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mafketis   
4 Jan 2015
Love / Addressing your Polish in-laws or boy/girlfriend's parents? [49]

By all means ignore smurf.

Call them Pan and Pani (Państwo when adressing both at the same time) if they prefer a more informal mode of adress they will propose it themselves (as is their perogative).

A lot has changed in Poland but the older person still has the choice of how younger people adress them. Pan and Pani cannot possibly offend them and when they feel closer to you they'll tell you to switch to ty/wy.
mafketis   
26 Oct 2014
Love / Any Polish Muslim girls living in Poland? [103]

even poland will understand that we are free and wearing hijab or niqab is jest personal choice

Then you admit it has nothing to do with religion (esp niqab since women are not allowed to wear niqab on the haj).
mafketis   
13 Oct 2014
Law / Non-EU country citizen on tourist visa - could anyone help me with Karta Pobytu? [63]

As far as I know, as a general rule if you want a new (temporary) residence card you apply all over again (that is basically it's as if you were starting from scratch so do everything again and hand it in 2 months before your old card expires).

If you talk about 'renewing' or 'extending' your card you tend to get a blank stare, you need a card and you need to apply (permanent residence is different as approval of a new card is automatic).

There have been some legal changes though, see here:

In the Act extended from 2 to 3 years the maximum period for which foreigners may be granted a temporary residence permit. The application for a temporary residence permit the foreigner will be able to submit during his legal residence, at your own time. Now anyone who wants to extend their stay in the territory of our country has to apply with such a request at least 45 days before the end of validity of the visa or the current authorization for stay. Also proposed new solutions for foreigners studying at Polish universities. The first temporary residence permit for foreigners students will be granted for a period of 15 months (ie, 1 year and 3 months). In a situation where a foreigner will stay in Poland for less than one year, the permit will be granted for the duration of the academic year or study, and an additional three months.

samorzad.infor.pl/sektor/zadania/bezpieczenstwo/676385,Zezwolnienie-na-pobyt-czasowy-zmiany-od-1-maja-2014-r.html

the biggest change seems to be extending the validity of cards from a maximum of 2 to 3 years (and consolidating cards needed for study/work).
mafketis   
23 Jun 2014
Law / Non-EU country citizen on tourist visa - could anyone help me with Karta Pobytu? [63]

I was in that situation once and had no problem entering Poland with a letter saying that my case hadn't been decided yet (it did give a date for the deadline in giving the decision). I don't think Spain would care about it either way though gettng the letter translated into Spanish (and/or English) by a sworn translator might make you feel safer.

If you have a currently valid karta pobytu that should work as well (every single time they look weird at my American passport the karta pobyta has worked to expidite matters in Greece, Bulgaria, Portugal and Turkey as well as in Gibraltar (going back into Spain).
mafketis   
18 Jun 2014
News / Poland's interior minister and the central bank chief recorded [28]

The big deal is that government forces are at this second raiding the offices of Wprost.

I'm generally a PO supporter, but this is either the end of the current government or the end of Poland's chances to become a western democracy.
mafketis   
18 Jun 2014
Law / Query concerning long-term Residency Card for non-EU Citizen [4]

the fees would be close to 1,000 zł to apply for both

When do you pay? It used to be you paid when the card was ready.
I was in a similar situation and applied for both and the lady behind the desk told me she'd just throw away the temporary application if the long term application was decided in time (which is what happened).
mafketis   
24 Mar 2014
Travel / Best mode of transportation from Warsaw to Katowice? [7]

Are there new rules for this? It wasn't always easy to find conductors and a few times I just mentioned I needed a ticket as soon as he opened the door to the compartment (and I've seen other people do the same) and the extra charge wasn't larger than usual.

There might be other rules for a non-Polish speaking obvious foreigner I guess.
mafketis   
22 Nov 2013
Life / Is there social housing in Poland? [6]

What's your point? That most people living in giant apartment buildings in England are mostly not English? Has that improved them?

Which are cleaner, safter, overall better to live in, giant blocks of flats in Poland or the UK?
mafketis   
22 Nov 2013
Life / Is there social housing in Poland? [6]

In Poland I often see small dwellings almost like barrack buildings, where really disenfranchised poor people live. I assume these properties are allocated to the tenants. My question is, are the buildings council owned or state owned or are they rent/leased from private landlords. Is the system similar to the UK?

Would need to know more about which barracks where.

A few points to remember,

WWII destroyed vast amounts of housing in Poland and a communist economy couldn't build enough units fast enough to even come close to satisfying demand, those big complexes around every Polish city helped but not enough, up through the 90s the acute lack of housing affected people's lives the way natural disasters do in others. Every possible space (and some impossible ones too) were used.

In the communist era the great majority of housing was government controlled/allocated either through government run housing associations or through housing associations run by large employers (also controlled by the government) and the communists were good at using (continued) access to housing as a method of social control.

The barracks look worse from the outside, a long time ago I knew a family living in barracks (built by Germans just before or during WWII) and they liked it there and they and their neighbors preferred that to the alternatives (mostly those giant apartment buildings) for example despite the real inconveniences they liked having a small plot of ground next to their rooms.

Similarly, the giant apartment buildings are a lot safer and nicer to live in than their equivalents in the UK would be (at least I've been told by more than one Brit).

Poland is basically still untangling the mess that the communists made of housing and while things are far, far better now there are still some old problems (and new ones appearing).

Currently needs-based housing has a huge backlog (many more need it than have access to it).

One good thing about the old system (of of very few) was greater economic integration so that better off and worse off people lived near each other (to the good of both). The poorest weren't separated from the rest of society. One of the worst things about being poor is having to live around other poor people all the time and one of the worse trends in Polish housing in recent years is precisely the classes segregating (esp in larger cities).

The new thing is to try to close the barracks (but many people there want to stay there) and replace them with container housing, effectively dumping all the hardest cases together which will not lead to anything like a good result I predict.
mafketis   
17 Nov 2013
Travel / A traditional Thanksgiving Dinner in Wroclaw? [16]

What is this? I remember watching an episode of Family Guy and it was mentioned, but...what is it?

Oh, if only there some encyclopedia type thing on the internet! If there were, you coud look it up

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clam_chowder
mafketis   
11 Nov 2013
Love / Massive problems with Polish mother-in-law [36]

I need to get my self confidence back and get the respect I deserve!

Standing up to her won't make her like you but grudging respect is probably your best option right now.

Channel both ladies in this (from around 2.30)

youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=JgWVi8guTjI
mafketis   
11 Nov 2013
Love / Massive problems with Polish mother-in-law [36]

Do you give as good as you get?

IME Polish people have no respect for people who don't fight back but will respect you if you don't back down and fight fire with fire. IME Spanish people can be a little like that too.

That is, step on her toes until she apologizes for putting them under your foot.
mafketis   
14 Oct 2013
News / Referendum to remove Gronkiewicz-Waltz fails in Warsaw - turnout not high enough [37]

I remember an incident when she refused to pay entrance to Wilanów - the guard denying her entry is still a local hero at the palace)

It sounds like poor planning. Someone on her staff should have made arrangements ahead of time (either to not pay or to have the amount for her party to be billed to the city or whatever).
mafketis   
14 Oct 2013
News / Referendum to remove Gronkiewicz-Waltz fails in Warsaw - turnout not high enough [37]

Whoever would have thought that PiS would turn out to be such bad losers?

Anyone who paid any attention to them over the last seven or eight years?

(yeah I realize the question was probably rhetorical).

I'm thinking this will stall them. As readers may recall it was HGW's victory over a PiS candidate that began the decline and fall of PiS as a governing party, clearly they thought they had to start their comeback by reversing that. And probably they had no idea they would fail, I'm actually surprised at the turnout as it indicates that the PiS brand isn't as strong as some thought.
mafketis   
14 Oct 2013
News / Referendum to remove Gronkiewicz-Waltz fails in Warsaw - turnout not high enough [37]

It appears that the powers-that-be came up with a shyster idea to keep her in office.

So? It was legal. PiS comes up with a way to get a hated rival out of office without waiting a year for elections, supporters of the mayor point out a way to foil that plan. What's the problem?

but saying that a vote is invalid because not enough people went to the polling place stinks to high heaven

If this were a regularly scheduled election then AFAIK there would be no minimum, but for optional contests like this it makes perfect sense to have a minimum turnout. Otherwise any determined minority could throw local government into permanent upheaval.

In other news, Jarek is hinting darkly that Tusk broke the law by appealing for people to stay home. He notably does not actually mention any particular law....
mafketis   
14 Oct 2013
News / Referendum to remove Gronkiewicz-Waltz fails in Warsaw - turnout not high enough [37]

In a democracy it's assumed that if you don't vote than your vote is in the majority

No such thing is assumed. It's assumed that you either didn't care enough to vote or that you could carry out your goal by not voting. For those who wanted HGW to stay in office the most economic and effective tactic was to not take part.

At least we will be spared a LK / Smolenkist statue on Krakowskie Przedmieście

Perhaps they could sculpt the Pałac Kultury into his likeness?
mafketis   
15 Sep 2013
News / Have You heard about legalizing 12-hour working day in Poland? [38]

This has been the practice in some contexts for a long time. A friend of mine worked in a hospital with 12 hour shifts (overtime had to do with number of hours worked in a month, not on a single shift). In some jobs a 12 hour shift wil be so counterproductive by loss of productivity though fatigue that the losses will quickly outweigh the supposed gains.
mafketis   
8 Sep 2013
UK, Ireland / wife wants to have baby in poland not ireland [52]

has gone over to poland for every scan one every 4 to 6 weeks since she found out she was pregnant

It sounds like she has a doctor (or clinic) in Poland that she's comfortable and feels safe with. That is a very valuable resource for a pregnant woman to have. Why try to talk her out of it?

If you needed a major operation and had scheduled with a doctor you trusted then you probably wouldn't appreciate a bunch of horror stories (of the type that can happen anywhere) and pressure to have the operation in conditions you weren't comfortable with.
mafketis   
6 Sep 2013
Language / pronounce "Kocham Cię" [57]

though this form is not normally used

should be: though this form is not normally used in writing
mafketis   
6 Sep 2013
Language / pronounce "Kocham Cię" [57]

there is only one

No, there are at least three (Polish speakers are liable to hear them all the same but non-native speakers are liable to notice the differences)

cię = as written with the nasal diphthong (in linguistic terms the vowel /e/ followed by a nasalized /w/ (ł) offglide)

cię = the offglide is dropped and the vowel /e/ is slightly nasalized

cie - what most people say most of the time though this form is not normally used (even to indicate informal dialogue)
mafketis   
5 Sep 2013
USA, Canada / US visa rejections and what you should say in an interview [16]

i don't see how having a sponsor hurts...

Having someone responsible for you (and a place to stay) makes it easier to look for work (and a citizen SO is also regarded as a temptation to stay and not leave on time). A person with no fixed address (and paying lots more for temporary accomodation etc) is more likely to leave and go back to Poland on time.

i want her to come in december for christmas

Harsh truth: The consular offices involved do not care about what you want, they're care about keeping well educated young Poles without material resources from out of the US. I think it's a stupid policy, but that is the policy.
mafketis   
5 Sep 2013
USA, Canada / US visa rejections and what you should say in an interview [16]

I've heard (no direct evidence but anecdotal case is strong) that

- having connections and 'sponsors' in the US is not a help but a hindrance in getting a visa (if you have a SO and a place to stay already arranged they assume you'll overstay),

- not having a full time job (or owned property) is a sure way to be rejected,

- pursuing higher education in Poland is not taken as a sign that the person won't overstay

- in other words, she almost exactly fits the profile of people the embassy rejects,

- chances of ever being accepted after an initial rejection are very, very, very slim

- there's an element of random, dumb, luck that can't be discounted
mafketis   
5 Sep 2013
UK, Ireland / UK general student visit..from Poland. Applying for UK visiting visa? [13]

man the Greek/Spain/Italian entrances into Europe with armed militia that will fire upon illegal aliens trying to make their way in

No, just ship them back to the farthest non-Schengen border (or set up a processing camp in say..... Morocco or Turkey) where "asylum seekers" are sent to have their cases examined. That should do a fairly good job of weeding out the legitimate refugees from the purely "economic" (read "welfare") immigrants who have no intention or ability to actually provide anything of value to their destination countries.
mafketis   
4 Sep 2013
UK, Ireland / UK general student visit..from Poland. Applying for UK visiting visa? [13]

Tens of thousands of visitors from India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and Nigeria will be forced to pay a £3,000 bond to be allowed to enter Britain.They will only get the money back once they leave the country in a bid to end abuse of the visa system

Won't work. They'll just regard it as a (very expensive) price for a visa.

The UK seems to have lost all control of their borders. You want fewer people overstaying their visas then stop giving out visas (or kick overstayers out with no hearing or chance at appeal). Nothing else will work.
mafketis   
20 Aug 2013
Life / My take on Poland - My Top 10 [31]

2. Random politeness and pleasantries are not part of the norm in Warsaw or so it seems. I said "dzień dobry" to a few strangers and got a weird look back each time.

Yeah, you only say "dzień dobry" to people you know. I used to get weird looks until i figured that out. They're liable to not regard it as politeness but as forcing your presence on them.

4. In all the shops the beers in the fridge were warm. I couldn't get a cold bear from any of shops around Praga. I guess the shop keepers don't really give a **** about their customers and are more concerned with cutting down their electricity costs.

There's also the fact that most Polish people are a little skeptical about drinking things cold (besides vodka). I learned to drink room temperature beer and cola in Poland, stay long enoug and you will too.
mafketis   
18 Aug 2013
Law / Poland and the Euro - benefit for Polish economy? [49]

Should Poland convert to the Euro?

Simple mental exercises.

The first is, when it comes to questions of finance and work ethic and paying taxes, is Poland closer to

A. Germany and the Netherlands?

B. Greece, Spain and Italy?