Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


If you're talking about ants, snails and horses then you're comment might have some validity.
Somehow, you missed the part of evolution that gave mankind a special consciousness which includes the ability to think in abstract terms; to marvel at the universe, to ask questions and indeed to even laugh at absurdity; something no other species on earth is capable of. I suggest that these and other related conceptualizations are not merely "nice" as you put it but integral to who we are. Ignoring this evolutionary journal makes you no better than a bat.


You stated: "We are a species and the only purpose of a species is to create offspring with different characteristics" What's to not understand?


I understand that humans have a special consciousness; you understand that men are only good for impregnating women and women are good for getting pregnant.


Point out where I shouted. Perhaps it was during coitus when I was doing my duty doing my evolutionary directive?


You miss where he's coming from. He's a subservient liberal mangina who 'feels' that saying the right things to women is the way to go.


You're not bright enough to see the contradiction in your above comment - are you?
(hint: if there is war, etc, than the "continuation of the species" is in jeopardy. Our advanced evolutionary moral qualities are needed to bring peace and harmony as well as uplifted standards of living to propagate our species. That's hardly artificial.)


Why watch the match? After all, you're only good for "continuation of the species".


With a little maturity perhaps you'll finally be able to face facts as well as objective truths. Until then, continue to put your hands around your eyes and ears so that unpleasant reality doesn't disturb your narrow minded beliefs and wiles.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]

Poppa was right; and indeed, it's something everyone knows inherently but few dare speak it

Enjoy: fathersforlife.org/hist/beasts_of_burden.htm

History / "Poland's Concentration Camp" ?? [570]


Conversations come up and besides, what's wrong with telling ignorant people the truth?


Your faith in the U.S. educational system is unwarranted. Academia is run by liberals who don't teach - they preach.


Words are very important. They magnify or diminish a meaning, sometimes to the point of changing it. That's why advertising works.

Poles have been the worst at PR.

History / "Poland's Concentration Camp" ?? [570]


I'll briefly explain; I've had conversations with people who don't know anything about WWII and a few believed that Poles were the Nazis. That affects innocent Poles who are considered the bad guys.

Unfortunately, image is considered reality. Hope this helps.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


You have no idea how pathetic you sound. I recommend you purchase Camille Paglia's book;
"Sexual Personae". Although she is a feminist, she explains without apology that if civilization was left up to women, then the human race would still be living in trees.

If you feel that your only "role is [to] inseminate women" than I suggest that you stick to that "role" and do nothing else.


No art? No poetry? No books? No inventions (99% created by males), no philosophical thoughts? No physics? etc. You must be a liberal, a weenie of one at that.


To know me is to love me :)


There you have it gentlemen, many women just look at men as their 'beasts of burden', yet they are the ones claiming victim status.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


Nobody tells a mentally challenged person that they are feeble minded either.


Oh, my level of discourse has up-to-now been significantly on a higher plane than your "shaming language" attempts so there is no problem in that regard. Sometime later I'll happily reveal how I devastated a fairly well-known feminist in a university classroom debate.

I had her stuttering in the end and the young adults in the room were yelping it up - even the females. But I fought unfairly because I used 'logic' while she used her rhetoric driven agenda; it was no contest.


True, I don't stoop to your playground level, tempting as it is to do so.

Well, I'm going to see the Cubs lose to Oakland today (even though I'm a White Sox fan).
I can't refuse the free tickets and the free lunch..........play nice now.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


Well, not everything. If I wanted to be factually serious then I don't believe that your child-like mind could take it. In any event, your use of 'shaming language' only lowers you, not me.


At least we agree on that and indeed, that's essentially been my point. There are a lot of new problems due to the feminization of western cultures which include single parent families, anti-male bias, and weak economies. Feminism is a cultural-marxist concept that is designed to dismantle the fabric of Western society. So far, it's been very successful.

Just a quick note about the G.I. Jane movie. Typically, women are given great fictional status and people who don't know better believe it. In real life, no woman has ever qualified for training in U.S. Navy Seals programs.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


Hmmm, that last one is number 19 in the "womens' shaming language catalog" and it seems that name-calling and death wishes are the less than 'mature' woman's ways of communicating. After all, attempting to refute a factual premise is too, um, difficult for the modern woman. I've tried not to treat you like children but..........

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


It's not being "paranoid"; the way I live is called 'freedom'; and it seems quite a few women want to share it with me. Of course, even when I tell them upfront that I'm good for companionship but not marriage, some women have it in their minds that they can 'change' me.


Lol. Seems that my "crap" is nectar of the gods to the women in my social strata, a sort of elixir.

Love / Can 'engaged' soon to marry Polish men say I love you to their female friend? [62]


That's her version, that he gave her his password, perhaps he did but that doesn't entitle her to look into his private stuff. I doubt that any man (or woman) really likes to have their mail looked at.

As to "why shouldnt she go have a look", well, I can remind you of that comment which is only too true. A woman 'feels' that everything a man has is hers also, but anything a woman has is only hers. You qualify with this version of 'women's logic'.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


That's because you are coming from a marriage perspective, I don't. Just to remind you, I will never get married again because there is nothing in it for me at my stage in life. I've done that, been there, have grown kids, etc. ....and yes, I prefer the diversity in my various female friendships.


See above explanation. ....also, I've expressed in these forums my aversion to taking any bullcrap from women who even attempt to test me and/or play their silly games which I know better than they do, etc.

C'mon now, you ladies know better by now than to believe that any woman could ever take advantage of me in any way, shape or form. Of course, to some women, that's the thrill of the chase.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


Thank you for continually exposing how too many women think, or should I say 'feel', since thinking involves logic.


Here we agree. Only a mangina slinks off and moans behind his woman's back. A real man should be frank and up front with the woman in his life. I cannot emphasis that strongly enough especially to young men who haven't controlled their hormones yet.

In my situation, I am probably a little too up front with women but at least they know what they're getting without all the bullcrap games that so many men and women play. It's called honesty, but some people fear it. In my extended circle of acquaintances, I am aware that some women hate me, some are puzzled by me, some accept my directness ("oh that's just Zimmy") and a surprising number show romantic interest. These are the women who are secure enough to accept a real man and not what passes for one.

Love / Can 'engaged' soon to marry Polish men say I love you to their female friend? [62]


You "found an email"? Did it just float onto your lap? Was it lying on the ground?
A man is lucky if he is fortunate enough to have a relationship with a woman who doesn't go through his email, his wallet, his pants pockets, etc.


That's right, don't even question how she "found" the email. Just accept it as part of women's providence to do the sneaky stuff. So you wouldn't mind if I looked through your purse without you knowing it......right?

Now, EpicMe should do two things. Tell her beau to stop with the flirting language because
it's wrong. The guy sounds a bit immature. She should also apologize for snooping around his stuff without permission. In short, both were wrong but for different reasons.

Twice, I've had women snooping around my stuff and both times I told them they didn't have to do it anymore. I said, "I don't trust you, you seem insecure, and our relationship is finished, have a nice life."

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


It's getting difficult trying to keep them off (of) me. The smart ones know and understand that I speak the truth. They like my honesty.


So you're at work by 9am and you don't stop for 14-15 hours? That's hard to believe.


What does he do?


Any disagreement with you is automatically "misogynistic"? My, how quickly the modern woman tosses those words around; almost reflexively.


How much would you care to bet? When you're in Chicago you can pay me at my 15th floor condo overlooking the beach.


This is not the first time that you've gone to these depths. Do you get these sorts of macabre ideas from watching women's tv network? Lots of those shows portray the 'nice' next door neighbor as some sort of serial killer. Too bad your mind functions so simply.


Ever try working in a coal mine? or as a roofer, deep sea fisherman, refuse material collector, oil rig worker, long haul trucker, electrical powerline installer? timber worker/

hazmet diver? bomb technician? auto mechanic? etc, etc,?

It's men who do these jobs, often dangerous but without whom the fundamental infrastructures of our society would not exist. But then, women seem oblivious to those sorts of facts.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


Don't know your particular situation but I've known the following scenario many times.

Husband is working some blue collar job all day and comes home to his wife who wants him to do half the house work. She claims to have done house duty all day and wants to talk, talk, and talk while he just wants to get loose and relax; maybe even have a drink on his reclining chair.

His wife who claims to do all the housework woke up and watched Oprah, then some soap operas (why do you think these shows have such high ratings) and if there are any kids, they are in school while she additionally bores herself reading 'romance novels' which only addle the brain. Of course she considers herself overburdened and has almost no knowledge of the tough day her husband had digging ditches, constructing buildings, driving big trucks, coal mining, doing electrical work, auto repair, etc, etc, etc.

Difference how women think vs how men think:
...

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


You're aware that the famous quotes "why can't a woman be more like a man" are from Henry Higgins ("My Fair Lady") which was adopted from "Pygmalion"?

As to your attempt at female shaming language (gay reference); that is so old and tiring that I'm constantly amazed that women still try it. In another forum I've thoroughly debunked such standard shaming techniques used by immature women who are otherwise bereft of real argument.

Let me help you with a partial women's shaming language list;
*"You're bitter!"
*"You need to get over your anger at women."
*"You are so negative!"
*Step up and take a chance like a man!"
*"You're afraid of a strong woman!" (this one's a favorite)
*Suck it up like a man!"
*"Your fragile male ego ..."
*You are just bitter because you can't get laid."
*you live with your mother?"
*"Are you gay?"
Feel free to continue using the above typical female 'feelings' in lieu of honest discourse.


I frankly don't care if some men are gay and some women are lesbian. So what?

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


You get a Gold Star.

...and a hearty handshake with a pat-on-the-back.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


You're going in the wrong direction. Boobies are alright, the more the merrier.
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"what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression?"
She should not:
1/ Stare at his crotch
2/ Make strange noises.
3/ Tell him that Hitler was misunderstood.
4/ Tell him that she wants to have his baby.
5/ Tell him any man in pants will do, even him.
6/ Start talking about the latest disease she's got.
7/ Ask him if he thinks she looks like Andre the Giant.
8/ Ask him to make a quick personal hygiene run for her.
9/ Do a lot of knock-knock jokes and then tell him how funny you are.
0/ Tell him you are a feminist and that all men are creeps and you are a victim.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]

Oh Amathyst, it is most obvious that I would not marry again and I make that clear to my lady friends. That should be obvious despite your erroneous projections. The judicial system is corrupt and indeed, I propose that no man should get married until the legal marriage racket is reformed.

"...the lonely nights you spend on here?"

Um, how many more thread have you logged here than me?.....lol


As professor Higgins said:

Why can't a woman be more like a man?
Men are so honest, so thoroughly square;
Eternally noble, historically fair.
Who, when you win, will always give your back a pat.
Why can't a woman be like that?

Why does every one do what the others do?
Can't a woman learn to use her head?
Why do they do everything their mothers do?
Why don't they grow up, well, like their father instead?

Why can't a woman take after a man?
Men are so pleasant, so easy to please.
Whenever you're with them, you're always at ease.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


By choice my dear, by choice. ... and my relative modesty prohibits me from tantalizing you with my robust full-bodied social life.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


Funny thing; I've been happily single for quite a few years now and "cooking and washing" never presented a problem to me. It isn't exactly astrophysics or nuclear science.......


Logic and common sense are difficult to argue against. Unfortunately, most women prefer their 'feelings' when making decisions. My advice to women is this; be the kind of person you would like to know. ... and stop nagging and testing men with those silly wiles.

UK, Ireland / Oxford Polish bride 'heartbroken' over arrest - accusations of sham marriage [126]


I'm certain it was by their choice, not yours.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]

[quote=]ZIMMY:
For example; person A is always spending money on person B who is a tightwad and never spends money.Yet, person B accuses person A of being the one obsessed with money.

Richasis:You pretty much summed up my former relationship with that. BTW, I am (and was) 'person A'.

Here's one for you: "I'm the woman, so open my doors, pay my way, buy me gifts, be chivalrous, but don't complain that you are the one spending money and not me - BUT TREAT ME LIKE AN EQUAL!"

.....and my one of my favorites: ""All women have done the last 30 years is to prove men were right for the last 30 generations"

Times up ladies.....

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


I suppose any view that is illogical can be considered "a different point of view" by the illogical person postulating it.

For example; person A is always spending money on person B who is a tightwad and never spends money.Yet, person B accuses person A of being the one obsessed with money.

Yep, that's "a different point of view" alright.

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]

PGTX:"omg... guys and their obsession with money..."

Aren't women who don't want to 'pay their fair share' the obvious ones who are obsessed with money! You seem to have it backwards (again).

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


What if men felt the same way? ..but then, logic escapes you. Unless you find some mangina you'll end up living with your cats and cursing the world.


Women should pay (their share) because they could be getting a bf out of it.


It does make you a leech, and a sexist. It also makes you the stingy one. Of course, women like you go with their 'feelings' so discussing logic with you is out of the question.

History / Slavic vs Germanic thinking.... and the philosophical differences [251]


Because western women initiate 70 percent of all divorces and the anti-male court systems give women the kids whether they deserve them or not.

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]



Hmmmm, I may have been mistaken about you. I welcome you to the sane part of humanity.:)

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]


.......but, but, but......I thought you were an "empowered" woman; instead you admit to being a fragile softy.


Your teddybear told me that it is sick of hearing your sob stories. Your dog told me that if
it hears one more "why me?" lament out of you then your ankle will be snapped at.


A lady will never want to be bought!

Sorry; we're all "equal" now.
Why should men be expected to keep the old traditional roles when todays women don't?
You can't change one without changing the other.

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]


Anytime you go out on a date and pick up the tab - you are paying. The prostitute is honest about it. The women you date are 'gaming' you, especially if they're all about "equality" until the check comes.

I've got so many stories in that regard that I'm tempted to put them in a book.