Love / India guy Polish girl [57]


Already have quite a bit of it.

None of them were raised in the old country though.

UK, Ireland / Are Polish people importing a new wave of ancient racism into the UK? [402]

In the 1990's perhaps there was a case to be made about Poles being more racist than others. I'll be the first to admit I've seen my own share of jackbooted, bald thugs in Poland around that time.

But we're in 2010.

Poland has yet to go through something akin to, let's say, the Oldham race riots.

UK, Ireland / Are Polish people importing a new wave of ancient racism into the UK? [402]

Thread starter has an agenda and is out to prove it.

Poles are no more racist than other Europeans.

Love / India guy Polish girl [57]


Typical indian/paki male behaviour.

I personally prefer Indian women to Polish women.

Study / Admitted To Warsaw University Of Technology (Politechnika Warszawska) [69]


Good technical school by Eastern European standards, half-decent by U.K./U.S./European standards.


Some are, some aren't.


Discriminated - unlikely, most people in educational institutions are above that.

Still, the local thugs/skinheads/football hoolies might whoop your ass for being a Paki. Chances of that happening are much lower than they were in the 1990's though.

Study / Admitted To Warsaw University Of Technology (Politechnika Warszawska) [69]

Right, Warsaw ( sorry for not reading it right, had a long day ).

This does in fact make it worse. For 100 euro per month it might be tough to rent a toilet cabin on Centralny Train Station these days.

I used to own a small bachelor's pad in downtown Warsaw ( near Intraco ) which I sometimes rented and the market rent on this little piece of heaven was 1200 zł/per month ( without bills ).

Study / Admitted To Warsaw University Of Technology (Politechnika Warszawska) [69]


- in Wrocław?

Nowhere.

Love / Possibility of Marriage with a Polish lady [96]


Too much talk of hymen on his part for him to be anything else.

Love / Possibility of Marriage with a Polish lady [96]

Ok, someone has to break the kid in, I guess.


extremely low, for many reasons.


Rotfl...

They're not. As a matter of fact I'd say they're pretty much like other Europeans, hence if she's over 15 don't count on her being a virgin.


Yeah, iranian girls tend to let it loose once they leave the land of ayatollahs.

From what I read you're a borderline psychopath and a definite stalker ( internet stalking by the way just became a crime in Poland ).

You don't know the woman, never talked to her about your feelings and you go on fantasizing all day ( not to mention she lives in another part of the world ).

Seek professional psychiatric help.

Either that, or you're really hunting for an EU visa.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

As I said, I was caught off-guard by her invitation in the first place and did not analyze the situation correctly then and there.

Annoying anti-semite clown.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

I just pointed out that some Polish women pull exactly the kind of **** Seanus kindly described.

I fail to comprehend how is that supposed to affect the way I think about women.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]


Had a similiar situation with a Polka.

A couple years ago when I was visiting the country a business partner introduced me to an architect who was working for him at the time. This young fellow seemed to have everything going for him - youth, ambition, smarts, a good education and a rather prestigious job ( this particular business partner of mine tends to pay good money for good work ). From what I've been told earlier he also came from what was considered "a very good family" in Poznan. Thus it wasn't really surprising that when the introductions were made the dashing young architect was accompanied by a seemingly charming, artsy and somewhat wistful Polish beauty. They really looked like a perfect, well-matched couple.

You can imagine then how surprised I was when said beauty expressed in no uncertain terms a desire to "get to know me better" once her BF and other guests were out of earshot. She made a pass at me roughly 2 minutes into the conversation.

I was pretty much stunned and actually agreed to meet with her on the following day for drinks.

During the night I thought things over and when we met I began to point out certain issues.

"I'm older" - I said. Wasn't a problem for the Polish beauty.

"This could really sour my partner's arrangement with her BF". Well, nobody would find out, she said.

"I live in another country and spend a lot of time on a different continent" Her answer - She can come live with me ( think about it, I've known this woman for about a day now ) and long-distance relationships are workable anyways.

"She has a BF and I don't like to barge in between two people" - She hesitated at that one for some time and then proceeded to tell me she's willing to dump her boyfriend on the next day if I promise to remain "committed" to her.

Holy Bar Mitzvah, Batman! That was precisely when I realised the lovely girl sitting next to me was a total and complete nutter.

Hence even though she made it VERY clear there was a happy ending waiting for me after the date I excused myself somewhat awkwardly and left.

Well, of course it turned out exactly the way You described, Seanus. With her running back to her boyfriend, tearful and all that, telling him what a backstabbing dick I was. Luckily the guy was professional enough that he finished his work on my partner's project before bailing out on us.

Love / How easy is it to pick up a girl from a club/bar in Warsaw ? [65]

Why the hate?

Not looking to "score points", just telling the guy how to achieve desirable results quickly and without much hassle.


- if that's the kind you're doing, fine. I'm mainly in real estate.

Love / How easy is it to pick up a girl from a club/bar in Warsaw ? [65]

A club in Warsaw?

Been a while since I went clubbing there ( not getting any younger with each passing year ), but generally speaking if You're a foreigner, know how to dress smartly and have dinero for drinks You are already halfway down the path of picking up a Polish girl.

During the banter throw in some remarks about business deals you are involved in in Poland, tell her how You are leaving in a few days or so and the night will be likely to end on a positive note.

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

Ok, let me tackle this.

Yup, it happens in Poland probably more often than in many Western European states or U.S. Although "battered" isn't the most accurate term to describe it.

Polish men, in general, are taught in a very young age to be extremely respectful towards women. A woman in Poland is worthy of respect just because she was born into a certain gender.

Hence if You come to Poland from U.S., for example, you will be seriously surprised with the amount of **** Polish guys put up with on a daily basis. Emotional blackmail, yelling, ordering them around - you name it. Your average Polish Kowalsky is mentally conditioned to just take that stuff.

When compared with, for example, U.S. or U.K. you'll find that loads, I mean loads of Polish guys, even ones that are comparatively well off, are firmly held by their ladies by the short curlies. With most Anglo-Saxon, Jewish or Italian men it's fairly common to see them draw the line somewhere and tell the girl to bugger off if she crosses it. Not so amongst Polish men.

Life / Do Polish People steal a lot? [330]

Poland isn't a nation of thieves.

It has a significant amount of them, for economic reasons, as well as many people who pull of dodgy scams ( be careful with real estate ).

But as a whole nation - no.

Life / Do Polish People steal a lot? [330]


Pretty much standard procedure on Main Street, U.S.A. these days as well. Don't know what that's supposed to do with anything.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]


There is a first time for everything, I guess.


What I quoted is by no means a manipulative sentence. During World War II many Polish People helped to save the lives of Jews who were under constant peril of death because of the blood in their veins. Tens of thousands of Poles risked everything to do so. And when I write everything I do mean it, because Poland during World War II wasn't France or Belgium, if You got caught sheltering Jews in Poland the Nazis would march You outside and execute You and Your family by the walls of Your very home. A terrible risk.

Still one has to remember that there are always two sides of every coin. A visible amount of Poles were anti-semites back then and didn't exactly like their Polish-Jewish neighbors even before 1939. Please recall the writings of a certain Mr Roman Dmowski. The attitude of such people was VERY similiar to what Paulina displayed:

"Are You Polish? Or are You Jewish? You can't be both! Make up Your mind"

Or even:

"You can never be Polish because You have Jewish blood! Change Your religion, get a passport, marry into a Polish family, no matter, You will always be a Jew!"

When the Nazis came some of these Polish anti-semites acted upon their beliefs, sometimes selling whole Jewish families to Nazis for nothing more than a pat on the head.

You may deny, but these are the facts.

How come presenting the facts is manipulation?

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]


Paulina, you are probably still a child ( many of your arguments are childish in the extreme ) and many of the things you say make no sense.

What I quoted is one of them. It basically isn't your cup of coffee to tell me whether I'm more Polish or more Jewish. Like it or not, I have two passports.

What You are doing is much akin to what some Polish people did during World War II. "Hey Mr Nazi! My neighbour isn't really a Pole! He's a Polish citizen, but he's a Jew! Please take him away so my aunt can move into his place!"

Other than that I pointed out, and surprise, I'm not the only one to say so, that there is a defensive mechanism pretty much unique to Poles. Simply put, few Brits accused of being thieves would retort by claiming their French neighbors steal as well.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]

^^ I am sorry madam, but it does sound a bit like You're peeved because You had to do the dishes.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]

Unfortunately what the Polish women do isn't really that uncommon for women from the Eastern Block. Ukraine, Czech Republic, Slovakia, Hungary - they all more or less have the same issue. Albania could be different, since a guy's expected to knife his own sister over there if she starts seeing a foreigner.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]

mvefa - As I have explained, I'm not talking about all Polish women, only about a certain percentage.

This percentage is high enough that You'll see Polish ladies doing stuff that I wrote about in U.K., U.S. or while they are on vacation in Greece or Italy.

Also, I only see this as logical. Here You have a country ( Poland ) where whole generations of people grew up with little to no real money, were unable to travel abroad ( communism ) and often came to view foreigners as superiors because said foreigners were able to live lives Polish people could not. I'm sorry, it is a sad reality that in, let's say, 1985, if You worked for 2 months in United States on a minimum wage You were able to buy a flat in a Polish city with Your savings.

This country also tolerates prostitution up to a point where it is legal and used to mass- export prostitutes to other places in the 70's and 80's ( Germany, U.K. ).

The richest woman in this country became such by way of marrying well and divorcing smartly.

In addition, it is common in this country to raise women as "princesses" and if You call a Polish girl a "princess" she'll most likely not even understand the negative connotations associated with this. At the same time males in Poland are raised as workhorses, taught not to complain from an early age and to respect their women.

I'm sorry, but it is only logical that the female population of such a country will contain a higher than usual number of:

a) Pro's,

b) Sluts who pull slutty tricks because their men rarely even have the balls to do anything about it,

c) Women who want to marry a rich foreigner in order to get ahead,

Love / Polish Girl & Me...Is She Interested? [57]


Polish women in general tend to do that. Pre-nups aren't a really big thing in Poland.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]

skysoulmate

1. I am both a Pole and a Jew, according to my passports. So when I'm speaking of Poles I speak of my people.

2. Faith isn't something I'm particularly big on. Neither is Jahwe.

3. In real life I'm rather known for telling it like it is.

And You know what?

Should London suddenly suffer an influx of Israeli women with a significant number of whom being ready and willing to **** for free rent I'll say: "There is a visible amount of Israeli sluts in London", amongst other things.

Part of the "Polish issue" in my humble opinion is that Poles have a problem with accepting negative opinions coming from other people. Never mind that I'm not talking about all Polish women but about a certain ( visible if You go abroad and visit Polish immigrant communities ) percentile - they all get offended as if I slagged their Mums.

Apart from that You will not usually hear full blooded Polish people talking about this issue. Polish women, as You might have noticed from threads here, don't really consider prostitution and related actions either bad or anything disgusting. And most Polish men are too ************ to talk about it unless alcohol is involved.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]


- oh, fairly common.

It's rather typical of Polish women.

Should You for example ever point out to a Polish girl that the number of Polish women spreading their legs in exchange for free rent in Britain is higher than that of other nations You'll immediately hear stories of disgusting, drunk English females doing god knows what in Cyprus or tales of nasty Ukrainian prostitutes and strippers.

A defensive "mechanism" highly characteristic of Poles in general, sort of like "It's ok to steal cars because my neighbor does it".


Never dated an Agnieszka. I don't know if You missed it, but I actually have a preference for Jewish women.


In my humble opinion the Poles should be thankful to You, British lads. Women that drop everything they are doing and completely change their lives around because a British guy whistled at them while on a drinking spree in Poland aren't usually worth much in terms of morals to begin with.

Poles should be very thankful that You will from time to time choose to import their sluts to Britain. After all, most of such scenarios end up with the slut either staying in Britain or being sent back home after being set straight by a no-nonsense Brit. Polish guys often seem to lack either the will or the ability to set their sluts straight.


- seriously, women from Eastern Europe are the only women in the world that need to involve Gulags, Stalin and whatnot in order to justify why it's ok for some of them to ***** around :-)


- well, I have to say I usually get some **** for telling things like they are. But to tell the truth I get waaay less **** from Jews when I say some of our compatriots are a bit too money-grabbing then I get from Poles when I write other things. I guess Jews don't generally take such criticism too personally.


Good for You. Great many women from Africa are strong, independent and resourceful.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]

King Polkamon

Obviously the English take part in the shagging.

Since with your average Polish slut she's usually got ***** fever before you're done with the drinks it would be surprising if the Brits wouldn't take advantage.

I mean, think about. You've got Kate and Agnieszka. Kate's got demands and wants to be an equal partner while Agnieszka's got cream in her pants ever since she heard You inherited a one-bedroom in South Kensington. In the long run - it's Kate, of course, You won't be embarrassed to introduce HER to the parents. But in the short run it's Agnieszka since she's already pretty much ready to go...

I don't really shag Polish women anymore. Too much hassle, too much drama, way too many mind games.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]

Not really IMO.

They will in general spread quicker, though.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]

Justysia - You make a couple of solid points, but I think You fail to notice a few things at the same time.

My views aren't exactly what I'd call revolutionary. At one point in Britain the assumption that Polish women made excellent prostitutes was so widespread that the guy who used to run the morning BBC program actually said so live, in front of the camera. I'm talking BBC here, not some ****** tabloid.

But to be concise - if one person tells you you're wearing a crappy suit - tell them to go to hell. If at least two random people tell you that - go change your tailor.

Apply it to what I wrote previously as you wish.


If the guy is jumping up and down with joy just because she was asian then yes, he has some insecurities probably arising from being raised in a bland communist/transformation environment.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]


Same **** here. Actually, Russian girls are kind of similiar in this.

"Why don't you have a Russian girlfriend if you are doing business in Russia? Russian women not good enough for you?"

It's actually kind of crazy.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]

1. I've said it here and I'll repeat. Statistically speaking, most Polish women marry Polish men. Pretty sure that goes for dating as well.

2. Poland is blessed/cursed with a percentile of sluts in the general population that is greater than in, let's say, Germany or U.K. Pretty much typical for all of Eastern Europe, really.

Now some of these sluts are golddiggers and due to communist mentality they believe that every foreigner = gravy train.

Hence they'll usually prefer foreigners in relationships. And they'll be mighty surprised if a foreigner is not rich.

Another part of said sluts has an inferiority complex stemming from being raised in the bland environment of communism/early economic transformation years. They're the ones who'll call their friends and giggle "I did a black guy today!" down the phone.

But in general see p 1.