Arien
22 Apr 2010
Arien
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]
Oh, and one more to break your brains over; You talk about foreign cockroaches and honour but you behave like a doormat. Why not give her 10.000 PLN, that's what a real gentleman would do! *snickers*
;)
No class!
A gentlemen would just give her this 500 PLN (what is it 100pounds?) and got over it.But you foreign cockroaches proved already that you don't know what the honour is.
Oh, and one more to break your brains over; You talk about foreign cockroaches and honour but you behave like a doormat. Why not give her 10.000 PLN, that's what a real gentleman would do! *snickers*
;)
No class!
Arien
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]
You're right..
*bites lip*
Don't you think she'd have to be tired of life if she wanted to be with me?
;P
Open goal really! Impress me?
I know Elmo, but Emo? Sorry, never heard of him!
;)
Can you seriously see me as a blonde???
You're right..
*bites lip*
Why suicidal?
Don't you think she'd have to be tired of life if she wanted to be with me?
;P
Open goal really! Impress me?
Maybe he is emo ...
I know Elmo, but Emo? Sorry, never heard of him!
;)
Arien
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]
*kills himself*
*kills himself again*
:)
Colour it?
If only I had blonde hair, Id have been perfect! Damn!
*kills himself*
*kills himself again*
:)
Colour it?
Arien
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]
Excuse moi? Nie rozumiem.
;)
Well, if the rest of the description fits you I might overlook the fact you're not blonde. (Lucky you!)
;P
I think you might be selling yourself a little bit short.
Excuse moi? Nie rozumiem.
;)
Damn i m not blonde :S
Well, if the rest of the description fits you I might overlook the fact you're not blonde. (Lucky you!)
;P
Arien
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]
I think it's cute, maybe I should post a new add somewhere.. ''Really awesome Dutch guy looking for a cold, rude, blunt, upfront, foul-mouthed, insensitive, practical, realistic, oversexed, suicidal, crazy, mentally disturbed, blonde, hardcore prn b*tch.''
;P
What do you girls think? Will I find her?
I think it's cute, maybe I should post a new add somewhere.. ''Really awesome Dutch guy looking for a cold, rude, blunt, upfront, foul-mouthed, insensitive, practical, realistic, oversexed, suicidal, crazy, mentally disturbed, blonde, hardcore prn b*tch.''
;P
What do you girls think? Will I find her?
Arien
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]
I'm not exactly a short guy in the rest of the world though! (I remember needing a soap box to actually kiss the first girl I liked.)
:)
I'm not exactly a short guy in the rest of the world though! (I remember needing a soap box to actually kiss the first girl I liked.)
:)
Arien
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]
They're not defenseless, because I've tried to tell some blokes earlier that Dutch girls are awesome! (Just too tall for me in most cases!)
;)
They're not defenseless, because I've tried to tell some blokes earlier that Dutch girls are awesome! (Just too tall for me in most cases!)
;)
Arien
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]
Well, good!
:)
Try a city like Amsterdam.
;)
I know, I know - not ALL Polish girls are like that, its bad to stereotype blablabla....
Well, good!
:)
how did you manage to do that, huh?
Try a city like Amsterdam.
;)
Arien
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]
Hey, don't mention it, I'm sure you've heard better! (Phew!)
Well, I'm 29, and sometimes being naive isn't too bad! (It really does suck when you get hurt though!) I wouldn't want to be realistic and cold all the time, because that would feel pretty empty for me personally!
:)
You can smile about the times you've had a great time together, and forget about the rest? She could've been friendly and real with you after you two split up, but she obviously has chosen for a different approach. Again, that's her problem. Just cut all contacts between you and her if she keeps bothering you with her behaviour, and move on. Unless you think she's still the one for you? (I doubt it!)
:)
Thanks for the excellent (and humorous) advice Arien. Thankfully no kids are involved (I escaped that death trap).
Hey, don't mention it, I'm sure you've heard better! (Phew!)
Maybe at age 28 I am somewhat naive, but I can't believe that she, a sweet Polish girl, would be so dishonest like that.
Well, I'm 29, and sometimes being naive isn't too bad! (It really does suck when you get hurt though!) I wouldn't want to be realistic and cold all the time, because that would feel pretty empty for me personally!
:)
I thought that breaking up with her would have spelt the end of being subjected to her horrible behaviour. Clearly it isn't...
You can smile about the times you've had a great time together, and forget about the rest? She could've been friendly and real with you after you two split up, but she obviously has chosen for a different approach. Again, that's her problem. Just cut all contacts between you and her if she keeps bothering you with her behaviour, and move on. Unless you think she's still the one for you? (I doubt it!)
:)
Arien
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]
Well, you did leave her, and unfortunately for her that's the point where you don't have to take care of anything for her anymore. (Unless you have children.) So in this case, even if it was true, (Which it obviously isn't!) it's still going to be her problem, isn't it?
I need to be closer to her to be able to read her mind. (Sorry! It's all a wild guess for me!)
Well, there you have your answer.
You know what I would do? I would smash my mobile phone to bits, and make it flat enough to actually fit into an envelope, and send it to her along with a card that reads: Did you get the message?
Arien you are obviously absolutely right, but if factual and logical arguments like that actually worked with this girl, I would have never left her in the first place :)
Well, you did leave her, and unfortunately for her that's the point where you don't have to take care of anything for her anymore. (Unless you have children.) So in this case, even if it was true, (Which it obviously isn't!) it's still going to be her problem, isn't it?
I am wondering what is going on though... if she is lying, or wanting me to feel guilty for leaving her, or for using her precious water... I don't know!
I need to be closer to her to be able to read her mind. (Sorry! It's all a wild guess for me!)
I should also mention that around half the time I wasn't even living in that apartment - I was only in that apartment for less than two months.
Well, there you have your answer.
I considered demanding to see this mysterious 'fine', but at the moment I am just ignoring her.
You know what I would do? I would smash my mobile phone to bits, and make it flat enough to actually fit into an envelope, and send it to her along with a card that reads: Did you get the message?
Arien
21 Apr 2010
Love / Demands from Polish ex! [75]
Are you the owner of her apartment? No? Well, then you don't owe her jack. Just so you know.
:)
Are you the owner of her apartment? No? Well, then you don't owe her jack. Just so you know.
:)
Arien
19 Apr 2010
Love / Do most Polish women just want a friend or a bf? [13]
True, it's like we say over here; You can make or break a lady.
Give her the benefit of a doubt. She may not be what you think she is.
True, it's like we say over here; You can make or break a lady.
Arien
16 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]
Oh really? And why do you think so many Russian ladies are looking for a partner elsewhere then?
Genius.
Oh really? And why do you think so many Russian ladies are looking for a partner elsewhere then?
Genius.
Arien
16 Apr 2010
Love / Do Polish couples live together without being married? [18]
Yes dad, ouch! No dad, ouch! Sure dad, ouch! What?! Ouch!
Yes dad, ouch! No dad, ouch! Sure dad, ouch! What?! Ouch!
Arien
15 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]
..and I'm glad you have, because life would definitely be too boring for me if you didn't!
still, we all have will.
..and I'm glad you have, because life would definitely be too boring for me if you didn't!
Arien
15 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]
Definitely, but sometimes I can't help but to think that it all takes a bit too much though!
we all know it takes more then that.
Definitely, but sometimes I can't help but to think that it all takes a bit too much though!
Arien
15 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]
Only a few are, just like in every other country. Oh, and just because some girls are out to have fun with some foreign guys they don't take too seriously, doesn't automatically mean they're all gold-diggers. (It probably has more to do with the fact that he'll be easy to forget once it's over and he's going home.) I think most of us are mature enough know that both men and women aren't always serious about dating and stuff, and maybe that's exactly what keeps life interesting from time to time?
polish girls aint gold-diggers
Only a few are, just like in every other country. Oh, and just because some girls are out to have fun with some foreign guys they don't take too seriously, doesn't automatically mean they're all gold-diggers. (It probably has more to do with the fact that he'll be easy to forget once it's over and he's going home.) I think most of us are mature enough know that both men and women aren't always serious about dating and stuff, and maybe that's exactly what keeps life interesting from time to time?
Arien
15 Apr 2010
Love / I need your opinion ladies - Polish girl very friendly with her ex. [47]
I wish all the ladies and gentlemen would think like you, because it would save us all a lot of drama. To be honest I wouldn't want to get too close with my ex's though, I'd just leave them to their lives, because if the relationship really was deep, I prefer not to be around too much. (I mean, it's not very considerate to get all fluffy with your newly found love infront of a person who once loved you to bits?) Just a message or a few words every now and then would be nice, but that's it. If we happen to share mutual friends, then that wouldn't bother me in the slightest either.
Hey, most men don't like having all the ex-boyfriends of their women around either, so I can understand that perfectly.
I am friends will all of my ex's.
I wish all the ladies and gentlemen would think like you, because it would save us all a lot of drama. To be honest I wouldn't want to get too close with my ex's though, I'd just leave them to their lives, because if the relationship really was deep, I prefer not to be around too much. (I mean, it's not very considerate to get all fluffy with your newly found love infront of a person who once loved you to bits?) Just a message or a few words every now and then would be nice, but that's it. If we happen to share mutual friends, then that wouldn't bother me in the slightest either.
**** these ex ******* I wouldnt want a man with his ****en ex around no way.
Hey, most men don't like having all the ex-boyfriends of their women around either, so I can understand that perfectly.
Arien
15 Apr 2010
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]
Well, some women might blame it all on the men, and some mothers might actually raise their daughters to be that way, but I hope you'll notice that there are still plenty of girls out there who aren't like that. (It's a bit of a one-sided story you're presenting here?)
Instead, they seem to blame all of their own self-made problems on men.
Well, some women might blame it all on the men, and some mothers might actually raise their daughters to be that way, but I hope you'll notice that there are still plenty of girls out there who aren't like that. (It's a bit of a one-sided story you're presenting here?)
Arien
15 Apr 2010
Love / Polish blonde and a British pensioner. No fool like an old fool, or is it love. [57]
It does help though!
Well, you have a good reason to be proud of your daughters, and I think your daughters have a good reason to be proud of you man!
Well, I'm pretty open-minded, and today all the ideas guys and girls have about relationships work a bit differently from how it used to work when you were young, so I won't refuse a dance when asked! (Unless I'm a bit too drunk to dance!)
I liked your post very much and agree with what you are saying, money alone is not a basis for building a relationship.
It does help though!
I met my wife in London in 1970 and got married in 1971, we are still married and have a contented happy life. We have three lovely intelligent daughters highly educated, and the eldest two are financially independent of their husbands.
My youngest is still at university doing her masters. This post is not to brag how well I have done, but to contrast it with Brogan's disaster of a life.
Well, you have a good reason to be proud of your daughters, and I think your daughters have a good reason to be proud of you man!
Three marriages God knows how many kids, and a honky tonk bar in Donegal. If that silly girl is a gold digger I think she is on a loser, it looks like the gold mine is well played out. I am seventy one and would never embarrass my children like that, the mans got no dignity. you got the right idea Arien hang out for the right woman
Well, I'm pretty open-minded, and today all the ideas guys and girls have about relationships work a bit differently from how it used to work when you were young, so I won't refuse a dance when asked! (Unless I'm a bit too drunk to dance!)
Arien
15 Apr 2010
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]
Well, I find Polish girls sexy. Greek and Spanish women are beautiful aswell, but I guess I have a soft spot for blondes!
polish women are not "sexy", you will find Greek and Spaniards are genetically hotter
Well, I find Polish girls sexy. Greek and Spanish women are beautiful aswell, but I guess I have a soft spot for blondes!
Arien
15 Apr 2010
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]
Or they are just as sexy? (I think that may sound a bit friendlier towards Polish girls?)
Or they are just as sexy? (I think that may sound a bit friendlier towards Polish girls?)
Arien
15 Apr 2010
Love / Polish blonde and a British pensioner. No fool like an old fool, or is it love. [57]
Let's just be diplomatic and tell you that I've been with sexier girls than her. I don't fool myself with sexy anymore though, because a lot of women are sexy, wether they realize it or not. Excuse me, but I can't convince who? Just be happy I'm not posting pictures of the last party I've went to, because you might get jealous and depressed, and me being a gentleman these days, am certainly not going to post pictures of other people without their permission.
Oh, and I don't have to convince her, because something tells me she won't spend her whole life with that man. (And having all the money in the world but no partner still doesn't make most women very happy!) She'll figure it out some day..
It's all about money in your world, but you forget I also live in the real world, and in the real world, most of my friends who are construction workers are all happily married with a working girl. (And most of those girls are more than sexy enough, but more importantly, they value friendship, personality and character!) Me? I choose to stay single for the time being, because right now I have too many plans for the future, and I want to see how it all works out before I make any rash decisions. I know a relationship takes commitment, and I don't know what the future holds for me, but if I'm ever going to be a dad somehow, then atleast I want to be a dad who's happy with what he does, and also a dad who doesn't have to worry about not being able to give all the things I think any child should have to my child, or children.
So it has nothing to do with the girls, with me or whatever you're going to make of it. I'm happy as I am, but I do miss the company very much. I know tomorrow will be different though, once I can do something I like for a living. (Because that's also important!)
with these words, you can convince yourself, but, you can not convince this 29 years old sexy girl being with 72 old men to be with you.
Let's just be diplomatic and tell you that I've been with sexier girls than her. I don't fool myself with sexy anymore though, because a lot of women are sexy, wether they realize it or not. Excuse me, but I can't convince who? Just be happy I'm not posting pictures of the last party I've went to, because you might get jealous and depressed, and me being a gentleman these days, am certainly not going to post pictures of other people without their permission.
Oh, and I don't have to convince her, because something tells me she won't spend her whole life with that man. (And having all the money in the world but no partner still doesn't make most women very happy!) She'll figure it out some day..
It's all about money in your world, but you forget I also live in the real world, and in the real world, most of my friends who are construction workers are all happily married with a working girl. (And most of those girls are more than sexy enough, but more importantly, they value friendship, personality and character!) Me? I choose to stay single for the time being, because right now I have too many plans for the future, and I want to see how it all works out before I make any rash decisions. I know a relationship takes commitment, and I don't know what the future holds for me, but if I'm ever going to be a dad somehow, then atleast I want to be a dad who's happy with what he does, and also a dad who doesn't have to worry about not being able to give all the things I think any child should have to my child, or children.
So it has nothing to do with the girls, with me or whatever you're going to make of it. I'm happy as I am, but I do miss the company very much. I know tomorrow will be different though, once I can do something I like for a living. (Because that's also important!)
Arien
12 Apr 2010
Genealogy / Is tallness common among Polish people? [201]
All of those things? So you are tall, have bad teeth, you smell, you're racist and you eat potatoes? Or did you mean to say that you are Polish, British, French, German and Irish at the same time?
:)
Funny, I know.
We can't say that all Polish people are tall, just like we can't say all British people have bad teeth, or all French people smell, or all Germans are racist or all Irish people eat potatoes, because I am all of those things and none of those stereotypes apply to me.
All of those things? So you are tall, have bad teeth, you smell, you're racist and you eat potatoes? Or did you mean to say that you are Polish, British, French, German and Irish at the same time?
:)
Funny, I know.
Arien
9 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]
Not even all of these girls who leave their countries are looking for money though. I already know that some of these girls are leaving because of cultural differences, and some of them are looking for a different way of life. Guys who complain about gold diggers are pretty funny actually, because they can't be bothered to work on their personalities, and that's exactly what it takes to find an honest, hard working girl. You can flash your money and your expensive car, and with some girls that might work for a while, but you'll find out that most of these girls will leave you anyway. Can't buy love.
;)
You are then only talking about the girls that leave their home country to look for money.
Not even all of these girls who leave their countries are looking for money though. I already know that some of these girls are leaving because of cultural differences, and some of them are looking for a different way of life. Guys who complain about gold diggers are pretty funny actually, because they can't be bothered to work on their personalities, and that's exactly what it takes to find an honest, hard working girl. You can flash your money and your expensive car, and with some girls that might work for a while, but you'll find out that most of these girls will leave you anyway. Can't buy love.
;)
Arien
9 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]
I'm sure you'll figure it out.
;)
Young guys are not different than girls then.
I'm sure you'll figure it out.
;)
Arien
9 Apr 2010
Love / ARE POLISH GIRLS GOLD-DIGGERS? [359]
Well, I could probably understand they would not go after a homeless person! And those old men you're talking about? I don't think they're as naive as you might think. I think most of them are having a good time. It's actually these girls who chase old men who are a bit naive, because they can expect to lose their partner rather sooner than later, and then what? Oh, and evil? What is evil? Most girls are looking for some quality time, can you blame them? I mean, are men always trustworthy? You should see all the teenage single mothers here, because the boys ran off..
;)
Well, I could probably understand they would not go after a homeless person! And those old men you're talking about? I don't think they're as naive as you might think. I think most of them are having a good time. It's actually these girls who chase old men who are a bit naive, because they can expect to lose their partner rather sooner than later, and then what? Oh, and evil? What is evil? Most girls are looking for some quality time, can you blame them? I mean, are men always trustworthy? You should see all the teenage single mothers here, because the boys ran off..
;)
Arien
9 Apr 2010
USA, Canada / Getting a VISA to USA by a Polish person nowadays [339]
I hope so. (For their sake!)
:)
In all seriousness, unless it's a shack out at the airport, those women are making "great" money.
I hope so. (For their sake!)
:)
Arien
9 Apr 2010
USA, Canada / Getting a VISA to USA by a Polish person nowadays [339]
I don't think they serve quality lunches in strip clubs, but I could be wrong, as I've never went to one in my entire life. Maybe that's just me, but I think it's sad to sit there, and stare at mostly single mothers who undress themselves for a bit of money to support their kids.
;)
For the quality lunch, of course.
I don't think they serve quality lunches in strip clubs, but I could be wrong, as I've never went to one in my entire life. Maybe that's just me, but I think it's sad to sit there, and stare at mostly single mothers who undress themselves for a bit of money to support their kids.
;)