Wielgie, Lipno County in Kuyavian-Pomeranian Voivodeship (north-central Poland)
Based on geographical and historical data the village of Wielgie near Lipno seems the most likely choice out of the group of the four candidates you mentioned. Luckily for the OP, the website of this particular commune of Wielgie is lovingly maintained by a local historian at wielgie.pl
History of Lake Piaseczno (Orłowo), by mgr. Janusz M. Koszytkowski, September 12, 2011
Translated excerpts from Polish:
The settlements in the Commune and Parish Wielgie developed in the late thirteenth and early fourteenth century. A list of parishes of archdeaconry Dobrzyń shows that in 1510 there existed parish Wielgie of St. Lawrence, consisting of the villages: Wielgie, Nowa Wieś, Bętlewo, Tupadły, Modusy, Orłowo i Piaseczno.
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In the Middle Ages the lake and adjacent area was the property of the prince, Conrad of Mazovia. The settlements around the lake have been repeatedly invaded and looted by raiding Prussian tribes, Lithuanians and the Teutonic Knights.
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After the Second Partition of Poland in 1792 Frederick William II brought in Prussian settlers to the Dobrzyń lands, including areas around the lakes Tupadły-Piaseczno. They converted the wilderness around the villages Teodorowo, Piaseczno and Orłowo to the agrarian culture. The Prussian clans included: Strejlau, Janke, Wahl, Dill von Dellau, Rossol, Remer-Rejmer, Dikoff, Ditloff, Prusak, Hess, Rentfleisch and others. They build a Lutheran church, Protestant cemetery and schools in Orłowo and Theodore.OP: Did you see the name Janke mentioned in the last paragraph? You will find the email address of Mr. Koszytkowski at the bottom of almost every webpage on that site. Write him, in Polish if possible, and enquire about the Janke clan.
If its is which airport would be closest to fly into in poland if we were to visit this village?
None is very conveniently located for a visit to Wielgie. You would still have to travel a bit by road.
Bydgoszcz, Wielgie - 125km, 1:52h . Small airport
Warszawa, Wielgie - 155km, 2:41h .