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A J   
19 Nov 2010
Language / The Future of Polish Language [179]

'T zou al leuk zijn, met je te corresponderen-:))

Oké dan! Prettig weekend!

Tot gauw!

Later!

'That LET'S me off the hook....'

Lets me off the hook, actually. (Let us = Let's.)

;)

You're not going to be mad at me now, are you?
A J   
19 Nov 2010
USA, Canada / Not everyone that lives or comes from America is RICH! [300]

-everyday feels like weekend

For me it's the other way around, actually. I think my weekend has lasted long enough already, and I want to work until I'm seventy! And I'm probably going to end up with fifteen kids from five different women so I'll have to make a lot of cash!

xD
A J   
19 Nov 2010
Language / The Future of Polish Language [179]

A J, als je zin hebt, kunnen we e-mails uitwisselen: panlech31@yahoo. Ja, ik wil zeker mijn Nederlands verbeteren, dus ook bedankt voor jouw correcties-:))

Ik zou graag e-mails uit willen wisselen met jou, zowel in het Engels als in het Nederlands, en eventuele correcties en verbeteringen zijn natuurlijk altijd méér dan welkom!

Anytime you'd like some tips on improving your English, I too am ready and willing.

Graag!

It is however a two-way street, A J, and your English texts are as susceptible to correction as my Dutch ones, the degree of correction notwithstanding. As you yourself and others have said, arrogance cuts both ways.

Indeed, although I really wish to stress that my nit-picking here shouldn't be mistaken for arrogance. (More like a friendly jab!)

Tot schrijfs!

Tot schrijvens! (Tot schrijfs is op zich wel oké, maar het is het toch nèt niet helemaal!)

;)

No better man to start one AJ - away you go!

I think I'd prefer an English person to start one.

:)
A J   
19 Nov 2010
Language / The Future of Polish Language [179]

Does this make your blood boil or do you grudgingly accept this?

It doesn't make my blood boil, and I don't want to be the only weirdo either, but I would prefer may instead of can. The word may in case of asking for permission just sounds classier and friendlier, doesn't it? Hey, do you think we should start a thread about all the subtleties of English? I think there are plenty of TEFL teachers here who could correct us!

:)

Freeducational of course!
A J   
19 Nov 2010
Language / The Future of Polish Language [179]

I must say, your written English posted thus far, seems quite good. Perhaps though, given sufficient time, I'd have some (small) things to correct LOL.

Thank you. Just don't 'bemoan' other people's linguistic abilities when you know you're making plenty of mistakes yourself?

AJ, you're just being difficult :)

Sure, but I've made my point. (And I'm right about the subtle difference between comparing to and comparing with.)

Just admit the lust of result beclouded your usual whatever, and it's settled. Your imaginary subject has nothing to do with this sentence.

I will not admit to anything, because my sentence was correct. Oh, and mixing past tense and present tense in the same sentence while spelling ad nauseam wrong just makes you look funny when you're trying to criticise Dutch people who speak English. (And now she's telling me to look for my own mistakes, which I am actually already doing!)

Ga als Nederlander liever éérst je eigen fouten in jouw eigen Engels opzoeken, vóórdat jij de fouten in de teksten van Engelstaligen verbetert, want wij spreken onze moedertaal vanaf de Middelbare School tot aan de universiteit-:))

Sure, but *I* have never made the claim that I speak or write English better than the English themselves. Oh, and you *definitely* don't speak or write my language better than I do, but I would very much like to help you with it!

;P

Fine, Nott! Just let the non-craftsman not delude himself into thinking his product is 'only good enough', i.e. adequate, when in fact it isn't. A little modesty in the face of imperfection, that's all we're asking, and a little gratitude for helpful correction. Is that too bloody much to expect?

Not in my case, but I do expect you to admit your own mistakes whenever someone else points out that you're making them.

In fact, I am with you in this. I back you up. There should be more people preaching the love of language. Verily.

So am I!

:)
A J   
18 Nov 2010
News / Giant Jesus Rising in Świebodzin ( Tallest in world ) [323]

Repair your inner selves

It starts with repairing our society really, and how we treat eachother. I mean, you can't ask a hungry man to have the decency not to be angry at a man who's taking everything away from him in the name of freedom. (I don't think it will ever happen though.)

:S
A J   
18 Nov 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

I said "googling" not oogling.

Who cares about what you say? Everybody knows you're a stupid motherf*cker. A clueless whiner with a damaged ego, probably too f*cking UGLY to be true, all frustrated because some girl told him ''NO'' a few decades ago. What is it with you? Is your d*ck too small? Lost your common sense a long time ago? Or were you smacked around town by your mother? WHAT!?

Yes, indeed, the "equality" and tolerance practiced by feminists must warm many hearts;

SHOW ME. I mean, SHOW US, where women are treated EQUAL in our society, you dumbf*ck!!!

Idiot.

Seriously, just f*ck off and die.
A J   
18 Nov 2010
Language / The Future of Polish Language [179]

Regardless: 'the Dutch equate sprinkling with speaking' seems Ok to me. I had to check:

Yes, that would be correct in *that* particular context, but unfortunately Lyzko interrupted his/her sentence twice with a subject and made a comparison, and since the technical correctness of words isn't in the same class as the political correctness of words, but still belong to the same subject, being language, then you should compare ''to'' instead of compare ''with''. For example; You can compare a house in New York to a house in Amsterdam, because these houses might be very similar, but you can't ever compare New York with Amsterdam, since these are two totally different cities. (Understand?)

If you're comparing two things to show that they are similar you say "compare to". If you're comparing two things to show they differ you say "compare with".

;)

e·quate (-kwt)
v. e·quat·ed, e·quat·ing, e·quates
v.tr.
1. To make equal or equivalent.

Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I was under the impression that you can't make the action of speaking equal to the quality of language. You can however, equalize the subject, being language.

Ah, now I see what you mean. But it's a complex sentence. 'People I've met will remain in my memory', no problem.

Correct, but again, that's in a different context.

:)

Oh, and your link:

idioms.thefreedictionary.com/equate
;)Sorry, even I had to edit myself twice, because it's late!
A J   
17 Nov 2010
Language / The Future of Polish Language [179]

as for grammar I think you will agree that Dutch language shares a lot of rules with German and English languages

I disagree, because all the funny details and complications that most textbooks don't even show you, certainly make Dutch more complicated to learn than German or English, even though German and Dutch might show a lot of similarities. You might learn how to speak and write Dutch correctly, and it may seem equally difficult to German at first, but you'll find that our language is extremely metaphorical, which is something that most foreigners can't ever hope to get the hang of. (Just how it is!)

The difficulty of my language isn't about what you have learned to say, but about all the different ways of saying it. Something simple *snickers* like; ''How's it going?'' for example;

Hoe is 't?
Hoe is het?
Hoe is 't met je?
Hoe is 't met jou?
Hoe is het met je?
Hoe is het met jou?
Hoe gaat 't?
Hoe gaat het?
Hoe gaat 't met je?
Hoe gaat 't met jou?
Hoe gaat het met je?
Hoe gaat het met jou?
Hoe gaat alles met je?
Hoe gaat alles met jou?
Hoe gaat alles nu met je?
Hoe gaat alles nu met jou?
Alles goed?
Alles goed met je?
Alles goed met jou?
Gaat alles goed?
Gaat alles goed met je?
Gaat alles goed met jou?
Hoe gaat 't ermee?
Hoe gaat het ermee?
Hé pik, alles goed?
Hoes't?
Hoes'tie?
Hoe gaat 'ie?
Hoe gaat 'ie met je?
Hoe gaat 'ie met jou?
Hoe staat 't ermee?
Hoe staat het ermee?
Alles lekker?
Gaat 't lekker?
Gaat 'ie lekker?

Okay, I'll stop right there, because I can go on for ages!

xD
A J   
17 Nov 2010
USA, Canada / Not everyone that lives or comes from America is RICH! [300]

You do realise that average US consumer is in red on credit cards debt alone, right? And the only way they might see couple of G's all at once is from their income tax return, right?

Damn right.

:)
A J   
17 Nov 2010
Language / The Future of Polish Language [179]

:) sorry, AJ, your English looks impressive, regardless. IMO, from my POV.

Well, my excuse is that I'm a foreigner who has never studied English, but thank you for pointing it out! (Will remember that one!)

Hey, I'm not the one who's English, but since Lyzko claims to be, he or she should really look at his or her own mistakes for a change, before he or she 'bemoans' anyone else's efforts to use his or her language to the best of their abilities.

Although I don't really get that bitching about tenses...

Really? Well, I'm sure you've heard or read somewhere that a past tense is a grammatical tense which places an action or a situation in the past? I don't know much, but I do know that you shouldn't mix the past tense with the present tense in the same sentence. I figured that if you're English you should know that.

I'm actually looking forward to some more nit-picking in this thread, because I absolutely love the English language, and I certainly wouldn't mind to learn more.

Believe me, it is excellent.

Thank you. I'm trying.

:)
A J   
17 Nov 2010
USA, Canada / Not everyone that lives or comes from America is RICH! [300]

Story of my life.

His kids are hungry and you have the day off. You are such a good person.

You know, I often hear people complain about not being able to pay their personel if they're going to demand a higher pay, but oddly enough they don't seem to have any problems with the fact that people like me pay taxes for their children, and their huge estates.

She makes $13/hr,

She makes more than me. I made 6 € an hour, in a country where the basic cost of living is far more expensive than it is in yours.

She will never get out of the hole she's in...

Hey, it took me about ten years to save up for my education, and I'm studying my way out of that situation now, so it's not entirely impossible. Maybe your friend should think about doing nightshifts, or working 80 hours a week? (Working weekends?) I know it sucks, but if she has a true friend in you and some mental support every once in a while, she might make it.

:)
A J   
17 Nov 2010
Genealogy / Is tallness common among Polish people? [201]

leprecons... They make it fall like hell I presume
Same thing with Norwegian "nisser" damn you!!!

It's leprechauns, actually. Oh, and damn me? For what?? (That's not very nice of you, is it?)

:)
A J   
17 Nov 2010
Language / The Future of Polish Language [179]

Nou, waarom denk je dat?

Jij spreekt mijn taal dus echt niet beter dan mij hè? Dikke doei. Gebruik eens wat dure woorden en probeer nu eens één enkele zin te vormen die ietwat langer is dan de simpele vijf woordjes die jij zojuist gebruikt hebt. (Goh, jij zult wel trots op jezelf zijn!)

Many a Dutch tourist I've encountered during my travels, although I speak their language far more correctly than they speak mine, appears to equate a liberal sprinkling of the f***-curse and the words "Dude", "awesome" ad nauseum with speaking 'good' English LOL Something wrong with this equation here, people???

My English isn't good. My English is excellent, or up to par atleast. Here;

The linguistic skills (Subject.) of many a Dutch tourist that I have encountered (Notice this is past tense.) during my travels - although I speak their language far more correctly than they seemed (Yup, past tense!) to be capable of speaking mine - appeared (Past tense again!) to equate a liberal sprinkling of profanities and swearwords such as ''f*ck'', aswell as the usage of americanisations such as ''dude'' and ''awesome'' ad-nauseam, (Comma.) to (Instead of with, to the subject at the end of the sentence of course.) speaking 'good' English. (Dot.) Is there something wrong with this equation here, people?

Answer: Infact, there are a few things wrong with your equation, yes. (Shall I become an English teacher then?)

;)

On the other hand, a lot of people with a clear double standard (that they're not aware of).

On the other hand, there are a lot of.. (Oh, and who have would probably be better than ''with''.)

;)

Standards for their own language are very high.

Of course, because this is the language in which they are expected to communicate on a daily basis.

For Polish this might be the kind of person who wishes that Miodek would speak correctly.

Makes perfect sense.

Standards for English are .... whatever, who cares? it's just English. (again on its own, this is no problem).

Those aren't my standards, but I can only hope to become as articulate as some of the people I converse with. (That's how I learn.)

The problem is the minority that thinks of afectless, awkward make-do international English is all there is to the language and to give equal legitimacy to that and native usage within the domain of native usage (if you follow that).

I do, but then again, tell me which English person can truly say that he or she has mastered *my* language. (Double-standard anyone?)

Another aspect can be found among some (not all maybe not most but some) native speakers who teach English in Poland and see their job as the facilitation of a language shift from Polish to English within Poland. A lot of this is unconscious but I've known a few teachers who thought that Polish speakers should follow the sensible lead of the Irish and abandon their language in favor of English.

Some scientists believe that it's benificial for people to speak more than one language, because some languages force people - unconsciencely - to use different parts of their brains, which they otherwise, wouldn't use. For the sake of variety, education, business and creativity, I think it's actually a good thing to keep all of our languages intact instead of surrendering to ourselves to English completely.

:)
A J   
17 Nov 2010
Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]

Right. Pull a feather from your pillow and tickle yourself?

Eurola
Yeah! All those gold-digging Gigolos shouldn't be selling themselves so cheaply to all those third world girls who invade our European paradise, solely with the intention to p¡ss off the girls!

xD
A J   
17 Nov 2010
Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]

AJ you evidently are begging for a exorcist!

Why? I'm not hurting anyone, and I'm definitely not scary! I don't puke, I don't walk on the ceiling, and my head doesn't spin around in 360 degrees either! (I'm feeling fine, really!)

AJ, just open your mind and open your heart and stop joking already!

Oh really? And who's to say that maybe you need to open your mind to a healthy dose of humour, and open your heart to a little bit of childishness every now and then? (Because that's all you need to make people smile sometimes!)

:)

Oh wait! I've already said it!
A J   
17 Nov 2010
Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]

*passes the goblet of wine - now empty - around in this circle of brothers and sisters while trying to look innocent*

:)

Waiter! I mean Reverend! More wine please?
A J   
17 Nov 2010
Language / The Future of Polish Language [179]

There are no double-standards. I like the English language, and I've always admired people who have mastered the fine arts of conversation and all its subtleties, but I really don't think it's my job as a foreigner to keep your language intact.

The fact that the French, Germans and also the Polish, according to you, and I quote, so uncaringly misspeak your language, has nothing to do with the fact they wish to preserve their own languages, but more likely with the fact that they're foreigners. I mean, you can't seriously expect a foreigner to speak and write your language flawlessly, even though some of us might strive for perfection. So maybe you should expect superb grammar and articulation from people who claim to be English?

No offense, but I've noticed quite a few people here who claim to teach English who use all kinds of fashionable abbreviations themselves, and some of them even stoop to leet-speak or worse. Conclusion: Maybe, just maybe, you should look at your fellow countrymen (and women!) while displaying facial expressions of great expectation?

:)
A J   
17 Nov 2010
Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]

let me guess, you are also one of those Polish girls selling yourself cheaply to 3rd world guys?

Let me guess, you always talk like this to a lady?

another one getting personal because she can't deny the facts.

Who's in denial here, I wonder? Hmm? Has it ever occurred to you that *you* may be doing something wrong? (Hey, not that I'm perfect!)

;)
A J   
16 Nov 2010
Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]

Let me see, last time I contributed here was ... so many months (or years) back! ...

I remember your postings. Always about peace and love. (I always thought you to be some kind of Guru, but that's okay!) Hey, I'm glad to hear you're happy and doing fine!! I wish all of us could say the same, really.

:)
A J   
16 Nov 2010
News / Independence Blood Bath on Polish roads over the long weekend. [69]

No, didn't you hear? People won't be harmed by second hand smoke anymore! We're all safe!

Heh.

Also, dopalacze is now illegal in Poland! Granted that it hasn't been proven that anyone has died from them alone, it still caused a huge outrage and was found to be an epidemic warranting emergency legislation.

Yup.

What's that you say? Alcohol? Nah, don't worry about it.

Indeed, you should be safe when you're wearing your rosary beads.

xD
A J   
13 Nov 2010
Life / What do Poles want, what drives them...? [58]

I still believe there are trends, as with everything.

Certainly there are trends, but trends don't always necessarily represent each and every individual's way of thinking. I mean, some people who may comply or conform to certain rules, might still think very differently as an individual.

Or at least trends which you can break down in importance for the people who consider themselves Polish.

I like to think a society changes with every generation. (Or atleast the public opinion shifts in one direction or another.)
A J   
13 Nov 2010
Life / What do Poles want, what drives them...? [58]

One minute you guys seem to want to be recognised as being emphatically unique, and the next you're mocking of the assumption that you're the same as everyone else.

Hey, we all have our differences when it comes to looks, feelings, beliefs, convictions and opinions, but of course we share many similar characteristics, because we're all human beings. I don't really believe I'm exactly the same as everyone else, however I do believe I'm not *that* different from everyone else. You can't seriously hope to categorize Polish - or any other nationality for that matter - people as if they all share some kind of hyve-mind, because we're all individuals.

Perhaps you're just lost and that's the problem...

Perhaps you should rephrase your question into; What do people want, and what drives them? (And I'm sure you'll get a few billion different answers!)

:)
A J   
12 Nov 2010
Love / Polish women world's second most flirtatious [75]

In my experience this isn't playing.

I think you need more experience then.

They are either interested - or they are not. Not much messing about with Nederlandse vrouwen ;)

There's a lot of messing about, actually.

;)
A J   
12 Nov 2010
Love / How should I approach this young Polish man that I like? [48]

I really like him, and he sort of seems like he likes me, and so I'm wondering --

Stop wondering?

would it seem forward of me to ask him out?

No. Why would that seem forward? Would it seem forward of him to ask you out?

I don't want him to think I'm pushy.

It's okay to be pushy, really. Just be pushy in a gentle way. (Because he sounds a bit like the shy type!)

;)