Posts by Atosha

Atosha

25 Oct 2010

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Atosha and Megan are probably the same person! Both new to the forum and just wanted to drag you down

I don't know who Megan is but I am real and I live in England, and as for dragging deeply_inluv down she done that to herself.

It is not in my nature to push myself to someone it is him who wont stop contacting me. So may times i kick him out of my parents house to leave me alone but he wont

It is in your nature cause you are trying to do that by getting pregnant to trap him. Also you said he stays with for 24hours a day for 4 months straight how is that possible!!!!

its time for me to go back to my parents soon coz they don't want me to work anymore will have to take good care of my pregnancy so will be going home to my parents they want me to stay with them as I live by myself.

So why does he stay at your parents house when he visits? are you ashamed of where you live? and why is he not with you whilst you are pregnant and soon ready to give birth to his child so you say?

Actually he is more excited to see our first baby and his son wants to have baby boy brother. Yes polish guy values so much with their family but too bad his ex-wife only concentrate her life with herself and the kids and just want him to work and to support for the family. she forgot that husband needs her attention, respect, care and love from the wife. Intimacy, respect is very important in a the marriage and if couples are lack of that marriage wont last. Needs two to Tango!

Who told you this? Is this a dream your having or you listening to his crap again.

But they're not in the UK, they're in England

Ha ha are you having a laugh the UK stands for United Kingdom and England is one of the country's there. I Live in England, where abouts does your so called boyfriend live? perhaps I can go and look for him and let his wife know that you said hello.

Don't let him get away with telling you lies ect, make him pay for you to come here to England and then you will find that he makes the most excuses for you to stay where you are. When is your baby due? I hope he is there to support you but you and I both know he will not.

Atosha

23 Oct 2010

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

accept the reality!accept the fact,understand?

deeply_inluv, what Megan is saying is right, stop making a fool out of yourself. He will never be yours and can I just ask as I am a little confused. How the hell did you marry a man that is already married or are you lying?

If you are telling the truth go to the police and get this matter sorted or you will or might find that you will be the one in lots of trouble in relation to this matter as you know he is married to someone else.

Atosha

22 Oct 2010

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

i have waited for 3 years so i guess i can wait for another year. Time will tell!

deeply_inluv, I am speaking to you as a women that also went through something similar. My so called ex lied to me about his situation, he kept making excuses saying the women would kill herself if he left her he has to do it slowly and even when I fell pregnant with his twins he was still messing me around.

I lost the children in the 7th month and it was so hard as I had to go through giving birth to dead children. He never came to the hospital or called and when I went to the house where he lived they had moved. I was so low I thought about ending it all. Then a week later he contacted me again and all of a sudden I was back to square one. I stayed faithful, honest and true to him and I even gave him a promisment that I would blind my eyes to all men and wait for him.

14 years later nothing had changed and I by chance found a photo of him on the net married to a different woman and also living with the first woman. I asked god to give me strength to forget him as he meant me no good. I was his little secret and that was never going to change.

It took me 1 year to sort myself out and now I am ready to move on. I have met the best man in the world now and he happens to be polish. He doesn't know that I love him but I am going to tell him when he comes over tonight. If he only wants to be friends then fine I will have to settle for that as his friendship means a lot to me.

I hope when you read what I went through will help you see that there are many fish in the sea and you will find the one for you, don't end up waiting 14 years for nothing like me.

Atosha

21 Oct 2010

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

the child has the right to know who is his/her father

Doesn't the baby have a right to know there brothers and sisters too?

The sweetest thing a man can offer us women is there mouth, they can sweet talk us out of our underwear quicker then we realise.

Once that baby is born you may never here from him again. His family knows nothing about you and never will if he has his way. I know I may sound harsh but he has never loved you he just wanted to get his leg over and stay somewhere for free. If he truelly loved you he would be living with you right now. He more than likely has other women too, he will never leave his wife and family for you or any other women why should he? he can have his cake and eat it. Oh and don't think that his wife doesn't know whats going on she does, maybe not with you but with other women he has met on the internet.

Atosha

20 Oct 2010

Love / Black British Jamaican woman loves Polish friend but how do I tell him? [16]

I would advise you to express you thoughts to him while you can

Your right. When he comes over on Friday I will tell him how I feel, if he tells me that we are only ever going to be friends I will have to accept it and try and just put my feelings to the side.

Ok he has just rung me to say he wants to tell me something but he wants to wait until Friday. I think I will let him speak first as I don't want to make a fool out of myself if he says that he has feelings for another woman or something.

Ok Maciej came over on Friday and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I am so happy he means the world to me, and his mum has asked me to come over this Sunday for dinner. So hopefully I don't need to post anymore except to tell everyone when he asks me to marry him next year, tee hee.

I love polish men, they are naturally sexy and work really hard to secure a happy future for the family. And any man that loves his mother is going to treat any women with the respect he has for his mum.

Atosha

20 Oct 2010

Love / Black British Jamaican woman loves Polish friend but how do I tell him? [16]

I cooked him sweet chilli chicken wings from scratch.

He has a 5 year plan to make as much money as possible then move to a hot country.

I know it may look like things are moving real quick but I can feel in my heart that he is the one.

He is coming over on friday night again as he said he had a really nice time and he would like to spend some more quality time with me.

I sometimes think I am going to cry if another female comes along and shows interest in him and I don't manage to tell him how I feel. Surely he must know I like him as I would never let him come to my house otherwise.

Atosha

19 Oct 2010

Love / Black British Jamaican woman loves Polish friend but how do I tell him? [16]

His family are coming here to England for Christmas

Atosha

19 Oct 2010

Love / Black British Jamaican woman loves Polish friend but how do I tell him? [16]

I started a new job 4 weeks ago and the first person I saw was Maciej, he had the nicest smile and I could tell he had a good heart.

Everyday he would walk past me (up to 8 times a day) to get water and my co-worker that I
sit next to me said that Maciej must like someone in the office cause he has never seen him look that happy since he stared work there 3 years ago.

Anyway two weeks ago on a Friday my co-worker that I sit next to said that Maciej really likes me and would I take his number if he gave it me, I said no and thought nothing more of it. The following Tuesday Maciej came up to my desk and gave me his mobile number, I was stunned as I never thought that Maciej would like me. Anyway I texted and rang him that night and the day after he asked me if I would go on a date with him so I said yes. We arranged to see each other on Saturday night and we was going to drive down to Blackpool and see the lights.

He came to my house to pick me up and he looked amazing, I asked him in as I just wanted to finish watching something on TV and in the end we stayed in and watched a dvd and I made him some food. He was a gentleman and never tried to touch me, we only cuddled whilst watching the dvd.

He asked me if I would go with him to his friends wedding next Saturday and if I would join him and his family for Christmas.

Ok so I have fallen in love with him already but I don't know if I should tell him or keep quite. We are both single so I don't think us getting together would be a problem, but I am very serious about him and keep dreaming about us getting married, what should I do?