Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

:) I knew it.. lol

well. this is good thing.

you cool.. just dont take yourself where my brothers are at. I love them both, but
after so many years of not being around a steady , my older brother is annoying
and he dont know how to talk to them anymore, he actually lost his touch.
he says some mean things. and my younger brother loves women, he has them
bringing him things at work, but he is shy as ****.. he went for this timid girl who was
hypokondriac.. it was hard for him, he gave up cause he liked her, but every time
he wanted to take her out, she was sick, she would go out, then not go out, like
she was scared, so he just said **** on it.

so yep.. I am only a ciotka to two, but I love emm.

well, anyways, sweet pete.. I have to get my arse to bed. I am thinking bout
working my arse off and going in to work early.. sick or not. money talks and bills *****.

lol , :)

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


my husband is a man, he crys at every sports game too. lol

and I love that, he gets weepy about other stuff, but, its cute to see him show that
side, its not a bad thing.. we really like the tears,, it makes us want to kiss and smooch
and make you feel better.. yep. crying does the body good. just like milk.. lol


you know, i can understand this, but my dad did this to my brothers and I still dont have
any neices and nephews, only my sister and me both married and had kids. so apparently
he was wrong.. dont go thru life cheating yourself forever. seriously, there are alot of good
fun girls that are still fun, yeah some things have to change, like if you have kids
you can still have fun, it just has to be later in the evening or with the kids.. ya know.


thats the nutureing part we cant help.. I still get yelled at about it, and I try like hell
to not, but he still goes into his little boy mode when he is sick, or needs me for something
so its a 50/50 agreemment, just have to meet in the middle.. :)

I can see your not ready, but its food for thought.. I am sure you have one regular you
think more of then the rest and she prob is very attached to you too..


Thank you :) I try, I sometimes act like a goofball, or say stupid stuff, but for the most
part I mean well. your alright too, I have stepped back for a while and read alot more
and I see where your coming from.. ;) peace

Language / Best Polish Translation Website? [13]

translate.google.com/#en|pl|good%20night%20Patrycja%0D%0A%0D%0A%20I%20love%20you%20so

omg, I love google for doing this.. yes, and google loves me, just click on the link

this would be my grandpa saying goodnite to me, if I ever was to have known him
or my other grandpa, my sister knew my mothers father, he used to walk her to school
every day, she was a grandpas girl.. and grandmas girl.

some are so lucky..

translate.google.com/#en|pl|you%20sweet%20pinching%20pete%0D%0A%0D%0A%20%20ha%20ha%20thats%20so%20cool

hit the button that speaks it.. its so coolllllllll lol

oh yeah that message is for you pete..

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


lol.. no, but I wish I was on her show the day she gave away some cars.. that would
be sweet.. :)


that sucks..because I hear the same thing, when I am around some of my friends
they are lookin for someone nice, but every time they go out, they give up.


some, not all. you just have been unfortunate, maybe its the type of woman
cause if she is high maintence , then you have only set yourself up.


that can get lonely as you get older.

I am finding out how much I miss my hubby every time he goes to work, when he was
off for a while ( like most of America) we spent more time together, and grew closer
and I think I kinda like him. lol

I think you will soften up again, its a matter of which woman will break your shell
you can pinch and poke, but I think she will pop off that shell and you will be
tenderized again.. :)

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


it is not, there is alot of nice women out there, you keep treating them like objects
then of course your going to end up with just that..


lol oh, I wasnt attacking you zimmy. you put yourself out there and I was bored.

I have two older brothers, and all I knew growing up was comebacks. so in my defense
and I am sure you have siblings that razz you, just know it was not an attack, cause I
was stating the truth that alot of people are very annoyed with this same ole same ole
and its nice when you actually engage in other converstation..

why this thread keeps coming back up to the top is beyond me. and I am definately
usually trying to not engage in heated debates like this ,cause it simply doesnt interest
me the way it does you and I am sure others feel the same.

and the subject only goes one way when your debating, thats why i get the impression
that you are a woman hater.. it just sounds that way all the time..

anyways, off to read some more. :)

USA, Canada / Not everyone that lives or comes from America is RICH! [300]


well hes going sailing, that sounds miserably fun..

ehh, well to be happy in your job, you have to walk in positive
the tone sets the day , if you walk in all gloomy, it will be depressing
if you walk in positive and sure of yourself and know that you can handle
things.. you will be alright.

no managment job is easy, but take ownership and back them up..
you get alot of respect when you are there for your group.

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

Zimmy, if you didnt sound so much like a woman hater in here, all the women and men
wouldnt hate you so much.

you should really just try to be less chav and be little more open minded none of these
so called feminists did anything to you.. unless theres something you arent telling us
that we have yet to hear.. cause I think we have pretty much heard it all.

Life / Any treatment centres for homos in Poland? [455]


you like watchin that stuff dont you.

Love / Such a Very Sad Loss.. fighting the battle with a Polish lady to see my daugher. [56]


you are doing something that isnt possible for many, restarting your life,, but dont have
regrets, keep what you did special in your heart.. its ok to have loved. we have different
loves in our lives, some which we cant possibly understand, and why we do what we do.

its amazing how easily those who dont understand the types of people, in your mind you
dont feel strong, but really you are. a strong individual takes chances in life and goes far
and you need to take in the beauty of everything else around you to heal from the heart
ache.. realize that theres so much more out there.

you mum will be proud of you, she will keep a good watch over you.. just because they
leave this earth physically doesnt mean they arent around you spiritually.


this is so wrong, yes, so very wrong.. its like a domino effect, and sometimes people
are attracted to the " bad" image, which is sometimes mistaken for strong willed.
and sometimes people say, well I ignored them and yeah, she is wondering, or he is
wondering, then someone feels neglected and they cheat.. its over and over and over
and the nice guys, gals who are hoping to meet someone who has the same interests
same likes, dislikes, they find them, cause the person they found is one of the
" Strong willed " who lie from beginning till end, on a daily basis of what, who and how.

its never ending cycle, so they move on to the next, which misuses anothers trust and
it goes on and on and on and on.. back and forth ... pretty soon you have alot of bitter
people out to have a good time and use people..

Thats why I said dont fall into this, I suspect you wont, but dont fall so fast next time
heal first.. yes, be content with yourself is the only way I can put it.

and for petes sake will ya join the forum already?? LOL

Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]


there is alot of leather in texas ;) lol literally.

Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]


some are scammers, but its amazing to me how many websites advertise european
girls wanting to get married.. so what you need to do is move a little faster then the
other guy and you shouldnt have any problems...

as for lodz.....

congrats my sweet brother, I wish you both happiness and all the best in your future
together!!

at this point nothing else matters, all the opinions on here are just that, people
can be terrible and forget how to talk to other humans.. dont pay any attention
to them.. just focus on your dreams and happiness.. thats more important!!

love to ya brother :)

Life / Queues in Poland - everyone in line is sandwiched [44]


lol you butthead..


well, that is prob a good idea, I would go with your instincts, cause most of the time they
are right.

I feel the same way, I have actually downsized my purse to a smaller one which I can
hold more close to me, cause I just dont feel safe as I used to. and I think I might even
by a smaller bag, one that hides under my coat, but I can wear over my shoulder, but
also clip on the my jeans. its safe, and hidden from eyes and hands..

my sister had her purse stolen going shopping and it was pretty traumatic, she couldnt
shop by herself for a while.

Life / Queues in Poland - everyone in line is sandwiched [44]

seriously though, I do have to agree, if people are right up behind me, I wouldnt appreciate
this, it makes you uncomfortable and it happens here too in the states, cause I had someone brush me and I did turn and look at them like back off or else.. but I also felt like

maybe they might try to pick-pocket, and I just dont trust so I put my purse in front of me and lets just say, there has been alot of purse stealing as of late.. more then usual.

Life / Queues in Poland - everyone in line is sandwiched [44]


well a good way to clear some room is farting. if you fart out loud, I guarentee you will
move the crowd in more ways then one. lol

There isnt any laws currently in poland for farting in grocery stores now is there?

I want to make sure I am giving this man sound advice ;) lol

Love / Such a Very Sad Loss.. fighting the battle with a Polish lady to see my daugher. [56]


awww thank you.. I am so glad. :)

Hugs back to you, take care :)

Love / Such a Very Sad Loss.. fighting the battle with a Polish lady to see my daugher. [56]

yeah, so he should just not date someone like this, why would you stay and be mean
when you can find a normal relationship without all the stupid drama.

saying fight fire with fire, only leads to abuse in the end from both, you think thats the
answer??

There is plenty of good ladies out there who are very nice and dont deserve the
( mean type) man who would play this game .. if thats how it is, dont bother.

domino effect only causes more problems. treat people with respect, if you dont get it
then leave, they will get the picture once your gone and the next guy comes along and
leaves too. and if they dont, well thats not your problem now is it.

Love / Such a Very Sad Loss.. fighting the battle with a Polish lady to see my daugher. [56]


scorned men.. you know what, you prob shouldnt date any women cause it sounds like
your going to be abusive and thats pretty sick.. I dont disagree that people do some stupid
shyt, this falls into that catagory, you and her both need a swift kick in the dupa.

grow up.

Love / Such a Very Sad Loss.. fighting the battle with a Polish lady to see my daugher. [56]


I lost my mom 8 years ago, and I still feel like a piece of my heart is missing..

Love / Such a Very Sad Loss.. fighting the battle with a Polish lady to see my daugher. [56]

Sorry to hear of your loss, nothing in the world can take that pain away, posting here
prob helped express some of the bottled up feelings, and its true, we cant do anything
except listen/READ.. so to speak.

IMHO you shouldnt subject yourself to more of your polish lady right now. she apparently
is not worried about your feelings at the moment, and whether she is a friend or more
any human with a heart should be willing to sit and listen to someones hurt, the most
important is the listening, thats how friends work.

they dont necessarily have to offer advice, but give a solid ear. because when something
needs to be vented or just getting it off your chest, its that good friend whos there, that
you know will be there thru thick and thin..

heal your hand and heart, do what you can to keep busy, and remember its ok to have
loved someone.. its part of life, we love our family, and others who come into our lifes
dont take that as a bad thing and throw your emotions into a direction that is unhealthy.

once you get back to yourself, go out and meet others, its easy to say It I know, but
whats the better solution? staying in and letting your mind take over again? no you
have to be strong. there will always be obstacles in our lives and we have to leap over
them otherwise they take over.. being strong doesnt mean not having feelings, it means
taking control of your life, not letting those demons take over.

Love yourself first..take care of NUMBER 1

Hugs and Prayers.

P

Genealogy / Is tallness common among Polish people? [201]


my grandpa was tall, but on my dads side they were average.

I have seen some pretty tall irish.. one thing I have noticed is the very
layed back and politeness in Irish.. and yes, dutch are ok, from what I hear :)

lol

News / Poland goes bankrupt? [110]


I hope sincerely that del stays in poland and holds things together, he is such a
treasure to poland and its economy and does so much for them , he will get the
whole country thru this tough time...... I just know it...

cause he is super duper cool!! yahhhhhh...


or people who fought in wars or turned 62 years of age and worked all their f=in lifes
and its also for children who lose their parents, or for people who lose arms, legs
and maybe a large machine fell on top of them while they were at work and they lost
their ablilty to walk, but they are still alive.. yeah, your such a good mod convex
I never thought you would be so caring.. :)

I am sure you feel the same way about all the polish people living in poland collecting
some type of disability..

Genealogy / Vintage Photos of Polish ancestors [144]

lol he looks like my Great Uncle Jan.

the mustache was unique for the time.. there is a co-worker of mine, havent seen him in
a while, but last time I did, he had the same mustache look..

USA, Canada / Moved back from Canada to Poland:). Here are the reasons why. [868]


lol

now this is ironic that you say this, I told my sister this very same thing when I had
fish , every morning I would walk into the room and they were staring at me , I would
walk to the right, they follow, walk to the left they follow.. finally I fed them they would
still stare.. I wonder what they were thinking? lol.

Life / How Long Before Poland Has Its 'Dumbest Generation'? [84]


its media, and it sells. thats it.. and your buying it, cause your all upset over a kid
who shouldnt even be important to you.. what is important is what you do with your
life .

Life / How Long Before Poland Has Its 'Dumbest Generation'? [84]


Parents control what is bought, unless they are no longer in control and the child
runs the home, which I doubt because then he wouldnt be stupid, he would be
pretty smart to be able to manipulate his parents.

News / Smoking ban in Polish bars and restaurants (AT LAST!) [400]


well from a non smokers point of view, former smoker,

I like the ban where I live, glad its happening, cause I didnt think I would be affected
by smoking, but now, I cant breath around it literally, second hand smoke is horrible
and now that I can smell again, when someone walks by me that has smoked, its very
irritating and they smell like ashtrays.. especially if they have been in a inclosed area
that is when they really reek of the smell of a old ashtray.

I know how hard it is to stop, been there.. but now, I realize how bad it is.
my cousin is hospitalized every fall and spring with copd.. I dont want to wear those
shoes...

those are my cons.

News / Giant Jesus Rising in Świebodzin ( Tallest in world ) [323]


one last post

key word, thats what you believe

so should we knock that down? you think that will stop a person from walking
into your home right now and shooting?

no.

everything we do boils down to personal choice.

you make the path , where it leads you is your choice, good road or bad road.

religion is the scapegoat.. plenty of good religious people and a score of bad.
but its the choices they made aside from their religions.

News / Giant Jesus Rising in Świebodzin ( Tallest in world ) [323]

lol they store robot vacumes in there too :)

News / Giant Jesus Rising in Świebodzin ( Tallest in world ) [323]


key word here, humanity,, which has committed crimes against each other no matter
what denomination you are and or if your a believer or non believer.

personally seeing the statue go up vs a missle shield that was talked about in another
topic is better.

hey, maybe they are going to put up that statue to hide one ?? ya think?

:)