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Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]
how many women would choose personality over social status, or even money?
i would, give me a nice genuine bloke anyday, i mean who wants some stuck up punk who thinks he can make up for the lack of personality with whatever goods he's got. and they're usually not very good looking either lol. if somebody asks me out on a date then yeah i'll let them pay for me, that is the unspoken rule and hush all you stingey men out there! i'm happy to buy a round of drinks myself i don't mind. I'll cook dinner on the second date or something. if the date turns out to be a disaster and i don't like the guy cos he's being ignorant/arrogant/trying to get me into bed (pick one) i will DEFINITELY let him pay just because he wasted my time! and my time is precious lol.
as for the 'good guys who always finish last', they need to work on a way to make a woman stay. niceness aside, you
need some creativity and passion, i don't like their passive, laid back ways. yaaaawn.
As for what Amaranta is saying, i pretty much agree totally, although i do like to go to bars and clubs lol so i suppose i'm no upper class (although many claim i'm high maintenance ha ha). Thing is, like she said, relying on a guy financially and basically expecting of him to pay for virtually everything is a completely different situation to paying for a meal and drinks out, especially if the guy is the one who invites the girl to come. He's basically buying her time and he should be glad that she is prepared to go out and see him, go through all the effort such as getting her hair done, possibly buying a new outfit and make-up, which all cost money. So you can say it's a bit of an investment on both sides. And when it comes to sex, a girl should not feel pressured just because the guy paid and she feels she owes him. If they both want it then fair enough, but lines such as 'i didn't pay all this money for nothing' are really a cheap shot and a guy should consider all his chances lost after saying something like that. And just to be fair, a guy shouldn't feel pressured to pay for a girl just to get her attention and eventually to get sex. He should pay if he asks her out but just because he wants to have a good time in her company whether it involves sex or not.
Guys who have good sex do not waste as much time as you rumbling about sex in this and that positions with this or that nationality for this or that sort of gratification.
ha ha true true, i think southern is just a peeping tom and a voyeurist, that's how he knows all this stuff.
