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Paulina   
21 Aug 2013
Life / The changing RCC habits of Poles [70]

When they fail to meet the minimum expectations that Harry listed, I guess.

Well, then I guess you guess wrong.

Well, the Church has their own criteria that they judge by - you can only base it on that.

And what are those criteria, delph?
I know nothing of the precepts of the Church to be the criteria to judge whether people are Catholics or not.
I've also never heard that a Catholic stops being a practising Catholic when he/she doesn't go to church every single Sunday, but, let's say, every second Sunday or when he/she isn't fasting :)

Looks like you're more petty and bureaucratic than the Church :)

Here is the Catechism of the Catholic Church:
vatican.va/archive/ccc_css/archive/catechism/p3s1c3a3.htm

"2041 The precepts of the Church are set in the context of a moral life bound to and nourished by liturgical life. The obligatory character of these positive laws decreed by the pastoral authorities is meant to guarantee to the faithful the very necessary minimum in the spirit of prayer and moral effort, in the growth in love of God and neighbor:"

It doesn't say that if you don't fulfil one of the precepts or whatever then you're not considered a practising Catholic, or even better, a Catholic in general.

Those precepts are supposed to guarantee sth not judge someone as far as I can see.

I dunno - among my friends, there's plenty of them who would say "I'm Catholic" to the question "what religion are you?" - but who don't go to church and so on.

"Would say?" Did you actually ask them?
Did you ask them whether they consider themselves Catholics? And why they do (if they do)?
Did you ask them whether they go to church? Whether they believe in God? Whether they pray? Whether they are religious?
That would be a great opportunity to find out sth, if you have such friends. Ask them, if you're so interested in this subject.

Btw, as I wrote already in one of the threads I know people who are religious Catholics but they rarely go to church or almost never.

If Poland was anywhere near 92.2% practising Catholic, the country would be far more right wing socially than it is.

Oh, I'm sure it isn't 92.2% of practising Catholics. But the fact that one isn't going to church doesn't mean that this person isn't a believer and doesn't consider himself/herself a Catholic. He/she may be a lousy Catholic, but still a Catholic :)

So I don't know what practising or not practising has anything to do with being "right wing socially" (whatever that means). I'm a religious Catholic and I vote for PO. Just like majority of my family. Part of my family also votes for Ruch Palikota lol My grandma one time voted for PO, one time for PiS, but she doesn't go to church, because she's old and sick and the church is too far away for her. Interestingly enough she's quite critical of the local parson :)

The most religious (and I mean really religious and practising) of my classmates at highschool was very tolerant and liberal and a fan of Pedro Almodóvar films. There was something almost saint-like about her, everyone liked her - classmates, teachers, she was my friend and a kind of spiritual inspiration.

Another of my classmates was the "popular girl" type, she was rich, pretty and rather shallow, she liked partying hard, etc. To put it short - you wouldn't suspect her of ever becoming religious. She wasn't going to church and didn't like it. Then she suddenly converted, started going to church and her mum even bought her a Bible illustrated with works of art of famous artists and gilded edges of pages for her birthday. She told us it was because she had a dream in which the satan grabbed her, dragged her into darkness and told her she will go to hell. And she remained religious which didn't prevent her sharing room, living together, with the only gay boy I knew of in our highschool.

So, as you can see, people are different, even if they're religious, delph.

My mum also is a religious Catholic and votes for PO and detests PiS to the point that she can't even watch Kaczyński on TV - she changes channel when she sees him lol What's more she was brought up in the countryside and we all live in the land of PiS supporters.

Of course as far as voters are considered I really doubt there are any religious people voting for SLD, and probably the same thing can be said about the voters of Ruch Palikota. But in last parliamentary election Ruch Palikota got 10.02 % and SLD got 8.24 % of votes. PO got 39.18%, PiS got 29.89% and PSL 8.36%.

And we have to take into consideration that only 48.92% of Poles eligible for voting took part in those elections. So we don't know how the rest would vote.

Of course we also don't know how many atheists voted for PO, PiS and PSL.

But... actually, understanding the RCC is pretty much vital to understanding Poland.

Why is that?
Btw, I really, really doubt Harry made this thread because he wanted to understand anything. He made it to rub it in Polonius3' face that there was "a 45% fall in church attendance in just two decades". Polonius writes all the time that Poland is a Catholic country and it clearly gets on the nerves of the two of you. Plus Harry is obsessed with Polonius3.

And that's the reason of your nitpicking too, delph. You don't like the fact that still a lot of Poles declare themselves as Catholics. So you're trying to prove that they aren't really Catholics. So even if they consider themselves Catholics, you'll say they aren't "real Catholics" and this will make you feel better for some reason or at least you think you will pin Poloniu3's ears back :) I like you, delph, but I can see through what you guys are doing ;)

A more detailed breakdown by age would be an interesting start, as would information about political affiliation.

OK.
Btw, the data from RCC indicate how many Poles attend the Sunday mass on regular basis. So I guess "regularly" means every single Sunday. That's 40.0% of Poles going to church every Sunday. Only Malta has a higher result, did you know? It would be interesting to know how many people attend the Sunday mass "now and then".

If you're interested I've read there were 459 apostates in 2010, people who formally left the Catholic Church in Poland.

Despite the rants of Polonius, I know a considerable amount of middle aged PO voters who would be called practising Catholics by anyone reasonable.

Of course, nothing surprising about this.

I don't think it's in anyone's interest to have a Church weakened and divided, not least because of how a cornered animal tends to react.

"A cornered animal"? Interesting comparison lol You mean the Church will react with mindless violence when it will be "weakened and divided"? How do you imagine it will react?

PO is doing a fair job co ntuing that legacy.

You are obsessed.
Paulina   
20 Aug 2013
Life / The changing RCC habits of Poles [70]

I think it's more the point that these are the expectations that the Church has of Catholics - if someone doesn't do them, then they can hardly call themselves practising Catholics.

And when a Catholic stops being a practising Catholic? When he/she doesn't go to church every single Sunday? And what if one goes to church when he/she has time or strength to do so? What if someone is attending mass once a month or only now and then? Or what if someone goes to church only on Christmas, Easter, weddings and funerals? Where is this line which one has to cross to stop being a practising Catholic? Is a person who doesn't go to church every Sunday, but observes Christmas and Easter, prays, fasts and supports the Church still a practising Catholic or not? And what if a person does go to Church every Sunday but doesn't fast, doesn't go to confession and doesn't support the Church? A practising Catholic or not?

There are all kins of levels of practising and Polonius3 was right when he wrote that in Polish there's a distinction between "wierzący" (believer) and "głęboko wierzący" (deep believer or a devout person in English, I guess?).

Delph, if someone has Catholic parents and was baptised but later on doesn't consider himself/herself a Catholic then he/she will answer that he/she isn't a Catholic. Believe me, Poles have no problems with doing so :) That's how I would understand such question and that's how other Poles would understand it, I think. People in Poland don't say they are Catholics only because they were baptised.

Of course, there's also probably this strange type of a Catholic, who doesn't really believe in God but consider himself/herself a Catholic and maybe even follows some traditions because, well, that's the Polish tradition in his/her mind and that's that. But I don't know what survey would reveal their numbers :) Maybe there should be two questions: "What religion are you?" and "Do you believe in God?"

Why not? It would certainly help with understanding Poland more

Sure, right :) That's not why Harry made this thread.

I would be very interested in detailed statistics too, particularly if they proved that the RCC in Poland is not dominated by the type of people that Polonius and other extremists claim it is.

And what is this type of people and how such surveys would prove that?
Paulina   
20 Aug 2013
Life / The changing RCC habits of Poles [70]

For example:

And what? Are you saying that if people don't go to church every Sunday and don't take the Eucharist every Sunday or they don't fast they stop being Catholics in the eyes of the Church?

Where is it stated by the Church?
I attended religion classes and many masses in my life and somehow we've never been told by a catechist or a priest or a monk that if we don't attend mass every Sunday or fast, then we aren't considered Catholics.

I'd much like to know what percentage of Poles meet what the RCC calls "the very necessary minimum in the spirit of prayer and moral effort".

And why would you want to know that? Are you also so terribly interested in how many Poles like to do it doggy style or how many Poles have hemorroides? o_O

It's actually an interest in my country

It looks more like an obsession, Harry.

Why didn't you answer Foreigner4's question, Harry?
Paulina   
25 Jul 2013
Love / I love a Polish girl, but I don't want her to drink [37]

I do not know why the Polish attack me here?

Most people in this thread aren't Polish.

It's funny, Are you sure that you know everything in Bible ?
I know more than you know, i have read some of it!!!!

What you've quoted are all Apostolic Letters, not the Gospels.
And anyway, even those fragments from Apostolic Letters that you've quoted don't forbid drinking alcohol. They just say people shouldn't drink and eat in excess (thus "drunkenness, gluttony" aren't OK).

The same is in Judaism, as far as I know, Jews can drink alcohol, but not in excess.
It seems Muslims are the only People of the Book who can't drink alcohol at all. Sorry :P ;)
Paulina   
12 Jul 2013
News / Poland's John Paul the Great canonisation this year [177]

Don't be so sarcastic. young lady - it doesn't make you look intelligent - quite the reverse.

My sarcasm wasn't supposed to make me "look intelligent", but motivate you to answer my question :) Looks like it worked.

I do indeed. My opinion is that an embryo is a group of cells, not a person. It has no personality, memory or consciousness - therefore I am not opposed to abortion.

OK, but I asked you when, according to you, a person starts. So when "a thing" turns into "a person"? At what stage?

And is the term "a person" the same as "human being" for you?

...but you promised.....

No, I didn't promise anything.
So, I won't get any answers from you?

I could also mention the greed of wealth the complete failure of the church to help the poor...

"The complete failure of the church to help the poor"? What are you talking about, blue? You're generalising, there are all kinds of people in the Church, including those who help people in all kinds of ways, like Mother Teresa, for example, and charities like Caritas.
Paulina   
9 Jul 2013
News / Poland's John Paul the Great canonisation this year [177]

Ask the doctors.

What doctors? Am I supposed to ask rybnik? lol
I'm asking you, jon357. I'm interested in your opinion. I guess you have one?

So a sperm isn't a living thing? Oh OK, I see you didn't bother taking biology in school.

I was writing about new human life, genius lol For a new human life to start a spermatozoon has to get into the egg cell and only then the whole process begins. We aren't discussing spermatozoons and egg cells, but a zygote and later stages of embryo development. Zygotes contain DNA derived from both parents, and this provides all the genetic information necessary to form a new individual. You understand now? :P

You watch way too much TV.

Actually, I don't :) But I'm rather picky about what I watch, so I usually end up watching some interesting and often educational stuff.

Obviously you believe everything it tells you.

Well, when it's a BBC documentary with David Attenborough in it, then I'm rather trustful :)
I've attended school, smurf, but I like to broaden my knowledge and horizons also by watching documentaries on TV, among others.
Don't you like to get to know new things, smurf? I do.
For example, today I've watched a documentary on Polish TV "Children of Agent Orange". I didn't know about Agent Orange before watching this documentary and what it caused in Vietnam. From watching this documentary you could, for example, learn what you can read in an article on a BBC site: "The US compensates its veterans exposed to the defoliant, but does not compensate Vietnamese nationals."

bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-pacific-19190509

Well, I guess that documentary and the BBC article could be lying about this, but I don't see why they would do that.

Educate yourself.

About what exactly? What do I don't know, according to you? You still fail to answer this.

Uou think women don't commit rape?
Like I said.
LOL!

It happens, but very rarely in comparisment to men. So it's highly unlikely that if it's a girl, she'll rape anyone in the future.

But you haven't answered my question - do you think every man who's father was a rapist is doomed to be a rapist himself?

Good, your arguments are weak and neither well thought out nor articulated.

You're yet to prove that, because so far you haven't managed to. Sorry, smurf, but I don't consider comments like "That's the dumbest thing you've ever posted" as strong, well thought out and well articulated counterarguments ;D
Paulina   
8 Jul 2013
News / Poland's John Paul the Great canonisation this year [177]

I think you'll find that yes, we are. Duh!

OK, then I'll put it in a different way.
Humans are much more developed species, that evolved into something like no other species on the face of the Earth.
We can think, speak, write and fly to the Moon lol
If you watch documentaries about animals on TV you'll also know that (other) animals, unlike humans, according to scientists and researchers, aren't capable of grasping the idea of some more distant future. They live in the present, they are only aware of the present time.

So, unlike other animals, we are able to grasp the idea of future, we can think, predict and that's why we know that if the pregnancy isn't aborted a little Katie or a little John will be born, etc. etc.

It doesn't look like you are.

And you're basing this opinion of yours on what exactly?

So, you think men probably shouldn't masturbate then too?

No, you can masturbate to your heart's content lol

Isn't every sperm sacred, all 600million of them, per ejaculation? We wouldn't be long overpopulating the world in that case.
What about female periods? I mean, in your view that's probably a waste of eggs? Lol

Sorry, smurf, we aren't talking about sperm and eggs, but about a new life that already started, I think that's pretty clear.

That's the dumbest thing you've ever posted.

Why? What is dumb about it? You think such things don't happen? For example, I've watched a documentary about a martial law in Poland and there a story was told of a female protester who was pregnant. She was chased into some building by ZOMO policemen and kicked into her belly and she lost her child.

You find that dumb?

If you wish for your child to contain about half the genetic code of the man who raped you then your an idiot.

Noone wishes for being impregnated by a rapist in the first place, I hope you're intelligent enough to know that.
What about you, smurf - do you think every man who's father was a rapist is doomed to be a rapist himself?
And what if the baby is a girl? What then?

But, yea, go for it, your body, your choice. Let me know how it works out.

I don't understand why you have a need to make it so personal and to be so hostile.
Fortunately I don't have to make such a choice, but there are women who had to make a choice and they did, they chose to give birth to and raise those children. Are they idiots?

lol

If those are the best answers you can provide, then I guess there's no point in further discussion.

A human embryo is not a person.

Then when a person starts, according to you, jon357?
Paulina   
6 Jul 2013
News / Poland's John Paul the Great canonisation this year [177]

That's not very objective, you don't know what it feels like to not exist ;P

xD
Come on... lol

OK, then everyone has a right to experience both in order to make up their mind what they prefer - existence or nonexistence, don't you think? ;)

How long does it take? Is it all always effective?

How long?
I don't know. I suspect it depends on many things, like: whether the person in question is psychologically strong or not, how brutal the rape was, what type of rape, whether it was a gang rape or not, whether the rape was accompanied by some kind of psychological abuse or not, whether she knew the rapist or not, whether it was a family member or not, whether it was a one time rape, or the raping went for hours, days, months or years, whether the rapist was caught and sentenced or not (it helps to get a closure, a peace of mind), whether the woman has the support of her family, friends, husband, boyfriend, whether she has "a reason to live" and whether she has a good, professional psychotherapist.

An example from an article I've read some time ago:

"She says that since she's been violated her husband won't touch her because he's disgusted by her. So she's on her own: scared, weary and hungry.

I asked her how she found the strength to carry on, and she replied that she had to fight to survive for the sake of her children, but that if she saw the two men who attacked her she would kill them.
"

Btw, if you're interested with the subject of the process of dealing with rape, how it may look like, I think this film is worth watching:

imdb.com/title/tt0378793/

Yes, the main role is played by young Kristen Stewart from "Twilight", but don't be discouraged, the film is good and she actually plays well there :)

Is it all always effective?

I don't know. Probably not. As I wrote - it probably depends on many factors.
And it also depends on what you mean by "effective".
I can imagine it's something that stays with people for the rest of their lives. I guess it's "effective" if you're able to go on with your life after the rape and you don't have nightmares about it every night. I honestly don't know and I hope I'll never experience anything like that.

So older kids are doomed to grow parentless? ;)

Eh... No. Are we going to discuss adoption now? ;P

Well, embryos don't have many feelings, lucky them ;)

Why, you don't like having feelings, Polson? :P

I wish that was true.

Why on Earth you wish that was true? o_O

Are you against abortion in case of health issues

If the pregnancy threats the woman's life then it's a choice between one life and another life. I don't know what is "the good choice" in such a case. It's a tragic choice.

I think in such circumstances, since it's the woman's life that is in danger, it's up to her to decide whether to go on with pregnancy or not, after being provided with all the info about the risk by the doctor.

(for the kid, the mum, and/or both)?

What health issues you have in mind in case of the kid?

With all those LOL's you must have one sick sense of humour.

Funny, you're so outraged by my LOL's (not really quoting to which comments they were addressed and not knowing why I've put them there), but you have no problem with someone saying that an eight month baby in mother's womb isn't a human being because "humans do not suck blood from hosts and do need to breathe".

Psychotherapy. Don't make me laugh. Opinionated and the text book solutions we have had from the 7 we saw in Poland beggar belief.

What were you seeing them about, if you don't mind me asking?

They seem to think you fit the text book to the situation and not the situation to a solution. I guess they all study the same material. Rubbish. Rubbish. Waste of money. I'm sure the English ones are equally up their own bottoms.

I'm sure there are good and bad psychotherapists out there, just like other good and bad doctors. You just have to find a good one, I guess.

You should try and imagine yourself in that predicament with possibly the next rapist growing inside you;

"The next rapist"? Are you saying that every man who's father was a rapist is doomed to be a rapist himself?
And what if the baby is a girl? LOL

but its impossible.

No, it isn't. I'm a woman and although it isn't possible for me to know how it's like I can imagine it. I don't lack imagination or empathy.

I am all for looong sentences for rapists, but not for punishing innocent children.
Here you have some comments by women who are raising children being "the fruits" of rape:

I gave birth to a child from rape, eight years ago, and now the "Father" of my child is in prison. But so what, I live in the countryside and the mother of my perpetrator hates me. Now I do not know if I should trust the father of a man who hurt me, in the end he is the grandfather of my son. He apologized to me many times for what that man did to me and asked that I let him contact with my child? Should I agree ??

f.kafeteria.pl/temat.php?id_p=4545451

You know, I'm starting to wonder about the fact that only men write here on this topic. What about women? Girls, do you have any views on the subject of giving birth to and raising such children?

You are wrong,

Tell that to a pregnant woman.

please do some research.

What research? I am aware of different stages of baby's development. And?

You really need to do more research.
A feotus and a baby are different things.
The first becomes the 2nd, but only after a period of gestation.

Sorry, smurf, but for the parents it is a baby from the very beginning.
It isn't some piece of meat, it's a living organism, and we all know it's a human organism, with a fixed set of genes not to be repeated again.

We aren't animals and therefore we are able to grasp the idea of future, we can think, predict and that's why we know that if the pregnancy isn't aborted a little Katie or a little John will be born. If the fetus will be killed there won't be another Katie or John, there may be Marry or Harry, or Tom or Sean, or Annie or Rachel, but no Katie or John anymore. Just like me and my brother are quite different people. If let's say my mum decided to have an abortion I wouldn't be here writing this.

If your mum decided to have an abortion you wouldn't be here writing that a fetus isn't a baby and it's OK to kill it lol There would be someone else, maybe with completely different views than yours.

By what you are saying in your weak arguments, you think that having a miscarriage could be classed as manslaughter. Which is obviously quite silly.

No, what I wrote was: "If someone would purposely do something to cause a miscarriage to a pregnant woman (against her will, obviously lol),"

Imagine that your girlfriend or wife is pregnant with your baby. Her jealous, crazy ex-bf finds out about it and throws her on the ground and kicks her in her belly and as a result she looses your baby. Will the guy get the same sentence in the court as in the case if your wife/gf wasn't pregnant?

Please learn more about the subject at hand before commenting.

What exactly am I supposed to learn about the subject?
Paulina   
4 Jul 2013
News / Poland's John Paul the Great canonisation this year [177]

I honestly haven't answered myself this question yet ;)
Well, the question should rather be: would I prefer to be born or not? I certainly don't want to die now.

Well, I want to live and I'd prefer to be born. I like existing :P

I'm talking about the shock, the deep trauma caused by a rape.

This is something one can overcome - to a greater or smaller extent, among others, thanks to psychotherapy.

This goes beyond simple bonds between a mum and her future child.

It does or it doesn't. It depends on the person.

My grandparents passed away, and were living too far anyway. What should I do? (well, I'm a boy, but let's say I'm a girl, for a moment ;))
As to adoption, there are already so many kids in orphanages. The idea is interesting maybe, facts are not as optimistic.

There are many kids in orphanages who are at least a few years old. Every couple usually wants a small baby.
You don't want a child who is "a fruit" of a rape? You give it to such couple. It's a win-win situation.

No, I'm concerned about both, really. When you are concerned about the kid only.

No, Polson, all what I'm saying is: life is more important then feelings. You can deal with feelings, but only when you're alive lol

The right to live, cherishing the life of every individual is a fundamental value of our humanistic civilisation.

Polson, I'm a woman, I can imagine what a raped woman must be going through and the feelings that she must be experiencing when she finds out that the rapist got her pregnant probably better than you. Of course it would be a difficult decision, but, you know, women besides feelings have also a brain and often a conscience, or empathy if you like, too.

Also, there are not raped women who gave birth to their children and don't love them, treat them badly or even kill them.

The problem is: when does life 'start'? If we don't agree on this point, we can't agree on the rest.

Well, all I need is logic and biology textbook from secondary school to decide about it, tbh... Some basic human ethics and humanism won't hurt either... ;)
Paulina   
4 Jul 2013
News / Poland's John Paul the Great canonisation this year [177]

I am saying that humans do not suck blood from hosts and do need to breathe.

They do, when they're still in their mothers' wombs.
No, they're not aliens. They're humans alright lol

Have you ever met one that needs to suck blood from a host but not to breathe? Has anybody?

One only becomes a human when you are able "to meet" him or her?? lol
What kind of peaks of absurdity are you reaching now, Harry? o_O
Paulina   
4 Jul 2013
News / Poland's John Paul the Great canonisation this year [177]

LOL
And where did you get such definition, Harry? xD

So are you saying that a baby in a womb isn't a human being for you and becomes a human being only when it leaves a woman's body? lol
Paulina   
4 Jul 2013
News / Poland's John Paul the Great canonisation this year [177]

That really depends ;)

LOL
No, it doesn't, Polson.
If you lack imagination or empathy then I'll help you - would you prefer to be dead or alive?
I'd prefer to be alive. Now, do you have a right to make such choice for a child?

Besides, what if the mum doesn't like the kid?

So she has a right to kill a kid because MAYBE she won't like it? xD
What if she likes the kid?
What if she loves the kid?
Is she able to know this before the child is born?
No, because the bond between the child and the mother starts during the pregnancy and becomes so strong after the child is born that a mother who wants to give her baby to adoption may change her mind about giving it away and she may decide to keep the baby!

After all, it's the result of something very painful, physically and psychologically. What if she CAN'T like the kid? She could get violent with him/her. She could just abandon him/her.

One word: ADOPTION.
Also, the grandma and grandad may like the kid, you know?

Go explain the kid why s/he an unwanted 'bastard'.

Go explain to the kid that he/she is unworthy of living because his/her mum doesn't like him/her.

I mean there's a real problem here.

Of course there is, it isn't nice, it isn't pleasant, but definitely it isn't worth saying someone's life isn't worthy enough.

Noone has a right to say sth like that, to decide about it.

You're not really concerned about the kid, you're concerned about mother's feelings.
Sorry, but I don't think someone's feelings are more important than someone's life.
It isn't even about religion, but about common sense and human decency.
It isn't the kid's fault. The kid shouldn't pay for it with his/hers life.
That's my opinion.

Really? Personally I've never met any children who can only survive by sucking blood from the body of their host. Apparently your experience is otherwise.

Harry, it's all just purposeful semantics, isn't it?
For a woman that wants a child - no matter how early the stage of pregnancy it is, it is her CHILD. Notice that no woman calls her wanted child "a feotus". The child becomes a feotus when it is unwanted. Killing it becomes "an abortion" then. It's easier for the psyche, of course, when you use euphemisms. If the woman wanted a child what would she scream? "You killed my baby, you bastard!"

We all know that "a feotus" is a human being, with a certain set of genes not to be repeated again. It won't grow to be a dog, ffs lol

Honestly, guys, I'm not writing this as a Christian even. I'm writing this as a humanist, a human being. It's logic and biology.

You'd be probably outraged if some cruel as*hole kicked your female pregnant dog to the point that she would loose her puppies.
But if it's about a human being, then nooooo... It's feotus, it isn't alive... lol
What the hell... :/
Paulina   
4 Jul 2013
News / Poland's John Paul the Great canonisation this year [177]

OK, I have to intervene here for a moment lol

A feotus is not a child, duh.

It is, duh lol

You cannot murder something that isn't born. Fact.

No, no fact. You can murder something that isn't born, if it's alive. Duh o_O
If someone would purposely do something to cause a miscarriage to a pregnant woman (against her will, obviously lol), he or she wouldn't be persecuted for murder? o_O

Honestly, what is wrong with you people...

Well, s/he will, eventually. 'Hey, honey, you know, your dad, you never saw him, he's the guy who raped your sweet mummy and then disappeared, he apparently raped 2 or 3 more women after me, so this is your daddy, happy birthday, honey!'

Sorry, Polson, but that's still better than not being born... lol

That's just my two cents :)
Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
Travel / Just visited Poland - here is my random rant [154]

I first came here in 1990 Paulina and I have witnessed a lot of changes, as I live in Warsaw more changes than most other cities in Poland.

Yes, those changes were inevitable because of the change in the political and economic system and because Poland opened up to the democratic and capitalist West.

Not because of "a good recession".
I don't see how "a good recession" would or will improve anything, because it's the people's mentality that is the problem, I think. And I don't know how much time it will take until people's mentality changes enough. Maybe another 24 years? Who knows...

That's my opinion.
I'm open to your counterarguments or explanations, but since I would have to pay for them... LOL

Never the less I am not Polish and this gives me the benefit of drawing a conclusion of what is acceptable and what is not in the EU in 2013.

Sure, but that's not what you and me are discussing.

It is what I have drilled into the minds of my Polish workers over the years, many have come back and thanked me, and I am proud of what they have gone onto achieve.

Wow, then that's really sad that they actually had to be told such clichés, isn't it.

Stop living in the past feeling sorry for yourself.

Dude, I don't live in the past and I'm not feeling sorry for myself xD
I'm explaining Poland to you, but I guess you Westerners don't need any explaining, you know everything best :P
Sorry, my bad ;)

What, 'Keep in an airtight container', 'The best to you', what??

Something like that, I guess lol

It's queue by the way, not que.

Thanks.
What a horrible word lol
Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
Travel / Just visited Poland - here is my random rant [154]

Paulina, Any job you do is going to "have your fingerprints all over it." That is why it is so important to take ownership of your job, any job you do, and really own it. Do it the best you can; do it the best it can be done. That is how you succeed.

Thanks, warszawski, have you read those great words of wisdom on a box of American cereals? xD

Paulina communist Poland was 24 years ago.

Yes, and?

How old are you 20,21,or maybe 22?

I'm 31.
I've been pushed out of a que for meat as a little kid by grownups although I had a stamp ink mark put on my hand (as proof that I'm standing in the que). My mum left me there to stand instead of her in the que because there was a rumour that they started selling sth in another shop.

When I was a little older I was always stressed out when I had to go to the shop to buy something because the shop assistants were Darth Vader incarnated xD There are still one or two ladies (they're around 40 years old, I think) like that at one shop in my neighbourhood and that's why I don't buy there ;P

So, warszawski, how long have you been living in Poland?

Its stems from a fact that they can get away with such behavior, and there is no law protecting customer rights.

There's law alright. That's not the problem, I think.
Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
Travel / Just visited Poland - here is my random rant [154]

Maybe it did - wasn't that time also when many old ideas were swept away and new ones introduced?

You mean, like, capitalism, free market and stuff like that? LOL
:)

It stems from bad training and bad management, at least in bigger companies.

And what this bad training and bad management stems from?

It lacks personal accountability, in my opinion.

What do you mean?
And how can it be improved by "a good recession"?

I would be happy to do that for your business, pm me and I will inform you of my fees.

lol
No, thanks.

Btw, how long have you been living in Poland, warszawski?

Ok if you wish I can send you the title of a book to read.

What book?

Yes. Where exactly does the customer is always wrong ethos come from?

From communism, people.
Duh!
It's the same with doctors and nurses.
During the communism the shop assistants were the Lords lol
And clients were the insignificant, puny, rat-like creatures xD
Have you seen the Kabaret Tey's "Z tyłu sklepu" from commie times? I guess you haven't... It's a cult comedy sketch in Poland. Even during the communism people laughed at those things (although it was a rather bitter laugh, I'd say).
Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
Travel / Just visited Poland - here is my random rant [154]

At least in my opinion, it might make small business owners realise that they need to treat clients properly.

Well, delph, we had "a good recession" during the 90's - do you think it improved "the Polish customer service"?
I'm not sure if you guys understand what this "bad Polish customer service" stems from (if I understand properly what you mean).

You are back tracking Paulina I gave 10 points why recession is a good thing.

Those are just general points. I'd like you to explain it on a particular example - Polish customer service. What Polish customer service lacks and how do you think "a good recession" would improve it?

Paulina, would you like Poland to become the next Israel or South Korea by geographical location.

I've never been to those countries, so I'm not sure what you mean.
Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
Travel / Just visited Poland - here is my random rant [154]

LOL

Well, OK, whatever you say ;D

You wrote about "Polish customer service which is almost non-exist outside of multinationals in PL", so I wonder how, in your opinion, "a good recession" would make any improvements in Polish customer service?
Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
Travel / Just visited Poland - here is my random rant [154]

This could be true for rich West, but not for Poland which needs other kinds of improvements, the ones the West has already.
During recession you don't develop, you survive. Poland had enough of surviving, imho, what we need is development.
Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
Language / Diminutive "Masha"/"Macha" (masculine) [8]

she would have have gone to Russian forums if it was about Russian name

if someone could tell me what the diminutive "Masha"/"Macha" stands for when it is NOT given to a woman but to a man.

Well, "Masha" in case of a woman is a Russian diminutive, not Polish, so I thought I'll make it lear for GoldenSummer.

for sure it's not about that name,

I'm just sharing the info, Wulkan.
I don't know why the OP is asking this question so I share whatever I can find.

It could be, for example, someone's nickname, and not a diminutive form of a name.

nobody is named like that even if the name exists in the calendar :-)

True, but, on the other hand, some parents can be very "creative" about their children's names so you never know lol

facebook.com/hagi1977
facebook.com/czezczeztermachabeusz.czezowski

lear

clear
Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
UK, Ireland / Western Europe is not Paradise after all (Polish doctors in the UK more popular) [75]

What I gather about Poland is that the bribery system works in a strange way - doctors are often given 'presents' that they don't even ask for at times.

Yes, my mum gave coffee to the nurses when my grandma was at the hospital. She thought that thanks to that they would take better care of her, which I think is silly, but that's a communist mentality. It will probably change with next generations. I wouldn't give a bribe or "a present" to a doctor or a nurse, it would be too embarrassing for me... lol

Perhaps not, but I can assure you I wasn't dreaming. Amazing that the nurses didn't lock him in the room and call the police, but no, they were letting him see patients!

Well, you can hear about such cases on the news on TV sometimes, so it's not like it doesn't happen at all lol, but I've never experienced it myself and I don't think anyone I know has either.
Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
Language / Diminutive "Masha"/"Macha" (masculine) [8]

I would be very grateful if someone could tell me what the diminutive "Masha"/"Macha" stands for when it is NOT given to a woman but to a man.

I don't know of any Russian male name that would have such a diminutive.
In case of "Polish" names Machabeusz has such a diminutive form (Masha=Masza), apparently:

dzieci.pl/word,Machabeusz,imie.html?smgputicaid=610dca

Diminutive name Machabeusz
The most common diminutives are
Machab, Machabi, Machasz, Machabeuszek, Masza, Maszi, Besio, Beusz, Beszek, Uszek

Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
UK, Ireland / Western Europe is not Paradise after all (Polish doctors in the UK more popular) [75]

He added: 'You have heard the stories about people going to GPs and whatever is wrong with you they give you a paracetamol and tell you to go away.

My friend living in London told me about it! xD I thought she was joking or sth...

She also told me that she was amazed at what the visits at GP look like - you go in, tell about your symptoms and the doctor... types them into the internet... and bases the diagnosis on what he/she finds there... o_O As you can imagine she had a better opinion about Polish GPs.

(Now, before you jump on her - she's an Anglophile, she loves the language and went to the UK not because she had to but because she wanted to).

And, yes, we are all acutely aware of the problems with health care in Poland, so don't bother :P I'm just repeating what she said, so don't kill the messenger ;)

Yes. Many times more.

Jon, I've lived in Poland all my life and I have never met a drunk doctor or a nurse. Seriously. Never.

It would make a lot of sense - it's a well known phenomenon that some elderly people see the doctor as a social life.

Yes, doctors complain about it.

It is far from unimaginable in Warsaw. Here, when using a private clinic (in my case Medicover) it is very unusual to get an appointment for a GP the same day

I always can get to the doctor in my przychodnia the same day. Unless it's a flu season then you have to be usually very early to get in.

My daughter was recently perscibed antibiotics upon antibiotics for recurring tonsilitis, this contstant dose caused other problems such as mouth thrush, gingivites and other nasty ***** as the antibiotics were killing the healthy bacteria.

You should always take probiotics when you take antibiotics!

I've read articles saying that antibiotics are being prescribed too often, that's nothing new, but now I googled and found something funny:

kobieta.pl/drukuj/artykul/ostroznie-z-antybiotykami

Dr Hanna Orłowska: Rzeczywiście, są lekarze, którzy zbyt często wypisują antybiotyki, zwłaszcza jeśli rodzic nalega. Tymczasem nie wszystkie zakażenia bakteryjne wymagają antybiotykoterapii. Ale to problem nie tylko nasz, w Wielkiej Brytanii antybiotyki stosowane są jeszcze powszechniej.

Dr Hanna Orłowska is saying that there are doctors in Poland who prescribe antibiotics too often and she adds that the use of antibiotics is even more common in the UK o_O

So what's the truth?
Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
Travel / Just visited Poland - here is my random rant [154]

In the railway station, left hand side as you're going in.

Oh, OK lol I've never drunk there and I guess l never will then. What a rip off lol

Improvements are born out of bad times not good times.

I can't say I agree.
Paulina   
30 Jun 2013
Travel / Just visited Poland - here is my random rant [154]

I know a płace in Kielce that charges more if you want sugar in your coffee!

Which place??? xD
Btw, I always get a packet of sugar with my coffee or tea in Kielce, or there's simply a sugar bowl standing on the table.
Paulina   
25 Jun 2013
News / Polish scientist discovers drug for leukemia [15]

A Polish scientist Iga Franiak- Pietryga discovered new drug treating leukemia.

Wow, that's good news.

but what do you think- what are the chances the drug will receive patent and will be produced in Poland?

Who knows... But I'm rather pessimistic, to be honest...

are there actually Polish pharmaceutical companies??

Yes, for example: Polpharma, USP, Adamed, LEK-AM, Bioton.
Paulina   
24 Jun 2013
Language / Proposal words in Polish, HELP! :) [13]

You forgot never. :):)

I don't think "Nigdy nie sądziłem" would be correct in Polish, as "nigdy" would imply that he never thought that he will be happy in his life. He wrote "I would ever be happy again". So he used to be happy in his life.

Ignoring the intonation, of course.

lol Yes, indeed :)
Paulina   
24 Jun 2013
Language / Proposal words in Polish, HELP! :) [13]

najlepszą przyjaciółką

+1

a nawet bratnią duszą.

I think "i bratnią duszą" would be enough.

I never thought that I would ever be happy again, until the day I met you.

Nie sądziłem, że jeszcze kiedyś będę szczęśliwy, aż do dnia kiedy spotkałem Ciebie.

My whole life has changed for the good and it's you who has made this possible.

Całe moje życie zmieniło się na lepsze i Ty to sprawiłaś.

I love you and always will.

Kocham Cię i nigdy nie przestanę.

So, as I am running out of things to say, there's only one thing left ...

A że zaczyna mi już brakować słów, pozostaje mi tylko jedna rzecz do powiedzenia i jest to: "Czy uczynisz mi ten zaszczyt i pozwolisz mi dbać o Ciebie, chronić Cię i kochać zostając moją żoną?"

Btw, if you'd like to practice pronouncing this then you could try this: ivona.com/pl/. Just copy-paste Polish text, push "PLAY" and listen :)
Paulina   
24 Jun 2013
News / Professor Zygmund Bauman, Commie-Jew, shouted down [79]

true or false?

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zygmunt_Bauman#Biography

Otherwise it is irrelevant If a guy is a Jew or not.

I agree.

Nice title polonius.

Yes, you got to "love" Polonius3' titles.