I'm Polish and have been living in America since i was a child
Well like you said, these are idiots in America who are saying this. What do you expect from idiots?
Are they saying this based on your appearance? I would guess if you're of Polish ancestry you look white.
Are they saying this thinking you were not born here? Do you have an accent? But even so that should not make you a non-white American. Maybe these are KKK types you are talking to? LOL
I personally have never heard this that you have to be a white American born here to be white. What you say is a new one on me.
If anything, I have heard some of my Italian American friends complain that some white Americans don't see Italian Americans as being white since their origins are from Southern Europe close to Africa. That seemed like a peculiar thing to hear.
As for me, I have never heard anyone say to me that he thinks I am a non-white or foreign born Polish Americans are non-white. In fact, some people I know have even said I have an "All American look". Whatever that means.
I doubt they see me as a white American just because I was born here.
It sounds like, some of these Americans who made those comments to you are just plain dumb.
Well, I have been living here much longer than you, since 1953, and I have never heard such a thing, even remotely...Who says this?...If an Irish-American asks you what nationality you are, and you tell him 'Polish' or 'Polish-American', he will just consider you that (Polish)...He KNOWS you are White, as this is obvious.
I agree. I used to work for a German American guy and he said I look like an "All American".... whatever that means.
Most Blacks will just see you as White, but if they get to know you, they find out your ethnic group, and then view you a little differently, especially if you are proud of your ethnicity.
I agree with this too.
In my experiences with African Americans, once you get to know them personally and tell them about your Polish ancestry and Polish history, I find that they are kind of easier to bond with on an individual basis then a non-African American. I think they instinctively see Poland/Poles as a downtrodden country that they can relate to easier then somebody of ancestry from a European country that is all big and bad and powerful.
It should be pointed out that Polish American groups got the support of the African-American caucus in congress, when they were lobbying to get Poland into NATO over a decade ago.