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Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]
It sucks when a woman steals your money but at the end of the day you only have yourself to blame for being naive and letting her have it... The communist b*tch! ;-D
Yeah, it's all true. Equality somehow has become a "let's be as bad or even worst than they are" - mantra. Applies to both sides and it is what it is.
I briefly dated a beautiful, black woman. Very inteligent, spoke several languages and I'm glad I got to know her. However, I'm certain that makes me a communist hound dog... Oh well, -> communist hound dogs of the world - unite, the revolution is coming! <- :)
It's not that we're brainwashed or forced into it, if we were hairy, smelly with frizzy hair and spotty faces you men wouldn't like us! :D So maybe men are the brainwashed ones because you don't fancy the cavewoman look anymore ha ha.
Cavewomen? Oh, the good 'ole days of Alpha females ;)
I didn't think y'all were brain washed, I was simply talking about how we all are molded into specific gender roles from very early on in our lives whether we know it or not.
It's always a good idea not to befriend your exes on facebook because all of those unneccesary thoughts and hopes will creep back into your head everytime they update their status. You have to let the past go whether it was a bad decision to break up or a lucky escape! I count mine as a lucky escape, wouldn't waste another breah on the tosser and feel sorry for any females who make the mistake to get emotionally involved with 'it' in the future :)
You're right and I thought about it afterwards. I have no idea how she found me as she didn't have my email address and my FB page is not under my name but my call sign. Yet she did and I thought it'd be very rude of me to refuse an FB invite from her as after all we used to be an item and there were indeed many good memories.
I figured dropping her as a FB friend would be even more rude than not accepting her invite to begin with. It's all good, just feels weird sometimes.
I don't. I agree with what you've written.
Glad to hear that.
You mean hypocrisy?
I don't know, maybe. Well, in general - yes, after all we're all humans.
Paulina - you touched on numerous issues here and overall I tend to agree with you. Yes, the world isn't fair, yes women often face a double standard when it comes to expressing their sexuality, yes, many men are heartless pigs. Hypocrisy? Absolutely.
However, there's also hypocrisy when looking from the opposite angle.
In many countries nowadays when looking for good paying jobs, applying to renowned universities, etc. your experience or your grades do not matter as much as your gender or the color of your skin. Political correctness helps people with lesser experience simply because they're "inies" and not "outies" between their legs or because their skin is darker. Some call it political correctness, some call it affirmative action I call it hypocrisy, or revenge sexism and revenge rasism.
The vast majority of divorce cases where children are part of the household end up with a total victory for the woman. Courts still view the mother as the "more important" parent. Statistics vary somewhat in the western hemisphere and for the sake of our discussion I'm including Poland in that group. Yet no matter which country you look at, in each and every one of them women win the vast majority of all child custody cases. Hypocrisy? Absolutely.
Recently there have been numerous cases of teachers sleeping with their teenage students. For the male teachers it means decades and decades behind bars, often in a he said she said environment where the courts tend to believe the young girl even if there's no other evidence and/or witnesses.
For the female teachers it usually means a suspension; after repeated offenses a few years behind bars where they get out early with good behavior.
Somehow it's less of an evil if a 40 year old female teacher molests a 15-year old boy then if the genders are reversed. What happened to the gender and race blind justice? Hypocritical? Absolutely.
In my view the world is full of injustices, full of hypocritical people. Yet we tend to notice mainly what might affect us the very most. One day I'd like to be a father, a good father. Yet, yes I do worry that if my marriage was to fail and my wife/girlfriend wants me out of our kids' lives all she needs to do is to take me to court and statistically speaking I will lose.
Likewise, you as a woman are frustrated by what you (and I) perceive to be an unfair treatment women get when they date men. Totally understandable and no it's not fair.
Interestingly, women are often their worst enemies and will judge other women more harshly than the men would. Often they also cling to old traditions, old perceptions, etc. Recently I watched a documentary about the horrific practice of female genital mutilation in some African countries. To my surprise it was primarily the women in those tribes who fought to keep the despicable tradition alive.
There are many, many other examples of hypocrisy affecting both genders.
Anyways, my point is that hypocracy exists everywhere you look. All you and I can do is to break the chain of events, you know one at a time and slowly the society will be changing for the better.
I try to see the world from the "other" perspective, even if it makes no sense to me at all. I try to understand but more importantly to respect.
Just because a woman hurt me does not mean I must hurt other women. Similarly, you should try to understand the world from our perspective even if it makes no sense to you at all. Just try and if it still seems totally stupid to you then, well try to respect the other view point. Not always easy and often I fail at it, but I try... Pay it forward you know.
But I appreciate what you, Skysoulmate, and AJ are writing here.
I'm impressed. You guys are cool :)
Not too often but every now and then we get in touch with our softer sides lol Thank you btw.
PS. Self disclosure -> I sent Paulina some money to call me cool, unfortunately the check bounced ;)
