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'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]
Men can be jerks, but you wonder how it all starts.
Just answer these questions to yourself;
How would you feel if you saw a guy - a guy you really like - who's genuinely interested and who flirts with you for weeks, suddenly - in just a matter of seconds - turns around and chases another woman right infront of you, right after he heard it was the boss' niece?
How would you feel if you found out that this was done on purpose, just because the other guys who work with you thought it was funny to play with your feelings?
How would you feel if this happened to you all the time?
How would you feel if alot of guys in your town pull ugly faces at you, insult you and threaten you, or give you angry and hateful stares whenever you're near or look in their direction?
How would you feel if a lot of people in your environment tell you that you're thinking all kinds of weird things, when they've never even bothered to talk to you?
How would you feel when you see that most of the guys are all going out with the other girls, and are having fun, but everytime you show up they do their best to make you feel really unwelcome, only to collectively accuse you of being anti-social once you've given up on socializing?
How would you feel if a lot of guys in your town called you a lesbian, while they're refusing to even say hello to you?
How would you feel if you say hello to someone who seems friendly at first, only to hear that you're a disgusting individual right after you greet him?
How would you feel if total strangers start to talk - right out of the blue - about all kinds of personal and private stuff about you in public as soon as you're in hearing distance?
How would you feel if people communicated with you indirectly, as if you're way too dangerous to approach?
How would you feel when guys call you a dirtbag or a pervert for every time you react to their flirting?
How would you feel if the person who once said he loved you, asked other girls to pull your hair, spit in your face and assualt you?
How would you feel after your neighbours kept you awake for seven days straight by making all kinds of noise, or talking very loud - about you - infront of your window when you're trying to sleep? How would you feel if they all fled inside - bunch of cowards - as soon as you come outside to confront them with their own bullshÃt?
How would you feel when little children have been told to scream lesbian at you?
How would you feel if parents pick up their kids or pull them away from you with scared looks on their faces as you walk by, as *if* you're going to hurt their kids? (While telling them: ''She's very evil, that girl.'')
How would you feel if all of this weird behaviour suddenly stopped, after years, and people asked you all kinds of questions like: Why are you so bitter? (When you're not.) Why are you so angry? (While you're not.)
How would you feel if people pretended as if nothing ever happened, and told you that you've imagined all of this? Or even better: Use this as an excuse to call you crazy and shun you some more?
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