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Joined: 30 Mar 2009 / Male ♂ 		Last Post: 11 Apr 2009
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Interests: female psychology

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joland   
10 Apr 2009
Love / What are Polish Women like? Just started to date one. [256]

the vast majority of polish women are:

- addicted to playing mindgames
- have many boyfriends at once
- they sleep with you, then go to club and pick up a black guy and sleep with him too
in the same night

Of course the polish girls will jump now and say that is not true. It is not true for the ugly ugly girls who cant get any guy, of course.

But it's true for the pretty ones: they can never settle for just 1 guy at a time
joland   
2 Apr 2009
Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing? [191]

well maybe 95% of forum users areindeed wasting-time rs that have nothing else to do than to make fun posting BS here...

but there are 5% like i am for example, who simply describe accurately a situation, in order to understand better and learn...

you guys should go out more, by the way;) yes it's true in clubs in poland they drink a lot and they fight a lot, i saw a lot of broken glasses and blood, and yes it's true polish also smoke a lot, which is not pleasant at all, but still
joland   
2 Apr 2009
Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing? [191]

ok, i got another loads of judging me gratuitously and it is very funny what you wrote because some of the guys
(especially old quite frustrated ex-sl*t JustyniaS)
just take 1% of my words, misinterpret and misread them, and create on top of them some fantastic stories about me.

well it's ok if you think that i am some kind of star., actually i'm not,. i'm a very normal guy, and i did exxagerate in the beginning, because from all 150 girls, it is about 30% only that do not answer my messages. i actually met one and i asked her about it just last night, and she told me that she thinks her level of english is very bad, and she feels ashamed that she doesnt speak english that well, that's why she didnt answer. and i heard this story from about other 10% of the girls

so 30% never answer
10% say they are ashamed with their level of english
30% we date and do more, but they're not "the one" so i keep searching
30% we talk over phone and they somehow get cold

so yes i was exagerating at the beginning, i thought i could find easier an answer this way

my apologies
joland   
1 Apr 2009
Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing? [191]

Guys...stick to the subject,it means have you experienced the original post or have an explanation to his issue.

Thank you. Yes, most users they started judging me.

But i think i am reaching closer to the answer which would be:

i did an overgeneralization based on the behaviour on most of the girls. but of course not all the girls.
maybe it was about the girls that i liked the most. the ones that i didnt quite like, they kept
messaging me back and they want to go out with me.

i do look for the girl of my dreams and i do love girls. i am not a player and i simply want that
special girl who cares for me.

I do not believe in picking up on the street, she can never tell her grandchildren: "how i met your grandfather ... he picked me up on the street..."

and i never received any complaints in any way about my looks, i do have shower every day and
i finished two prestigious universities, so dont worry about this girls;)
joland   
31 Mar 2009
Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing? [191]

my advice is considered this insulting and attacking way, by you and maybe just
some few other users

if you are an extremist and you like flamewars, why dont you go and play videogames where you can kill a lot of foreigners or whatever... in that fantasy game...
joland   
31 Mar 2009
Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing? [191]

im talking about normal real man not a whore man counting girls he was kissing them from club to club for (one night stand kissing) !!!

only an average very frustrated guy can say that about a normal guy who simply has good success with women.

"whore man" ... this is how you justificate your lack of kissing beautiful girls :)
joland   
31 Mar 2009
Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing? [191]

Between the 150 chicks and 1 of you, I dunno man, but statistically, have you considered that there may be a glitch with you, not with them?

After all it's you who couldn't entice a single one of the 150 chicks!

they all kissed me and had some very strong sexual advances on me, while they were not drunk.

however, the 2nd day the situation changes completely, and theyu become completely different persons,
without ANYTHING happening in the meantime.

so that is NORMAL regular behaviour for polish girls?

to switch completely moods from one day to the other?
joland   
31 Mar 2009
Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing? [191]

oh guys, i really wish you can simply stick to the subject, i have no idea why some need some kind of strange need to cure and call me "dumb" or otherways

Patrycia 19 you HAVE NO IDEA HOW I AM.

i am not a macho at all. I look like regular polish guy, and i never flash money in front of anyone.

you are imagining things, and you try to look for some answers completely OTHERWAY than simply

explaining why are 98% of young polish girls so mentally and emotionally instable?
i travelled in other countries with business too, and in no country the need for "playing games" is not bigger than in Poland
joland   
31 Mar 2009
Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing? [191]

i never ever buy them drinks. 95% of them are not drunk, i do not like the taste of a girl who is drunk.

PS guys, you can simply stick to the subject?

why some users need some kind of strange need to cur se and call me "dumb" or otherways
in order to show their frustration...

i simply asked a question and i described a situation. maybe i asked it in the wrong place?
joland   
31 Mar 2009
Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing? [191]

ok, this thread is EXCLUSIVISTICALLY about:

young beautiful polish girls 18-24 years old , which i met in clubs in Poznan, Wroclaw,
Lodz, Radom, Olsztyn, Opole, Krakow, they are Students and they are smart and speak good english

i do not want to change my preferences or start to date old women, i am simply not interested, i just want to understand what makes them behave like that

is it some kind of strange rule in Poland that if you write to a girl message or you call her in the next 2 days, you are a complete LOSER or what is it ??
joland   
31 Mar 2009
Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing? [191]

ok, i do treat them with respect, and they are very much excted and in love with me, the way they act and everything. i go out EVERY NIGHT so in 6 years it is normal that i kissed 150 polish young girls.

i was quite expecting that, instead of focusing on their actions, and on the fact that what polish girls say seem to be completely worthless, because they dont keep their word or they simply never mean what they say... but it is puzzling that everytime it happens the same and the same and again the same

They seem extremely much in love, they want to see me again, and next day they start to play games and then we never meet again.

PS
mbiernat i assume you are polish guy, so you are used to their behaviour and it seems you are some kind of foreigner hater, you think i came here to get the Kasias? No, i am just puzzled with their mood changing, emotionally instable behaviour

It seems that if i want to have a future with a girl, i should NEVER accept from her to kiss me in club,
and never dance with her the way she wants, that is very erotic... normal dance for polish girls by the way
joland   
31 Mar 2009
Love / Are 98% of young Polish girls emotionally unstable and mood changing? [191]

I am Spanish man, 28 years old, and i come to Poland every year, for 4 months, with business.

I love clubbing so I went to most of the big cities (Gdansk. Poznan, Wroclaw, Lodz, Krakow, etc)
almost every night out. so i have an experience of meeting and kissing over 150 polish girls,
usually age between 18 and 24 years old (i am not interested in older girls).

From their point of view, it seems they consider me to be very educated, smart and
handsome man, which they keep reminding me.

In 90% of the cases, it happens like this:

I go to club and have eye contact with some extremely gorgeous young Kasia,
student, smart, feminine, speaks english quite well, although she says "I am sorry
i am poor in English" i talk to her and she is very EXCITED and HAPPY and
she asks me a lot of questions,
she wants to know more about me, and in the first 3 minutes she almost always
asks me "What hotel do you stay in?"

In my spanish culture, this means she wants to sleep with me. Not in the polish culture
as i discovered through trial and error.

Then she goes on asking me a lot of questions, starting to dance very close tight glued
to my body, like she wants to have sex with me right there on the dancefloor.

This hapenned to me in more than 100 cases in the last 6 years, so I know exactly what i am talking about.

I just try to find somebody who can explain me polish girls behaviour and what would make them
be more emotionally stable.

After that, we kiss, sometimes for even 1 hour, with breaks of course, and she is very passionate.

I consider her to be a sure thing, i take her phone number and she says how much she wants to see me again, that she wants we go out the second day, etc.

My friends who come for the first time in Poland, they all say to me "Hey man, this girl
is really in love with you"

But then the next day when i call her or message her, she doesnt answer the message and
she doesnt pickup the phone.

On the 3rd day she writes me a very short sms, saying that she wants to meet me very much,
and she can meet me only in 1 week time.
(Next wednesday), which is clearly a lie, because it is impossible that all young polish girls to be exactly the same very busy every single minute of their lives...

If i message them after one week, they dont answer anymore.

Now, after happening this for so many times, i almost got used to it. But i still hope some of
these beautiful "Kasias" to be different and actually say what she means.

I expect now a lot of making fun and unserious posts, but some foreign men who will read this, they know exactly what i am talking about.

To my friends who live in Poland for 4 years now, they also say that polish girls should never be trusted, and that even them they dont know when they say truth and when they lie,

and that they treat boys as toys.

I clearly do not quite understand what the polish girls have to gain by being completely emotionally instable and changing their mood from extreme love to indifference,

without any event happening between these, that could influence her moods...

Thanks in advance for your detailed opinions on the young (18-24 years) beautiful polish girls
behaviour.