STFU
14 May 2010
Love / Dating a Polish guy for three years. Will he ever marry me? [44]
Are you happy with him? Is he still with you? Has he ever cheated on you in those three years? From your posting, I get the impression you can answer all these questions with a no? So does marriage really mean more to you than being together with a guy you like being with?
Let me put it this way, if your only goal is to obtain financial security through marriage, then yes, you might be wasting your time. Who knows? But are you wasting your time if he likes you and you like him?
That's worth something, right? I mean, I know married people who have what they call open marriages, I've seen married couples who cheated on eachother, or who go to swing clubs because they bore eachother..
;)
Are you happy with him? Is he still with you? Has he ever cheated on you in those three years? From your posting, I get the impression you can answer all these questions with a no? So does marriage really mean more to you than being together with a guy you like being with?
Let me put it this way, if your only goal is to obtain financial security through marriage, then yes, you might be wasting your time. Who knows? But are you wasting your time if he likes you and you like him?
That's worth something, right? I mean, I know married people who have what they call open marriages, I've seen married couples who cheated on eachother, or who go to swing clubs because they bore eachother..
;)