland, Kielce, Jankowice (Sandomierz)
Jankowice Kościelne (Sandomierz)
Poland, Kielce, Jankowice Kościelne (Sandomierz)
Jankowice Wielkie (Brzeg)
Poland, Opole, Jankowice Wielkie (Brzeg)

King, these are all the Jankowice microfilms they filmed.

familysearch.org/Eng/Library/FHC/frameset_fhc.asp

king, this is all the australia centers, so you do have resources.

I couldnt list them all, Admin would get mad at me for using up so much
space :)

but if you go into the genealogy sticky links, I posted the mormon link there
once you get into the site, go to the catalog section, type in the place etc

it also shows locations of family history librarys, you have alot in australia.
if you need any more help with it, I will be happy to direct you :)

polishroots.org/gendobry/GenDobry_vol2_no8.htm

ok, heres some more interesting reading about Jankowice, jankowo, which I do
have some ties to a town name jankowo, but prob not same name.

and seriously , these mormons can help you find resources, I am not kidding.
They did this for that reason (microfilmed).

Genealogy / Jankowice Town in Poland - records [77]


lol ok well email me if you want to not post the names online, understandable. :)

if not thats ok too, ive got ancestry to, but they don't help with Poland, that is
google searching, then I randomly email and get good responses. they send me
theirs and I send mine.

have you ever did a search in the FHL of the mormons site?

Genealogy / Jankowice Town in Poland - records [77]


king, is it sobieski? for some reason that town you mentioned sounds familiar
I do have sobieski name also in my tree, thats why that town is familiar

oh no, were cousins! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh lol

did you find anyone in the immigration??

I have Sobecki and Sobieski, and I have pics of these folks too, I am going to look
in some old emails. I swear I heard that town name a gazillion times before.

Life / Child Adoption in Poland? [138]


WOW< things that we find out as we go along about each other.

Bubba, Amazing. I am so glad things are where they should be health wise :)

Genealogy / Jankowice Town in Poland - records [77]

What last names are you looking up?

for some reason jankowice sounds so familiar, like I have searched around that
area, but I am not positive. I know of Jankowo which is near Lomza.

Genealogy / Jankowice Town in Poland - records [77]

what time frame king? early 1900s? prior to that? later then that?

poland changed so much, so many times. when you mentioned jankowice
I was thinking malopolskie, the way to get the records is writing the parish
but you have to make sure cause now there are more churches.

Krysia can probably locate more then me with this one. or even Wroclaw.
I am better with states. but I did get docs from poland.

Language / What should I end my last name with? [16]

yes, they just used the male last name in the U.S. but I found out long time ago
the two different meanings for last name female being ska and male ski

I was also told, that the Sky Meant that they were from Russia. <~? scratches
head, and this was a cousin of mine. I didnt think that had anything to do with
it, because during two different time periods my grandma was german pole and
then she was russian pole

but I learned alot thru genealogy searches.

Language / What should I end my last name with? [16]


I do :) mom ska, dad ski

Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]


agree on the both have good and bad.

and please dont put paper bag over head. chin up. everyone notices a good heart
when it stands out!! :)

Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]


this is what the original post says, I was only seeing the bad posts.

Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

bubba, I didnt want to leave maxx on bad note. I was a bit

moody yesterday :)

Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]


Ignore me maxx, I hadnt had my ten cups of tea. lol


I wasnt mad, just frustrated. I have friends who are russian, she is so sweet
and so seeing this thread, well, of course its bothersome to see it keep coming
up, I am even guilty to respond, but I have to respond to your post to clear
up my end of the misunderstanding.

I think all women deserve respect, when we are children, we grow and we try
to learn what is right and wrong, and some do things not because they want to
but because they have to, society doesnt help those who turn in the wrong directions
and those who have to do things they wouldnt do otherwise just to put themselfs
through schooling to become a better person.

This is where I am coming from. I know, its not right to do things bad to people
and some do this because they are past help, and maybe are doing drugs or
just plain out have lost hope and have been treated badly for so long its a way of
life. yes there are some who take advantage. but as a woman, how can she
respect a man who is wanting things for money, or cheating, why should it be the
woman who lacks respect, when its the man who is asking for the deed?

just a thought that crossed my mind

Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]


I know, I just wish this thread gone too.

my view on it, is someone coming to look at the site for polish forums and see
this and say What??

I know that there is allowable conversations or if you would debate
but this thread is hauntingly stupid, and I am sure newcomers think so too, some
of them.

Russian Girls Vs Polish Girls. and someone takes it to extreme by calling them
sluts. thats just so manly.... it wouldnt bother me if the so called children would
stop.

ok, I am done.

Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]



you guys working on a calm down method for me? lol

sorry guys, just everytime this thread reappears, its like a broken record.
then reading some of the stuff on here, I know its only a thread, but my thoughts
are, holy crap, you really go around calling people names in public? or do you
really treat people so badly just because of their nationality?

so it leads me to believe, and I hope I am right, less I read the news paper or
something to find your names posted in it that you dont do this type of behavior
and I hope I never see you names posted in the local news or on cnn that some
man pulled a chair from a russian woman and called her a slut because she was
russian?

I think all you men on here know what I mean and I repeat only the men.

Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

ps. this thread is useless on a poland site meant to bring more visitors.

so your point is?


Bubba, I had another word in mind, but since I like you and respect you I will
keep my thoughts to myself .

but that was a good comeback.. lol

Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

maxx I am already at irritated, cant go any further then I am, so anything else
you would like to say that will make yourself look so gallant?

hey girls, check out the man who thinks hes all that and a bag of chips.

what do we call men who run around? hmmmm I have some names for them
but I wont share. because I have bit more respect!

Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

Maxx that wasnt just directed at you either. in general, people can say, yes
I am a jerk towards women and I dont respect them at all, so I walk around making
every effort to disrespect them by calling them names in public, tripping them and
making every effort to make myself look like a jerk in public!

does anyone realize the impression people get when they post stuff?

if you say, I dont respect somone, my impression is your a superficial jerk with no
backbone and no perfect upbringing.