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Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]
here is the whole thing:
I am finally ready to write about HIM. I already have written about the Polish Girlfriend.
I have to explain that I had to meet one in order to describe him. I finally did, although his character and behaviour will be a compilation to a larger or lesser degree of other men I have met recently.
Misiu is big, literally and not literally. He is either big in posture, although most Polish men are in a fairly good shape, or in spirit.
The teenage Misiu is stilll unaware of his pimples and the greasy hair. He is highly intelligent, but he often doesn't know about it, or he knows about it and doesn't think much of it, or, he knows and he is secretly laughing at YOU behind your back(mean streak Misiu type)).
He has dreams and is often romantic and most of the time unaware of the dangers of the world. His grandma cooks for him and gives him money, his mother gives him money and leaves him alone and depending on the case, Misiu has a very happy and easy life, full of computer games, millions of moments of staring at the wall without a purpose -some say that it enhance creativity (must have read it in some American Pseudo - psychology google find). He is suspended in a dream world and due to lack of any problems, quite nice and easy to manage, unless you give him a job to do.
The young Misiu (age 20- 30)is tall, dating, looking for date, getting married or already married - depending on the situation. He has a car, loves his mother and his girlfriend, wife, to - be- wife and a JOB. He is not that fashionable because he is attached or to be attached and I know that his girlfriend or a wife to be or a wife make sure that he doesn't stand out because he is to be taken, taken or other variations. He knows technology, but is still this naive, good natured boy or a man, who smiles, has a round face, takes the garbage out and is happy to have sex with his woman and be attached. Often he has children and he makes a good father. This Misiu is content with his life. He often is a smart ass, or a smart Alec, but overall, he is a good guy and has more positive characteristics.
The 20-30 Misiu is tall, tries to impress with some fashion, but often wears mismatched clothes, although it is getting better and overall is fairly confident and sweet. He does not possess the sarcasm and the bitterness/smarts of the his Western counterpart. Regardless, Misiu is sweet and he often gets away with murder with the sweet smile on his face.
Misiu after 30.
Well, that all depends where he really is in life. He could be a really happy working and married men, because most of Misius are married by that age, unless according to everyone I have spoken to and not spoken to, but overheard, there is SOMETHING WRONG with him. I have heard it so many time but thus far nobody has been able to provide me with any details regarding that matter.
Misiu might be working too much and making some money which is enough for the upkeep of the household, the car and the apartment payments, the private school lessons and the vacation to Egypt once a year, but he is starting to work too much. He is still in a good shape due to his age, but if he is gonna continue this way, he will be out of shape, which will not show, because Misiu is not usually overweight. Overall Misiu is happy and progressing one way or the other. He goes to church on sundays with his young family, unless he lives in a big city and is single because he spends too much time at work and does not have the urge to merry and other strange variations.
Misiu close to 40,still married, but overworked - sex is getting boring, children are growing up and don't want to talk to him anymore or spend too much time on the computer and he has little contact with them, his wife gained a bit of weight and his single co-coworkers are still fresh, chatty and perky and like him a LOT.
Misiu is having a mid life crisis, his libido is decreasing either due to stress, or decreasing testosteron. Misiu is not happy. He doesn't know why he is not happy, or he might even not know that he isn't happy. He still feels young, and has the energy to drink and dance on the weekend, but he notices that after such an escapade he has to recover for 2 days and when he finally does, he gets a text message from me, so he has to dig through piles of information in his brain to backtrack who I am.
Tbc.
Misiu#2to make the story short I had NO idea Misiu was married, so when he started back paddling (pretty creative stuff) with excuses I ceased the contact. Misiu is history:).
On the serious note: many Polish couples cheat and they see nothing wrong with it. I heard it from the Aussie guy I work with too. He noticed that he gets a lot of interest from other women even though they know he is attached.
PS. another Misiu paid a visit today, he is a professional men - fixed the radiator in a second, send me a wild smile and was moving around my apartment with the speed of light. That was Misiu from Spoldzielnia Mieszkaniowa:). I love the efficient problem fixing of Polish men, that is why I am able to overlook the greasy hair, the dirty hands and the begging for wash uniform;).
PSS.
The
Polish Girlfriend got married few weeks ago:).
a little visual aid to go with my post-unfortunately it is in Polish:)
