Seanus
26 Jan 2010
Life / Can foreigners really understand Poles? [136]
Poles are very family oriented, more so than the Scots who tend to be too. They have more special days spent with them and occasions with cakes and meats.
Neighbours? Well, there can be a communal feel but too many are lone wolves and are growing to be jealous of their neighbours and what they have (in Poland). This is very noticeable in my home city of Aberdeen but I hope that Poland doesn't move more in this direction. Poles are aware of the need to be modest but some struggle with it, wanting to be flashy.
Poles are quite outspoken critics of the state. They will often launch into wild debates on the main policies that affect them. This tends to be a family thing but Poles often duck such discussions when 1-2-1, preferring to play down politics in casual talk. Alcohol is the great trigger.
Foreigners? Well, many are aware of the need to come across as welcoming and many indeed are. However, I fear that a few may have two faces but this is just natural for some, regardless of nationality. If the foreigner puts effort into social engagements then the Poles will likely reciprocate. I have found this in many places. I am well received by most Poles.
Boy, this post has been hard as there are too many generalisations. However, one thing I really feel about Poles is that there is much potential for them to be more open. It's like they are indifferent and maybe testing the water sometimes but can really come out of their shells when you get to know them. They are a curious bunch when they want to be.
Poles are very family oriented, more so than the Scots who tend to be too. They have more special days spent with them and occasions with cakes and meats.
Neighbours? Well, there can be a communal feel but too many are lone wolves and are growing to be jealous of their neighbours and what they have (in Poland). This is very noticeable in my home city of Aberdeen but I hope that Poland doesn't move more in this direction. Poles are aware of the need to be modest but some struggle with it, wanting to be flashy.
Poles are quite outspoken critics of the state. They will often launch into wild debates on the main policies that affect them. This tends to be a family thing but Poles often duck such discussions when 1-2-1, preferring to play down politics in casual talk. Alcohol is the great trigger.
Foreigners? Well, many are aware of the need to come across as welcoming and many indeed are. However, I fear that a few may have two faces but this is just natural for some, regardless of nationality. If the foreigner puts effort into social engagements then the Poles will likely reciprocate. I have found this in many places. I am well received by most Poles.
Boy, this post has been hard as there are too many generalisations. However, one thing I really feel about Poles is that there is much potential for them to be more open. It's like they are indifferent and maybe testing the water sometimes but can really come out of their shells when you get to know them. They are a curious bunch when they want to be.