Love / A Polish womans relationship with her mother in law. [44]


agree.

he sounds like he is having mental issues.. people just dont do things like this without
good reasons and hes making this one up sounds like.

Life / The Polish people have a strange attitude to cats and dogs? [84]

agree.. except the chains cannot be left to get imbedded into the animals skin.
this is totally where i draw the line and me thinks that I would love to take the chain
that bound these poor animals and wrap it around the neck of the owner who thinks
he can do this and let it get so imbedded he feels the same pain that the poor animals
who wore this for so long........... yeah I would.

but you would never do that. :) right mr grunwald?

and I think a nice fenced in yard is more appropriate for a loving caring animal
that makes sure people dont steal from them and a warm bed and fed well should
assure that your home will never have to worry again about invaders.

my dog eats like a king and sleeps like one too. and hes groomed and bathed
and when i pick him up, he acts like hes going out on the town to find himself
a lady dog, ( but hes not going) lol. he has a girlfriend named sally across the alley
and shes a beagle and hes beagle and cocker spaniel.

they wag their tails and I swear he sucks up at least twenty or more bugs in that sniffer
of his while hes sniffin the ground.. lol

Genealogy / KUCZAJ family [5]


I would think someone would be able to direct you , I was told that you have to know
someone , my thoughts are you should just tell them your going to speak to the monsignor
and maybe they will stop sending you away.

you could prob have the priest look for you, but they prob want a fee.. thats why they
might be turning you away, cause the books are pretty old, the less they are handled
the better shape they stay in.. this I know from just researches here in the states with
old directories that we are not allowed to copy because the pages are dry and fall out of
the book so easy.

food for thought.

:)

Food / Ribs and Potato's (Patrycja's Mom Recipe) [13]

yummy :)

I still love the sauce.. today I made beef stew.. it was perfect day, and my daughter
brought home some apple cider from the apple orchard ( fresh) and home made doughnuts
and yes, it was just perfect!!

Life / The Polish people have a strange attitude to cats and dogs? [84]


they need to get a animal shelter group and get busy taking care of these abused
animals.
slap some heavy fines and jail time..

Life / The Polish people have a strange attitude to cats and dogs? [84]


its you of course.

cause I am sure if you go to another country, you will find the same.. some people care
for pets good and some like idiots..

has nothing to do with the nationality.

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


zimmy for someone who claims he gets layed all the time, you sure are uptight.

cause that was supposed to be a joke and you turned it into a lecture.

ahh well.


no you did, because I said, I dont listen to this stuff, so I dont care of others do
cause Im not their mother..and I am not on a mission to stop it or encourage it.


so what do you want me to do?? join in a rally to fight against it?

like I said, if your gung ho, then go do it. what good is it going to do on PF
you keep repeating over and over. and frankly, your message cant gain followers unless
you actually participate. pgtx said your a internet warrior and that is the gods honest
truth..


Are u kidding me? so your saying men dont get away with being sexists?

ha hah hahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

the commercials for that stupid new mop the swifer or whatever, has a song in it
whos that lady and its showing the old mop all sad because the new mop has taken over
and so the old mop is crying love stinks.. and stalking the woman of the house
practically in the commercial.. so that isnt sexist? why wouldnt they use a man in the
commercial? cause they associate mops with women?? or swifers with women??

the tv is plasterd with it, I hear it all the time, one comment was at work, we are all
bringing in something for a potluck, so we ask a new guy what he is bringin, he said
I will bring cookies,.. and then we said oh you know how to cook, he said no
I have a wife!!

lol did he get a razzin, but guess who made the cookies..lol

you have a headache, yeah I have a wife.

you have a housekeeper, yeah I have a wife

on and on and on.. sexist jokes, sexist remarks.. its all the time.

and its even worse with certain countries.. the lack of respect for women is sickening.

so really, what ever your into, I dont care, I dont care what other people do, if they
like that stuff, Im not going to stop them.. maybe they were scorned like you.
maybe they just dont want any more abuse, that is prob the case in some of these
so called hard core fems.. I dont really take interest in it.

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


I dont know lol, I learned from it though.. ;)


ahhhhh now i get it.. I guess I should have read further , lol

I am sure Zimmy will start looking up links about her now..


lol excellent post of the day.. :)

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

lol you guys are so serious.. ok ok, all joking over, here I try to catch a grin.

yeah, makes sense.. I dont like fish.. so count me out of the fish eating period.

I ate it as a kid, but, had big jug beer with a bad can of tuna one night and
I was sick for three days with some type of bacteria vomiting and such with high
fever.. so yep, boycott big time.. lol

the beer gave me the munchies.. cause It was a three day ordeal almost went to
hospital.

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


typical statement coming from you, I wont blame the whole population tho

not my style.


Well Zimmy i would think you prefer to eat female over male.. but lol whatever
floats your boat.


I see what your talkin about, but theres no way in heck anyone in here is like that
so the point your getting across , these people are hard core..
Im not going to read this crap, cause its crap, why would i let some of these so called
men haters even influence me..

and you see how they sound?? its the same way you sound towards women......

just because women respond the same way, doesnt mean they are all feminists
ready to ax any man that might walk into their home.. come on.

men talk about women, women talk about men..
hey there, thats a country song,, wanna here it ??? LOL

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

she didnt want kids and was unaware of his kid and his wife.. least thats what
I am getting from her posts.

News / Smoking ban in Polish bars and restaurants (AT LAST!) [400]


I quit 3 years now.. :)

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]


hey it isnt her fault, hes the one who lied, she told him she didnt want someone with kids
and he told her he didnt have any!

you know the answer to your own question, so really theres nothing we can do
to solve this, the ball is in your court. either way you look at it, your going to be hurt
cause he lied, do you think he is going to leave her when he has so much responsiblity?

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

figures..

Well , I am sure he will prob yell at the female fish and call them feminists and the male
fish will get to drink beer and smack bellies with him.. lol

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


on a polish forum?

instead of going fishing , shouldnt you be marching down main street or something?

you just blow hot air in a forum, cause I dont see any huge signs or men waving them
in the street.

if your a speaker, show us some proof of your work. show us all how much you speak
up against these so called men haters.. cause I think its just a privately driven goal.


who are these feminists?
cause I just think we have regular male and female posters who have their own seperate
views on the subject and no hard core * feminists* like you think..


have fun.

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

yeah, my dream would consist of putting my foot up that guys arse if he came to me
and told me he was married with children.

* smacks forehead* -just now I have a vision...

but then again, this isnt the first time we get these stupid questions, so yeah.. yeah
its all a bad dream.. hes the perfect man,, invite his wife over for coffee and crumpets
and hopefully you can all have a discussion on who does the cooking and who watches
the kids.

see there ,,, not so complicated..

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]


how can we explain stupidity??

dump him and stop letting him have his cake and his frosting.

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


hmmmm I suspect they are.. lol


zimmy, have you actually read some of the threads posted on this forum in the relationship
part of the forum?? I see a equal amount of men and women asking about why their
relationship went sour ( extremely emotional posts) some posts are angry, like the
one with the guy who said dont marry a polish girl.. and the other OH POLISH GIRL DONT
WANT TO TOUCH>> yeah, he was ruled by EMOTIONS.. please dont say that men are
without emotions cause I personally resent that for them, it would be saying that men
are cold and aloof and that is my title as a polish woman..who is AMERICAN and has
no right to be polish. lol

but seriously.. zimmy, you say you believe in the equal for both, but yet, on here , you
throw daggars at the female gender.. how do you think we are supposed to take that?
and even the guys are now seeing that its all a tunnel vision for you.. you just wont see
past your own nose.


have you heard of chauvinist knocking womens use of logic and embracing mens emotional iq , feelings, even intuition? hmmmmmmm.

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


So men arent influenced by what they suspect?

what you said is a rather general statement that can apply to both gender.. yep yep yep.

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


one word comes to mind...

commitment to just one instead of twenty.

Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

omg... so you lived and you learned, it was clear that she didnt like him that way, and
its clear ( in life) that we are all not attracted to each other the same!!

its different if you meet up with someone who just keeps taking till theres nothing left, but
in popcorns situation , he was falling for her, she left when he asked her to, so if she was
trying to burn him in some way, she could have stayed and strung him along.. cause its
obvious he was smitten.

but she didnt, she felt irritated when he asked her those things, which means, she was
uncomfortable , of course the way it sounds, is that they did have a good friendship.


your making it sound like it was her fault , but imagine if you were in a home with a
trusted friend ( male) and all of the sudden hes making small moves on you, but yet
you dont like him like that, you like him for a friend and now you feel uncomfortable
cause hes trying to get a little closer then you expected, and then because you wont
he says, well thats it then, get out!!

anyway, maybe by now they have repaired their frienship.. and sometimes thats more
important then anything.

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


we have this understanding, actually she is now graduated and in college, but when we
did go down to talk with a councelor , she looked at me and my ex and said with a surprised
look on her face, why do you two need me? LOL

so we just left and made arrangements as they happened. we just wanted her to have a
peaceful ,happy childhood. no fights.


you know, I think in some cases this is true, and some not, I think I am/believe that
my parenting skills are where they should be. but it didnt stop her from trying things.
so when I did find out, when she was honest with me, I didnt yell, or throw her out
I said to her, you are my daughter and I still love you no matter what. we talked, we
discussed things and I just told her I wanted her to alway be honest. and I gave her
some information to dwell on. and left the choices up to her, shes now going to college
and just wants to move forward in life, looking for a job and I think she is on her way.


southern you only agree with him because you have prob been a scorned man as well
as for zimmys theorys, thats all they are.. theories that came from zimmy or some other
crazy hater who provides links cause he can on the internet.. its funny how they come
from some off the wall -never heard of website.


amen sister!! :)

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


The few friends I have that did have this type of arrangement didnt have child support
made by either, but I do believe the insurance was paid by the father, only because he
carried it.. and my ex paid CS but I covered the insurance thru my employer.

it just depends .. and me and my ex made agreements on which holidays and such that
we would spend with our daughter. so yeah its basically different in all situations, but
the average numbers are not as high as what zimmy said, at least if someone is paying
that much, he must have made the judge pretty mad.. lol

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


yes it is, because if it were that much, then the guy would have to be donal trump and
if it is donald, I think hes paying alot more . lol

I think the range is more like 400.00 to 800.00 depending on the amount of children
and what the father makes if mom is awarded custody if dad is, then its prob according
to her income, because they can take child support, but still need to be reasonable
with living expenses. and it can increase with increases in pay /raises etc.
cost of living. but if custody is given to both parents then neither pays child support but
choose to take the child for two weeks each month and agree to pay their own .


ozi dan, wow, you challenge the zimfeminist lol

Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

now your going overboard.. she wasnt attracted to you the same and think about it, if she
was using you, she could have just faked it and stayed ... kept you stringing along.

what did she do? she left.. cause she didnt feel the same, and it would be the right thing
to do considering how you feel and how she feels.. and not everyone is meant for each
other.. but now you know what type of person you want to find. you found a friend in her
and that should have come first and foremost.. now you not only lost someone you were
falling in love/Lust with, but you lost your friend.

I think the only repair is to apologize and just try to focus on a new direction..

It never sounded like she was using you, anyone who is in need of a place to stay will
certainly take up those offers from their trusted friends.. especially if your in a new country
and I think this can be repaired, but you sir, need to bring your feelings back into the coral
because you are fantasizing about something that you knew had a wall and you turned
to us for advice and she was already giving you signals that clearly showed you she was
not interested in you that way what so ever. she prob did however value friendship and
you need to think about how your feelings really made you feel, was it love or lust?

because love is something that grows over time and it takes a long time, you love how
she talks, you love her smile. I didnt see this, I only read that you wanted to touch
and that means my friend you felt sexual towards her,, thats lust!!

anyways, get back to your normal, apologize and eventually if she feels she can trust
you both can prob be friends still.. * HOPEULLY*

and one last advice, you seem like a very passionate guy, so you really need to find
a woman that is passionate like you, now if its true that you are a artist, or something
like this, well, find someone who shares the same interests.. you might have already
had that person there, but because you were so blind not to see, she went unoticed
while you were panting down this other girls neck.

think about it..

* Hug to ya* hope you feel better, dry those tears, and open those eyes wide.

there is so many fish in the sea
and so many you need to see :)

take care p

USA, Canada / Do any other Polish Americans feel that our culture needs to be more well preserved? [38]


I feel pretty preserved right now, had way to many rum and cokes :) lol

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


maybe you should ask her since shes waiting in your bedroom to get zimmified..

but I doubt you can change her.. lol


go get her poopski.. lol


I just want you to be all you can be.. ;)


Im allergic..but thanks for being so caring, your feelings are showing daily zimm zimm..

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


yeah cause your talking about bangin your chick. like we care???

go do it already or something, she should leave cause now your gonna talk your
feme crap again.. blahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh


I just proved your a perv talking to a young college student like that
go take a shower!!


I like her terminology- codger lol.... lmao


just go to bed already, she doesnt want old codger advice.


you can wake up from that dream and go dry off now. lol


stuff it up your nose.. lol
or in the dirty laundry


your sounding like southern lately.. hes the # 1 chick magnet dont you know..


omg go to bed already, shes prob going to just leave via the window and your going to
have to sleep with your rubber ducky.. lol


well, if your high maintence, clingy guys like that. maybe thats something you need to
work on.

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


no, what your looking for is someone who is interested in the same as you.

not every man plays ps3.. lol but you have to realize, all men and I generalize only
because its true same as we do , need their man time.

even if he is the smartest man on earth, or the most romantic, there is times when they
need to just do things with the guys.. or just to be who they are. it doesnt make them
any less a man.

high maintence isnt what you want to portray yourself as.. thats a definate no no.

just say that you come from a more elaborate background and would like to meet someone
that is appreciative of the same things..

Love / Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes? [113]


your still young, zimmy stop being a perv, keep your business private she is way to
young to be listening to your old man stuff. go take care of your business and stop
advertising.. what kind of man makes news of his bedroom?

if you are a man you keep your shyt in one sock and leave that stuff off the forum.. we
seriously dont care..