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12 years of marriage my Polish wife still doubts me [74]
It's not about the man. It's about her. They met in college, so she is most likely well educated. But maybe never had the opportunity to prove herself in any other area than the family. Maybe she just needs different challenges.
I have a few friends who are stay-at-home mothers and I stayed at home for a while with my first born. Always the same story: you have the feeling that the world passes you by. And even though it's a great thing for the children, you don't fell that it's make you interesting, or sexy, or cool in the eyes of other people.
The people who find you cool are your husband (at least he should) and your kids. And maybe it's not enough for some women. And what if you loose your husband? Who are you without him?