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delphiandomine   
14 Jul 2013
UK, Ireland / Warning by Poland's Government before you go to the UK [53]

there are so many Brits getting sucked into the Polish dream by the Polish wife, poor buggers turn up here with a pocket full of cash and no idea, two years later they are looking for the exit

Absolutely. I've heard of one particularly shocking situation a few weeks ago. I won't go into details because I know at least two people on this forum know the protagonists, but it was a situation where the victim was humiliated and could do nothing about it. If it had been in the UK, it would have been a completely different story.

You forgot to mention that they're looking for the exit without the wife ;)

And those who went in that direction can end up thoroughly miserable in PL, speaking the language badly and no place for them in the jobs market with nothing left for them to do back home either. Or sleeping on a sofa in a grotty Polish flat, only staying here so they can see their kids on access visits.

I would say that anyone over the age of 25 when coming here needs to be very realistic about what Poland has to offer them in the long run. I got an e-mail once from a guy who was over 40 that was looking to move here with his Polish wife - it turned out that her family had essentially told him a load of nonsense about his career prospects here. How often is that story repeated?
delphiandomine   
14 Jul 2013
Life / Immigration in Poland and being surrounded by a monoculture? [134]

I know families are becoming smaller but with the right incentives, the right people would likely choose to have more children if they could.

The problem is that there exists a quite powerful lobby in Poland that represents "families" - and that lobby demands the same concessions for all families. You and I know that the best solution is to give high rate taxpayers tax rebates - but you would hear endless screaming from those who think that it's their Catholic right to have endless children that they can't actually afford to have.

I've always thought that the current situation in Poland where those with 4+ children are rewarded with all sorts of benefits to be a destructive policy. Why is it that the responsible family of 2+2 that chose to bring up children properly are punished, while those who were irresponsible and had 4+ are rewarded?

I think we'd all be surprised to find out how much the arrangement really benefits the student vs how much it benefits your cause. I would at least like to hear another side of the story other than just yours before I come to any conclusions.

I'll try and explain what the situation is :

In Poland, some degrees have compulsory job training - some universities offer it in house (for instance, picking fruit on a university farm, I kid you not...) - but others demand that you go outside and get it. In my field (education) - it's mandatory to do x amount of hours. So - schools all do it differently, some will just stamp the papers for you and tell you to get lost, others will hand you a class and say "here you are", and others will do it properly.

We do it properly - they start off with observing classes and discussing things with teachers, then they progress to assisting in a class, then they co-teach, then they teach while being observed, then they finally have the class by themselves without observation - just self evaluation. As part of it, they're expected to do all the duties that a normal teacher might have to do - for instance, setting up a hall for a play, or going to the shop to buy supplies, or going to the printers to pick up things - whatever. The idea is that it teaches them responsibility and it also lets them understand exactly how much preparation and work goes into teaching in a school. They don't do anything that I (or other teachers) don't have to do - but of course, it can be mundane rubbish like photocopying too. It's all structured so that they come out after their placement being able to go into a school and teach without needing to have their hand held.

What we also do is use that time to observe whether they would make a good fit - last year, we gave two jobs to students who had got their work practice with us rather than hiring externally - we knew them, they were good and they'd done a great job during their practice.

Utter nonsense again, you most likely made it all up or what "you" offer is some 700 zł a month crap, people in the city with lowest unemployment rate in Poland simply will not treat it seriously as it is not competitive on that market.

No Greggy, we offer people a proper job with the Karta Nauczyciela. Again, just because your own experiences are so bitter doesn't mean that everyone else is bitter as well. You also missed the point - I'm talking about people on work experience, not people looking for work.

Following on -

What we've found is that many students simply don't want to put the hard work in during the work practice. We've got something like 6-7 students at any one time, and what happens time and time again is that they are shocked that they're expected to work hard during the placement - as hard as the normal teachers. They're quite surprised that we just don't sit them down and tell them to observe, or that they have to take real responsibility for classes. It seems that (from talking to one of them) that many people have the papers stamped by schools that couldn't care less - and we do. If they're there to get trained, then we have to train them.

The whole course we design for them is designed to make sure that they are able to work. It's tough - we have a policy that if they can't take full responsibility for a class by the end of the practice, then we won't stamp their papers. But it also recognises that they're inexperienced teachers and that they make mistakes - it's more about being responsible than anything else.

When I ask myself how that's possible, the answer is clear: many Poles don't invest in their businesses. These guys haven't bought the tools to make custom cuts on site. They belong to that old attitude that Delphi you've alluded to still exists among a lot of people here. I wouldn't call it laziness in the physical sense but I think I have seen what you wrote about (to some extent).

Yep, it's very much alive and well. It's madness - these people have their own businesses, yet they seem incredibly reluctant to actually invest in themselves/the business. They then wonder why their business isn't succeeding - well - the lack of flexibility might have something to do with it?

I remember a friend of mine needed some plumbing work done in a dire emergency. They called their usual guy, who told them that he didn't work after 4pm and that was that - he wasn't interested in coming. They found another guy who was happy to come and get wet and filthy in the middle of the night - and from that, he got all the routine work from then on as a result of being willing to help out. What made the story so insane is that the first plumber knew that he was a good customer - yet he simply wasn't willing to get out of bed to fix a situation - even though he could have charged the moon.

What I've found in Poland is that people will pay a premium price for a good service quite happily - but finding that good service is much easier said than done.
delphiandomine   
14 Jul 2013
Life / Immigration in Poland and being surrounded by a monoculture? [134]

Family friendly economic policies

You can have the friendliest economic policies in the world, but it won't change the fact that educated, intelligent people working in good jobs won't want to have several children. It'll just encourage morons to breed for the benefits - as we've seen in the UK.

fair opportunities at home

There are many opportunities that Poles just don't want to take up.

I've offered compulsory work practice student placements for 3 years now - you would be surprised how utterly lazy and unmotivated they seem to be. So many times, I've had people e-mailing me asking if I can just stamp the papers for them without doing the practice - despite the fact that our placements are actually well worth doing, as there's the possibility of employment afterwards.

Then there's the ones who baulk at the thought that "job training" involves actual training. Then there's the ones who have a habit of mysteriously being "sick" and "not able to come" just before a long weekend. They soon recover when I tell them that the placement is finished and I won't stamp their papers... Oh, and must not forget those that sulk and complain because the job practice is hard work. I remember one student whining and complaining because she had to sort out our sports hall for an end of term performance - in her mind, teaching was about working your set 18 hours and then going home.

The lack of opportunity is caused by two main factors - a pathetic work ethic and a culture that encourages employee abuse of employers, particularly small employers. Communism can still be blamed in this respect.
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
Travel / Poland in photo riddles [3134]

Wroclaw?

(a blind guess based on the modernised tramway and wide road...)
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
News / Madonna to be discussed at Polish exorcists meeting [27]

I would also be interested to discuss the motivations of this journalist Mathew Day

I'd guess his motivation is simple - boring stories about how Poland is a nice place to be now don't get bought by newspaper editors.
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
Love / Are Polish girls better cooks? [45]

Yeah, German bratwursts taste the same as Polish-style sausages. :-\

The thing is that there's no such thing as 'Polish-style' sausages. You can get such a wide range in Poland and Germany that trying to define them as "Polish-style" simply doesn't work.

Italian pasta salads taste the same as ham-filled pierogi too.

No, but German and Polish potato salads taste pretty much the same.
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
Love / Are Polish girls better cooks? [45]

A certain way Poles make sausage.

I think it's an American invention, not Polish.

German sausages do taste different from Polish ones me thinks.

They taste the same from where I'm sitting, 100 miles from the border.
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
Love / Are Polish girls better cooks? [45]

Polish sausage

What is "Polish sausage"?

I don't remember ever seeing it in the shops in Poland...
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
Love / Are Polish girls better cooks? [45]

What is Polish food in your opinion?

Same as German food, Ukrainian food, Czech food and so on...
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
Study / Danish girl moving to Warsaw as an Erasmus-student - where should I live? [30]

Completely free choice in most cases. Erasmus exists to allow students a chance to study abroad, funded by the European Union. Perhaps more than any other programme, Erasmus really breaks down national barriers in Europe.

People choose to go all over Europe - there are quite a few British students in France, many Polish students all over Europe, you can find many Portuguese/Spanish students in Poland and so on.
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
Study / Danish girl moving to Warsaw as an Erasmus-student - where should I live? [30]

However, my mother is Czech and I speak Czech close to fluently, so I'm pretty sure that I would be able to learn the basics of Polish within a few months.

Without a doubt. I know Ukrainians that have been here a year and speak Polish pretty much fluently.
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
Life / Etiquette in a Store and Market Queues in Poland [146]

One thing that annoys me is people "saving seats" on trains for their friends who aren't there yet.

Doesn't bother me, just sit down anyway. That train in question is particularly awful though - it's always full of students from Piła and coffin dodgers going to/from the seaside. I made the mistake of taking the 7.40ish train from Poznan north once - oh dear...not to be repeated.
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
News / Madonna to be discussed at Polish exorcists meeting [27]

Precisely. Which is more of a threat to Poland: Madge or the rise of the far right? Rather dire music or violent racism? But then perhaps it's expecting a bit much to hope that the RCC speaks out against Nazis and anti-semitism.

I think - trying to be objective - it's a problem caused by the way that the RCC works. If you think that they can rarely do anything radical because they can't agree on anything, then they end up having conferences on dull things like Madonna, piercings and tattoos rather than confronting the real issues that affect young people in Poland.

I'd guarantee that the average young person is far more at risk from being beaten up by thugs than by piercing their eyebrow.
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
News / Madonna to be discussed at Polish exorcists meeting [27]

I think the problem is that no amount of ranting by old men at such a conference is going to change that - the way to help is through grass roots outreach work.

I know of one priest that couldn't care less if you have long hair, short hair, piercings, listen to satanic metal, whatever - his only goal is to bring young people together in a supportive environment where they can talk openly without being judged. That is what changes things, not looking down on people for things like piercings.

It's worth pointing out that many Christians are covered in tattoos and piercings. The metalcore genre is a great example - the music is fairly heavy, tattoos and piercings are mandatory - yet many bands are openly Christian. I doubt the old men at this conference have much or any of a clue about this.

The very fact that they're focusing on Madonna rather than genuinely harmful things like drugs says it all.
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
Real Estate / Buying a flat in Krakow; prices are still falling? [200]

but my age (i am 28) and my payments are not the issue here. i just replayed what the bank told me. since i was a NON EU citizen and work in a NON EU country.

A clear "go away" offer, then.
delphiandomine   
13 Jul 2013
News / Madonna to be discussed at Polish exorcists meeting [27]

They are focused on the YOLO culture and its negative effect on youth.

The problem is that they're going about it in entirely the wrong way. It's a general problem with Catholicism - old men trying to tell young people what to do and what not to do, when they should be listening more to what the young people are trying to tell them - including young priests!
delphiandomine   
12 Jul 2013
Law / Polish licence question: theory and driving test? Cost and lenght of the process? [13]

So any non-special (being PC here) members have any experience here?

As I've told you repeatedly, it's a matter of preparation.

Those who listen during the theoretical lectures, take copious notes and prepare thoroughly for the test will find it easy. The test isn't designed to trick you, nor is it designed to be particularly difficult - it only ensures that you know the rules and know how to apply them when driving.
delphiandomine   
12 Jul 2013
Study / Halal food in Rzeszow and part time jobs for international student in Poland [24]

I suspect it's the same old story - someone's been told stories by an "agent" about how Poland is cheap to enter/get a visa, stories about how he can get a part time job and stories about how it's a gateway to the EU.

I really am strongly in favour of introducing a minimum income requirement for non-EU students studying in the EU, as well as preventing them from working during their studies unless it's in a directly related field to the course. 6000 euro/year should be the bare income required.
delphiandomine   
12 Jul 2013
Real Estate / Apartment damage and rental deposit in Poland [20]

If court's so expensive, what does a tenant realistically do if a landlord refuses to return a deposit or keeps some of it unfairly? Nothing?

Ask for receipts for the rent so that you can give them to the tax office as part of your yearly tax return. Watch as landlord gets frightened.
delphiandomine   
12 Jul 2013
Language / Polish keyboard 214 is best [34]

Nobody has feelings about keyboards.

I think most people are happy that they can use standard QWERTY keyboards without having to pay extra for country-specific layouts.

For what it's worth, as someone who can touch type - using ALT+whatever has never bothered me. It's intuitive and presents absolutely no problem with normal communication.
delphiandomine   
12 Jul 2013
Work / Living in Lublin (as a teacher)!? [36]

I'm sorry but I'm just curious to learn which government owned school thought it would be a good idea to use EU funds to fly a Turkish citizen to teach english in Poland for up to 3000zl for 4 days worth of work per month.

It's a Comenius project, so it's designed around exchange trips. It will have cost nothing for the school to take part, and I know from personal experience that it's nearly impossible to get native English teachers to take part in these projects.

This country is flooding with language schools and highly qualified english teachers struggling to make a decent living who would be more than willing to perform their duties for a fraction of what you're claiming to have been offered. It just doesn't add up.

He's working 12 hours a week - so it's likely that he's working at least 3 days a week.

But what is worth pointing out that this is a Comenius project, so the economics are designed to support someone who is actually moving country to share their experiences and knowledge. Either way, Poland isn't paying for the project, the EU is - which means non-Polish taxpayers in practice.

Is it just me? Am I missing something? Am I being unfair here?

You are missing something - it's what Comenius is. The idea is that after he completes the project, he'll go back to Turkey with new ideas and approaches (as well as contacts in Poland) that can be used in the future to build up relationships between his school and the school in Chelm. There are thousands of teachers doing this every year - it's really nothing extraordinary.

My own school has applied for funding to take 25 children to Greece as part of Comenius, for instance. We're still waiting on the answer, but if the project gets accepted, then there will be around 200 children and their teachers from all over Europe all going to one Greek school - that's what Cominus really is.
delphiandomine   
12 Jul 2013
Law / Jobs and Economic Status in Poland [64]

however a general idea of investing people's own real money to save for their future pensions is far better than ZUS crap

It's a nice idea in theory. However, it completely ignored the reality of the situation - that the country had made some massive mistakes in the past with pensions and now was paying a huge price for them. To then hand some of the contributions over to private funds that took fees for the service was just asking for trouble, not to mention that there was never any real serious competition in the OFE market.

I don' get that Grzegorz guy. Is he a pole who has a ****** job and tries to blame that on the country?

Nah. Greggy is posting this stuff because he supports the party in perpetual opposition in Poland. He's simply trying to do his part to spread their propaganda of doom, misery and gloom.

so many people are asset rich and cash poor.

That's very very true in Poland. The amount of idiots who seem to have put themselves in a massive amount of debt just to show off their big house and big car is astounding to me in Poland - what's the point in owning such a thing if you have to work 14-16 hour days to pay for it?

Poland is also seeing its first general strike in over 32 years in 2013

I wouldn't place too much emphasis on that. If you read between the lines, the strike is because the Government has finally decided to start doing something about the privileges that they enjoy - Solidarity (as the world knows it) has been dead long enough to be able to finally put a stop to some of the excesses that they enjoy.
delphiandomine   
12 Jul 2013
News / General strike 11th September in Poland? [26]

pro-business party like PO forming a coalition with a socially conservative, populist, pro-rural Poland B party like PSL.

Except the PSL aren't Polska B by any stretch of the imagination. The PSL are the rural middle classes - the type that owns profitable farms and so on. The party itself isn't socially conservative, nor is it populist - it's a centrist party that doesn't really have much of an opinion on social issues. As for economics, if it wasn't for the fact that their voter base would be hideously upset with them if they removed KRUS (particularly as a lot of wealthy PSL supporting farmers are paying peanuts under this system) - they would have abolished it a long time ago.

The PSL make such good coalition partners because of their lack of real interest in social issues combined with a centrist political stance. Hence - why would anyone say anything about PO being in coalition with them when it's well established that they are more or less centrist and able to share power with almost anyone?

Now, compare this to that bunch of Marxist thugs that Lepper led, and you soon get the idea why things were different.
delphiandomine   
11 Jul 2013
Law / Opening "Budke Gastronomiczna" [37]

The other thing that should be mentioned to you : you need to be aware of what's going on locally before opening such a place.

By that, I mean that you should know if you're stepping on any toes before opening such a place.