Ant63
7 Apr 2012
Love / Prevention of child abduction by Polish mother. [232]
No but I have personal experience of this, through my partners experience, and through this experience it was imperative I understood both Polish and English child law, The Hague Convention for Abducted and Illegaly Retained Children and The European Rights of a Child intimately. From my experience in Poland it was apparent that few lawyers understood Polish Law properly and that almost no Polish lawyers understood or even knew about the Hague Convention. Most would lie and tell you they did though. :)
Possibly, but you have been presented facts by Anglik1 and you cannot make your own assumptions by reading between the lines. Thats pure fantasy which of course will have your own swing based on your life experience. I know how hard it is to stand back and take neutral stance on such an emotive subject. The plain truth is, some women are bad to the bone and some men are bad to the bone. Most are OK.
The facts as presented are that Anglik1 has done what he needs to do to protect his rights as a father which he would most likely lose if his former partner leaves England and uses a Polish Court. This is fact. He was simply asking for further advice on protecting his interest in his child and ultimately the childs right to a father.
For Anglik1, I hope this will have a BALANCED ending if not a happy one.
For me, it is important that people have a window into what could happen in their relationship and thay are armed with information to protect their child. I have seen the devastating effects this has on everybody involved and would not wish it on anyone.
I have no connection with REUNITE other than using their services. Reunites website provides details on how to protect your child and how to prevent child abductions. I do know that Reunite tried very hard to put information into the Polish community earlier this year but had zero response. Strange from a country that is near the top for child abductions from the UK. The Spanish community has similiar problems and they had a massive response from them.
Please note that Reunite is a charity, does not take sides and is available to both partners no matter what country you are in. Language may be an issue though.
Are you a lawyer?
No but I have personal experience of this, through my partners experience, and through this experience it was imperative I understood both Polish and English child law, The Hague Convention for Abducted and Illegaly Retained Children and The European Rights of a Child intimately. From my experience in Poland it was apparent that few lawyers understood Polish Law properly and that almost no Polish lawyers understood or even knew about the Hague Convention. Most would lie and tell you they did though. :)
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Possibly, but you have been presented facts by Anglik1 and you cannot make your own assumptions by reading between the lines. Thats pure fantasy which of course will have your own swing based on your life experience. I know how hard it is to stand back and take neutral stance on such an emotive subject. The plain truth is, some women are bad to the bone and some men are bad to the bone. Most are OK.
The facts as presented are that Anglik1 has done what he needs to do to protect his rights as a father which he would most likely lose if his former partner leaves England and uses a Polish Court. This is fact. He was simply asking for further advice on protecting his interest in his child and ultimately the childs right to a father.
For Anglik1, I hope this will have a BALANCED ending if not a happy one.
For me, it is important that people have a window into what could happen in their relationship and thay are armed with information to protect their child. I have seen the devastating effects this has on everybody involved and would not wish it on anyone.
I have no connection with REUNITE other than using their services. Reunites website provides details on how to protect your child and how to prevent child abductions. I do know that Reunite tried very hard to put information into the Polish community earlier this year but had zero response. Strange from a country that is near the top for child abductions from the UK. The Spanish community has similiar problems and they had a massive response from them.
Please note that Reunite is a charity, does not take sides and is available to both partners no matter what country you are in. Language may be an issue though.