JustysiaS
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
what is wrong with some women??
My exs all killed my plants.
I bought my ex flowers; not that she was ever grateful tho
what is wrong with some women??
JustysiaS
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
looks are not and never have been the most important factor to me when it comes to choosing guys i date!! stop trying to stick that label on me, none of the guys i've been out with would make other girls heads turn. i've got a weird taste in men, usually the guys i fancy other women i know and chat to would never look at twice lol. of course i like for my man to take care of himself and look and smell good, but that's within the limits of common sense and hygiene. i take pride in my appearance and make an effort, not gonna walk down the street with some filthy slob in a tracksuit! lol i don't think i expect much looks wise, but a warm personality and a sense of humour are a must. a hobby other than getting p*ssed or football is always an advantage too :P
as in agreeing with everyone? lol i can agree with that ;D
by history i mean the stuff you know about them already, what they told you, what you've been through together so far. what people told you about them. if you don't know them at all and never met, there is none of that and i find that is an advantage. if you don't know someone, you can't judge them or assume you know how they will react. spontaneity and never knowing what might happen are one of the best and most exciting parts of a relationship. not saying it can't happen with someone you're already acquainted with but at least then you won't have those expectations or images of what it 'should' be like with them cos they seemed like such and such person. just go with the flow.
no violence, maybe cursing a little and and doing that Mutley impression under your nose ha ha... i never participated in a cat fight, well we fought with my sisters when we were younger and it would get nasty sometimes but there was no blood or pulling hair out lol.
buy a potted feckin plant, Einstein!
i guess its different for different people, without saying you depend a lot on looks, obviously this is by far the most important factor for you as the way you meet & develop a relationship fundamentally surrounds the aesthetics, looks, dress, hair, how somebody carries themselves
looks are not and never have been the most important factor to me when it comes to choosing guys i date!! stop trying to stick that label on me, none of the guys i've been out with would make other girls heads turn. i've got a weird taste in men, usually the guys i fancy other women i know and chat to would never look at twice lol. of course i like for my man to take care of himself and look and smell good, but that's within the limits of common sense and hygiene. i take pride in my appearance and make an effort, not gonna walk down the street with some filthy slob in a tracksuit! lol i don't think i expect much looks wise, but a warm personality and a sense of humour are a must. a hobby other than getting p*ssed or football is always an advantage too :P
find you the most agreeable..
as in agreeing with everyone? lol i can agree with that ;D
surely this can be the same no matter where you meet somebody, you don't need to go through the life history if you meet somebody anywhere else?? as for gossip, that will get around where ever you are or whoever you are with, thats just my opinion :)
by history i mean the stuff you know about them already, what they told you, what you've been through together so far. what people told you about them. if you don't know them at all and never met, there is none of that and i find that is an advantage. if you don't know someone, you can't judge them or assume you know how they will react. spontaneity and never knowing what might happen are one of the best and most exciting parts of a relationship. not saying it can't happen with someone you're already acquainted with but at least then you won't have those expectations or images of what it 'should' be like with them cos they seemed like such and such person. just go with the flow.
female road rage, what does that consist of?? taking of your high heels and stabbing people with them, or is it handbags and ten paces :):):):) hahaha. Mind you having just joked about it girl fights can be more dirty than blokes fighting, when they go at it they leave nothing in reserve, everything is on the line.
no violence, maybe cursing a little and and doing that Mutley impression under your nose ha ha... i never participated in a cat fight, well we fought with my sisters when we were younger and it would get nasty sometimes but there was no blood or pulling hair out lol.
How can you give somebody flowers that die
buy a potted feckin plant, Einstein!
JustysiaS
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
yeah but after some time you move on and stop being a moaning bitter sod. there's so much more to life than re-living your failed relationships over and over again each day and taking it out on all members of the opposite sex. that is where NEGATIVITY starts.
yeah but after some time you move on and stop being a moaning bitter sod. there's so much more to life than re-living your failed relationships over and over again each day and taking it out on all members of the opposite sex. that is where NEGATIVITY starts.
JustysiaS
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
yeah, that's why we live longer. are you one of those damaged goods cases, m'dear? sounding a bit bitter there.
They don't die...women kill them. Suck the life right out of you (somebody can run with that one)
yeah, that's why we live longer. are you one of those damaged goods cases, m'dear? sounding a bit bitter there.
JustysiaS
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
funnily enough the longest lasting relationships i had were those with people i met socialising, not through work or school etc. the initial attraction and instinct had proven to be more reliable in my case rather than getting to know the person through days/weeks/months of interaction wherever it is you know them from and eventually starting to date. often people turn out to be different to what they appear in the usual environment you get to see them in and that often can be disappointing or even a shock. you think you know someone and then you start dating them lol... at least with people you meet on nights out there is no history, no gossip, no second hand advice. you slowly get to know them and build a relationship from scratch without assuming what they're like just because you knew them for a such and such period of time. you don't really know them at all, you only know what they let on in places and situations you get to interact with them. this is just my personal opinion, not saying it's a rule!
of course it's not, some people just have issues. or as someone i know harshly puts it, they are damaged goods. some are worth exploring and getting to know, some are better off with a shrink rather than a partner...
ok you got me there, i can be a serious case of road rage sometimes ha ha...
not really, but i'm not impressed cos i usually get a few spots on my face around that time ha ha... it's all about controlling your moods and not letting things (and men!) get to you ;)
you missed out!!
i used to ask my ex why he didn't buy me flowers and his answer was always 'because they die'. boyfriends die too, it just takes them longer than flowers.
again i totally agree with you, however you don't meet every girl in a club and start a conversation.
funnily enough the longest lasting relationships i had were those with people i met socialising, not through work or school etc. the initial attraction and instinct had proven to be more reliable in my case rather than getting to know the person through days/weeks/months of interaction wherever it is you know them from and eventually starting to date. often people turn out to be different to what they appear in the usual environment you get to see them in and that often can be disappointing or even a shock. you think you know someone and then you start dating them lol... at least with people you meet on nights out there is no history, no gossip, no second hand advice. you slowly get to know them and build a relationship from scratch without assuming what they're like just because you knew them for a such and such period of time. you don't really know them at all, you only know what they let on in places and situations you get to interact with them. this is just my personal opinion, not saying it's a rule!
would like to believe the reason for her 'negativity' was not 100% down to
of course it's not, some people just have issues. or as someone i know harshly puts it, they are damaged goods. some are worth exploring and getting to know, some are better off with a shrink rather than a partner...
what abot when you get stuck in a traffic jam for four hours, surely your a miserable cow then?? :)
ok you got me there, i can be a serious case of road rage sometimes ha ha...
Or when that cycle comes round once a month, all girls are cows then :) they can't help it but still it counts lol.
not really, but i'm not impressed cos i usually get a few spots on my face around that time ha ha... it's all about controlling your moods and not letting things (and men!) get to you ;)
dosen't look like i've met that special 'someone' yet then, lol.
you missed out!!
or perhaps he didnt buy her flowers and she thought valentines day
meant something to him just as much as her
meant something to him just as much as her
i used to ask my ex why he didn't buy me flowers and his answer was always 'because they die'. boyfriends die too, it just takes them longer than flowers.
JustysiaS
4 Aug 2009
Food / PIZZA & KETCHUP served only in Poland? [159]
yeah that's true about Polish ketchup, it definitely lacks the savoury, sour taste, it's a bit too runny, watery... totally not like ketchup, shall we just call it keczup then ;). now Heinz is what i'm talking about.
I'm not even sure that I would call Polish ketchup... ketchup. A lot of brands are just syrup.
yeah that's true about Polish ketchup, it definitely lacks the savoury, sour taste, it's a bit too runny, watery... totally not like ketchup, shall we just call it keczup then ;). now Heinz is what i'm talking about.
JustysiaS
4 Aug 2009
Food / PIZZA & KETCHUP served only in Poland? [159]
AND ketchup ;D
i always put ketchup on my pizza, it is a must
its a lot better with garlic sauce ;)
AND ketchup ;D
i always put ketchup on my pizza, it is a must
JustysiaS
4 Aug 2009
JustysiaS
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
well no surprise there at the comments of tomek and sokrates, funnily enough tornado you're ready to agree with them but i expect that's just male coalition! i never said looks were all there was to a person but initially they do get your attention, is that not true? you don't look at girls and think 'oh she looks like someone with a nice personality' ha ha do you? you think more along the lines of 'she looks well nice i wanna speak to her'. same goes for us girls really, you see someone you like and then eventually you get to know them and take it from there... you click or not.
and as for negativity it really depends on the person and the person you are with. if somebody can make you think positive thoughts, feel happy and put a smile on your face even if they are not with you at the moment then that is something truly amazing and i believe there is someone like that for every one of us out there. some people clash personality wise, beliefs wise, culture wise and so on and that often causes the negative feelings, hopelessness, lack of enthusiasm, no drive, just passive all the way. you get to the stage where you feel it can only get worse and you would actually be surprised if things got better one day. i've been to that dark place for quite some time and never want to feel like that again.
obviously you can't rely on other people to motivate you all your life, but having that special someone for whom you want to become a better person day after day, want to make them proud... that certainly helps a lot.
oh, and i can be a miserable cow yes, but only if i don't like you.
well no surprise there at the comments of tomek and sokrates, funnily enough tornado you're ready to agree with them but i expect that's just male coalition! i never said looks were all there was to a person but initially they do get your attention, is that not true? you don't look at girls and think 'oh she looks like someone with a nice personality' ha ha do you? you think more along the lines of 'she looks well nice i wanna speak to her'. same goes for us girls really, you see someone you like and then eventually you get to know them and take it from there... you click or not.
and as for negativity it really depends on the person and the person you are with. if somebody can make you think positive thoughts, feel happy and put a smile on your face even if they are not with you at the moment then that is something truly amazing and i believe there is someone like that for every one of us out there. some people clash personality wise, beliefs wise, culture wise and so on and that often causes the negative feelings, hopelessness, lack of enthusiasm, no drive, just passive all the way. you get to the stage where you feel it can only get worse and you would actually be surprised if things got better one day. i've been to that dark place for quite some time and never want to feel like that again.
obviously you can't rely on other people to motivate you all your life, but having that special someone for whom you want to become a better person day after day, want to make them proud... that certainly helps a lot.
oh, and i can be a miserable cow yes, but only if i don't like you.
JustysiaS
4 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
maybe some guys just have a 'talent' of bringing out those negative traits in women? i don't believe that someone who appears te be lovely and cheerful just turns out to be a pesimist moaning cow all of the sudden, something must be triggering it. some people are not good together and that's that, they will never be happy and satisfied no matter what. i mean i can still remember what i was like when i was with my ex, i tell ya i could be such a miserable cow sometimes... i think that once you feel that you can't put any good energy into a relationship, or you see the other person being negative and always bracing themselves for the worst possible outcome, it is time to either have a proper conversation and get to the bottom of this issue or just end it. working and socialising with both English and Polish women though, i have to say Polish girls have much more sparkle and get up and go than the English ones!! so maybe it's something you guys are doing wrong?
ps: physical appearance is the first thing that attracts you to a person, it is undeniable especially if you don't know them yet or you have only just met and haven't spoken properly. if a relationship is bound to work, it is crucial that there is physical attraction or so called chemistry.
maybe some guys just have a 'talent' of bringing out those negative traits in women? i don't believe that someone who appears te be lovely and cheerful just turns out to be a pesimist moaning cow all of the sudden, something must be triggering it. some people are not good together and that's that, they will never be happy and satisfied no matter what. i mean i can still remember what i was like when i was with my ex, i tell ya i could be such a miserable cow sometimes... i think that once you feel that you can't put any good energy into a relationship, or you see the other person being negative and always bracing themselves for the worst possible outcome, it is time to either have a proper conversation and get to the bottom of this issue or just end it. working and socialising with both English and Polish women though, i have to say Polish girls have much more sparkle and get up and go than the English ones!! so maybe it's something you guys are doing wrong?
ps: physical appearance is the first thing that attracts you to a person, it is undeniable especially if you don't know them yet or you have only just met and haven't spoken properly. if a relationship is bound to work, it is crucial that there is physical attraction or so called chemistry.
JustysiaS
3 Aug 2009
JustysiaS
3 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
surprised she hasn't commited suicide yet lol
degenerated into massive negativity
surprised she hasn't commited suicide yet lol
JustysiaS
3 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
you sound like a bitter fvck3r tonight plk123... lol
you sound like a bitter fvck3r tonight plk123... lol
JustysiaS
3 Aug 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
can you stop stalking me around the forums weirdo? don't twist my words you know exactly what i mean. it's not a task to distinguish between someone physically attractive to you and someone average or unattractive, all that depends on personal preference but still, you can tell whom you fancy straight away and whom you don't. what i said is i'd never go for someone who is drop dead gorgeous but an empty shell with no soul or personality, it will never last. sadly for you, you you're neither attractive nor nice. you should just move on and get a life instead of quoting my posts all the time.
can you stop stalking me around the forums weirdo? don't twist my words you know exactly what i mean. it's not a task to distinguish between someone physically attractive to you and someone average or unattractive, all that depends on personal preference but still, you can tell whom you fancy straight away and whom you don't. what i said is i'd never go for someone who is drop dead gorgeous but an empty shell with no soul or personality, it will never last. sadly for you, you you're neither attractive nor nice. you should just move on and get a life instead of quoting my posts all the time.
JustysiaS
25 Jul 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
sooner or later the cocky playboy will come outta you no matter how well you hide it at first ha ha
sooner or later the cocky playboy will come outta you no matter how well you hide it at first ha ha
JustysiaS
25 Jul 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
well that's them, not all Polish girls. p*ssy whipped guys are really not my type.
i don't think that would appeal to many girls, Polish or not.
i recognise Polish girls abroad by their tacky clothes and bad hair styles hmmm ha ha
they say that stay with them out of fear of being with someone more challenging
well that's them, not all Polish girls. p*ssy whipped guys are really not my type.
Don't come across as too cocky, playboy or cool
i don't think that would appeal to many girls, Polish or not.
when she goes abroad she can always recognise other Polish girls by looking at their boyfriends
i recognise Polish girls abroad by their tacky clothes and bad hair styles hmmm ha ha
JustysiaS
25 Jul 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
i'd rather date a slightly less confident or attractive guy who is a nice person rather than some cocky, arrogant tosser who judges everyone by their looks and thinks he's better than all the other guys because of his nationality or status. if i ever had a dilemma like that i'd date the 'loser' just to spite the other twit lol.
i'd rather date a slightly less confident or attractive guy who is a nice person rather than some cocky, arrogant tosser who judges everyone by their looks and thinks he's better than all the other guys because of his nationality or status. if i ever had a dilemma like that i'd date the 'loser' just to spite the other twit lol.
JustysiaS
25 Jul 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
how do you know he doesn't? looks are not everything, why do you judge others like that without having a clue who they are and what they're like? 'cos she's hot and he's not' well good for him he's doing good for himself at least in the dating department and you foreigners are just jealous and probably insecure, hence why you keep flooding this forum desperately wanting to find out how to seduce Polish girls ha ha.
I don't think I've met any foreigner in Krakow who has not remarked more than once "What is she doing with that loser?" at the sight of a hot girl with an insecure, not very attractive, jealous 'pantoflarz'-type guy who appears to have little going for him.
how do you know he doesn't? looks are not everything, why do you judge others like that without having a clue who they are and what they're like? 'cos she's hot and he's not' well good for him he's doing good for himself at least in the dating department and you foreigners are just jealous and probably insecure, hence why you keep flooding this forum desperately wanting to find out how to seduce Polish girls ha ha.
JustysiaS
25 Jul 2009
Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]
why, cos they dumped you? sometimes it's difficult to be positive and an optimist when you have a sh*t boyfriend, especially in a long term relationship when things aren't looking up or going forward. ever thought about this from their perspective, ever thought what the source of this negativity might be? of course not why would you do that, blame their mood and spirits on their nationality yeahhh and support your arguement with what your bitter mates are telling you about their wives as well. this is a typical thread by and for bitter guys to vent and natter about their failed encounters with women who happen to be of the same nationality and that itself in your little minds is enough to stick a label on them and just call them all negative/slutty/plain etc. etc. i personally don't believe you're doing this for some research purposes or out of curiosity, it's your sad revenge and a search of acceptance and support.
to spare us silly Polish girls the disappointment, could you Alx123 and all other losers wear a t-shirt with a massive I AM A LOSER DON'T DATE ME sign on it? thanks!
Ive had two polish gfs, long term.. and realised that they both degenerated into massive negativity!
why, cos they dumped you? sometimes it's difficult to be positive and an optimist when you have a sh*t boyfriend, especially in a long term relationship when things aren't looking up or going forward. ever thought about this from their perspective, ever thought what the source of this negativity might be? of course not why would you do that, blame their mood and spirits on their nationality yeahhh and support your arguement with what your bitter mates are telling you about their wives as well. this is a typical thread by and for bitter guys to vent and natter about their failed encounters with women who happen to be of the same nationality and that itself in your little minds is enough to stick a label on them and just call them all negative/slutty/plain etc. etc. i personally don't believe you're doing this for some research purposes or out of curiosity, it's your sad revenge and a search of acceptance and support.
awful taste in men (unable to recognise a 'loser')
to spare us silly Polish girls the disappointment, could you Alx123 and all other losers wear a t-shirt with a massive I AM A LOSER DON'T DATE ME sign on it? thanks!
JustysiaS
11 Jul 2009
News / Polish Mom claims daughter got pregnant from swimming in pool! [162]
i wouldn't be surprised if that girl was pregnant with a Polish boy and made up a story about the pool, cos i am prepared to believe the mother when she says she never left her daughter out of her sight on their holiday. just gotta wait and see what colour the baby will be!
i wouldn't be surprised if that girl was pregnant with a Polish boy and made up a story about the pool, cos i am prepared to believe the mother when she says she never left her daughter out of her sight on their holiday. just gotta wait and see what colour the baby will be!
JustysiaS
11 Jul 2009
News / Polish Mom claims daughter got pregnant from swimming in pool! [162]
do they actually have a case there, cos i'd expect the courts to laugh in their face for coming up with bull*hit like that
do they actually have a case there, cos i'd expect the courts to laugh in their face for coming up with bull*hit like that
JustysiaS
11 Jul 2009
News / Polish Mom claims daughter got pregnant from swimming in pool! [162]
The alimony from whomever's sperm was floating about in that pool (gonna have to change the biology books and the sex education system now cos ladies and gentlemen we have a brand new way of reproduction) will be, let me say this in Polish because it sounds so much better, tylko kroplą w morzu potrzeb dla takich ludzi jak pani Kwiatkowska i jej puszczalska córeczka. People like that need either someone to educate them properly or, and this is my favourite, a public lashing to punish their stupidity and the shame they bring upon other Polish people. Isn't it funny how when thick people come up with something they find an absolutely genius idea, they expect everyone else to lap it up just like that... Nie mierz wszystkich swoją własną miarką.
The alimony from whomever's sperm was floating about in that pool (gonna have to change the biology books and the sex education system now cos ladies and gentlemen we have a brand new way of reproduction) will be, let me say this in Polish because it sounds so much better, tylko kroplą w morzu potrzeb dla takich ludzi jak pani Kwiatkowska i jej puszczalska córeczka. People like that need either someone to educate them properly or, and this is my favourite, a public lashing to punish their stupidity and the shame they bring upon other Polish people. Isn't it funny how when thick people come up with something they find an absolutely genius idea, they expect everyone else to lap it up just like that... Nie mierz wszystkich swoją własną miarką.
JustysiaS
10 Jul 2009
News / Polish Mom claims daughter got pregnant from swimming in pool! [162]
very true if you're an impotent man ;D
very true if you're an impotent man ;D
JustysiaS
10 Jul 2009
News / Polish Mom claims daughter got pregnant from swimming in pool! [162]
can't get pregnant when the girl's on top. gravity.
;)
can't get pregnant when the girl's on top. gravity.
;)
JustysiaS
10 Jul 2009
News / Polish Mom claims daughter got pregnant from swimming in pool! [162]
it's crazy but many people believe it's actually possible. when i was at highschool the priest who taught us religia said once that us girls should test our boyfriends and their love by telling them we fell pregnant after swimming together and see what they do. the look on people's faces was more funny than this advice...
it's crazy but many people believe it's actually possible. when i was at highschool the priest who taught us religia said once that us girls should test our boyfriends and their love by telling them we fell pregnant after swimming together and see what they do. the look on people's faces was more funny than this advice...
JustysiaS
10 Jul 2009
News / Polish Mom claims daughter got pregnant from swimming in pool! [162]
ha ha priceless! how embarassing... mrs Kwiatkowska should just acknowledge the fact that her daughter is a little kur**
ha ha priceless! how embarassing... mrs Kwiatkowska should just acknowledge the fact that her daughter is a little kur**
JustysiaS
26 Jun 2009
JustysiaS
25 Jun 2009
Love / How to seduce Polish girls: Tips and advice [118]
ha ha just saw my comment from last year, bad Justysia!! hmm a few drinks too many and some flowers usually work on me so maybe try that? ha ha... i shouldn't be drinking vodka tonight...
ha ha just saw my comment from last year, bad Justysia!! hmm a few drinks too many and some flowers usually work on me so maybe try that? ha ha... i shouldn't be drinking vodka tonight...
JustysiaS
25 Jun 2009
Love / Are Polish Women cold and aloof? [249]
i think you are just jealous cos you are not as successful with men and they don't pay any attention to you. that is a big generalisation.
i think you are just jealous cos you are not as successful with men and they don't pay any attention to you. that is a big generalisation.
JustysiaS
18 Jun 2009
Love / What to wear when trying to pick up girls in Poland? [58]
does the cowboy hat work in your country when you go on the pull? or not? didn't think so. as long as you don't look like a street bum or a weirdo and smell of sweat and god knows what else, you should just be yourself.
does the cowboy hat work in your country when you go on the pull? or not? didn't think so. as long as you don't look like a street bum or a weirdo and smell of sweat and god knows what else, you should just be yourself.