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FUZZYWICKETS   
9 May 2012
Life / Reasons for moving to Poland [291]

I will be happy to return to the US when we do, but I am savoring every moment abroad right now!

Poland sounds great for you! Why not stay then?
FUZZYWICKETS   
9 May 2012
USA, Canada / Living in Poland - prospects for Alabama guy ... need some advice! [146]

calling Jason a loser because he doesn't want to teach English is a bit too far in my opinion.

not to mention, most TEFL'ers, after 2 years of doing it in Poland, would jump at the chance to do something else for equal money. something with a normal schedule, salary, guaranteed and PAID vacation days, guaranteed work year round, no split shifts, etc.
FUZZYWICKETS   
9 May 2012
Life / You've been in Poland a while if .... [49]

You know full well that from October to April, the Aptekas will be overloaded with people suffering with an everyday cold or sniffles, but they are such Hypochondriacs, they think it's the most serious thing and need to get medicated.

hahaha, and you can also be sure that they have been sitting at home with full pay for at least 2 weeks for that sniffle.
FUZZYWICKETS   
8 May 2012
Life / You've been in Poland a while if .... [49]

-when staying over someone's house, you stopped asking what's for breakfast. you know what's for breakfast.

-you're actually starting to believe that all the fatty food in Poland is healthy because it's natural

-you feel completely sorry for all the those beautiful Polish girls having to deal with such slim pickin's

-you keep asking yourself, "did I drink this much back home?"

-you constantly wonder, "man.....this would be SO much easier if I could only learn this damn language"
FUZZYWICKETS   
8 May 2012
News / Poland's Economy Is Booming! The EU's Success Story? [711]

Poland 1,911 zł,

which is high compared to my Polish friends teaching in public schools in Poland (they clear around 1500) but i guess your data includes university level bringing up the average.

i'd clean houses or pick fruit abroad before I worked full time with papers to grade/lesson planning at home for 1500zl/month. 5 years of uni to get a "magister" so you can earn a pittance.
FUZZYWICKETS   
8 May 2012
USA, Canada / Living in Poland - prospects for Alabama guy ... need some advice! [146]

This is a tough situation in general because your wife isn't taking a leap, she's moving back to her country, her family, her language, what's familiar. You, you have no idea what you're getting yourself into. That's a huge risk, especially with a baby on the way and you having no idea what you're going to do for cash.

If you and your wife are cool with winters, lots of young white people with beards, The North Face clothing, Subaru's, and coffee shops everywhere.....then my vote is Colorado.

You'd be a lost soul in Poland, man.
FUZZYWICKETS   
7 May 2012
USA, Canada / Living in Poland - prospects for Alabama guy ... need some advice! [146]

American healtchcare is expensive, and not focused on preventative care.

I'd agree with you fully about the preventative care part, but health care being expensive? Depends. Not if you work for the feds or a government/state agency/city/municipality/military, not if you work for a corporation, not if you're dirt poor (medicaid) and not if you're over 65 (medicare). Fresh out of college, my first corporate job at 24 years old, I had soup to nuts healthcare for $15/month. My wife and I currently pay zero dollars for full healthcare through her job.

Generally the people getting hosed are the middle class who lose their jobs and can't find another one and those people are generally poorly equipped for the job market. Like you said, some certainly do fall through the cracks but no system is perfect. I don't have a single friend or family member without healthcare and the highest level of education any of us have is a bachelor's degree, and that's only about half of us.

Regarding your wife's pregnancy/miscarriage, very sorry to hear that. Horrible thing to go through. Unfortunately, in the USA, we have shite for maternity leave whereas in Poland it's what.....half a year or more with full pay? That's the way it should be and I'd love to see it change here. Not taking care of a country's women is a huge mistake.
FUZZYWICKETS   
7 May 2012
Life / Our Life impact and expectation in Warsaw During EURO 2012 [6]

Honestly, I think Euro 2012 is going to be very benefitial for Poland, assuming everything goes smoothly. A lot of people have low expectations going into Poland for the first time and I think the cheap beer, Polish women and lots of pork products everywhere along with everyone going in with strong currencies will provide a good time.
FUZZYWICKETS   
7 May 2012
USA, Canada / Living in Poland - prospects for Alabama guy ... need some advice! [146]

I don't work hard at it and I am sh*t hot at Polish and I don't find it difficult ... that is not anything for me to take credit for, as it just sinks into me by osmosis.

3 questions:

What's your native language?

How long have you been exposed/studying Polish and at what age did you start?

Define "sh*t hot".
FUZZYWICKETS   
7 May 2012
USA, Canada / Living in Poland - prospects for Alabama guy ... need some advice! [146]

please don't tell him that ... it really isn't true ... it just depends on your natural facility with languages.

I'm not going to have an argument here on how hard the Polish language is. I'm just going to say that what I first said is absolutely true. The language is hard as $hit.

I have lived here for 8 consecutive years and 2 before that for a total of 10.My language still isn't perfect but people don't seem to mind that my grammar is in the can- as long as I try.


How would this be different if you had moved to Spain, or Italy, or France 10 years ago instead of Poland? Uuccchhh, people will never just admit it on here. But OK, let's get his hopes up and tell him that "it's not that bad" and "if he works hard at it" and "at least you have your wife to translate!" or some other crap like that.
FUZZYWICKETS   
7 May 2012
USA, Canada / Living in Poland - prospects for Alabama guy ... need some advice! [146]

I really like them but it's very lonely/embarrassing/uncomfortable when you go there and everyone speaks Polish and jokes are translated for you and you sit round a table for 3 hours whilst everyone talks native Polish.

YEP. And it's gonna be like that for a looooooooooong time. Maybe forever. Some people simply never learn the language do to it's insane difficulty.

you have to pay for all school equipment for your child

dude, what "school equipment"? books? clothing? shoes?
FUZZYWICKETS   
5 May 2012
USA, Canada / Living in Poland - prospects for Alabama guy ... need some advice! [146]

It's kind of a cultural oasis in a desert of toothless pick-up driving hillbillies. But. It IS Alabama. To a pedigreed Pole like moja żona, it's one step above outdoor plumbing and killing your own supper.

your words, not mine. odd you should take such offense to something you know to be mostly true.
FUZZYWICKETS   
2 May 2012
USA, Canada / Living in Poland - prospects for Alabama guy ... need some advice! [146]

of course. i'm experiencing it first hand, i brought my polish wife here, but the withdrawal for him will be different in some ways than what his wife is going through. partially because of country and partially because of guy vs. girl.
FUZZYWICKETS   
2 May 2012
News / Poland's Economy Is Booming! The EU's Success Story? [711]

If that's the case, I'd say using the term "American Pole" is misleading, even inaccurate as a whole, especially when saying, "There are Americans all over the place, its a well know phenomenon - look at the numbers here in PF. Polish Americans retire in great numbers around Zakopane for instance."

A Polish guy that moves to the USA to work for a few years and then moves back to Poland is Polish, not Polish American, just like I wouldn't call myself American-Polish after living in Poland for 4 years (or even 10 years for that matter) and then returning to the USA.

If that's the category these "Americans" you speak of fall under, you haven't "met loads of ex-Americans", you met loads of Polish people that lived in the USA for a while. Just like the Poles going to the U.K. to work for a while and come back are not British-Polish.

There is nowhere in Poland that you'll find "loads of Americans" or "ex-Americans" retiring.
FUZZYWICKETS   
2 May 2012
USA, Canada / Living in Poland - prospects for Alabama guy ... need some advice! [146]

Do I OWE this to her?

That all depends on your agreement in the beginning.

Would I get so homesick for an American cheeseburger and a coke that doesn't charge for refills that I would end up making everybody miserable?

One of many things that will irritate you to the bone. Poland is so incredibly different, and just not America that for most people, especially someone such as yourself that doesn't really want to live there (or at least didn't just dream up an idea to go live there forever....if you hadn't met your wife, Poland wouldn't even be an after thought....) they flat out have trouble dealing with Poland, the language, the way you will feel inconvenienced, the utter lack of sports...(I hope you really really really like soccer, volleybal and handball because you can kiss baseball, basketball, football, hockey goodbye, excluding internet type methods which gets old fast).....I mean....I could write a book because I lived there for 4 years and know what the adjustments are like.

Another huge huge problem I see for you is work. If you don't want to teach English....haha....well.....yyyyyeahhh........

It's not all doom and gloom but just to reiterate....I WANTED to live in Poland. You'd just be tagging along by default. And dude......once you pull the trigger on Poland with your wife....the only way you'll get out of there is a divorce.

feel free to PM me.
FUZZYWICKETS   
2 May 2012
News / Poland's Economy Is Booming! The EU's Success Story? [711]

There are Americans all over the place, its a well know phenomenon - look at the numbers here in PF. Polish Americans retire in great numbers around Zakopane for instance. Since I moved here in 2009 I've met loads of ex-Americans and not a single English expat.

What do you mean when you say, "American Poles"?

Are we talking about Poles born in Poland, spent some time in the USA, and then moved back?

Polish parents that moved to the USA, had children, and those children grew up and moved to Poland?

Americans, born and raised in the USA, who happen to have Polish roots or the random Polish last name, that moved to Poland?
FUZZYWICKETS   
1 May 2012
News / Poland's Economy Is Booming! The EU's Success Story? [711]

And one more person remitting money from abroad.

For themselves and their families. They're not paying Polish taxes on that income so the Polish state doesn't see a dime of it. Send all the money you want back to Poland, it doesn't end up in ZUS payments unless that money is creating jobs and putting more people on the payroll.

German boyfriend?

university. master's program. then work.

why not spend the money at home?

for the most part, i can agree with that. i'd gladly trade 1 battleship for higher SAT scores in our schools.
FUZZYWICKETS   
1 May 2012
News / Poland's Economy Is Booming! The EU's Success Story? [711]

Exactly. The problem with this is that the young and highly educated will leave for greener pastures and weaken Poland on the long run.

Not just the long run. The minute anyone in your work force bounces to another country, it's one less person paying into Poland's socialized system.

That usually changes after a few years abroad.

she's been there 10+ years.
FUZZYWICKETS   
1 May 2012
News / Poland's Economy Is Booming! The EU's Success Story? [711]

if people have money they can easily start and have a good life

insert any country.

in fact in todays money Americans earned far more during the 1970's than they do today.

yes, there's been a slow deterioration of the middle class for years. i'd cite this as the biggest problem the US has right now as a whole. middle class in the USA lives well compared to most of the world....they used to live better.
FUZZYWICKETS   
1 May 2012
News / Poland's Economy Is Booming! The EU's Success Story? [711]

If you are in the lucky position to have a job - how much pressure is on you today to work 10 to 12 hours, on weekends, being forced to be available even while on vacation?

the difference being what you are getting or accomplishing for 10-12 hour days. if you're taking home 15,000zl per month with 50+ hour weeks, it's justifiable.

also, let's consider your buying power after all that work. in Poland, a good salary is around 3000zl/month net for most people (my in laws, one is a cop, the other is a nurse, barely make a combined 3,000 zl/month but let's use 3,000 for argument's sake) and in the USA (I use the USA because I know what numbers are accurate and what numbers are inaccurate) an average salary is around 3,000 USD/month net, excluding big cities where it's obviously higher. Now say you want to buy a plane ticket for $1000 to Chicago from Poland. That's an entire month's salary. For the American? A week and a half.

Time and time again, people forget to consider the buying power they have in the country they are talking about. What good is a "nice salary" if you can't buy anything with it?

My sister in law, 29 years old, has been in Germany for 10 years. As much as she doesn't like German culture or the people for that matter, she simply cannot ever see herself moving back to Poland because it simply makes no financial sense. Her entry level job out of university pays so above and beyond what she would earn in Poland to do the same thing that unless she finds a wealthy Polish guy one day, marries him and they decide they want to live in Poland, she'll never ever go back to her homeland to live.

These conversations are so silly. Nobody wants to look at Poland for what it is. I dig the place, enjoy visiting, had a good time there for a while.....but raise kids and grow old there? Oh hell no. Why do that when I have options, and options is exactly what a lot of Poles now have with the EU open border arrangement.
FUZZYWICKETS   
1 May 2012
News / Poland's Economy Is Booming! The EU's Success Story? [711]

i like to visit poland because a 12 oz. beer at the bar in the USA costs $4-$5 whereas in Poland, a 17 oz. beer is $2. I don't like to visit England because a 17 oz. beer at the bar cost $8-$10. why is that? because I'm a dumb American that simply doesn't understand how currency works.

yep.
FUZZYWICKETS   
30 Apr 2012
News / Poland's Economy Is Booming! The EU's Success Story? [711]

when a pole goes to an EU country and sends that money home, he/she is happy that the euro dollar is currently 4.17 to 1.00 right now. they are happy the zloty is weak and the euro is strong. very happy.

now, if you would like to propose an argument stating that people have NO INTEREST in how strong the currency is of the country they are currently moving to, a country they plan on working in and sending money home from.....I'm all ears.
FUZZYWICKETS   
30 Apr 2012
News / Poland's Economy Is Booming! The EU's Success Story? [711]

Read a bit about what makes currency "strong" or "weak" before you make a fool out of yourself

Hey jagg off, have a listen.....the mention of "weak currency" is most certainly significant because Euros going back home wouldn't have nearly as much of an impact if they were 1:1 or even 2:1 to the zloty. If Poles were living in Mexico and someone sent 10,000 pesos to Poland, what would you do with that, aside from wiping your a$$ with it.

It's the fact that the zloty is weak.....4+ times weaker than the euro in terms of exchange rate....that makes the euro transfers to Poland so significant to Polish economy.

Yet another deuche trying to take pot shots at someone just because they're American.

FUZZYWICKETS, what year did you leave poland?

Just left last year. Go ahead.....tell me why that's siginificant.