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A J   
28 Nov 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

I was making a comment on general relationships, not being immature or ignorant.

I know, but what I post in italics usually has nothing to do with the posters I reply to, but are funny jabs towards any readers. (I like flaming people into reactions!)

I didn't need a feminist manifesto, and I ma very clear about all those issue.

I didn't post a feminist manifesto, and if you look closely, you'll see that I also had something to say on behalf of the guys.

I simply wonder why you never post it in any of the countless threads about guys complaining about their polish "girlfriends".

Simply because most of those threads aren't real, and most of those threads aren't exactly discussions either.

Also there are social factors in general to be addressed rather than just gender ones.

A lot of social factors are based on traditional role-patterns of both men and women, which is something which obviously needs a few adjustments.

Ukraine has tons of social problems which can have prostitution as an indirect aftereffect of the matter.

Yes.

Also financial security or social security aren't necessarily sexist in terms of how they apply to an individual.

I know, but what strikes me as odd is that mostly women suffer from financial insecurity when they fail to find a partner. Men usually don't. (I'm leaving all the reasons in the middle, if you don't mind!)

:)

I also meant to joke about the fact I usually post childish sh¡t!
A J   
27 Nov 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

good way to look at it. same can be applied to men , and them not wanting to listen to a woman all the time.

Of course. If you let a woman be a woman, and a man be a man, then your relationships will be so much better than they are now. Sure, it's give and take, and you have to be willing to compromise all the time, but in my opinion there's no room for claiming your partner. In a healthy relationship, there should be enough trust and care not to demand or bark orders. I have self-respect, and so do you. (I hope!)

but we have to stop and listen at some point or we will find ourselfs lonely, not everything in life is perfect.

I will stop and listen when I hear something of value.

so true, you see perfection, you expect it, so many good hearted people get passed by cause they look for eye candy..

Well, if I listen to a lot of young people these days, most of them seem to be under the impression that money is God, and that you don't have the right to exist without it, and the sad part is; The older generation made it that way. Don't get me wrong, I'm not pointing my finger at mom and dad who couldn't have done anymore about it than I could, but I *am* pointing my finger at mom and dad who keep going with the herd and who are happy to force feed this ultra-materialistic rubbish to their offspring. Why? Because you oughta know better than that. No excuse. Period.

you have to click and you know it. and if you click with that person, then dont let them get away.. :)

We'll see.

You sure it's not the other way around? lol

Why do you think women are protesting half-naked in the Ukraine? Why do you think there are campaigns against women-trafficking all over the globe? Why do you think so many women wish they could be financially independent? Why do you think some girls are so obsessed with financial aswell as social security? Why are there so many single mothers in the beneficial system? No offense to anyone, but just think it through..

:)

Or was all of the above too mature for you?
A J   
27 Nov 2010
Life / Winter 2010/2011 in Poland, is it going to be bad? [114]

woke up to a view of snow covered roofs and cars wearing a coat of white. no snow on the ground though.

There's ice on the water here! It was snowing a little just a couple of hours ago, but it was more like dust, and just wouldn't stick. But I know there will be snow this year, and lots and lots of it!

:D
A J   
27 Nov 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

he knows what hes doing, we all told him we werent, but he keeps on doing his pc warrior thing...

I know a few girls here have some feminist views, and I think that's a good thing. It's not like they're rabid man-haters. They just want to be able to have it their way, without having to listen to a guy all the time. And if Zimmy's honest, he wouldn't like to listen to a girl all the time either. I think both men and women need some space from time to time, so I really don't think we differ *that* much.

I don't like those traditional role-patterns either, and I probably have some issues with the mindset of some girls, but then again, you can't fight nature, and I suspect some girls have some issues with my mindset aswell. The simple truth is; We can make as many problems out of that as we would like to, but we could also look at ourselves in a more realistic way, and just accept a few things, in all fairness.

I think our media is the biggest b¡tch of all. I mean, all these perfect images of perfect people and their perfect lives really screw with the minds of young people, both guys and girls, and such unrealistic expectations will only lead to disappointment. I think that's the real problem we're facing today. So many demands to live up to, not enough time!

:)
A J   
26 Nov 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

You seem to be a remarkable study in 'projections'.

Just giving you a taste of your own cookie, since this is exactly how you seem to project some of your bad memories on virtually every woman you encounter on the internet.

Did you want one of my face or my pen!s, since you've previously shown interest in both.

You know what I mean. You're so upfront and forthright, but of course that's easy to say when you're King Anonymous.

That's exactly what I've noted to posters who asked about "linkage". Here it is; the inability to even look at something that differs from their beliefs.

Projection? Who said anything differs from my beliefs?

It's that FEAR thing.

No, it's boredom. Can't you have an opinion of your own, without feeling the need to justify your views through the articles of other people? Just say what's on *your* mind, if you're mature enough to do that.

:)

:D. Do you care to comment Zimmy? Havoc has a sense of humour, which I like:)

And you're supposed to be sleepy.

;P
A J   
26 Nov 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

Is that a hint that you want me to e-mail you pictures?

No, I think it might help you to overcome your frustrations.

I've honest with women to a fault. That should be evident. Of course in my extended circle of friends and acquaintances people already know how forthright I am

Easy to say with a screenname like Zimmy. No one has seen a real picture of you. No one has seen your real name. I wonder how forthright you are with women in real life, seeing how many women you manage to p¡ss off here. (And most of them aren't even Feminists!)

Maybe this woman can:

I'm not even going to read it, but let me tell you this much: She's just one woman with an opinion. She doesn't speak on behalf of womanity. (Not that I necessarily disagree with her, but it just proves my whole point why you shouldn't use that condescending tone with women all the time.)

;)
A J   
26 Nov 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

What an ironic comment from you considering your embarrassing meltdown.

What can I say? I'm a real sweetheart.

You erupted and typed without thinking. Let's relive some of your words of wisdom.

You seem to type without thinking a lot yourself, so let's relive some.. actually, let's not.

That's a partial list from one post; a couple of others are just as puerile and childlike. Some day in time you will mature ..... grasshopper.

Grasshopper?

xD

No, all the relatives in my family going back to Mieszko have been males. I still don't know how we did it. Of course only a 'white knight' would ask a question like that and the hip modern male realizes that a 'white knight' is another way of saying 'slave to womens demands'.

Seriously, if someone is single because he doesn't listen to women very well, then that would be *me*, sorry to burst your bubble. However, unlike you, I'm not promoting woman-haters who say they wouldn't take care of their own baby. I'm not treating a woman like she's inferior, just because I don't like what she has to say.

yes, I have three, one of each sex.

Do you take care of them yourself? (Unlike the woman-hater you promoted.)

and traveling. How's it going with you?

So you would call *that* responsibilities? Oh, and I'm not going to laugh at ballroom dancing, because I think we both know where to find classy women, although I do think it's a shame you're not exactly honest with them when it comes to your low opinion of women that you so vigorously display here.

Well, I'll grant you 2 out of 3 but one of those is very important to me.

And you were talking about how *I* was blinded by my hormones? You're contradicting yourself now, aren't you? (Of course it's nice to have one!)

So you have all these demands, but you don't really value any of those assets and attributes, since you don't seem to be interested in a relationship. I mean, I know I wouldn't give a flying f*ck about her musical talents if she was just another fling to me. So perhaps you're not *that* smart or classy yourself?

I'll accept your apology.

I still think you need penis enlargement.

I always find it peculiar the amount of ire Zimmy draws on here. Particularly from other men?
It's FEAR. I'm presenting a world that 'white knights' don't want to believe exists.

I'm a realist, and you *really* don't have to tell me anything about women. I'm not a white knight, but I don't feel the need to degrade women either. For what? Because they use their attributes and talents to get somewhere? Because they feel like they have to secure their position? What? You think men don't?? It just shows what a little boy you really are if you do that.

;)
A J   
22 Nov 2010
Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]

You've got me wrong and now you are playing the victim. I've been largely unemployed for the past 2 years since I graduated.

Two young males are committing suicide here every day, while I see baby-boomers in flashy cars, dating girls who could've been their granddaughter. I'm not playing the victim, it just pisses me off.

My wallet's not fat but does it really matter?

To me it doesn't matter, but unfortunately it matters to the rest of our society, which means you're screwed.

It's not all that we are surely?

No, it isn't, but tell that to the rest of society.

Unsubscribe from capitalist indoctrination.

Right. I will shut up, close the door and forget about the world around me.

;)
A J   
22 Nov 2010
Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]

I agree, it's a mess. When life gets tough, we look to people to blame.

I don't look for someone to blame, I *know* who to blame. Last thing I want to hear are some more sweet f*cking fairytales from sweet *cough* nice *cough* and loving *barf* people which in reality, don't care for as long as they get laid and they get to spend all the money that the rest of us has to work for. So get your story straight, and don't ask me to love parasites who are selling us out behind our backs. And don't expect me to thank Mr. and Ms. immigrant for undermining our labour-market either.

Europe will pull itself out of this mess

Open borders will only benefit the richest and the wealthiest. How I know? Because I live in Holland, and our borders have already been open for a few years now. The rest of Europe didn't even open their borders yet. And now we're looking at a new wave of cheap-labour migrants, and this will ensure that our people in our societies are going to DIE CHILDLESS. But hey, you can fix that by bringing in more immigrants, because more unemployed people will solve this problem, right??

Just try to love, that's all you can do sometimes.

Easiest thing to say for people with a fat wallet, but unfortunately, nobody loves poor people. Of course I'm angry, and I'm sure you're educated enough to understand that. So. Whatever you're going to say, don't tell me any fairytales anymore.

;)
A J   
22 Nov 2010
Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]

You benefit from AND suffer the legacies of the dead...

This may sound odd to you, but I don't benefit from anything. I'm thrown away with the rest of the garbage. So don't even *try* to tell me I somehow need to be happy with people in charge who decided to ruin my life with their mass-immigration bullshit, and the lives of many others people who were working for the very same arrogant motherf*ckers who now sell us out for a few measly Euros. The truth is: YOU benefit from this, and that's the ONLY reason you promote it. Some more truth and reality for you: YOU obviously DON'T give a f*ck about what happens to working-class people, and don't we all know it? So say whatever you want to say, but don't act surprised when I throw all of that wishy-washy BULLSH*T right back in your educated face.

Otherwise what's national identity anyway if you're not prepared to accept the chapters in your nation's history as ongoing...?

I don't have a national identity, because I don't exist.

:)
A J   
22 Nov 2010
UK, Ireland / Any Polish looking for work in Birmingham UK? [17]

yeah it is... if there's a job available - the best person should be given it on the basis of their skills, not their nationality.

Exactly my thoughts.

:)
A J   
21 Nov 2010
Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]

why don't you just admit that coloured males offend single white guys when they come to their area and start chasing white women?

Why? Because it doesn't offend him, and it doesn't offend me. (Lodz married to an Asiatic woman himself!) However, it would offend me if immigrants or tourists were trying to keep the local guys from chasing local girls, but that's a different story. It bothers me when local guys are ganging up on the lonely single guys from the same neighbourhood aswell. I mean, there really are enough girls to be found at the bars, the cinemas, the clubs, whatever you wish to do on a Friday night, so be a sport already?

:)

Been around Brussels recently?

Yes, and it pretty much looks the same as Amsterdam if you look at demographics, but that's also because there are a lot of foreign students and business people to be found in every European capital.

I'm a White European and I'm definitely in the minority. Antwerp, Mechelen....Two further examples of cities with massive immigrant Belgians.

Try Rotterdam.

Pure Belgian is an oxymoron.

Yeah, Belgians are Dutch anyway!

Belgium has an identity crisis of its own with the flemish and the francophones busy trying to divide the country.

I know, my uncle lives there and owns a few restaurants. (I disagree with mass-immigration too, just not because of racial reasons.)

:)
A J   
21 Nov 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

As opposed to that incredible melt-down you had the other day?

Touchy? Are you hoping for respect when you treat women with no respect whatsoever?

If my posts were anything like your name-calling and wishing me to die then I'm sure the women here who you are trying to 'white knight' would be aghast.

I'm not trying to 'white knight' anyone. Just letting you know you're totally wrong about women, and that the way you're belittling them all the time with every reply you post here really provokes unpleasant reactions. Don't you have any cousins, nieces or female friends yourself or something?

Next time try to be specific in your criticisms and not so juvenile.

Okay, more specific: You posted a fragment of a radio show of one of the most notorious women-haters out there, who claims he doesn't want *anything* from women but sex. He also claims he wouldn't take care of his own baby if a woman told him she was pregnant from him. Somehow, this guy has the nerve to complain about the lack of love, warmth and friendliness he recieves from women? And you're supporting this sad f*ck morally? I guess that's why I'm p¡ssed!

Later this week I'll post some more 'shocking' information for you and for the other manginas to mull over. There will be the usual facts and links and you can then 'feel' them to be "wrong" as you put it.

Knock yourself out.

Come to Chicago and I'll show you how to be a man (although at this point you probably have it all wrong as to what I mean by that).

Do you have children? Any other kind of responsibilities other than your job? No? Well, I've got news for you then, because being a man isn't about your flashy car, your career, your dick or about how many immature teenage girls you've slept with. A man takes care of his family and friends, instead of using them for his own amusement. It's just too bad most guys (And girls!) don't understand this anymore. I don't have to be a man. I already am. Are you? Oh, and something else; A man admits he's wrong sometimes.

;)
A J   
21 Nov 2010
Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]

No ... he actually believes strongly that they can ...

I know, hence the rest of the sentence. (I think you misunderstood me.) I mean to say he's talking all this crap about 'degenerates' who are dating people from different races, while Slavic and Germanic people are actually slightly different from eachother too. So maybe he should follow his own advice and return to Belgium to find a pure Belgian?

;)
A J   
21 Nov 2010
Love / Polish relationships (race and religion) [140]

Excuse me, but has your mother taught you to insult women all the time? And you're wondering why you can't find a girlfriend? I guess we'll just have to spell it out for you another million times! Oh, and what on earth makes you think a Polish girl wouldn't date outside of her own race if she dated a Belgian?
A J   
21 Nov 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

nope, its complicated, theres other issues he has to get past,, but my friend who was engaged to him ,still thinks he sexy.. so you know what I say to that, thats my brother EWWWWWWWWW>> LOL

Hey, isn't it always? I was talking about girls and guys in general anyway. I mean, what might appeal to one girl might put the other girl off. I really don't believe there's a standard manual on how to talk to women, that's all I'm saying.

;)
A J   
20 Nov 2010
Language / How can I tell which conjugation group a verb ending in ~eć belongs to? [18]

I pretty much agree with Lyzko there, I think the best way to learn Polish is just to learn it by practicing, and just getting the feel of the language. Maybe once you're starting to get the hang of it you should worry about applying the correct cases. (It's giving me multiple headaches anyway!)

:)
A J   
20 Nov 2010
Genealogy / DNA Testing in Poland. Is it popular? [81]

About DNA, I've heard Holland and the U.S. now share their DNA data banks, so maybe I can find some relatives of mine the in U.S. that way? I know I have a cousin and some distant-relatives living in Houston, Texas, but I'm kinda curious if there are more people who carry my surname in the U.S. and if they're somehow related.
A J   
20 Nov 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

I love them both, but after so many years of not being around a steady , my older brother is annoying and he dont know how to talk to them anymore, he actually lost his touch.

I don't think there's a 'how to' talk to women, really. Just like guys, women differ, and a few girls might actually find his 'out of touch' approach interesting.

a.) She'll get bored if I let her in too easy.

Depends on how much you have to tell her, and on how much interests you share with eachother. I can understand a guy's wish to remain single, so I'm not ever going to bash any guy for that, but what Zimmy does? That's just totally f*cking wrong.

b.) some other divorcee will come around and think I'm interesting.

Ever heard of open relationships? Might be something for you, I don't know. Hey, it's 2010, and some girls are very much in touch with their wild side. (Just saying relationships don't have to be boring these days!)

;)
A J   
19 Nov 2010
News / Will many Poles migrate to Germany in May 2011 (after opening labor market)? [157]

That doesn't include Angela Merkel I suppose, given her recent speach.

Just look at all the issues and problems between people, and then tell me that it has been a success? On top of all that, we have labour migration, and it's no mystery everyone wants to migrate to the same countries. What do you think will happen if we continue with that? Just look at cities like London, because I've heard even immigrants want to leave now! So do you have any better alternatives? Or should I migrate to Kenia because all of Kenia wants to live here? I mean, where does it end?
A J   
19 Nov 2010
News / Will many Poles migrate to Germany in May 2011 (after opening labor market)? [157]

And with all the "Failure of Multi-Kulti" propaganda it might really be not the best place to emmigrate to right now anyway.

I really think the majority of Germany is pretty sensible and civilized, but I suspect that the Germans who belong to working-class aren't too happy with all this labour-migration. (And I can't say I blame them!)
A J   
19 Nov 2010
Life / Poland's Next Top Model (TV show) [73]

She's very pretty, but her hairstyle does like a damn joke!

I hear you. We would call that a ''bloempot''. (Just imagine wearing a flowerpot upside down on your head.)

xD

Extremely pretty, I might add.
A J   
19 Nov 2010
USA, Canada / Not everyone that lives or comes from America is RICH! [300]

Did your parents talk to you about bees and flowers yet AJ?

Eh? Parents? You mean the Stork??

xD

I just wanna let you know that you can have lots of sex without having to worry about having kids, you know

Suuuuuure. (You obviously don't know Dutch girls very well!)

xD