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Access to Live in Poland to raise my son


offroad 1 | 2  
20 Aug 2008 /  #1
I an African am married to a polish and have a son with polish citizenship. after a 2 years being together with my wife ,we have decided to live separately and proceed divorce sometimes by Feb 2009. my question is shall I have an access to live and work in Poland if I apply for a divorce ?

My biggest headache is to raise my beloved son together with my wife so that I need an access to live and work, how can I proceed that being out of Poland or is it a must for me to go there and do it?

on 2007 I had a live and work access but I moved to Africa after just 6 months stay.
am illegible to apply for that once again ?
help please.
Gab - | 133  
20 Aug 2008 /  #2
Real smooth on your part... Using a child to gain access to the EU. I feel bad for the wife and the baby.
telefonitika  
20 Aug 2008 /  #3
we have decided to live separately and proceed divorce sometimes by Feb 2009. my question is shall I have an access to live and work in Poland if I apply for a divorce ?

speak to your lawyer and the consulate i guess
loco polaco 3 | 353  
20 Aug 2008 /  #4
seek an attorney. we can't help you here.
OP offroad 1 | 2  
21 Aug 2008 /  #5
Hey Gab,

Not using my son for that matter. Read my question carefully before pointing your finger. Because of my son I just wanted to be in EU otherwise I am here in USA where I am living better.

tx all anyways.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
21 Aug 2008 /  #6
Country, city: Kenya

I am here in USA where I am living better.

????

after a 2 years being together with my wife ,we have decided to live separately

on 2007 I had a live and work access but I moved to Africa after just 6 months stay.

??????
OP offroad 1 | 2  
21 Aug 2008 /  #7
Just moved to the states having a Diversity Visa. got it now ?
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
21 Aug 2008 /  #8
got it now ?

Absolutely, you left your wife and child in Poland to go back to Africa so you could get a visa to go the USA...had you stayed in Poland you wouldn't have got your Green Card! Obviously all is not as rosey in the states as you thought it would be!
Gab - | 133  
21 Aug 2008 /  #9
There you go, good point. Translation: you can be kicked out of the US any time, so your plan B is Poland (your child). I'm assuming you visa won't last forever in the US. You gotta think quick in that case and prepare. Like I said before, I feel bad for your wife and the child. Another fatherless family. Good deal that your wife got out of it. I'm sure she regrets it big time. Couldn't blame her. So stop with your bs. you probably never had good intentions to begin with.
dxx 12 | 108  
25 Aug 2008 /  #10
Just moved to the states having a Diversity Visa. got it now ?

I feel so bad for that woman, men like you give all men a bad name...
Just stay away from Poland and give that woman the reason to rebuild a normal life, I think after all this, she has had enough trauma already...
oghneme  
25 Aug 2008 /  #11
if i were u, i wouldn't be thinking of the child alone,i'm sure they would not stop u from taking care and having unhindered access to your child but u have to amend your relationship with your ex, even if you two are divorced for the sake of your child
Guest  
3 Oct 2008 /  #12
Another tragedy EU story.
BarbaraKrakow - | 3  
14 Oct 2008 /  #13
Let's not assess the person so easily. What would you do if your child was taken to teh USA and you would have no access there? you would also want to get a visa...

I am not an attorney, but you should surely ask one... hopefully you'll get some help.

Having a child with Polish nationality makes things easier for sure. But the proccess might be long. But if you were USA citizen (as it was so easy for you to get there) you would have no problems with moving to Poland.

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