Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]


It does when domestic court laws and practices deny a man an equal opportunity to raise the children and instead stick 'him' with child support which is rarely, if ever, accounted for by the female. By the way, those women who lost custody (usually because of some addiction) have a much higher failure rate when it comes to paying child support. I'm not sure if any of them have been jailed unlike the thousands of men who have for failure to pay....


Good luck with that. In theory (but not in actual practice) a father does have 'equal rights' in custody cases. Stay strong!


Good to hear. You might however, be interested in this: fathersandfamilies.org/?p=17179

Western courts are so screwed up that this article shows yet another instance (there have been many) where a father is responsible for child support even when that child is not biologically his. A woman can commit child fraud and not get punished. Instead, the duped non father owes a small fortune. Many other articles in this link are more encouraging. I recommend reading them.

Here's an interesting case.

seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/nationworld/2004046062_sperm01.html

A New York man who said he donated sperm to a female co-worker as a friendly gesture and sent presents and cards to the child over the years likely will owe child support for the college-bound teenager, according to a judge's ruling.

USA, Canada / Thinking about visiting America? Skip it or get molested and arrested for nothing. [79]


That's a good point. Perhaps starting a thread should be allowed to members only. Those "guests" who have a serious need to begin a subject could post their thread idea in a question manner. This should help keep the gutter-dwelling, weak sycophants from.......oh, never mind.

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As to the woman in the video, she is a known activist who has intentionally participated in past protests which is her right. It should however, be kept in mind that people like her are attention seekers and do these sorts of actions intentionally.

The cop was too quick to take her bait. He also overused his reason for asking her to remove herself. Cops just don't like to be video-taped.

Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]


Second wives realize how divorce screws men. Men understand how divorce screws men. Only women don't, nor do the male manginas who are weak pieces of crap. That's why the marriage rate has dropped in half from the last generation. I had to laugh when a recent womens magazine was asking: "Why don't people get married anymore?" The answer is so simple that only a womens gender studies major would fail to understand it. It's because the men are wising up.

UK, Ireland / Are Polish people importing a new wave of ancient racism into the UK? [402]

Racism has many forms. Most cries of 'racism' are false but are used as a weapon.

In Chicago, in my neighborhood, there have been a series of so-called "flash mobs". The papers and the broadcast media have been careful not to describe the race of the perpetrators (black male teens). That's the power of "political correctness" which fears the truth.

articles.chicagotribune.com/2011-06-06/news/ct-met-mob-attacks-20110606_1_mob-attacks-downtown-japanese-doctor

A typical example:

From the link: "...insurance salesman Krzysztof Wilkowski, 34, said he was sitting on his motor scooter checking his cellphone around 8:30 p.m. when he was hit in the head with a baseball, which knocked his helmet off.

"The next thing I know is I'm being hit by the helmet, then being dragged into the street," Wilkowski said. "I couldn't believe it. It was broad daylight outside, there were people around, and this happened."

Love / Polish dating tips [40]

Evidently, women do not have any responsibilities on a first date; only men do.

Love / In Polish relationships who is the boss? [46]

On a daily basis, women talk more than men; much more.
Half the time (when they talk) they are giving orders of some sort; "do this' or " I need..." etc.
Women have been told that if a man disagrees with them then he is being oppressive. No such rule exists for men.
Women know this.

Love / Polish dating tips [40]

Same old nonsense; it's always what a man should do. What are the responsibilities of a woman on a date?
Is it enough for them just to sit there, maybe smile, and do the silly small talk?

UK, Ireland / Are Polish people importing a new wave of ancient racism into the UK? [402]


Yes, my grandfather in particular wanted to colonize Cameroon because he wanted to adopt the tribe of pygmies that resided there but the French wouldn't let him since they already colonized that country among others. Of course my grandfather should be judged harshly for thinking about it because it's just as bad, if not worse than actually colonizing and killing people who live in these territories; right?

Besides, he was too busy selling farm goods and livestock to his Jewish acquaintances (and friends?) in the shtetl.

UK, Ireland / Are you Poles proud of your country? Then why do you keep coming to Britain? [100]


I'm tempted to hire a butler named Jeeves, or is it Nigel?


That song has quite a bit of American 'country music' to it. It was also sweet.

News / For all Americans worried about Schengen in Poland, dont worry about it. [142]


Do these Americans have Polish ancestry and do some of them speak Polish? .... or are they the usual mongrel Americans; (part German, Irish, Polish, Italian, Greek, etc)

Genealogy / Do you think all Slavs are white? [178]


That's why I had the back of my head cut off. Now, I look more slavic.


True, unless the flathead is also a pinhead.


That helps stimulate brain neurons but the side effects include; the head scracher breaking out into uncontrollable dancing, usually the jitterbug.

Love / Polish dating tips [40]


1/They prefer to pay for the first date because they take "equality" seriously.
2/After they buy you dinner, they expect sex.
3/They'll appreciate it if you spank them.(this is when they say, "me Jane, you Tarzan")

Hope this helps

Life / Why are Polish people so obsessed with race? [160]

Why are polish people obsessed with race?

Why are non Polish people obsessed with what Polish people think about race?

Genealogy / How Polish am I? What is the correct formula? [58]


That only happened once and she didn't tell me she was married.


Oh, like the dark haired, dark eyed Vlad the Impaler?
Btw, I've got blue eyes too, but mine mesmerize, captivate and enchant those looking into them.


That's when Romania was big and suffocating Bulgaria.

Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]


If you are comparing "hate and anger" to "love or happiness" as being somehow equivalent than there is no arguing with you. I consider the latter virtues. The former handicap the individual who is inhabited by them.


Yes! I consider all attempts to use 'reason', 'logic', linear rationality, and common sense as positive contributing (moral) standards which help uplift the human condition.


Evidently, you can't see very far.


Oh, I've found "Her" many times; actually, too many times.
So you've heard the rumors about my huge frontal cortex eh?

Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]


Facts are stubborn things, aren't they? (the above link is a typical example of womens ways of arguing)


That is exactly the wrong advice. Feelings usually get people in trouble more often than getting them out of it. This type of advice is the antithesis of 'LOGIC' which is the correct way to solve a problem. Feelings include 'anger' and 'hate' among other emotional vices. Going with them is wrong

Conversely, logic allows one to work out a dilemma and allows room for thought. Many women like Patty have a problem with this and prefer "feelings' because that is how they handle their plights. Feelings are closer to instinct which dominates the animal world and seemingly half of the human species.

Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]


Ask any man going through the court systems whether he is considered equally. Women initiate 70% of all divorces. Men don't because they know they will lose their kids not to mention the pressures of monetary payments. Since women receive child support, sometimes alimony and of course have BigGovernment assist them as well, they have less to lose.

A hypothetical question for the women: (borrowed from Patrick)

Suppose you’re in love with a man and the two of you are considering marriage. As you’re getting close to committing, he tells you that he’d like you to sign a pre-nuptial agreement. The agreement states:

1. If the marriage results in children, he will stay home to care for them or take a lesser career move to be more free to care for them.

2. You(the wife) will be primarily financially responsible for the support of the family — even if he’s working.

3. If the marriage ends in divorce, he will retain custody of the children. You may see them four days per month.

4. You will pay him (at least) 40% of your take home pay every month if the marriage results in divorce. This amount will be set as a dollar amount and will remain in effect regardless of any change in your personal financial circumstances.

Would you sign that, or would you judge that to be a bad deal? Because basically, ALL men in the Western world are signing that pre-nup when they get married.

Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]


My,my,my, how often does that coincidence take place? Quite often, isn't that amazing?

"As soon as women belong to us, we no longer belong to them."................Michel de Montaigne

"A woman has a dozen different ways to make a man happy; and a hundred ways to make him unhappy."........James Huneker

" Women who understand other women, don't like them"...............Zimmy

Life / The facial piercings scene in Poland [7]


When you eventually get rid of your need to be noticed; you will find peace within yourself.

Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]

Softsong gave you good advice and it's what I've suggested as well. Don't be a doormat. She senses this in you and will pull out all the stops to take advantage of your 'good heart'. You're a smart guy. Take the offensive, even if it stings because it will hurt much much more if she gets her way (again).

Become the edgy alpha male she was interested in before marriage. She knows you still love her and she will take advantage of that.
Don't let her! Let her know you love her too much for you to let her get her way. As a woman she will be confused by that. Give her nothing without a fight.

Good luck

Life / How do Polish people see homosexuality? [152]

The beard was a nice chestnut in color. I was only a little kid back then but I remember the sun light shining on it.

Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]

I sense that you want it to work; it shows in your words, but frankly, this woman is exhibiting all the signs that she wants 'out'.

Make it as difficult for her as you can. She, like other women will play hard ball with you. The nicest, loveliest, gentle women (before marriage) will legally rape you if they can, and most laws allow them to. When it comes to divorce (among many other venues),

women don't believe in equality. Shock her by taking the offensive and let her know that you want her out of your life. I don't know your position on the child. You can make it difficult for her to take the child out of the country. That should be one of your first steps.

Life / How do Polish people see homosexuality? [152]

I remember reading an article about Jesus; that he was gay. The author (don't remember the name) reviewed Jesus' life and concluded that only a gay man (God?) would act as Jesus did.

Marriage is for straight people. Gay couples should be able to form a union but call it something else.

Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]

You might also investigate whether she has a boyfriend in Poland. Just a thought.........

Love / I need advice: divorce and my rights as a father in Poland [165]


Yep, another princess who 'feels' that being a woman grants her numerous privileges that you cannot have.


From all you've stated, she is ready to ditch you and collect your money. Don't go to Poland. Fight it out where you are currently residing.

It's an amazing thing about "equality" isn't it? As much as women complain about it, they certainly don't want to surrender all the advantages they have in both law and custom. Women have no interest in surrendering the traditional bases of female power while simultaneously complaining about men.

My analysis of feminism is that women in general supported the ruse of "equality" that resulted in net gains for women (educational and economic opportunities, greater sexual freedom, easy divorce) but insisted that female privileges be retained ("chivalry", female child custody, male obligation in the form of child support and alimony, etc.). Females expanded their power base into the world of men without conceding any of their own power base, to men. Yet, so many 'white knights' prefer this inequality and become doormats. Their knee-jerk reaction is to protect women - instead of themselves.

Many men in the states have woken up to this and the marriage rate in the past 3 decades has been cut in half. That's why the frequently asked question by women is, "where are all the good men?"

News / Ustroń: Another giant religious statue in Poland [26]

When earth's civilizations end and new ones spring up, future archaeologists will find giant statutes dotting the countryside. Assumptions will be made about the inhabitants in the 'lands of the Poles'. Galapagos Islands have their Moai, (monolithic human figures carved from rock), and of course there is Britains' Stonehedge. It will be thought that the people who dwelled here were religious.

Food / Polish grape-wine industry emerging? [26]


Sounds like 'sour grapes' to me. :)

UK, Ireland / Are Polish people importing a new wave of ancient racism into the UK? [402]

People seem to have racism on the brain, even when there isn't any. It's tiring.

I suppose one could easily claim that countries who colonized other countries can be considered 'racist'. How's Britain's record in that category?

Off-Topic / Humiliated by landlord. Why women are so cruel? [27]


So far, so good.


Don't you know that it's standard procedure to clean the landlord's premises if you cannot pay the rent? The landlord is also allowed to slap you silly until the final payment is made.


Put on a French maid outfit and sing Irish drinking songs while you're cleaning. This should pacify your landlady until l you can come up with the money.

Life / Flowers for my Polish teacher. What kind should I bring? [11]

Venus Flytrap