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Ashleys mind  3 | 446  
6 Feb 2011 /  #31
Why dont the OP come to Poland! ... We will welcome this person! ... This person can be a part of the Polish family!

Oh please... did you even read the bloody OP?
poland_  
6 Feb 2011 /  #32
And there are nooo immigrants here from European countries...? The country's full of them! The Euro-Aussies (Aussie-Euros - whatever!) didn't spring from the ground!Australian's living abroad have to adapt too... maybe we're just better at it! If you can only be a man when you're living down the road from mummy, then you're not worthy of your wife's devotion...

I don't quite see the relevance to your post and this thread about Australians assimilate in Europe. Although on that note, I will say that I consider the Australians a little like a cadburys cream egg, hard on the outside and soft in the inside, just my observation.

no biggy! Why are marriages so sacrosanct? I mean we don't hold on to a business that's going down the gurgler or a President that shows ineffectual leadership...

A business that fails is down to a ineffectual Board,Owner,Manager who lacked experience and knowledge. A President is voted by the people for a period of four years. Both of the aforementioned, should not be compared to marriage.
Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
6 Feb 2011 /  #33
I supported him for 1.5 years

Supported how? financially?

What is his problem?

Maybe now he don't need the support?

Your case is very strange. I don't think any Pole will do something so strange without any legitimate reason ... unless he just wanted your support (if you provided financially). Otherwise, it seems he is not interested in you (pardon me, but thats what it seems after I actually read your post thoroughly) :D... sorry though!
Ashleys mind  3 | 446  
6 Feb 2011 /  #34
I will say that I consider the Australians a little like a cadburys cream egg, hard on the outside and soft in the inside, just my observation.

I don't mind that analogy... :) It's better than being thick all the way through...

A business that fails is down to a ineffectual Board,Owner,Manager who lacked experience and knowledge.

And sometimes it's down to external forces... or corruption, greed, selfishness and mistrust...

A President is voted by the people for a period of four years.

And what a good idea it would be if vows had to be renewed every four years?

I don't quite see the relevance to your post and this thread about Australians assimilate in Europe.

It's to verify that it has been done. It's not an unachievable feat. I mean being away from pierogi and ice capped winters *is* a possibility for most humans... (It's called getting over it.)

And btw, Poles aren't that tough. They're stubborn and frank, but they sometimes struggle to deal with the simplest of challenges... and cultural steadfastness is their biggest problem in this respect...
poland_  
6 Feb 2011 /  #35
And sometimes it's down to external forces... or corruption, greed, selfishness and mistrust...

A good business man/woman should have the natural instinct to foresee such problems.

And what a good idea it would be if vows had to be renewed every four years?

So there would be an opt out clause. I believe marriage is for life.

And btw, Poles aren't that tough. They're stubborn and frank, but they sometimes struggle to deal with the simplest of challenges... and cultural steadfastness is their biggest problem in this respect...

Stubborn- I agree with. Frank- I do not agree with, when put on the spot I have found Poles frugal with their openness.

cultural steadfastness

I respect this quality in Poles.
Ashleys mind  3 | 446  
6 Feb 2011 /  #36
A good business man/woman should have the natural instinct to foresee such problems.

Yes, and of course if you're all knowing then you probably wouldn't need the instinct in the first place...
Big companies can go down like flies overnight. We saw this happen just a few years ago...

So there would be an opt out clause. I believe marriage is for life.

Of course. But I have seen too many divorces to know that that is not the case. Of course I believe that everyone should be forgiven their sins... but not everyone has that capacity for forgiveness. You must be happy with your situation. Congratulations...

Stubborn- I agree with. Frank- I do not agree with, when put on the spot I have found Poles frugal with their openness.

Curt is probably more the word. Lacking in tact sometimes...

I respect this quality in Poles.

Of course, but only if it marries well with the situation they are in... You can't take *everything* with you when you leave a place. And that includes Polish ketchup!
stallion  3 | 15  
6 Feb 2011 /  #37
Agirlfromoz you guys are married – not dating! In my opinion you cannot just ‘divorce’ without fighting for your relationship first.

I think your guy might be scared of the permanence of this move. Why not move to Aus for a year or so and then re-assess the situation. If he feels this may not be a permanent thing he may be more willing to give it a try. And who knows, once he lives there for a while he may not want to move back to PL.

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