Oh... Hmm... Then I guess a lot of reading awaits you ;)
Be interested to know. I'd like to do the subject justice.
Well... I don't think it will be insulting if your aim isn't to insult... But I think a difficult task is ahead of you if you want to portray life at those times in a realistic way and give it some depth. I think besides reading historical books and memoirs on the subject you could read some of the Polish novels to get a feel of those times. I've mentioned "Ziemia obiecana" already:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Promised_Land_%28novel%29
And a film:
imdb.com/title/tt0072446
I remember that when I was at school I read a novel about how life for school children looked like during the partitions, but I don't remember the title right now.
There's also "Nad Niemnem" by Eliza Orzeszkowa (boring as hell, but it could be useful for you).
Also this book could be useful, I guess:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Doll_%28novel%29
When I think of other books I'll let you know.
But I'm afraid without the knowledge of Polish you will have to rely on probably very scarce sources in English. I doubt that, for example, any memoirs would be published in English, but who knows...
My queries are not restricted to the Prussian Partition, they go all over the place!
Then if you want to get to know points of view of all the sides you would have to probably learn at least three languages: Polish, German and Russian ;)
Anyway, the idea itself is interesting but if you're thinking about it seriously then the workload will be huge, so good luck :)
Oh, and there's another Polish literature classic "Noce i dnie" ("Nights and Days") by Maria Dąbrowska, I think it can be very useful to you. It's a family saga about two generations of Polish noble family. There was an Oscar nominated film:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nights_and_Days
and TV series on Polish TV.
The main music theme is quite well known in Poland:
You can watch the film on Youtube (it's in 13 parts, I think), but without English subtitles, unfortunately:
...
Btw, the film "The Promised Land" by Andrzej Wajda was also Oscar nominated so I guess it's worth watching.
The novel will follow one Polish family all the way from the eighteenth century up to the 1950s (and potentially beyond, though I think not).
So there's going to be also the World War II period and some of the communist times... oh my...
;)