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Fell in love; I need to go back to Poland for 2 months - what to say at work (UK) [50]
Danka100, one thing I don't understand is why you think that two months will take care of everything. You can't have your cake and eat it. Say you are together for the two months, all is great. You stay and things don't work out after 2 years. You can't look at a relationship like on some sort of job contract.
If you think this is the guy for you, go for it. You probably have much higher chance to find a another good job than another good guy.
And say, something happens to your workplace, like eg. your boss files chapter eleven or lets you go. Nothing is granted. I'm saying that because I had a dilemma of similar sort. I had a job that I liked. When my first kid was born I took only 3 months off so that I can be on top of everything, especially that the time of the year was really critical for that job. I saw my kid for maybe 2-3 hours a day. 6 months after I came back to work my boss out of the blue decided to outsource my department. I can't tell you how bitter I was. Not because I was laid off, but because I've lost 6 months of being with my then baby for that stupid company.