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Atch   
13 Mar 2018
News / EU confirms it will take action against Poland over court reforms [554]

There's a difference between the UK which has only existed for a little over 200 years, England and Britain. So one needs to make that distinction but Britain most certainly was the world's major power for centuries and without their innovations America would not be the country it is today. You just have to look at the scientific and engineering achievements of the English and the Scots to realize that.
Atch   
13 Mar 2018
News / EU confirms it will take action against Poland over court reforms [554]

I think we're wandering a bit too far off topic here.

@Maf I'm surprised you genuinely don't know the differences. Ireland is nothing like England, really.@Dirk diggler

if 93% said they don't want migrants why are they even still discussing this? The people clearly said they don't want em in their town

You're distorting the facts. The people of Lisdoonvarna are kind and decent people and said no such thing. In fact they've been very upset by the appearance of far right groups from Dublin, some of whom are not even Irish and who have turned up in the village plastering it with leaflets and offending the locals. The people are quite prepared to take thirty, they don't want the possible max of 115 who could possibly end up there, not because they're 'foreign' but because the village is too small. There may be no more than 70 actually, and there will be no single males, only families and mothers with children. The government has given that undertaking. They will also not remain permanently in the village but will be dispersed as their applications are dealt with.
Atch   
13 Mar 2018
News / EU confirms it will take action against Poland over court reforms [554]

the Irish court alleges that Minister of Justice and Prosecutor General have become one and same person in Poland,

But that's not the full extent of her argument though.

@ Dirk, never, never, never tell an Irish person that 'it's the same thing'. We are a separate and independent nation and not 'the same' as the UK. You simply cannot make a statement about political motivations in the UK courts and apply the same logic to Ireland.
Atch   
13 Mar 2018
News / EU confirms it will take action against Poland over court reforms [554]

I can't speak for Belgium. The thing is that although all EU countries are bound by certain rules, directives etc we are all independent of each other too, with our own legal systems and ways of doing things. What reason did they give as a matter of interest??

Ok I just checked. Belgium state prosecutors initially backed the request for extradition but Spain dropped the case.
Atch   
13 Mar 2018
News / EU confirms it will take action against Poland over court reforms [554]

That can't be done because Ireland is bound by the European arrest warrant system to which all EU countries have signed up. Each case is examined and a decision not to extradite can be made if there is good reason but simply refusing to extradite anybody to anywhere in the EU is not an option. Besides, there is no reason why we should adopt such an extreme policy. You say you don't extradite your citizens from the USA but what about foreign nationals? You have extradition treaties with over 100 countries. In any case, the guy in question is not an Irish citizen, he's a Polish citizen who was living in Ireland and he's therefore an EU citizen and extraditable under the European arrest warrant.

that is so rich coming from anyone in government in western Europe.

The Irish judiciary is not in government :)) The statement comes from a High Court judge, not a politician.
Atch   
13 Mar 2018
News / EU confirms it will take action against Poland over court reforms [554]

An interesting development here which demonstrates how you can't operate in isolation within the EU. An Irish High Court judge has felt it necessary to go the European court of Justice to request a ruling on Poland's Rule of Law situation as it is apparently compromising an extradition case. Basically the Irish High Court is reluctant to extradite the guy as they are not satisfied about his right to a fair trial in Poland which is pretty shocking really. The case will be argued next week which coincides with the 20 March deadline set by the EU for Poland's response to the rule of law concerns.

irishtimes.com/news/crime-and-law/courts/high-court/high-court-judge-seeks-eu-ruling-on-effect-of-polish-law-changes-1.3424530
Atch   
12 Mar 2018
Travel / Two Older Polish American Sisters to visit Poland 1st Time [29]

We don't want to be moving every 2-3 days.

Then you won't be able to fit in all the places on your list. You have nine locations listed in four different countries. Divide 22 by 9.......and factor in the travelling time between locations which can be several hours by train.

I'm thinking we should go to Gdańsk first,

As you're arriving in Prague, I would suggest that it makes more sense to start in the south of Poland and work your way north, skipping Warsaw, as it's not one of your 'must sees' and then on your way back from Gdańsk you can decide whether you have time and inclination to do Warsaw.

If we do go to Gdansk/Sopot first, what is best way to get there from Prague?

Flying will be quickest. There are other options apart from Ryan Air. Apparently there's no direct train. This link might be helpful:

tripadvisor/ShowTopic-g274723-i959-k10702021-Train_from_Prague_to_Gdansk_then_from_Gdansk_to_Wroclaw-Poland.html

The train from Prague to Kraków takes 8 hours, to Wrocław about half that. I would leave Budapest for your return journey. It's a hell of a distance by train though to Budapest, even from Kraków it takes 12 hours on the fastest train as far as I know.
Atch   
1 Mar 2018
Work / Moving to Poland! Master degree and 12 years experience developing software [2]

You won't need a car in Warsaw. Public transport is very good, if a bit overcrowded at times. A car is a total waste of your valuable savings and if you buy a cheap one, you're asking for trouble.

There are plenty of pleasant and affordable places to live within 15 or 20 mins of the centre by tram. The actual centre as in Śródmieście I wouldn't recommend due to the volume of traffic and the filthy, polluted air.

You'd actually be better to look for a job and try to do Skype interviews before coming to Warsaw as you can then look for a place to live in or close to the neighbourhood where you'll be working. Many software jobs are located all over the city, not just in the city centre.

There are loads of threads on the forum about moving to Warsaw so take a look at them.
Atch   
28 Feb 2018
Life / Lasik Laser Eye Surgery in Poland ? [9]

Do you mean like Moorfields in London or just with a good local reputation??

I don't have a clue BUT most reputable clinics have a price list. Pretty easy to google.

whatclinic.com/laser-eye/poland/warsaw/lasik
Atch   
27 Feb 2018
Love / Marriage problems in Poland [50]

Rather than supporting her in those harsh circumstances he was taking his time googling across the booking.

Oh really Ziemowit, that's rather harsh. He probably thought he was being supportive by planning a lovely treat for her.
Atch   
27 Feb 2018
Love / Marriage problems in Poland [50]

Mmmm yes, but Izabela was his former mistress and he married her the same year he divorced his first wife..........so he must have known how stupid and lazy she was when he married her. All the same, even in a Polish court which can be very unpredictable, it's unlikely that she'll be able to get any further maintenance after the five year period is up.
Atch   
27 Feb 2018
Love / Marriage problems in Poland [50]

Here's how it works:

It's really all down to who was cited as responsible for the breakdown of the marriage. In the case you describe Terri, the man must have admitted sole responsibility, otherwise his obligation to provide maintenance would cease after five years:

A divorced spouse who has not been found to be solely responsible for the break-down of the marriage and who is in financial difficulties may demand maintenance from the other spouse depending on his or her reasonable needs and the earning and financial capacities of the other spouse (Article 60(1) of the Family and Guardianship Code.)

So that means that in a case where the parties admit shared responsibility for the breakdown of the marriage, either may demand maintenance from the other but only if they can prove financial need.

If a divorce entails a substantial deterioration in the financial situation of a spouse who is not responsible for the break-down of the marriage, the spouse who has been found to be solely responsible for the break-down of the marriage is required to provide funds to meet the needs of the other spouse, even if he or she is not in financial difficulties (Article 60(2) of the Family and Guardianship Code).

Whether he was solely responsible or not, the ex Prime Minister and his wife would certainly be in the category where her lifestyle would change due to the divorce.

The maintenance obligation ceases when the spouse receiving maintenance remarries. Where the spouse required to pay maintenance has not been found to be solely responsible for the break-down of the marriage, the obligation concerned ceases five years after thedivorce (Article 60(3) of the Family and Guardianship Code). So unless the Prime Minister was cited as solely responsible, then she can't demand lifetime payments.

Just to add, what the law basically boils down to in Poland is that if a rich man admits having an affair and says 'this divorce is all my fault', his ex-wife is entitled to bleed him dry for the rest of her life, unless she remarries. Otherwise his obligation to support her ceases after five years
Atch   
27 Feb 2018
Love / Marriage problems in Poland [50]

In Polish law a man is only liable to pay lifetime support to a former wife if he admits sole fault in the breakdown of the marriage and then it's only until she remarries. Child support is different of course, but that's the situation with spousal support.
Atch   
26 Feb 2018
Love / Marriage problems in Poland [50]

Also, if she does divorce you, you might be making payments for the rest of your life

That's only if he admits fault. They can divorce with an agreement that neither is at fault. In that case there are no life payments.

@ Nope, bear in mind that when you ask strangers for relationship advice, they bring their own issues to the table. Some people here are bitter divorcees, some are young and single and have never even lived with someone let alone been married, etc etc. Nobody here knows either you or your wife so even with the best intentions we're limited in how helpful we can be to you. Maybe your wife would consider going to counselling with you.
Atch   
26 Feb 2018
Love / Marriage problems in Poland [50]

You're very welcome Nope. The thing is, that none of us knows to what extent your wife has decided that it's over. It could be that she still hasn't decided that. So it's definitely worth trying. If you could say to her, let's just see this as a new phase of our marriage, where we have stuff to deal with and let's try to do that. If she comes back home, you could tell her about the holiday and say that you planned it because you wanted some special time with her. It certainly proves that you were being thoughtful and if her problem really is just feeling undervalued/noticed, then it could do the trick in demonstrating to her that you care.

Now, having said all that, it has to work two ways. She needs to show some interest YOUR feelings too. And you need to ask yourself, is she inclined to be a pit of a Princess, is there a touch of me, me, me about her? Because if so, that needs to be addressed. I have bigos to stir so I'd better stop here! Keep in touch and let us know how you're getting on. Will be rooting for you :)
Atch   
26 Feb 2018
Love / Marriage problems in Poland [50]

Hi Nope. Well, basically you have two situations on the go here. Your wife's family problems and your own marital problems. As I don't know the pair of you, I'm going to give your Missus the benefit of the doubt and say that she may be having a bit of an emotional meltdown because she can't cope with the stress of her parents' break up. It's probably been on the cards for while and she's been upset by it. Your marriage could well be just an average one, not always perfect, because that's normal, But if she's been feeling a bit bored, stuck in a rut, ignored etc her parents' problems could have just brought all her dissatisfaction to a head. It may be completely genuine or it may be a bit of attention seeking, especially as she says she feels that you've lost interest in each other.

The problem you have now is separating the two sets of problems. Your wife will feel that her mother needs her and that will be her priority. My instinct would be to say to your wife that you don't feel that now is the time for the pair of you to be making any decisions about the future of your marriage. That you love her, you want to support her through her parents' breakup and that you would like her to wait before making a decision about your future together. Then say you'd like to see her at the weekend - and if you do see her, ask her to come back home so that the two of you can start talking and trying to sort things out. See what the response is.
Atch   
26 Feb 2018
Love / Marriage problems in Poland [50]

Hi there Nope, sorry to hear about your troubles. As a married woman, here's my opinion. If you love your wife and you believe that the marriage can be saved with effort on both your sides, then be pro-active and don't just drift along. If your wife loves you then you have a chance to sort things out but you have to try to keep communication going. If you just leave her to 'think' about her feelings indefinitely, you may well lose her. On the other hand, no tears or desperation. Don't tell her you can't eat or sleep etc. Ok, so here's what I would do.

She's been gone three days - have you been in touch with her at all? If not, then send her a text and say you'd like to see her at the weekend. Ten days to think about her feelings is plenty of time. If she refuses, tell her that you respect her need to have time to think and you have demonstrated that by giving her that time. You would simply like to meet up after a reasonable time has elapsed as you are also doing some thinking and you would like her to listen to how YOU feel. Now, if she refuses, don't text her back. Leave her to stew for a day or two. Whatever you do, don't get into a deep, personal conversation via text nor over the phone. You're not a pair of teenagers, you're a married couple and you should only discuss your relationship in person. Insist on that. Sometimes women can play games with their partners so refuse to be a part of that.

Without knowing more details about the precise nature of your bumps along the road, it's hard to give any other advice. But a seven year marriage is worth trying to save. If you take my advice and text her re a meeting, will you get back to us and let us know what she says? God Bless.
Atch   
23 Feb 2018
Law / Maintenance Claim From Mother - Poland [19]

but with her weekly visits to the nail bar hairdresser and beautician I think food is not what she wants funding here.

Rich, you could employ a registered firm of private detectives in Poland,to put her under surveillance for a few days. Their evidence is admissible in court. If you could gather enough evidence of 'luxury' or 'frivolous' spending, it might help. It would cost you a few hundred sterling so it's only worth doing if you're sure you can catch her out. But if so, it's worth it because it could save you thousands in the long run.

As regards to the assets, as far as I know, assets which you owned before your marriage, for example a house, are not included in marital property but check it out with the solicitor.

By the way, for down the road sometime, be aware of the law regarding inheriting your deceased relatives' debts.

I never knew that a person could demand payments from their son/daughter in law.... ridiculous if you ask me...

With respect Dirk, although you say 'we Poles' all the time, as a Polish-American, there's a lot of stuff you don't know about the realities of life in Poland. I'm surprised you don't know about that one actually. That's pretty much common knowledge. It also applies to child support. A second wife for example, is liable for child support for her husbands' children with his first wife. His child support payments will be determined from their joint incomes, not just his. So basically Dirk, if you get married and have a kid, then split up, your ex has custody, and you re-marry, your second wife's income is also up for grabs.
Atch   
21 Feb 2018
Life / Studying in Poland and Life - the quality of education, general life and obstacles [6]

Yes there are good universities in Poland but regardless of where you study, in every country, there are always universities that are noted for the quality of their degrees in particular disciplines, so one university might have a reputation for having an outstanding computer science faculty and another university might be known for archaeology or physics. So what you try to do is find the university that offers the best training in your subject area. Now the minute you start restricting your search based on language you immediately narrow down your options.

Secondly, courses in English at Polish universities are an afterthought. They receive minimal input from the university authorities and there is no way they will put the same amount of effort into the syllabus or any other aspect of the degree that they will put into the Polish language one. I took a look at Warsaw University of Technology (one of the more established and prestigious universities) and here is their page for the English version of their Electrical Engineering degree:

ee.pw.edu.pl/en/studia/kierunki-studiow/electrical-engineering-elektrotechnika-w-jez-angielskim

As you can see, nothing, zero, zilch. They simply can't be bothered to put any effort into creating even one page in English to give a potential student the most basic information on the course.

However, they do have this lovely page about studying electrical engineering through English, with some very limited information and the information is in Polish!

ee.pw.edu.pl/studia/kierunki-studiow/electrical-engineering-elektrotechnika-w-jez-angielskim

Another aspect of choosing a degree is getting a look at the detailed syllabus for the whole of the four year course. Now having looked at the Polish language page for the electrical engineering degree, I could find no link either there or anywhere else to that information.

ee.pw.edu.pl/studia/kierunki-studiow/elektrotechnika

Now maybe if one wants to spend an hour navigating the poorly designed website, then you might find that info - and you might not. That's how things are in Poland :)

Compare that to a UK university:

southampton.ac.uk/my/undergraduate/courses/electrical_and_electronical_engineering.page#modules

Something that you choose on the basis of affordability alone, can work out a waste of what little money you have and end up costing you more than you realize in the long run.
Atch   
17 Feb 2018
Work / Native English looking for a teaching job in Poland [135]

i work with young children and have done mostly

Then that's enough. You can demonstrate through your track record that you know how to teach children. You don't need a piece of paper that says you can.

are polish parents keen to hire private tutors for their kids? :)

I know you asked this question of Jon, but I'll just that in my experience, it's a big fat YES. They are, very much so. In Warsaw anyway. And they're not all rich people by any means. Even ten years ago I was tutoring kids whose parents or grandparents had stalls in the local Targi. I have to say that it's ideal if you can teach them in small groups though, rather than one-to-one. One approach I used to take if I had for example a six year old one-to-one, was to do an art activity and that went down very well. Lots of vocabulary as we talked about what we were doing and the child had something to take home at the end of the lesson :)

Incidentally Matlinka are you a qualified primary school teacher?? Because if so you could look for a job as a class teacher in an international school. By primary by the way I mean ages 6-12 which is what Americans call elementary. I'm actually qualified to teach ages 3-12 myself.
Atch   
16 Feb 2018
Life / Studying in Poland and Life - the quality of education, general life and obstacles [6]

The most important thing to consider is the quality of the education you will receive. I can't imagine that the quality of an engineering degree (what kind of engineering??) in Poland, delivered through English is going to be that good. Polish universities in general have poor links with industry and you'll probably end up doing a lot of theory and not much in the way of internships or practical stuff. If you can possibly afford it, I would suggest you go elsewhere.
Atch   
15 Feb 2018
Work / Native English looking for a teaching job in Poland [135]

Hi Matlinka. Yes, I saw your other posts re translation etc and didn't feel qualified to comment on the career direction you should take. But.........if you're just talking about TEFL, then I'm a bit better informed about that but not anywhere as up to date on the nitty gritty as Jon would be. However I can offer a bit of insight from my own previous experience and my current knowledge of the Warsaw market, couldn't really comment on the region of Poland you'll be going to - and that's significant. It differs from region to region and city to city.

In your opinion would i be looked at more as a professional

Yes. You have very good qualifications that demonstrate your knowledge and interest in the English language plus you have teaching experience. However, having said that, Polish employers don't have the best reputation for valuing their workers and their main concern will be how cheap they can get you, rather than how good you are. If they can hire somebody else with a basic CELTA for less, then they'll take them. So your CV will get you an interview but it doesn't guarantee you a job offer over less qualified and experienced candidates.

The most I was ever offered was 110 zl per hour working for a private language school, visiting the offices of executives to give one-to-one tuition at advanced level. That was about eleven years ago, so yes, you can get the higher rate of pay. In that case I was approached by the school, I didn't actually apply for a job. The fact that I had years of mainstream teaching experience, not just TEFL, definitely made a difference and also, I was 'well presented'. That's very important for the old executive scene. You don't have to wear a business suit or anything but you need to look as if you wouldn't be removed by security when you visit the office for the first time :D I think that as a woman (which I was last time I looked in the mirror!) it's particularly true that the old lipstick, earrings and a dress makes a big difference.

I'm actually a Montessori primary school teacher by profession and just drifted into TEFL because people kept asking me for lessons. I said yes to a few neighbours and acquaintances just to be polite and it mushroomed. I wasn't really looking for full time employment so I deliberately kept a limit on it and I didn't take that job with the language school, but if I'd wanted to expand I could have. I used to charge 60zl per hour for a private lesson btw and I either taught at home or locally so I never even had to travel one tram stop to a lesson. You have to watch that, because if you're getting paid for the hour you teach, you have to factor in the time it takes to get to and from the lesson. If you're not careful you can end up on 30zl an hour!!

i assume best to worst jobs would be private tutoring - state schools - private language centres ?

Actually state schools, as in primary and secondary pay very badly and they rarely hire English language teachers as far as I know. Other than that, yes if you can build up a portfolio of private clients, then it's ideal as you can charge 60 per hour and manage your appointments to suit yourself up to a point. With a language school you'll have to work when they tell you to.

how do i look for these unadvertised jobs.

You can't! They come to you. Just as the language school came to me. It takes time. You have to get known in the area where you live and word spreads. It's actually a good idea to set up a simple website as language schools sometimes scour the internet looking for native speakers and a nicely put together website shows that you're a professional worth their while contacting.

The final piece of advice I would give you is to consider getting the Cambridge Young Learners qualification. You could possibly do that before you get to Poland and it wouldn't take long but it would be a great extra on your CV. There is definitely a shortage of people suitably qualified to teach children under the age of 12 and pre-schoolers in particular and there would be a pool of possible work for you both with private kindergartens and home tutition. However, you should really only go for it if you actually like the company of children! Might sound obvious but young children en masse in a classroom can be the undoing of many a sane adult :)) I knew one very competent secondary school teacher in her thirties who took a temporary position in a primary school and ended up on blood pressure medication - mind you, that was in Ireland where children tend to be lively, not naughty exactly, but very high spirited and chatty. Polish kids in my experience are much more sedate in class and the tinies are so sweet, you could eat them up with a spoon :))
Atch   
14 Feb 2018
Work / Polish Canadian ESL job/student advice [78]

Hi Matlinka. I don't feel qualified to advise you one way or the other but I think you would do well to listen to Jon and Rozumiemnic. Jon has the most experience in the TEFL and general English language area and lives in Poland, Roz has an English degree and a lot of common sense. Dominic is a very sensible person too but he has extremely fixed ideas about how people should pursue their career path and is obsessed with maths and technical subjects and saving for your old age :)
Atch   
14 Feb 2018
Work / Polish Canadian ESL job/student advice [78]

It's a waste of time. You won't be able to make any difference at all. Though you might try to sprinkle your magic pixie dust on Adrian. He's a more worthy cause, being one of the most angriest people here and he's still young enough to be influenced. He might pay some attention because you're an American and hang out with soldiers :)) He'd be very impressed by those credentials.
Atch   
14 Feb 2018
Work / Polish Canadian ESL job/student advice [78]

Well, I suppose perception is everything. Constituting yourself a peacekeeper between two grown men who are having a bit of 'a handbags at dawn' exchange which they're clearly enjoying, can come across as a wee bit patronizing. I wasn't intending to have a dig at you particularly. I'm just making the point that the kind of exchange going on between Jon and Dominic is not really a big deal. And look, to be fair now, life is just so insufferably dull if people are polite to each other all the time - though I draw the line at vulgarities :)
Atch   
14 Feb 2018
Work / Polish Canadian ESL job/student advice [78]

Well now I must come to the defence of both Dominic and Jon. They are both intelligent, articulate people with bit of a barbed wit and a sting in tail which I find a delight, quite frankly :)) Pity we don't have more of their ilk on this site. I think Dom is a great example of an American. The usual American vibe here is either your own "America is the greatest civilization in human history' yes you actually said that, combined with Mormon missionary type earnestness or the other side of the coin such as Dirk Diggler/Adrian's 'your mom does it for money' when they're losing an argument.