I'm really confused if your Cousin Mia told you that you are a psycho why would you continue to phone her if you are ignoring each other?
None of this makes sense Czarnecki is a Polish name not a Spanish name.
We're not talking at all. She unfriended me on Facebook, and I let that be. I did tell people to boycott her as a fashion designer, though--and I've also asked people to boycott another rude and perhaps-insidious cousin--when my family has done wrong, I'll remind them of it if need be; and I remind myself when I've done wrong.
Meanwhile,
It cost me about 7 bucks last time I mailed a letter to Poland. That was one correspondence, and she would probably have to send several. She claims that she isn't in prosperous enough circumstances to bear that out. That's her answer, so be it.
I actually don't mind explaining why I'm so poor. one can't be too rich when he or she is on SSI Benefits and has Cerebral Palsy, and has a single mom who is trying to put two people (me included) through college. I actually did resist being on SSI for a while, but I figured that my SSI application would at least leave some genealogical information for posterity--e.g., my sister's to-be children and their to-be children (G-d willing), if they ever get access to it.