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ZIMMY   
9 Oct 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

Men avoiding marriage? lol

The following article is so good that I'm amazed that I hadn't written it. Lots of food for thought in todays culture. Following comments show the speed with which men in particular are growing up in this age of misandry. What Thomas Jefferson expected of his daughter is priceless.

the-spearhead.com/2010/10/08/stop-looking-for-a-wife-you-wont-find-one/
ZIMMY   
8 Oct 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

your casual statements about you ducking down to the beach to pose which littered this thread before my appearance,

I can't help it if I'm a sex object (ok, I really can).

I see that quite a few of my more weighty contentions,

You asked proof of cultural and societal bias against men and I provided you with several examples in post #186 and in a couple of previous posts as well. You have not commented on them. That's the crux of the general discussion but you prefer to play with 'words' (typical lawyer) thus obfuscating the premise.

You, on the other hand, have no genuine experience in the matters being discussed.

The amount of false assumptions on your part are too many to count. I almost feel embarrassed for you.

when cornered with one of the many contentions I have made challenging your credibilty you choose to deflect rather than concede.

The deflections are all yours with your 'word' games instead of addressing the issue. You have no idea how distasteful your mediocre attempts at lawyering sound here.

yes, I do enjoy playing with words and definitions.

No argument there; attempting to parcel definitions until they have no meaning only humiliates you. It's such a phony tactic and it doesn't work here.

hey could be considered anecdotal because they cannot be tested.

You seem to either not know the definition of the word or are once again attempting to be relative with it. If you had really studied the hundreds of Fiebert studies you would realize that several thousand accredited individual professionals interviewing hundreds of thousands of individuals using diverse methodology (most did not know each other) is by definition not

'anecdotal'. Here you are hoisting yourself by your own petard.

As to kicking me out of your 'office', can I assume that's toilet cubicle no. 2 at the beach where you do your posing?

As usual you assume incorrectly. The beach, by the way, starts about 50 yards from my condo. My office is in the south Loop and if you're ever in Chicago I'll be happy to escort you to the toilet there. But promise to wash your hands this time.

As to the question of child custody and the law, the fact that women receive custody about 90% of the time speaks for itself.

In any event, I find it difficult to believe child support payments would be made to the tune of $20,000 per month. Is this just another story Zimmy?

It's always a pleasure instructing you. As a lawyer, it surprises me that you don't know certain basic information.

hellobeautiful.com/mommy-beautiful/hello-beautiful-staff/what-are-celebs-paying-for-child-support/

give me a real run for my money

You don't seem to be worth much money since you seem to be a mediocre lawyer who likes to play word games instead of addressing the issue I brought up. Now be specificand address the pro female benefits that women receive and men don't. If you can do that legitimately then I'll have several more for you to comment on.

the average numbers are not as high as what zimmy said,

Why do you do that? I didn't say the average amount of child support is $20,000 per month. I merely noted that some people (usually celebrities of some sort) can pay that much and my post above has a link showing several who do.

Zimmy has won clearly here because Ozi Dan has used common lawyers' methods like trying to create doubts

Well yea; playing with words the way Ozi Dan does is so low-brow that I hesitate to even comment on it but evidently I must. Words must mean something and not be so parceled

as to make them useless. That tactic reminds me of freshman college bull sessions where mushy young minds are just discovering their freedoms.

I appreciate his effort to convince us all and some that feminists are responsible for his miserable approach to women in general,

My approach to women is to give them the "equality" they claim they want and don't have.
You'd be surprised how many thinking women understand this and indeed, some of my links should have apprised you of this.

theories that came from zimmy or some other
crazy hater who provides links cause he can on the internet.

Yes indeed, providing proof from internet links is indeed a terrible thing. You need to work on your self introspection and attempt to accept facts that disagree with your 'feelings' about how things really are.

As far as I am aware, feminist are against any form of force and support equality, t

I see your problem. You don't have enough real information so you don't understand my points. Hope this helps;

feministcritics.org/blog/2009/06/08/feminists-deny-truth-on-domestic-violence-noh/

From the link: "Since the 1970s, feminists have used domestic violence as one of their edged weapons against men. They present it as a women's issue, one in which only women are victims."

I can quote lots of feminists who also either deny or minimize domestic violence against men. That has been my bone of contention; indeed, my sole purpose regards DV is to point out that men are also affected and that virtually all help in the form of shelters and money only goes to women. Women like you don't 'get it' when it comes to these issues.

if it is all theories why do men avoid marriage now more and more?

Here's what has been happening (written by one of the new wave of enlightened women).

From the link: "Nowadays, for many men, the negatives of marriage for men often outweigh the positives." I recommend reading Patrick's contribution which puts the shoe on the other foot. Only a bigoted woman cannot see the truth in this.

Brokeback mountain must be Zimmy's favorite film.

Actually, it is David Leans' "Lawrence of Arabia"(1962). Magnificently done.

Bless feminism.Just kidding.

Well, bless it for exposing the dark side of (some) women. Light disinfects although it is painful to the 'stubborn sisters' who love gabbing about their 'victimology' which they find empowering.
ZIMMY   
8 Oct 2010
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

Women continue to demand chivalry and special privileges while claiming independence.
"I'm the woman, so open my doors, pay my way, pay for dates, buy me diamonds and give me a house and affirmative action in white collar power careers BUT TREAT ME LIKE AN EQUAL!"

Relationships between men and women shouldn't be political!
ZIMMY   
7 Oct 2010
Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

A political party is of course free to submit a 50-50 slate of candidates but they want it to become the law of the land obligating all poltical parites. Do you believe this is the way to go?

Of course; as soon as these same women demand that 50% of all construction workers are women; that 50% of all long-haul truck drivers are women; 50% of all firefighters,roofers, fishermen, refuse collectors,electrical powerline installers, oil rig workers, welders, crane operators, etc, etc. are women as well.

Yet, it's odd that some want to legislate thru quotas instead of merit; but that's just me.
ZIMMY   
6 Oct 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

I can't quite picture a woman physically abusing a man.

One half of all domestic violence is initiated by women. Women and men seem to have a difficult time accepting this unfortunate fact. That's due to our culture and how the media constantly presents abusive behavior.

I know for a fact that no woman would ever rise her hand against me

Don't be so sure. You must have missed my previous links which note that women will assault their male partners and one reason behind that is the fact that women know that they will usually get away with it. Those few men who actually call the police because they've been abused (they don't hit back) are frequently the ones taken to jail because some states have laws which demand that someone be taken into custody. Our culture does not like to blame women.

he law always sides with the woman and as a result the woman gets the kids, house, car etc.

That has become a primary reason why some women file false abuse charges. Lawyers even urge them to. In fact, it has become epidemic.

The following link should interest people who are confused about this. Equality isn't just women getting their fair share. Equality must include men who are often on the short end of many cultural aspects in society. Some people (usually feminists) fear real equality for men.
ZIMMY   
5 Oct 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

I have not even presented any arguments

That's the problem.

childish attempts

It's just how you communicate; yet I know you're much smarter than that.

I don't even want to read any more of his stuff.

Facts and truth are a painful mistress.

this is very sad thread

It's okay. Sometimes a llittle painful medicine cures a much larger ailment.
ZIMMY   
4 Oct 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

It's a trap!

The truth will set you free. It only traps those who avoid it.

No matter how good your arguments are, you can't win.

Problem is, no arguments have been presented by you or him; only your childish attempt at shaming and his narrow beliefs about gender. I'll restate a few facts now; they deal with bias and discrimination.

1)The Selective Act, which forces men to register for the draft, or they will be fined and imprisoned.

2)The Violence Against Women Act, which only protects women from domestic violence and leaves men with no where to turn if they are stuck in an abusive relationship.

3)Executive Order 11126, which established a committee and council on the status of women. Please note that no corresponding committee or council on the status of men exists.

4)Executive Order 13506, which established a White House Council on Women and Girls. Please note that no corresponding White House Council on Men and Boys exists.

5)The Executive branch has a Office on Women's Health, under the US Department of Health and Human Services. Please note that no corresponding Office on Men's Health exists.

6)The various Rape Shield Acts, which only protect the identities of female rape victims while frequently exposing the names of innocent men.

7)The Various Primary Aggressor Statutes, which force police to always arrest males in domestic disputes, even if they were the victims of domestic violence.

Your specific comments are sought, not your insults. By the way, I can name at least 100 anti-male programs and/or procedures. Probably none which you want to comment on because they are facts.

Zimmy lives for this.

Well, I am a man for all seasons but I am going ballroom dancing tonight (yes, some of us still do that) so I won't be back here until tomorrow or the day after. If you can keep your emotions in check, perhaps I'll treat you like an adult.
ZIMMY   
4 Oct 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

skewed nonsense from dubious sources and ignoring everything that challenges your bitter pose.

Frankly, long ago I used to think like you. Unlike you I opened my mind to all pertinent sources; evidently they are threatening to 'white knights' like you. I've given links and facts. You merely give your own skewed personal opinions - without presenting evidence. In short, you don't like what I present because it isn't something your world is accustomed to. Many have that problem.

all abuse must be stopped, whom ever is being abused = man woman child animal the planet. END THE ABUSE

I couldn't agree more and that's what it's all about. Unfortunately, the general information we all receive is skewed and has been presented that way for a long time now. People should do some research to get the full facts.
ZIMMY   
4 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

Listen, No Nonsense; It seems that you are truly unaware of what you really want. You're young so there is plenty of time to find out. It's a mixed up world and lots of things don't make sense. You might want to read this; give it a shot. It's written by a (wise) female who knows what's going on.

the-spearhead.com/2010/09/29/what-women-want-supposedly
ZIMMY   
4 Oct 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

In short Zimmy your hypocrisy and arrogant posing have stopped many from posting in these threads....

If true then perhaps that's because they have no answers to the evidence I've presented.

you have dominated any discussion about mens rights by dragging them down to your own bitter finger pointing level.

I've "dominated" because I've presented facts. As to bitterness, perhaps a review of what feminism has wrought would do you some good. You seem to be a white knight kind of guy. Unfortunately, that's the kind of slave mentality that misandrist women take advantage of.

Guys like you 'jump' when a woman asks you to. Well, to each their own.

You bring nothing to the table. How about answering some of the evidence presented in
my posts? It's called honest discourse. You might review my post #172 and address the special womens' departments, you know, the ones that men don't have. You might also take an honest look at my youtube link in post #173; just for objectivities sake.

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pgtx; "i feel flattered you mention me so many times"
You are the one who responded (first) to my posts; I merely verbally spanked you.
ZIMMY   
4 Oct 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

As usual people like pgtx ignore the topic at hand and attempt to switch the subject matter into insults. The surprising thing is this;pgtx has no shame doing it yet it's here for all to see.

My elderly mother has nothing to do with this nor does yours which is why unlike your childishness, I leave innocent family members alone.

nobody here cares anymore, Zimmy.

Is that why there have been a couple of dozen men in these various forums who have supported my rational positions? That couldn't have gone unnoticed by you but then many obvious facts do.

I'll help you with more 'shaming language'.

exposingfeminism.wordpress.com/shaming-tactics/
ZIMMY   
4 Oct 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

I've already explained to you that women's 'shaming language' only insults the woman who provides it. Pity, that's all you have instead of real discourse, but then, that's obvious isn't it?
ZIMMY   
4 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

Some redneck will woe her with good old stories of grandpa stringing nig*gers from them trees, smack her when she "tryin' to be smart", and they'll do their duty of propagating their superior race.

You unfairly bashed and stereotyped the South.

In one interview, author William Styron who wrote "Sophie's Choice" compared Poland to America's south.
ZIMMY   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

eah cause your talking about bangin your chick. like we care???

You care enough to constantly mention it. Hmmmmm

blahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Take two aspirins and call me in the morning.

go take a shower!!

ust go to bed already,

go dry off now.

stuff it up your nose..

go to bed already

Vetty vetty interesting. Have you discussed your proclivity to give orders to others with your psychiatrist? .....and what did that lesbian feminist have to say about it?

shes prob going to just leave via the window

The windows are locked down. Alright, I believe I've kept that wanton woman waiting long enough. Oops, sorry.
ZIMMY   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

zimmy stop being a perv,

Let's see now; I'm here and you're here but I'm the perv? You constantly prove how so many women are indeed illogical.

keep your business private she is way to
young to be listening to your old man stuff.

I'd prefer to think I'm more of a guru (wise elder, but not too elder). Perhaps todays young women (and men) need a more mature hand-up. By their actions and deeds they seem to prove this daily.

stop
advertising.. what kind of man makes news of his bedroom?

Didn't mean to turn you on.

keep your shyt in one sock

What do I do with the other sock?

leave that stuff off the forum.

You're right; I've never heard any sexual references in these forums before. I look forward to your future admonitions (to others).

we
seriously dont care..

Well, but do you care in a humorous way?

NoNonsense: "eew old codger sex"

Please don't talk like that. You know how sensitive Patrycja is.
One of us isn't old and I'm not that old either. Abraham Lincoln once told me I was the nicest little boy he ever met.
ZIMMY   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

lmao

Not quite, it's more like Tic (tongue in cheek). Watch it or I'm going to hit the pause button which I alone control.

the third date they start mentioning something about the bedroom

Maybe they are thinking of buying you curtains for the windows?

I can't be sure of the man's intentions.

They want to sleep with you. Now since that is cleared up you can begin to deal with your other issues. ... but I'm ready to curl Ms Palermo toes as she has been extraordinarily patient. What a wonderful quality in a woman.
ZIMMY   
2 Oct 2010
Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]

I have a rare personality

Nah, you're a typical spoiled westernized young woman who thinks too highly of herself.

a personality test I took my freshman year. It can't really be helped.

You poor dear; are you ready to file for disability?

I am nearly the very steryotype of a Polish American except for the Russian/British/Scandinavian blood in me.

At least you're not French.

I just don't understand why men are so self absorbed...

...as opposed to the dozens of womens' magazines which sell billions of dollars of women-only commodities like cosmetics, goofy clothes including absurd shoes and products I'd prefer not to know about?

men are so insecure and aren't the way they should be.

Nothing is the way it should be including you.

t is not my fault what I attract

Oh yes it is! Ask yourself why you attract the kind of young men you complain about. (pause) Maybe, just maybe the strong attractive men you seek don't approach you for a reason. They go to the kind of woman that you are not. They see through you.

I am too high maintenance for them

Red Flag

they.....lose interest after they find out I won't let them get in my pants so easily.

Yea, I hate to work that hard too.

they don't want commitment and don't have anything to offer me but trouble.

Interesting that you have not noted what you bring to the table. You seem to be the kind of woman who feels that merely being a female is sufficient.

The good men seem to be somewhat repelled by my looks I guess, because they don't believe I could be a genuinely nice person.

Maybe it's that "high maintenance" projection of yours or your narcissism. The women here know what a sensitive kind of man I am (sic) and I can already imagine the mist in their eyes as they read this. .....but I feel your pain. I too am tired of being a sex object.

Don't consider my advice as harsh; just honest.
ZIMMY   
1 Oct 2010
Love / Unmarried couples in Poland = pathology [310]

after marriage life is finished--

after marriage life is sad--

After marriage women get the gold mine and men get the shaft.
ZIMMY   
1 Oct 2010
Life / Alcohol problems of Polish people [141]

Not hardly. She's a local character of Polish and Belorussian extraction. She can frequently be found in a certain bar on the near north side of Chicago.

My (current) girlfriend is first generation Sicilian. She says I make her toes curl.
ZIMMY   
1 Oct 2010
Life / Poles - what other nationality would you say you are most like? [125]

I've often heard it said that the Poles and Irish are similar and I agree to an extent

During the war Winston Churchill said, "The Poles are like the Irish, only more so."

Czech are consider by Poles as Germans in disguise

My daughter was friends with a Czech group and even had a Czech boyfriend. She said that Czech's were "a bit arrogant". (is that the German in them?)

As to my favorite group of people, it's got to be Pygmies from Cameroon.
ZIMMY   
1 Oct 2010
Life / Alcohol problems of Polish people [141]

ZIMMY:
Dorota Lemska.

who's she?

A hard drinking, cigarette smoking 50 ish female of no particular talent although I once saw her do an imitation of John Wayne smoking pot.
ZIMMY   
1 Oct 2010
Life / Alcohol problems of Polish people [141]

"Drinking is not habit forming, I should know. I've been drinking every day for 40 years.".........Dorota Lemska.