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Poland after one year of living here [105]
Luke sorry that you are having a bad time but some of the answers need to come from you.
You should have had 2 important discussions with your wife - the one about how important kids are and the one about moving to Poland. Probably its not too late - but those are things two of you must sort out. Put the little one to bed, take her to dinner and discuss that.
One thing I do know is that the most stressful time in my own marriage was when we were trying to build a house and bring up toddlers at the same time - you have zero free time, there is financial stress, diaper stress, lack of sleep and its no wonder that she will turn to her parents at this time. Also I imagine with you not speaking Polish you had many cases where she would discuss something with the builders and then come and ask you for 10k zloty to fix it - I know that is frustrating but the alpha and omega comes down to your willingness to learn Polish. Without doing that then every element of your life here will be compromised. Anyway with your house built you should see things start to get easier.
In terms of having no friends then as your child grows you will have a loving friend who does something other than eat and poop. Enjoy those times - take your kid on trips, play sports, read to them, watch minions :)
Could you get some kind of work where you did e.g. 10 days in UK and then had free time - I know a few people who do that an Ryanair it Monday-Thursday. That would be much nicer than being a Skype dad.
Or could you have a regular trip to Krakow or Katowice every Friday night where you would be off the leash and could hang out with some expats.
But I think another problem that you have is a rather closed mind - people suggest church but you have no belief; people suggest a pub but you don't drink; people suggest a hobby but you have none. It might be that people in Chrzanow are already suggesting these things and then as you rebut them are just thinking "suit yourself". I don't mean to be sanctimonious but you might need to adapt your habits to find friends.
Good luck - hang in there because Summer in Poland is great :)