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ZIMMY   
30 Jul 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

you have repeatedly posted the same thing;

....and with you it still hasn't sunk in that women initiate domestic violence as often as men.

It appears that by blindly following a proscribed path your reasoning went out the window.

You mean like when feminists with the help of the media propagate that women are victims and men are oppressors?

Any links you have posted have been to Blogs or "opinion sites" or on previous occasions to "Crank" sites.

One may not agree with the blogs in question but it doesn't necessarily invalidate the information or the facts when they are true. As to "Crank" outlets, the Feibert studies were done by divergent groups of professionals with no ax to grind.

Here is what Bernard Goldberg, a CBS correspondent at the time said about journalists.
"When it comes to gender issues, journalists generally have suspended all their usual skepticism. We accept at face value whatever women's groups say. Why? because women have sold themselves to us as an oppressed group and any oppressed group gets a free ride in the press. I don't blalme feminist for telling us half-truths and sometimes even complete fabrication. I do blame my colleagues in the press for forgetting their skepticism."

Of course the feminist perspective in the media is all around us, so much so that people are accustomed to its 'normality'. How many stupid anti-male tv (and radio) ads will it take for that sort of misandry to sink in? I cannot count the amount of ads featuring dumb husbands and their smart wives in advertising or the dozens of sitcoms where the man is always the jerk who in alleged humorous ways is always being lectured by his wife. If the genders were reversed, the protests and howls of "sexism" would be louder than an atom bomb. It is "politically incorrect" to show women in the same way that men are portrayed.

There are too many newspaper stories for me to list as well. When the New York Times featured one of their many 'gender stories' with the headline; Men: Are women better off with them or without them?" you know that a similar article about women was "politically taboo". ... and on it goes.

The above are mere 'tips of icebergs' but a rational reader can already feel the chill.

can you provide evidence for your position that a Feminist agenda dominates society in general and the Media in particular.

See previous post.

(Media continued)
Some time ago, author David Thomas wrote a book, "Not Guilty" in which he counted New York Times articles that featured stories/articles about men or women. For the year he counted 104 articles for men and 679 for women. This sort of percentage is not untypical when it comes to male and female coverage in the papers, but I enjoy using the very liberal New York Times as an example because it is 'the newspaper' that other journalists rely on for acceptable news.

Except for Fox News, the tv anchors and journalists in the other major stations are liberal thus presenting the stories they 'feel' are important. (at least two surveys of reporters have been taken and both found that at least 85% of the journalists and anchors admitted to be liberal). So the 'tone' of their features is slanted. Even Fox News hires too many blond reporters and tolerates their occassional male-bashing.

As to books, the latest estimate is that since Betty Freidans groundbreaking book in 1963, there have been some 30,000 plus books on feminism not to mention many more articles and specialty pieces in magazines. General people-type magazines are also dominated by women and womens' articles.

Speaking of another form of media; there are too many misandric movies and it would take several pages to go through them. But recent genres include the new action movies. It is now fashionable to see some 100 lb woman beat up 250 lb men, often dozens of them. Amazing how such skinny muscles are superior to mens'. Of course, these are pretend flicks but I've run into women who actually believe such non realities

Populist talk shows like "The View" are dominated by liberal-feminists and in general they too have a jaundiced gender perspective. Again, all this and much more has been accepted because it has grown little-by-little until it has become all pervasive. Of course the frog doesn't know it's slowly being boiled either.

Now, all this is fine except for one rather important aspect. Lets stop bending over backwards and really treat women as equals.

Is Polish media as bad as that in the U.S.?

(As a quick aside, most men will find that if they really treat women as equals that women don't like it. Feminists demand mens' equality while keeping all their traditional benefits thus giving men nothing while continuing to demand more and more (except to be coal miners, or hazmat divers, or long-haul truckers, etc. after all, they might break a nail).
ZIMMY   
29 Jul 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

Dont forget about false reporting when it comes to rape

In the U.S. it has become almost fashionable to report (false) rape. In feminist circles, it is a badge of honor. Poland does not have that severe of a problem because Marxist-feminism has not taken a strong toe-hold there and the women are generally 'normal' as opposed to U.S. women who complain about virtually everything. You might want to look at the "Blog Archive" which is only a tip of the false rape epidemic here.

falserapesociety.blogspot.com
ZIMMY   
29 Jul 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

Links from this website (I have read some) do not promote what you claim; that there is a feminist template generally adopted by society and the media.

The feminist template is all around us. News organizations take-for-granted the false figures feminists provide in their news releases. They include such ridiculous claims that one out of four women are raped. On Father's Day, the news organizations print articles by feminists on how bad fathers are; that they are deadbeats, abusers and murderers. That doesn't happen on Mother's Day. Many other examples abound and only those with an agenda fail to notice them.

Murray A Straus of the University of New Hampshire states this:

I believe he wrote that in the 1970's and has since augmented it. You must have missed the part where he stated; " ...one of the main reasons why "minor" assaults by women are such an important problem is that they put women in danger of much more severe retaliation by men."Nevertheless, he notes that women initiate violence as often as men. Additionally, he wrote;

"In the mid 1970s my colleagues and I made the disturbing discovery that women physically assaulted partners in marital, cohabiting, and dating relationships as often as men assaulted their partners. This finding caused me and my former colleague Suzanne Steinmetz to be excommunicated as feminists."

I chose to read Straus's work as He is quoted liberally by others in all the links you provided.

Then you understand his valid points. Picking out a comment here and there doesn't invalidate his overall premise.

You were offering to post better links and couldn't, so no it's not sufficient.

I recall that this was in reference to the fact that feminism was related to Marxism and I gave you a book reading assignment that proves this fact.

Lots of good articles here, you might want to read them especially the one on your idol Betty Friedan, one of the first modern Marxist-feminists.

dvmen.org/dv-49.htm#friedan
ZIMMY   
29 Jul 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

it's XXI century, not middle ages.

Your knowledge of the ages is amazing.

women's studies classes.......?

that should be mandatory...

Brainwashing should be outlawed.

grow some balls

Mine are too big already.

t wouldn't matter how foxy my woman was - I need my space!

"Let me have my way exactly in everything, and you will find that a pleasanter creature does not exist."...............................Thomas Carlyle (Scottish satirical writer, essayist, historian, teacher, philosopher and grouchy wise man)
ZIMMY   
29 Jul 2010
News / Pole loses language discrimination case in Germany; Scandalous! [97]

MareGaea:
All roads lead to Serbia
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you are female. You know that

That seems to be a common consensus among the posters here. There is lots of estrogen in MareGaea' writings (not that it's a bad thing).

Gastarbeiters in Poland

Overheard in a bar: "It's alright if the Germans come in, just as long as they're not Turks".

What a crazy world.
ZIMMY   
29 Jul 2010
History / Warsaw Uprising - The Forgotten Soldiers [117]

Poland did behave as greedy and agressive the moment it could as most other countries did.

The person who is losing the argument always attempts to justify his/her point by projecting some sort of 'equivalency' - that situations, plights, complications, conjectures, etc. are either all 'relative' or the same. They are not!

I think Poland should had negotiated with Germany and made concessions.

When one starts negotiations with automatic concessions, (then) they are not really negotiations.

You never had to walk in their boots a minute......

It must have been tiring goose-stepping like that.
ZIMMY   
29 Jul 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

You have not, I asked you directly to post such links in this thread...

I did not have the inclination to go over the same ground with you that I've frequently gone over in various threads with others; so my book recommendation was a sufficient response to you. You are probably unaware that I've posted this interesting link among several others4 previous times (as posters here will attest).

csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm

Truth is Zimmy all you have posted is links to blogs and such there by cheapening the issue.

There is probably too much truth in this blog for you.

mediaradar.org

(Lots of informative articles)

Oh, poor men! How they suffer........

Your emotionally snide commentary is the lowest form of discourse, let alone honest conversation. Your attitude is unfortunately typical of the modern brain-washed woman. Perhaps you took too many women's studies classes.......?

you will be seriously surprised with the amount of **** Polish guys put up with on a daily basis. Emotional blackmail, yelling, ordering them around - you name it.

Yet, it is women who have been taught that if a man does anything remotely close to the above then he is "abusive". Women legalize these so-called abuses by filing complaints, men don't.

women told most often that they used objects not just their hands.

Statistically, women use objects more often than men when they abuse their mates.

menstuff.org/issues/byissue/femaledv.html

AJ, your "how would you feel.......?" questions put the shoe on a female foot. Interesting.
ZIMMY   
28 Jul 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

In the U.S. women hit men as often as men hit women. It is probably the same in Poland because in personal relationships size does not matter. People know each other and usually know how much the other person in the relationship will take. Oftentimes, men will not hit back and their abusive spouses know that; and of course there is the old 'take it like a man' approach which our cultures seem to demand.

Despite the fact that women physically abuse their mates as often as men do, the feminist template has been that only women are victims and they have been extremely successful in propagating that false agenda. Some women here continue to justify that myth.

Several times I have presented in these forums dozens of links including hundreds of studies which of course female apologists prefer to ignore. Indeed, they become emotional about their preferred false beliefs. In their jaundiced world, men must be seen as 'bad' and women must be seen as 'good'. In that sense, the feminist propaganda war against men has been very successful because even the general media constantly carries their stories.
ZIMMY   
26 Jul 2010
News / Pole loses language discrimination case in Germany; Scandalous! [97]

If a guy is prohibited from seeing his children without supervision, there must be some reason for that.

That's probably true, it is possible, if not probable that this man was abusive in some manner. There is, however, room for some doubt. For example, it is common for women in the U.S. (don't know about Germany) to make false accusations of domestic violence or child abuse, etc. and it's done to win full custody of the kids. Too often, not much, if any evidence is needed (many, many examples provided on request).

Instead everybody starts to scream discrimination and all that jazz,

That's true, I don't care who does it but that whole race issue is so overplayed that it has become sickening.

if this guy is living for nearly 30 years in Germany, he should be able to express himself thoroughly in German.

He probably can. Perhaps he wants to speak in Polish (world's most difficult language?) so that his kids can retain a part of their heritage?

The language supervision aspect is an interesting one and I will ask one of my feminist attorney acquaintances if there is a similar requirement in the states.
ZIMMY   
24 Jul 2010
News / Poland - the least liked German neighbour. [210]

Nope...one to change and two to spin the chair.

That's what I'm talking about; evidently, you are unaware of the many privileges American unions have. You see, the joke has evolved into a union joke here.

How many Germans does it take to change a light bulb?
None, because Germans never see the light.
ZIMMY   
24 Jul 2010
News / Poland - the least liked German neighbour. [210]

I was told Poles really do need 3 people to change a lightbulb!

Only if they belong to a union, and that's true for everybody.

That bad joke is ironic in that Polish engineers are respected in America.
ZIMMY   
24 Jul 2010
News / Poland - the least liked German neighbour. [210]

A German American acquaintance (long ago) once told me; "Germans are alright, just as long as there aren't more than 4 of them in any one place, then something kicks in."
ZIMMY   
23 Jul 2010
News / Poland - the least liked German neighbour. [210]

I'm surprised France didn't get a larger 'hate' vote.
Of course, the Netherlands, Belgium and Denmark wouldn't get many votes and Austria is 'German-light'. Did Switzerland receive a 'neutral' vote? No doublt WWII and it's aftermath influenced the German votes.
ZIMMY   
23 Jul 2010
History / Polish aristocrats - would be better off if we had Polish magnate families? [69]

We will see what happens next to Ukraine - become part of the new Russian creation in one skin or the other.

Ukraine should probably split in two. East Ukraine goes Russian while West Ukraine goes Polish. (don't forget, when a Pole and a Russian have a kid, out pops up a Ukrainian) ...
ZIMMY   
18 Jul 2010
Life / As EuroPride visits Warsaw - is it the start of overdue social change in Poland? (homosexuality promotion) [144]

ignorant fools who refuse to go with the flow of times.

Going "with the flow of times" is not a good criteria nor a convincing argument. For example; the German people went 'with the times' in the 1930's and that was not a good idea.

Of course one should appeal to the (good) humanity in us which we all have in various degrees, (some more than others) and understand that sex is a good thing (as long as we stay within our species).
ZIMMY   
16 Jul 2010
History / The Grunwald Battle: Today is 600th anniversary of the greatest medieval battle. [66]

Oh, I'm hip, and let's throw in the Hel peninsula as well.......

It's just that in the 1400's lots of the military action was one-on-one . unless the Poles were using a Gatling Gun, it would be more than remarkable if the ratio was as high as the knowledgeable Sokrates stated.

As I said, I could believe that 10 Poles could cause 100 Teuton casualties but a 48 to 1 ratio is suspect. Wait, what is that music I'm hearing, is it? can it be? .........

Marsz, marsz, Dąbrowski
Do Polski z ziemi włoskiej
Za twoim przewodem
Złączym się z narodem
..........................
Niemiec, Moskal nie osiędzie,
Gdy jąwszy pałasza,
Hasłem wszystkich zgoda będzie
I ojczyzna nasza

Marsz, marsz...
ZIMMY   
15 Jul 2010
Life / Talking over people in conversations; is it a Polish trait? [41]

I could innundate you with links, right from the news, when two men with opposing views are interviewed, talking right over each other.

Well, the news outlets are not exactly 'informal' conversations between or among 'regular' people in social settings. ... but, this article is interesting reading in itself, but click on the video, sit back and listen to the whole thing. The good stuff, "women talking over each other" starts at the 2 minute mark. Enjoy!

...
ZIMMY   
6 Jul 2010
Life / Talking over people in conversations; is it a Polish trait? [41]

You cannot tell a sentence bigger than 5 words to a woman without being interrupted

some women never finish their sentences

I almost hate to say this but this trait, this very bad habit of speaking before the other person finishes is primarily a female one. In informal conversations, it is noticeable that four out of five times, it is women who do this.
ZIMMY   
1 Jul 2010
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

Southern, why do you generalise so much? You need to come to Gliwice. You will see many plain-looking women that really won't move you at all.

I suspect that a scarecrow in a dress moves him. No offense Southern, but you need to enter a 12-step sex addiction program.
ZIMMY   
1 Jul 2010
Off-Topic / PF - The Omnibus Edition [1502]

What's wrong with "Warschau"?

I heard that term used the last time I was in Berlinski.
ZIMMY   
28 Jun 2010
USA, Canada / American father's son is in Poland, [he's] told to pay child support.... [30]

what do you do to help out?

You don't have to join a group although that wouldn't hurt. It would show that you are a citizen in good standing with the whole of humanity, not just half of it.

Do what's right. When your women friends begin to dish men (and you know you've heard that often), you can come right up and say, "that's not right' and correct them. You can be bigger than they are by judging people as humans first, not just by gender.

From across the room, I've seen a couple of women do this in mixed company when women began to bash men. One woman in particular got some 'looks' from her friends for daring to go against "the sisterhood". That's the price you may initially pay but it's well worth it.

If more women did those 'home grown' corrections with their female acquaintances, than more women would get the picture. And to the manginas here, you guys are even worse for being such butt-kissing weaklings. Every now and then I'll hear some guy say something like, "I'll ask the boss" referring to his wife. I shape him up right away.

Going to the beach, nothing like showing off my abs :}
ZIMMY   
28 Jun 2010
USA, Canada / American father's son is in Poland, [he's] told to pay child support.... [30]

nobody said it's right to do...

Lol, we've all heard women cheer when a man's been hit or kicked by another female. They even laugh. Comments like, "you go girl" or "he deserved it" etc are typical. And here is the crux of the matter; feminists in much of their literature deny that men can be victims. It's a gender thing with these narrow minded bigoted females.

didn't you think that i may be fighting for other stuff, which actually make a part of my life?

It's true that women think of themselves first (to a much higher degree than men who frequently help or rescue women even at their own peril). This aspect of what I call 'me-ism' in women is very pronounced as evidenced by their frequent demands that men do something for them. Men are pro active and women just have to be there. Women just take the social niceties as 'a given' - while failing to give back. In short, women demand all the pick-and-choose equality they deem noteworthy (like being on business and government boards) while also retaining the traditional female advantages without giving them up.

As to divorce laws, men know that they have an uphill fight, and women know it too.
ZIMMY   
28 Jun 2010
USA, Canada / American father's son is in Poland, [he's] told to pay child support.... [30]

Whenever a woman is hurt I'm always there to support her. In cases such as this some women look for excuses to defend the woman simply because she's "one of their own".

Feminists call that "the Sisterhood". Does this scenario sound familiar"

woman; "he hit her, what a terrible man he is, she is so abused."
woman; "she hit him, what did he do to her to make her hit him ?"

That's female logic.
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pgtx:"so far, i don't feel as it's my cup of tea..."

You make my point, thank you. Why fix something where you have advantages........right?